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i will, bro

Dolemite:


Ewww, following you? only when I see foolishness like your book on the front page I reply to your posts.

i think we are through. Have a great night. sweet dreams. bye

Goodkidd:
Had to put in this comment before I even finished reading it. I'm not one to read topics with such headlines becos most times they sound robotic and tend to assume humans are robots with one way reaction to events. However, this ur post right here has life to it. I can feel it breathe. All truth. Well done. I've learnt some things here and have reminded myself of other things I know which are not which were hitherto unconfirmed

Thanks, brother.

Glad i was able to pass a message across

Dolemite:


Hahaha he's hungry, what do you expect? he has like 50 accounts on NL.

Dolemite Dolemite, You've been following me bumber to fender for a looong time.

Lol. I must really be getting on your nerves.

Watch out, i will be posting more of this *winks*

pedestal82:



Charlesnneji is that you ?
Common u didnt need to play the double moniker trick to get ppl to buy.
The message was ok

every one is not a crook, bro

saaedlee:
CharlesNneji1 copied and modified the book "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man" by Steve Harvey.


I am watching you!

For what?

By the way, that book is for women. You sure you've read it?

Fit2Rule:

Bottom line... you just wanna sell your ebook

Well, if the contents work...what's wrong with that?

Dolemite:
Guys, charlesnneji1 is a hungry man trying to sell a silly book, don't flatter a girl are you serious? I pity the foools that'll buy this book.

*smiles*

Of course, I knew this write up would get girls angry.

*shrugs*

But who cares...

ELGREF:
My name is john, and all that happon to john according to ur illustration on ur ebook happon to me, but write now I'm taking a great step, like to have ur e book

Just see my profile for the numbers to contact. I don't want to violate nairaland's rule

*smiling*

This article is not for everybody.

It will help those it will help.

GhostProtocol:
Mr. Nneji, if you you can guarantee me that using your rules, by tomorrow morning, I can have ireneony bress in my mouth, then I'm buying the book.

Lol, who be ireneomy bress?

Blackvampire:
Menh women are just complex creatures ...all dis jus for them

Lol, no - they are not complex. They would want you to believe they are, but they are not.

They are charming, pretty little darlings with tender hearts. when you know how to press their buttons, you will have them in your palms

ibkonekt:
really long...but kool

Thank you

dryakson:
Let me talk from my experience of this e-book.
After hearing a lots about this "bang Rules" I decided to purchase it and I did.
I must say it, the book is the "bomb" the tricks work like charm I swear. I applied some or the trick to some top beautiful girls in my campus I can't believe it uptil now... I argued with my friend that with the trick in this e-book I can woo any girls.. He showed my a beautiful damsel to approach.. I proved him wrong... She calls me almost everyday...
Let me give you how I approached her with the help of the e-book.
Me: sighted her
Beb:walking to the hostel
Me:...... Approach her,..... Hi u remain me of my grandmother.... I kept quit with a smile on my face.
Beb:she looked at me with with surprise....... I lowered her defence here.... Then she finally speaks. "smile, in what way"?
Me: You walks like her very confident and composed.... I smiled
Beb:.. Rolling with laughter... And said" your grandmum is old I think... Stil laughing
Me: Yeah but she is more beautiful and stronger than you.. Smiled.
Beb:. Am I not beautiful and strong?
Me: I will tell u when I discovered you are beautiful and strong..... . But that's not what brings me here.
Beb: OK what brings you here
Me: u seem smart, I will like to hear you opinion on something that only smart girl can answer..
Beb: more relax... "am all ears"
Me: I have a friend who broke with his girlfriend few days ago... She left him for someone more richer than him.... He was ranting that all girls are after money than true love.. Pls what can you say about this.. I want to give him answer from a smart girls point of view.
Beb:.... Oboi.... She stared ranting how true love is better than money with examples....... Non stop
Me.... Stopped me..... "I have to go now.. I wil love to continue this discussion someday..... Here give me ur number.".. Pointing her my phone.... She gave me the number while I zoomed off.

She first call me self... I didn't pick it and I didn't call back till the next day .... My friend was shocked to his bone marrow..
.
One thing I learnt about this book is 'confidence'..... My confidence has increased by 80% I swear. .

wow.

Your story was really interesting. From what you just said, it shows you really understood the message in the ebook.

For that, i am happy.

Thanks for your kind words too. i am glad the book has been helpful

Olamitisoji:
This a great work, first time of reading ur piece tho.

Thanks, bro. Click on my profile to read more. You might find some other one you like.

jmoore:


Not lazy. I am not interested in the content.

lol. and you clicked it, came in and commented. wow.

i hear you.

Take care. Bye

Houseofglam7:
Summarize am na



My eyes dey bleed

Lol. Lazy reader alert. I tried summarizing it sha, e no gree me. had to make all the points or the article would be useless to people

defemidefemi:
ur source of information pls, or ar u a love doctor?

See my profile then decide if i am...or not

jmoore:
If I read that thing eh.. Make Mosquito finish me this night.

Charles Nneji, Bsc Womanology, Msc Womanology, PhD Womanology.


Why not publish this your stuff and become a millionaire?

what if i am one already?

well, for me it's more about helping guys with my write up than making money from it. That's why i do more article writing than promoting my book

Lala247:
Didnt read it too long

But good job *sips tea*

Lol, another lazy reader. i dey see all of una. Thanks tho

jmoore:
If I read that thing eh.. Make Mosquito finish me this night.

Lol. Lazy reader

TRADELYN:


You are doing a great work here.


#KeepItUp!

Thank you, bro

*warning* Lazy readers, this might be too long for you. Don't bother reading it. But For those who will read it; i used headlines to make it easy to scan through.
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MY TWO FRIENDS

I have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.

I will call them James and John (Not their real names)

Both of them are average income earners. Infact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.

Here is the only difference between them…

Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.

As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.

But John’s isn’t that lucky…

Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.

He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.

Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.

So what is the difference between the two?

Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?

That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.

THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe

BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:

Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.

Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.

But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.

If a girl ignores your calls,

Ignores your chats,

Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,

Never agrees to visit you,

Cheats on you,

Acts cold on the phone with you,

Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,

Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…

She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.

If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John

But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).

So what can you do to put a stop to it?

By becoming emotionally superior to her.

How do you become emotionally superior?

Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.

Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…

The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.

Why?

Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.

If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die

For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.

Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. Infact she has heard it so much that it justs boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)

Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:

Take for instance:

On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”

Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant idiot. The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…

You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.

So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?

It is simple plain psychology – human beings only LOVE interacting with people who are their level or above their level.
Trying to impress a girl you are chasing is like walking into her room crawling, with your hands stretched out as you beg for attention.
It makes a girl see you as someone below her.

Also, this method makes a girl go like WTF. Why is he so different from other guys, there must be something special about him – that’s just why he would behave this way.

MORE EXAMPLES FOR PROJECTING EMOTIONAL SUPERIORITY
Tips from my previous article:

# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.

Women like men that are in control.

-#1. Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them in the eBook and she would never think of friend zoning you. See my profile for how to get the eBook.

- #2 Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article - just get this. I don't preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy - you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.

Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:

- They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
- They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: "Call me now, you never call me. Call me now"

Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is "weak"

MORE EXAMPLES:

1. Instead of telling a girl you want to fix a date with: “Can we see tomorrow” (this is weak). Say instead: “I decided to take myself to the movies tomorrow; I want someone interesting to go with. You just won the chance. If you say no, I will bite your nose”
(This projects you as someone who is in control. You are choosing her, she is not choosing you. Girls love guys they can’t control. I know this sounds weird but it’s the truth)

This article has become long enough. For more examples get my ebook today. See my profiles for numbers to call or watsapp. In the book I went into details on how to be emotionally superior on Pages 59 – 66

In my ebook, The Bang Rule, I also revealed the following

- Two things you need to do within the first five minutes of walking up to a girl that would make her instantly like you…. Page 52

- One trick MOST GUYS DON’T KNOW that you can use to make a woman want to come over to your house to pay you a visit, even when she knows you have the intention of having sex with her… Page 25.

- How to make a girl take massive interest in you even to the extent of chasing you shamelessly…page 45

- One way to start a conversation with a girl you just met that will cripple all her defenses and make her polite with you. This ONE WAY will ensure that girls never embarrass you when you walk up to them to woo them… pages 55-56

- What to do that will make a girl always coming back to you, even if you treat her badly. This is the same secret players use to make a girl rush back to them after every quarrel…pages 66 – 67

- One thing you need to do around a girl you are asking out that will make her feel lucky that you are asking her out…. page 69

Plus many many more.

To get the ebook; click on my username then on my profiles you will see a watsapp number to contact.

Peace, bro…

A girl's interest in your money is different from a girl's interest in you.

If you believe money can buy love; I want try to dissuade you. Enjoy

Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out. (3)

Let's not wait time. straight to the point.

How can you make a girl to fall in love with you?

I want to make something very clear right now.

And what is that?

Here it is: "Simply telling a girl that you like her will not make her to like you back". It doesn't work that way.

In one of African China's song he said something like: "If you Love someone walk up to her and tell her you love her". Lol, i like Faze but mehn - that advice is a bad advice like mad.

You see, girls don't just decide that they want to like you. They just don't wake up and say "Ok, this guy has been asking me out for a long time - let me trip for him abeg"

it doesn't work that way. it is not a logical decision. Falling in love is not something a girl decides to do.

I just hope you are getting this.

Since a girl don't just decide to start loving a guy WHY THEN do you try to ask a girl to like you?

How do guys do this?

Some days ago i had this chat with a guy who asked a girl out and she turned him down. Then he started doing what most guys who just don't get it always do.

- He took the girl out and kept telling her how he feels about her.
- Then he started buying her gifts
- calling her every time to try and CONVINCE her to like him.

BAD MOVE. BAD MOVE. BAD MOVE.

When it comes to making a girl fall, forget logic - the key is to press her emotional buttons. When it comes to love, a girl first falls illogically for a guy and then use logic to back it up.

Now i will show you what to do to switch ON a girl's emotional button so she will fall for you.

Come with me...

There are three main strategies i use to switch on a girl's emotional switch and make her interested in me.

#1: Emotionally Unattached Strategy
#2: Confuse Her Strategy.
#3: My Kiss Test Strategy.

And trust me when i say these strategies works. i have used it for years and they RARELY fail. I am sure they would work for you too.

Let's take them one by one.

EMOTIONALLY UNATTACHED STRATEGY

(Lol, most girls won't like this one.)

You see, when most guys like a girl they start looking for the girl's approval. Na this kind guys babes dey use play wella. They call her all the time, they say the nicest thing JUST not to offend her, they shower her with praises at the slightest oppourtunity.

Sure enough, girls consider this type of guys as "nice". They even go as far as saying: 'He is nice, but i no fit date am".

A girl once told me that the reason she broke up with her boyfriend was because the guy "WAS TOO NICE".

Can you imagine?

Now i will give you the laws of "emotional unattached strategy".

-# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.

Women like men that are in control.

-# Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them and she would never think of friend zoning you. See my profile for how to get the eBook.

- # Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article - just get this. I don't preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy - you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.

Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:

- They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
- They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: "Call me now, you never call me. Call me now"

Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is "weak"

Due to Piracy Concerns, Just 6 persons [/b]will be allowed to get my Ebook, [b]THE BANG RULE, Between today and Friday. In the Ebook i went into details to explain more advanced tricks and secrets that you can use to make girls fall crazily in love with you.

See my profiles for the watsapp number to contact in order to get the ebook today.

Tomorrow i Will continue the other two strategies in my next article.

That is; #2: Confuse Her Strategy.
#3: My Kiss Test Strategy.

NB: IF YOU haven't been following my articles on Nairaland - go to my profile by clicking on my name then select any of my articles that catches your fancy. There are alot of them here.

Stay tuned,

Goodnight

Dondave11:
Respect Bro!
I've read almost all d articles on ur website..
Ah swear.. This stuff works..
D level i nw play wit gurls, amazes me..
More petrol to ur fire bro..

Gracias, brother. I'm happy for you.

butanep:
I have missed your post for a long time...I must confess that you are really good and your formular is working like mad...


I have applied so many of your tactics and it's working very fine... keep the good work bro...

I'm happy to hear that, and thanks for your kind words, bro.

Also See my profile for my website's address, there are more tips there.

Why Single Girls Are Turning You Down When You Ask Them Out..CONTD

In my last write up i told you that girls either see you as "just a friend" or "more than a friend". Then i told you that when a girl starts seeing a guy as just a friend it would be very difficult for her to EVER see him as a boyfriend material.

In this write up i promised to show you how a woman decides who she wants to date. When i am done with that, i will gradually take you through the mistakes that cause girls to laugh at you behind your back WHENEVER you ask her out. After learning this mistake, you would know what to avoid doing when it comes to girls. Knowing this would massively improve how girls respond to you.

Are you ready?

Now, let's go, bro....

What makes a girl decides that a guy is "date-able" is the way that guy makes her FEEL.

For a girl to see you as a boyfriend material you have to give her two major feelings:

- An emotional feeling
and
- A Physical feeling.

Let me explain the two.

First; The emotional feeling: You see, when a girl likes a guy she looks forward to his calls, she looks forward to his visits and whenever she sees him with another girl jealousy go won kill am. But if she is not interested in you, she won't give a damn.

On the other hand, a girl would have physical feelings for that same guy. As in, she would think about kissing him and in some other cases she will even go as far as thinking about having intimacies with this guy.

But for "Just A friend", girls find it hard to EVEN IMAGINE kissing him (Ask any girl). But as a guy, if a female friend who is a just a friend pulls her clothes and hugs you - you go hug am back; straight.

Lets look at the other way round - If a guy pulls his clothes and moves towards a female friend who has no physical feeling for him; she go take off.

Now. Pause.

Let's take this gradually now. I want you to really really get this.

Most Guys think it takes just luck to make a girl have an emotional and physical feelings for you. In fact, i used to think so too. I used to think that it is either a girl likes you or she doesn't - and that there was nothing you can do about it.

Until i learnt it is actually possible to deliberately make a girl's heart beat fast whenever she sets eyes on you. It is very possible to make a girl UNCONTROLLABLY fall for you against her own will (LOL, i know most people will try to argue this with me. Before you attack it, Just chill first till i'm done).

I'm sure you've seen a guy who is so good with girls that girls themselves fear him. he is able to date two friends at the same time, take other people's girlfriends, make girls fight for him and yet you look at him and you wonder what the heck girls see in him.

You've seen such guys abi?

They call them "players". The reason why they are that good with girls is because they know SOME THINGS about girls that MOST guys will never know all thier life. And those things they (the players) know is what i will show you soon.

I don't want to throw too much information at you at once, so in my next write up i will show you how to deliberately make a girl fall crazily in love with you before she knows what is happening

Meanwhile, visit my websites for more. see my profile for my website address - there are a lot of "tips" fo
r guys on it.

Cheers.

*WARNING* Lazy readers...please, keep off, this article might be too long for you. Infact, this might end up being a long long thread*

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Lol.

Hair salons are very dangerous. As in, female hair salons. they are one of the most dangerous places a guy can ever enter.

Why?

Because what girls say in hair saloons can kill a guy's confidence gan.

How?

In hair salons, after hearing single girls analyse guys who are asking them out, you will come out covering your face on behalf of most single men
out there.

First, the conversation will start with a general discussion about guys...

...then they will narrow it down to the horribly annoying things guys do, gradually they will tear guys up and spit out how foolish and desperate for love some guys are. As she talks about the "mumu-ness" of the guy who is asking him out, all her friends will throw back their heads and laugh.

It is an ugly experience if you watch girls talk about a guy in this way, some babes get bad mouth die abeg...and my mission is to make sure no babe ever takes a guy i come in contact with for granted.

Here is the hard truth.

IT IS POSSIBLE THAT A GIRL YOU ARE ASKING OUT, NOW OR IN THE PAST, HAVE LAUGHED AT YOU WITH HER FRIENDS.

But chill, what i am about to show you right now will make sure that a girl never laughs at you behind your back when you show interest in her.

My hope is that after learning this, you will use it and change how you interact with girls.

Now, let's begin...

1. FOR GIRLS, FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS.

Most dudes don't get this.

Baba, because she is opening teeth for you and throwing you 360 degrees hugs every time does not mean she is attracted to you in a romantic way.

For girls a friend is different from a boyfriend. and when a girl starts seeing you as a friend IT WILL BE RARE for her to see you as a boyfriend - ever again (Go and ask any girl).

Some days back i read an article where some dude was advising guys that the best way to make a girl like you is to go to her and become her friend and with time she will start liking you...

I read the article and laughed, as in, threw back my head and laughed.

In might work in hollywood but try it in real life and you MIGHT end up in friend zone quarters till you grow white bear-bear. You need to do something else - something else that always works all the time.

You see, girls classify guys into two when they meet them; it is either they place you as someone they can date or they place you as someone they can never date.

If she places you as someone she can not date, when you ask out let me show you what will happen...

- First she will be shocked that you've even asked asked out in the first place (You that she saw as a "brother"
- Then she will beg you that you two should just remain friends
- Then she will start ignoring you.

In that order.

Now, you might be asking yourself the following questions...

One; How or why does a girl decide to date one guy and decides not to date another guy?
Two; why is it difficult for girls to date a guy they have been just friends with for a long time
Three; How do i make sure that a girl sees me as someone she wants to date.

To know the answer to these above 3 questions, you have understand how a girl knows that she would like to date a guy.

and that is what i will show in the continuation of this thread....

I will continue the thread immediately i get 30 comments under this post.

Samwell247:
Hell please listen to my matter

I have this girl at work which I got interested in... We became friends.. Too intimate she shares everything with me...I didn't get her number cause I want her to bring herself down and give it to Me..
Meanwhile as a codded guy I didn't show her any sign of affection...
My boss (sssssssss) at work I can't count them all wanted to date this this babe (see beauty)
Still she will tell me. Then i noticed she's showing some green lights..at times she says thank you by giving Me a kiss on my lips (I swear)

And u see oh as a smart guy I gave in,told her how I feel and that's where the problem starts..
Before she can chat with me in WhAtsapp for hours..
Now she hardly replies...and from what she told me... She has no bf...though guys do call her up..(abi she dey lie ni)
Then I noticed something at times she becomes emotional and act like my gf... At time she ignores me... I guess she doesn't know what she wants or something...

Later she told me we can only become friends...
Omo see how my heart sink...

I beg please advise..I don't wanna lose this chick.

Bro, you have gone and done what I have been preaching against all this while.

Telling a girl how you feel about her too early will kill every single interest she had in you. If you had read my book you would have known that

That babe liked you, but when you told her how you feel for her you killed every suspense she had.

Here is what you need to do now.

- stop telling her how you feel about her.

- find another girl in your place of work and become close to her.

- when you become close to this new girl, start acting like you've lost interest in the one you told how you feel (don't act cold towards her, still talk and laugh with her BUT just don't give her too "much face"

- when you have done this two, then apply all the strategies in my book on her and she will chase you pants down.

Teempakguy:
No girls here yet.
Okay, no problem.
Meanwhile, I don't think I have any problem with girls o . . .
Oh, op. I have one small problem o, the ugly girls are the one pursuing me o. What will I do?

Run. Lol