Family › Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by centpado(m): 7:30pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
This is not a good advice thuo, in my opinion Life is brutal ko, life is brutal ni , giving motivational quotes humilitypays: What you suggested to the op is good theoretically but will lead to pain practically, how you may ask? By the time they are still trying to conceive in their 4th or 5th year in marriage, the little love he feels he has for her now will fly out of the window because he will be filled with regrets and had I know.
In life, if you want to be at the top and to get the best out of life, you must be ready to act selfish in most critical life decisions and also make some sacrifices that many people will hear and say you are not a good person but only you know why you took the actions you took, which are best for you and your life situation at the moment.
OP, sit her down and let her know that you love her and truly wish to marry her but scared of the fertility situation she is in. Suggest two options; you guys try having sex before marriage to see if she would get pregnant or you guys part ways. There is nothing on earth that one cannot let go. Many people do think that without their father or mother or a particular sibling or uncle or aunt that they will never survive, but when that person dies, 20 years later they are still alive and living a life far better than when that person was alive. So nobody is indispensable, and no human should ever think others cannot do without them.
In most families, the fertility issue there is beyond ordinary, some family's fertility issue have a spiritual tone and what activates most of the spiritual side of married couples fertility issue is the paying of bride price and taking of marriage vows to formalize the marriage traditionally and otherwise. Family altars don't recognize pregnancy out of wedlock, they only reign supreme when couples are trying to conceive after traditional marriage rites and wedding vows have been exchanged, so to outsmart them, get your fiance or girlfriend pregnant before marriage.
Virginity to me is not a big deal, most times its lack of opportunity or the lady haven't met a man that melts her heart, and in most cases today, the so called virgins are not real virgins but technical virgins carefully preserving their hymen to deceive a future husband into believing they are exceptional or too good whereas in reality, she has engaged in all manner of sexual acts, from kissing to sucking to necking, to petting to romancing to anal and whatnot. So true virginity is mostly about the purity of heart and soul, not really about the hymen that most virgins of today carefully preserve for wedding night glory.
If you have ever imagined having sex or thought of it, or looked at someone lustfully or engaged in any form of sexual act, according to Bible principles, you are no longer a virgin. |
Travel › Re: Canadian Express Entry/Federal Skilled Worker Program - Connect Here Part 11 by centpado(m): 8:21am On Nov 16, 2023 |
chydozkyj: Hello everyone.
A friend told me that sometimes WES Evaluates Bsc Pharmacy certificate as equivalent to a Masters, please is it true? Pharmacist has a professional body, PEBC I think there is a step by step process on how to evaluate with PEBC |
Romance › Re: Seeing Vision by centpado(m): 2:04pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
Please continue |
Culture › Re: Does A Widow Need To Return Bride Price For Her To Date Another Man? by centpado(m): 9:43am On Aug 26, 2023*. Modified: 4:10pm On Aug 26, 2023 |
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Igbo Culture! A widow that wishes to remarry must return her bride price to her husband's family[/quote]Brideprice must be returned |
Travel › Re: Which Of These Transportation Methods Have You Not Used And Why. by centpado(m): 9:03am On Jul 09, 2023 |
I have used just three, only train I never enter before |
Family › Re: Mother Of Six Paraded For Sleeping With Her Neighbor (pix, Videos) by centpado(m): 8:49am On Jul 09, 2023 |
True, no one is holy so I don’t even know why the public humiliation. Kingsley34: Society has left an indelible imprint in our mind that women should always be used as the scape goat whenever such kind of scenerio plays out. There are so many things that urgently require immediate reform in Nigeria and this in particular is just one of them.. Adultery is morally, ethically and religiously wrong but the penalty for such act should never be this....it only brings you to that part in the Bible where Jesus asked those criticizing the prostitute to cast their stone if and only they have not sinned.....guess what nobody could cast the stone because they were all sinners.
Lalasticlala Mynd44 Nlfpmod seun Dominique FP please |
Romance › Re: 12 Differences Between A Husband And A Boyfriend by centpado(m): 8:51am On May 24, 2023 |
Girlfriend and Wife are different stuffs, a girlfriend is entitled to nothing, but a wife is entitled to everything, stop putting wife and girlfriend in the same equation Jennyclay: Whether husband or boyfriend, Biko you men should take good care of your wife and girlfriend. It’s your duty to provide for your wife and girlfriend. Don’t be stingy!! Don’t run away from your responsibilities!!
Even the Bible says any man that can’t take good of his wife/girlfriend is more worse than an infidel. |
Crime › Re: Police Killed My Husband For Rejecting Special Duty — Wife Of Kwara Inspector by centpado(m): 3:01pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
NPF na wa o |
Romance › Re: Men, Why Do You Find It Hard To Post Your Girlfriend On Social Media? by centpado(m): 10:05pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
Post girlfriend, is it a trophy…… someone you aren’t sure of marrying…… you didn’t say let men be posting their wives is now girlfriend |
Health › Re: TINNITUS: Cost of removing auditory nerves in Nigeria. by centpado(m): 8:56pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
@op pls don’t remove your auditory nerves, hang on help is on the way, God would come through for you hopefully….. I have some little funds for your upkeep, maybe later email me your account details |
Family › Re: Nairalanders Please Help, My First Son Is Behaving Somehow by centpado(m): 11:53am On Apr 06, 2023 |
You guys have a lot of to do, as the mum try bringing the boy closer to you, for him to regain his esteem
Then ask him, what he really wants ….
Then take it up from there ….. |
Christianity Etc › Re: My Encounter With The Marine World. by centpado(m): 7:12pm On Mar 27, 2023*. Modified: 2:25pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Masturbation is a drainer… may God help us all , Amen |
Nairaland General › Re: What Did You Say You Won’t Do That You Are Doing Now? by centpado(m): 6:13am On Mar 16, 2023 |
Wjames440: In 2011, I saw a lady bought a shoe worth #11,000 and I told her it was a waste of money. Told myself, when I'm okay, I wouldn't waste my money like that. Look at me now... #20k shoes don't look original to me. That’s growth to some extent, same way I said I would never used an iPhone, that’s is just expensive… but now even if am using 11pro max to upgrade it higher is still on my mind |
Politics › Re: Benue: Fr. Alia Takes Campaign To Governor Ortom’s Local Government by centpado(m): 10:19pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Not really suspended per say, but set aside from conducting public masses, he is still a priest and forever a priest Oluchiugo: He has left the pulpit, was suspended by the Catholic diocese of Gboko for his involvement in Politics specifically picking of the Governorship form. Totally against Catholic rules as u rightly said |
Politics › Re: Benue: Fr. Alia Takes Campaign To Governor Ortom’s Local Government by centpado(m): 10:15pm On Feb 19, 2023 |
Fr Adasu I think, as a Catholic priest, you can run for political office, but you would be set aside from celebrating public masses by your Bishop. In this case I think Fr. Alia could even win, almost everyone is supporting him, during the primaries he defeated two former PDP gladiators, to clinch the party ticket SmartPolician: Please get his name because that's not allowed in the Catholic Church. The Universal Church is not a Pentecostal church where people do whatever they like (no offense intended).
The Catholic Church is an international institution with rules, which have kept it going for centuries... unless he doesn't belong to the Latin rite. |
Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Marry A Girl Who Has Sent You A Nude Picture Online Before? by centpado(m): 5:44am On Jan 15, 2023 |
No reasonable person, no matter the kind of love would send you his or her nude , it should be infatuation, someone self that you aren’t married to sef, |
Sports › Re: Gareth Bale Retires From Football At 33 by centpado(m): 10:04pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Golf is his next calling |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Reach Verbal Agreement To Sign Joao Felix From Atletico Madrid by centpado(m): 10:01pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
But why are Chelsea on a signing spree |
Sports › Re: Hugo Lloris Announces Retirement From International Football (photos) by centpado(m): 9:54pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Hope him and Big Benz, make peace |
Crime › EFCC Arraigns Cubana Manager, For Alleged $164,000 Money Laundering by centpado(op): 7:09pm On Aug 25, 2022 |
EFCC arraigns Cubana manager, Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe, one other, Precious Omonkhoa Ofure, over alleged $164k money laundering by Kossy Derrick Blog on August 24, 2022 in Trending Gist The Lagos Zonal Command of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) has arraigned one Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe, a manager with Cubana Group.
Ndukwe, aka Cubana Prime Minister, was arraigned on Wednesday, August 24, 2022 alongside one Precious Omonkhoa Ofure before Justice Justice O.A. Fadipe of the Special Offences Court sitting in Ikeja, for an offence bordering on conspiracy to launder and money laundering.
The commission said the suspects were arrested recently following credible intelligence received about their involvement in the fraudulent activity.
Items recovered from them include the sum of $164, 000, iPhone mobile devices and laptop computers.
The charge against them reads: “That you, Precious Omonkhoa Ofure and Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe, sometime in 2021 in Lagos, within the jurisdiction of this Honourable Court, did conspire amongst yourselves and laundered an aggregate sum of $164,000 which form part of $256,314 fr@udulently obtained by false pretence from one Elena Bogomaz, a Canadian Citizen, and converted the fr@udulent money into the United States Dollars with the help of a Bureau De ChangeOperator, which was then credited into the bank account of Casa Cubana Estate Limited and Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe respectively for the purchase of two landed properties and committed an offence contrary to Section 330 of lhe Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.”
During their arraignment, Ndukwe “pleaded not guilty”, while Ofure pleaded “guilty” to the charge. Consequently, Justice Fadipe found Ofure guilty and sentenced him to three years imprisonment on two counts of conspiracy and money laundering, with an option of fine in the sum of N2million and 100 hours of community service. The judge also ordered the forfeiture of all the items recovered from the convict.EFCC arraigns Cubana manager, one other over alleged $164k money laundering
The Lagos Zonal Command of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) has arraigned one Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe, a manager with Cubana Group.
Ndukwe, aka Cubana Prime Minister, was arraigned on Wednesday, August 24, 2022 alongside one Precious Omonkhoa Ofure before Justice Justice O.A. Fadipe of the Special Offences Court sitting in Ikeja, for an offence bordering on conspiracy to launder and money laundering.
The commission said the suspects were arrested recently following credible intelligence received about their involvement in the fraudulent activity.
Items recovered from them include the sum of $164, 000, iPhone mobile devices and laptop computers.
The charge against them reads: “That you, Precious Omonkhoa Ofure and Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe, sometime in 2021 in Lagos, within the jurisdiction of this Honourable Court, did conspire amongst yourselves and laundered an aggregate sum of $164,000 which form part of $256,314 fr@udulently obtained by false pretence from one Elena Bogomaz, a Canadian Citizen, and converted the fr@udulent money into the United States Dollars with the help of a Bureau De ChangeOperator, which was then credited into the bank account of Casa Cubana Estate Limited and Lucky Uchechukwu Ndukwe respectively for the purchase of two landed properties and committed an offence contrary to Section 330 of lhe Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.”
During their arraignment, Ndukwe “pleaded not guilty”, while Ofure pleaded “guilty” to the charge. Consequently, Justice Fadipe found Ofure guilty and sentenced him to three years imprisonment on two counts of conspiracy and money laundering, with an option of fine in the sum of N2million and 100 hours of community service. The judge also ordered the forfeiture of all the items recovered from the convict.
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Politics › Re: Breaking! Simon Ekpa Of IPOB Joined Trending Shettima Challenge-pics by centpado(m): 9:05pm On Aug 24, 2022 |
Which foolish warlord is he, Igbos has no warlord, only Ojukwu came close to been called a warlord. Whiteangel1234: See the photo below , the Biafra Warlord have joined the trending Shettima Challenge |
Romance › Re: My Urge For Sex Is Destroying Me by centpado(m): 7:06pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
You have to exert self control brotherly… you need to know yourself… we live in dangerous times, you can’t be having sex loosely… run to God for help and he will help you |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Cannot Get Pregnant by centpado(m): 11:36am On Aug 12, 2022 |
You haven’t paid her bride price, yet you want to put her in a family way … you are damn wicked.
And you have gotten two girls pregnant, and they did abortion for you …
Omo guy, try dey control your sexual urge |
Romance › Re: Erigga: Yahoo Boys, Abeg Make Una Try Dey Price Polo by centpado(m): 11:32am On Aug 12, 2022 |
Why buy jeans, when you can get to Idumouta buy the jeans material, a yard and the half, give a good tailor to sew Jean trousers for you. Enter Yaba buy polo material, give a good tailor to sew polo for you Dreadlock69: To buy ordinary jean and shirt i dey hold 10k for oshodi you dey mind them |
Satellite TV Technology › Re: Here Is Why You Should Buy A Free To Air Decoder To Watch TV by centpado(m): 6:10am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Very interesting Cleo18: It's not advisable to connect an antenna cable directly to your smart tv decoder. Thunder-strike can affect the tv through the antenna |
Sports › Re: Taiwo Awoniyi Set For Union Berlin Return Just 28 Days After Joining Nottingham by centpado(m): 9:28pm On Jul 23, 2022 |
The headline made me afraid, thought he was been sacked. |
Business › Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by centpado(m): 10:43pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Inhaler: Good afternoon house, please where can I get female stock jeans in Lagos island. If anyone has a customer there i don’t mind getting a phone number Mandillas your surebet |
Business › Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by centpado(m): 10:43pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
divinemandate: Please where can I get bridal lace and accessories in Lagos For bridal lace 1. Ereko Street 2. John Street 3. Balogun Street 4. Nnamdi Azikiwe Street |
Business › Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by centpado(m): 10:42pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Elizabethasebeb: Please where can i get wholesales of books, children books of all kinds on the island or anywhere in lagos, i want to start a bookshop business That would be where stationery is been sold… when you drop at Idumouta, locate that Eyo statue, the direction of GT Bank follow the direction down, ask any of the seller you want to buy stationery they would point the street for you, it’s close to the GT bank |
Business › Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by centpado(m): 10:39pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
veeviene: @ajekapo @tradepunter
please I need direct suppliers of HW heels in Lagos Island, I know they cost about 3k to 3500 in wholesale, please kindly help me out if you have contacts or with direction on how to locate them, these pictures are samples of the heels I'm talking about. Thank you and God bless Go to Balogun, walk up to any plaza and tell them you want to buy in bulk, they would gladly take you the importer of the item… you can go to Paul and Mike plaza |
Business › Re: Simple Secret Of Buying Stuff At Idumota Market Lagos by centpado(m): 10:37pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Owojuyi: Good afternoon pls who has an idea of the cost of this bag and best place to buy it.
Thanks The box can be gotten around martins street, opposite LSPDC house |
Politics › Re: Melaye Tackles Buhari - You Can Only Choose Your Party Candidate Not Successor by centpado(m): 3:36pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
ishowdotgmail: But why is he (Melaye) running like a toilet fly around Abubakar Atiku just to see him emerge as Nigeria President.
Same mentality everyone of them  if Atiku wins the presidency, Melaye may become the Minister of stomach infrastructure |