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Shout Out to Breezy,one of the world's best vocalist anytime..

Xenaf:
And why always ondo state sef

OGÚNFE...What do you know about Ondo State

Kingsasian:
There is no evidence to show that it is human flesh.

Were you there

Tinubu, to me is still the most intelligent and rational elderstatesman...Where are the likes of IBB, ABDULSALAM,ANENIH,TY DANJUMA, BODE GEORGE, BABATOPE,UBA BROTHERS, to mention a few,..Where are THEY??

SCIENCE is BEAUTIFUL.....@johny..good job.

johnydon22:
what then exactly are they being taught...

99% of all the subjects are taught in English, i have no idea Atoms had Hausa and Nupe nomenclatures too..

Habba northern Nigeria!!!

LoL..."richybanky" said it all, 'm a living witness to that too.

Unfortunately, this is Africa where all animals are comestible..

oshaosha2014:
She chose to marry him in the first place so she's gonna have to carry her cross. And if the situation becomes unbearable or life threatening, then it is my prerogative to remove her from that situation for a while, and not outrightly removal from her marriage. I don't want no prostitute as sister, so she will eventually go back to her marriage and face her life with her hubby.

No be talk be this abeg...

oshaosha2014:
All I see is, "leave the relationship. your sister will die one day." Nothing about the man's needs. I think most times we should just mind our own business, except if the situation is life threatening. The way you all put the female matter on your head, you'll definite turn all of them to prostitute. If she leaves the man, am sure that's free hand to bang every tom, DICK, and harry. Am also your you all will not criticise her for that, but the man, you will say he made her become a prostitute.

A living prostitute is better than a dead battered wife...If your sister was in her situation, would you have advised her to keep on with the marriage?

jollymolly:
I am using a new account for privacy reason.I have been married for three years with a daughter, and I found out last year that my husband is cheating though I have been suspecting for a long time. He apologised and promised that it won’t happen again but the whole cheating thing killed me emotionally. We have this emotional disconnect, there is no more affection between us. Even when I seek his opinion about some projects am handling in the office, he will be nonchalant about it though he gives me good advise in the past. He will go to work and won’t even call to check on me at work like he used to and when I do check he will say am monitoring him. Though I don’t trust him anymore but I know I can’t keep tabs on him because that will keep destroying me emotionally. My birthday comes and goes without a gift, even on mother’s day he just woke up and said happy mother’s day without no affection. On my birthday and mother’s day in the past he makes sure that he buys gift and shows me affection. My emotions towards him have been on roller coaster. I have forgiven but I have not really moved on and I guess it has to do with how he changed. I recently connected emotionally with my ex and he wants us to start seeing each other, though I have told him no in the past but after the cheating incident I have been entertaining his calls and chats. I informed one of my best friend about him, she told me I should have the affair since I still care about him that is the only way I will get myself together since my husband doesn’t care. This bestie have been cheated on, by her husband and she told me that she couldn’t move past that until she started dating her hot big boss though they are not working at the same branch. She told me the guy attends to her emotional and physical needs. She gets raise, promotion and the guy helped her bought a land. She told me she doesn’t care if the husband is cheating or not because she is getting her groove on. She said she and her husband doesn’t make love often, when they do, is just to ease tension because there is no emotion and affection. .

Oh!!!..and you call yourself a wife!!...Shame unto YOU.

He is actually in his early 50s, (Confirmed)...42 is his political age.

bendutch:
You are indeed your moniker. Yoruba man I see.

Why always YORÙBÁ?..Flat head mùmú

abeeceebee:
in response to ur questions I am a woman too and my husband does not beat and later demand for sex on the same day. Secondly, that how her husband assaults her on a regular basis, after perpetrating vthis evil act he will be asking my sister to lay her back for him. Am not here to incure ur pity but I need some advice for my sis ASAP!

I'll advise her to quit the relationship ASAP because he might do something worse to her in future... Arowolo,Shonde etc as case study

johnydon22:
..Humanity is so vulnerable that we leave that which is in front of us to chase after that which we do not have or know but a figment of our imaginations, thoughts and wishes.

the above quote of mine holds true for our perception of death.

Haven't you noticed how the word "Death" gives rise to different philosophies of hopeful realities to many.

-On one hand some speculate we do not really die but transcends and then gets reborn and live again and so it goes in a circle.

-Another suggests we do not get reborn but some thinking formless needless part of us continues somewhere else.

-Plato suggests the body is a prison for the soul.

Where as all these philosophies are profound and hopeful, i also call it greed, selfishness and a product of an unmatched ego wielded only by the human mind.

Humans have that egoistic tendency of deluding themselves to be the most important part of the universe..

That is why in this deluding ego they see themselves as deserving to live again but not every other animal or living thing in this earth that also live as they live and feel as they do.


-Just how important are we in this universe?

More important than the stars? Without the stars we won't be here but without us they were, are and will be.

More important than the plants ? without them we won't be here but without us they were, are and will be.


We are so concerned by what we want to be, by what we wish for that we forget and pay little mind to what we have which is [b]NOW

So isn't it better and more noble we forget all these stories and focus on what we have and where we are which is Now and Here

Here and Now are the most important, certain aspect of it all, make them count and don't waste them chasing after a vague shadow of an uncertain wishful fantasy.

You've hit the nail on the head with this....good one.

MasterofNL:
What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

I understant what you're going through and I support you 100% but my candid advise for you is that you should never touch (beat) nor go violent against her...any of the aforementioned is allowed, provided it is only for a short duration.

Trash!!!

MrKontrovErsy:
that list is null without worlds no1 citizen
POPE FRANCIS!

POPE kor ,DOPE ni...

EastanPower:
EFCC should leave FFK alone.

When will they quiz Tinubu & Amechi?

How did APC get funds to campaign for buhari?

I wonder what people like you do with their brains (that's if available)...

Ofcourse, He was right... Or Is Nigeria not a corrupt nation

itstpia8:
Good deed, bad deed mean the same thing when you are at a certain level.

Its poor people who believe in karma.

'm i dealing with a sane being here

itstpia8:
The only problem with statements like these is "good" or "bad" seems to be dictated by money. Meaning history is always written by the victorious and money covers all.

Even amongst the rich, there are those with good deeds and vice versa..

The good or bad deed that men do will come back to them.

halfricanadian:
Nothinh can b done without God

U even need God to give u sense ok

He has given u already...all u need to do is use it rightly.

And after sharing the money , Nobody said; "Oga take this one buy gworo", right?..don't worry, Magu knows what to do.

Kyase:
Who else then, how many Afghan Presidents you know?

Don't mind that block-head...Some Ibos are like that.

@Op, make your intentions known..bloody hypocrite!!!

maradonat:
#copied. Am a happy married man but my neighbor's wife is always making passes at me especially when my wife is not around. She always have reasons to come to my house each time my wife is out and went when she does, she wears revealing outfits. what do i do?

Did she tell you that

Good move , make sure he purges every kobo he ate

CACAWA:
That is a country

That is a "sane" country

Is this the man well-mannered Ekiti people chose as their governor?...'m still in shock though.

wowmenow:
interesting saraki will be vindicated soon

vindi kini?...Not even in your dreams