I have been getting loads and loads of emails and messages from guys who want me to write on this topic.

And you know what, I am going to reveal to you 3 tricks that you can use to approach any girl, talk to her, get her number and leave and she won't know that you just toasted her.

I know, sounds confusing right?

Stay with me, you will get this.

By the way, if you've not read my article on how to talk to girls - read it here: www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

Now, to what I was saying:

One painful thing most guys pass through is seeing pretty gorgeous girls they would like to talk to but, due to fear of been insulted or embarrassed by the babe, what they do is to allow that fear make them not to make a move on her.

Sometimes these girls are not just pretty but friendly also, yet - the very thought of walking up to her and starting a conversation makes your heart pound, with sweat pouring down your face.

Then after you have succeeded in convincing yourself not to approach her, you go home and imagine all the things you would have said - if only you had approached her

It's absolutely normal, I know how you feel - every guy feels that way from time to time.

But you know what; using these secrets I am about to reveal right here you would be able to walk to any girl no matter how classy she is and get her number and she would be happy to give it to you, even if you two just met. With this secret you won't be afraid of getting embarrassed by a girl again.

Now, let's begin...

Forget whatever you've been told while growing up

The step by step formular to use in approaching girls is this:

#1. Approach with an Ice breaker
#2. Make a Rapport
#3. Inject player's conversational skills
#4. Take her number and leave.

Now; I will take number one first

#1. APPROACH WITH AN ICE-BREAKER:

THE BASICS: Most guys still approach girls with the same methods they used as teenagers.

They walk up to a girl, tell her they like her and expect her to drop her number into his phone.

Haba na, na jaz?

Here is the hard truth, bro...so far she is more than 18, no girl will type her phone number into your phone just because you told her you like her. Not unless you are micheal jackson or jayz.

Here is why:

One; Girls hear "I like you all the time". It doesn't work anymore; it worked when she was in secondary school - but after two heartbreaks, her eyes have cleared my guy.

Two; when you tell a girl that you like her, she will automatically begin to play hard to get - that is what she was trained to do from when she started getting her first toasters

If you don't use "ice breakers" when walking up to a girl she would either not take you seriously, or she would be rude to you or she would just plainly ignore you.

So what are ice breakers?

They are just tricks or excuse you use just to talk to a girl and to lower her defences.

Let me give you real life examples: when you walk up to a girl and say something like;

"hi, I will be quick with this - I was having an argument with a friend and he said girls are more interested in money than love, you seem smart, I think you answer would make sense - what do you think, money or love - which works on you girl?"

I know; it's long abi?

But guess what, it always works - every single time.

9 times out of ten, this simple question has always led to a girl blabbing about how love is more important or love is more important (it never fails for me).

After she has blabbed on a bit; here is the next trick - smile, say something like - "wow, that was so insightful, you be great analyser sha. My friend really needs to hear you speak - I would love to continue this conversation some other time, gat to run now"

Then bring out your phone and add: "call your number, please"

This is basic psychology - when you ask a girl for her phone number in this way she would have little resistance giving you her number.

This is why:

One; You have tricked her into believing you just want her number to further the conversation and If she says no, it would seem like she is taking the whole interaction too seriously.

Two; she doesn't have to play hard to get because you gave her the impression that you only need her opinion, and not her number so you can chyke her.

This is major trick of all these players who effortlessly get girl's number - there is nothing special about them, they just know these things, that's all.

If you just walk up to a girl you just met, sing "love poems" for her and expect her to drop her number for you then you go beg tire o.

(I gave more examples of ice breakers in my e-book, The Bang Rule, see my profile for numbers to reach so you can get the e-book)

Now; if she still refuses to give you her number after you have used this little trick what it means is that you didn't use the following during your conversation with her.

#2. Making a Rapport
#3. Injecting player's conversational skills

I will explain how to apply them in my next post here.

By the way: I explained how to talk to girls here: www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

In my next post here on this thread, I will show you how to, One - make a rapport with a girl you just met and make her feel like you two have known for ages.

This step would make her eagerly give you her number after you've used the icebreaker on her and finally ask for her number.

But getting a girl's number is nothing, the most important thing is making her fall in love with you afterwards.

In my ebook, The Bang Rule...ultimate guild of seduction for Nigerian Guys", I explained how to make a girl go crazily in love with you by just applying some simple powerfully effective tricks. (See my profile for a picture of the e-book's cover)

To get the e-book, add me on watsap for details on how to get it. (My watsapp number is on my profile - click my name to see it)

Watch out for the other two tips, right here.

Shalom, brothers. Stay tuned

Wonderlands:



bros you never post how to approach babe for road ooo you say today o

will do that in another thread, this one already too long

iamblisz:
@Charlesnnaji, guess wat . the stuff worked o. the babe just delete my comment and later went to my profile and liked my picture Lol . how awkward. she dnt even knw me , I just dey look for trouble nee

Na so, bro

Jerryodogwu:
D whattsapp no bro, love 2get d ebook, cant find it here

08158068422

Neldrizzy:
@charlseNneji1 this guy you toooooooo much abeg..... Right from the first day i read ur thread, that was last year abt (October or November) i applied all the tricks/tips you gave plus My "follow come" inbuilt sugarcoated mouth and everything has been moving on smoothly.. i jus resumed school last month (January) and My name is everywhere in all department, the kind gals wey de they around me , me self i de fear weda na magic i they use.. i advice you all to subscribe to the op's e-book... You don't need to be handsome, rich,have six pack b4 you date beautiful gals... The power to control beautiful, classy, stylish gals is in ur tongue. Mak use of it....

Thanks bro, I'm happy to hear that the strategies are working for you.

Guys like you move the world, you learn and put into work

Wonderlands:



bros abeg, nor vex, please how do I approach a beautiful looking girl on street or road, please I am student, if I had money would have gotten ur e book, pardon me my brother, just help me out with this

Stay tuned, I will cover that tomorrow on this thread

sanmibukunmi:

Why using only social media example. What if you need a girl u Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ everyday and you guys are not friends on fb or anything. For example you love a girl in ur street you can Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ her everyday but you don't know how to make her love you.....I think dts d real deal. What you have been saying seem could be only applicable to social media esp Fb.....that's not always the situation in life. So tell me how to apply dis when u Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ her face to face.

I will cover just that in my next article

LewisO:
Nice one (op). What a matured post, thumb-up!

Thanks, bro

SELENAqueensy:
Op, yo smart
Interesting write up
Although a guy will have to be smart in other to use most of these tips especially the bedroom talk
Or he will be called a pervert

But op, why are all your tips about girls?
Why can't we get those we can also use on guys?

*shakes ma head* Bad girl, you are looking for what to jaz ya boyfriend for life with abi. *smiles* Well, i will think about it. If i create a thread for ladies, i will send you a text message *winks*

This is just a tip of the iceberg, stay glued to this thread...more tips coming soon.

Maj196:
Gotta tell u dis dude u are so on point. Shit works everytime especially no. 3

*smiles* you na sharp guy

diddydiva:
hmmmmmm interesting.

the op is right tho.

Smart girl, you are truthful

lifestyle1:
In other word be a bad guy, girls don't value "good" guys.

No, bro... i don't advise changing your personality just to get girls - a good guy should remain a good guy if he is the type that doesn't try hard to please others at the expense of himself. what i preach is this; "be in control" when it comes with girls. i don't advise treating girls badly or acting bad; what i advise is to become more interesting and never trying too hard to please a girl because girls hate guys who they can control.

spanzed:
Nice tips.....I posses one of those qualities but tend to get boring when am chatting with a boring lady....

Bro, if she is boring - move on. it is not your problem, it is hers. some girls are fun killers while some others just make you love been around them, go for those ones - life is too short to allow a boring girl kill your vibes

naijaboiy:
Op thumbs up!

I mean you are really good at this game and it beats all those Un realistic lists we see trolling NL up and down.

Even the ladies attest to these facts

Omo i'm subscribing to your E-book right away,,no dulling

Thanks, bro. Oshee, subscribe o - it is loaded, we no fit expose evri evri here na *winks*

stlarry001:
Op you are on point
Could remember back then as an undergraduate and when facebook was my passion most of the SHE I laid from facebook where through been naughty and acting uncerious with them and annoying but in a mature way.
Most often we started as sworn enemies but after some days of bashing and requoting we bcm friends and most often she will want to see d guy that was bashing him when others where praising her and finally u knw watin go sup.
But that was many yrs back when men where boys but it works 90percent

Boss, you sharp die. You know wetin dey *big smile*

marieolae:
Honestly, these are the best tips I've seen on NL.
So much better than the '10 ways to get this and that' rubbish.

Good work

Thanks darling, *in DJ khalid"s voice* You are smart and you are truthful

TIP #3 BEDROOM TALK.

Alright, now we are here - the final strategy.

I will have to carefully go through this one so we all can get it.

First, let's look at why this strategy works.

the thing is this; If a girl sees you as just a friend then that is what you will remain - no matter what. Girls RARELY date guys they have friend zoned. This is exactly why after telling a girl who is a close friend of yours that you love her, she will either start avoiding you or she will start becoming uncomfortable around you - she would RARELY agree that she feels the same way (because she doesn't).

If you want a girl to see you as a boyfriend material then you have to start from the onset to give her boyfriend signals, not by telling her how you feel about her (This will only make her loose interest in you - i will explain why in my next article), the best way to make a girl see you as someone she might date in the future is to use BEDROOM TALK on her from the very beginning. when you talk to her in this way she would

one; not categorize you as just a friend.
two; she would begin to feel some level of sexual attraction to you. when this happens then she would start seeing you as someone she can date

i will explain what i mean, Stay with me

Bedroom talk is the art of talking to a girl in ways that trigger her sexual buttons or her sexually imaginations. I don't mean sexchatting (That would be gross).

Let me give you some real life example: For instance; assuming you are having some discussion with a girl and she says something you don't agree with you could say something like: "see eh, if you say something like that again i will bite your lips for you" (In her head, this registers as a sexual tease and it triggers her imagination a bit - if you say it with the right voice tone it would be electric)

sure enough, if she doesn't already like you she might not imagine much of the sexual meaning of what you've just said, but when you keep giving her loads and loads of bedroom talks in the right way, it will start to have effect on her.

more example:

You could hug a girl and while she is still holding you, you could say something like: "help, she is molesting me. where is my mummy"

(I know, it sounds silly but it works - girls are tender creatures, tender things work on them)

also you could be walking with a girl then you can turn and go like; "hey, stop checking out my hips joor, i'm not even up to 18 and you are looking at me that way" (Try this and watch her laugh her head off, hit you and then say: "go joor"

or you could say something like this after calling her up at night; "sleep tight, don't dream of me - i get girls pregnant in dreams". (This one also works just fine)

You get the gist?; you mix a little teasing and then charge it up with sexual fire. Girls are very imaginative creatures; they are more affected by what they hear than what they see.

BUT

Doing this the wrong way could backfire and make you look like a pervert - that's where my e-book comes in; in it i explained the step by step way to use this strategy so that girls will become madly sexually attracted to you (due to piracy concerns, Only very few people will be allowed to get the e-book this week, once we sell a particular number we would stop selling. bear with me if you are turned down - contact this number 08158068422 on watsapp for details on how to get the book. or call 07031839129. monday to friday 8am -4pm only). You can also send "I need the bang rule" to charlesnnejiofficial@gmail.com and details on how to get it will be sent to you within 24 hours.

For those who have been asking for it; here are the book contents -

- How to manipulate a girl’s emotions, irrespective of how tough she is and make her go crazy about you.

- One thing you can start doing right now that will increase your confidence around girls

- The four mistakes ruining your chances with girls now and how you can eliminate these mistakes, turn them to your advantage and use those same mistakes to your advantage in order to effortlessly make girls see you as boyfriend material.

- The particular mindsets girls have that you can use right now to trigger massive lust in them. You can use these secrets to make any girl want to have sex with you without you even raising a finger.

- The one powerful secret you can use in order to make sure that a girl never cheats on you. This secret will make sure any girl will be willingly to stick with you no matter what. This same secret is the one players use to keep a girl coming back to them even when they maltreat such girls.

- The 3 steps that you can use this very moment to get into any girl’s heart.

- How to make sure that a girl doesn’t see you as just a friend. This step by step secret will make sure she doesn’t friend-zone you or see you as someone she can’t date.

That is not all; I will also show you:

- The 3 rules of seducing and getting pretty girls to like you like crazy.

- The 3 exact moves to use on a girl and make her lower her defenses. These “moves” will ensure that even a girl who was heart-broken yesterday will see you as someone she can allow into her life now.

- One particular thing you can start doing right now to appear more confident in front of girls. It doesn’t just stop there, this particular secret will totally eliminate the fears you feel about approaching a girl you like.

- What to do in order to make a girl see you as some she must have. This is the exact same secret players use in order to make girls fight shamelessly over them.

- How to make a girl love you even if you are broke

- The exact thing to say in order to make her comfortable with you in an instant even if you two had just met.

- How to make pretty and classy girls work hard just to please you.

Plus lots more

After FEBRUARY 24th (That is, tuesday next week, the price of the book will go up and we will start selecting who we sell to so as to dissuade pirates from buying it). the numbers to contact are above

PS: The title of my next article is: "TOP MISTAKES THAT IS MAKING GIRLS FRIENDZONE YOU, AND HOW TO AVOID THEM".

Stay tuned.

Blackett:
A very beautiful girl already knows she is beautiful, and she hears it 1000 times a day. The moment you don't tell her she is beautiful, her internal "panic" mode is activated and she'll be wondering what she did wrong, and who you are for you not to notice her beauty.

Therefore, out of 1000 guys, you already stand out.

Sharp guy, you know what's up

LieDetector:
charlesnneji1. The trick didn't work on my crush.

*smiles* Because she knows the trick. But still, you never can tell if it did.

She teased you back (which is a good sign), you should have taken your own teasing up a notch.

beau49:
To an extent the op is right,well except for the bedroom talk(don't know about that). A little teasing and sarcasm gets attention but then it takes a lot more to keep it.

You definitely get a smile and the girls interest even though she doesn't like you. If the case is otherwise then your case gidi gan....village people at work

*In DJ kahlid's Voice* "You are smart, and you just won the sum of one kiss from me *big smile* put on ya bluetooth - i'm sending the kiss over"

TIP #2 SACARSM

This is another powerful way to communicate with girls that will make her find you interesting. But before i go into this strategy proper, let me first tell you why it works.

Every single minute a girl gets attention from dozens upon dozens of guys struggling real hard just to impress her. During a girl's teenage years, she finds this interesting and she might even fall in love with you if you show her enough interest than other guys. But as she grows older she gets used to it and it starts to bore her. A teenage girl might fall for sweet talk but a grown girl won't - as a matter of fact she has heard it all.

two; girls are never attracted to guys who always try to impress them - they prefer free guys who they cannot control.

If you join dozens of other guys who are saying the same sweet things and acting in the same sweet way then how do you intend to stand out?

That is where "Sarcasm" comes in...it makes you stand out, It gives a girl the impression that you are not like the next guy who will only say what she wants to hear just to please her, it shows her that you are in control, it shows her that you are DIFFERENT - and girls find that attractive.

so how do you apply sarcasm in real life?

Again i will give you real life examples - let me use Facebook again; Take for instance a girl puts up a new profile picture you could inbox her and say - "Thank God for that profile picture, no guy will look at it two times and that means there is no way they will take you from me - keep uploading those kinda ugly picture"

if she gets angry don't apologizes (assuming she is the dull type that doesn't understand a joke - a smart girl will understand a joke when she hears it).

Also, for instance; if a girl says hi to you on social media you could reply with: 'You want to snatch me from my girlfriend abi, alright, if i must cheat on her for you then i need 2 sons from you"

You get the gist?; mixing a little sarcasm with a little humor is the key.

It makes you appear like you have options, but when you run around trying to impress a girl like your life depends on it it gives her this impression that you don't have much choices (that could turn a girl off big time). Girls love guys who have self worth and not ones who jump up whenever they (the girls) says jump.

For more of how to use this strategy plus other powerful secrets of getting your dream girl to fall for you, contact 08158068422 on watsapp to get a copy of my e-book "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Seduction Guild For Nigerian Guys"

PS: In my next month i will cover "Bedroom Talk", in that post i will cover how to make a girl see you as someone she must kiss and have intimate relationship with (don't read that next moth if you are not above 19, please). Meanwhile you can read my other articles here on nairaland by going to my profile or to my website (See my profile for the web address)

stay tuned...

Mprex:

lols. It didnt work for me

It's a lie jare, u are only saying that because i said i would bite ya lips if u say it. go joor, i won't give u what u are looking for

Mprex:
Lol. Impressive i must say. Well done Op

Thank you dear; *smiles* Now get out of you - you are too sexxy for ma liking *big grin* If you tell me that line didn't work on you i will have 2 bite off ya lips for you.

tintingz:
Note: Most girls that reply with "kk" or "Lol" are unintelligent and boring.

Give a girl attention, money and display some materialistic stuff, she's all yours.

*smiles*

My brother; yes - money can attract girls but still, a boring guy is still a boring guy. the money can't take that away, even with the money we all still need to learn some social skills or the girl will dump you for another rich guy with a better personality. If a girl like you for your money she will leave you when a richer guy shows up, so it is always better to make her attracted to you as a person rather than to get her attracted to your pocket.

secondly, Sure, giving a girl attention is nice but when you do it too much it will make her loose interest in you (ask any girl). You have to make her miss you sometimes (i explained all that in my e-book)

kaycexx:
I was here.


Following.

*smiles*

welcome, bro

kilokeys:
Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

Lol. *smiles*

I got over a hundred email this week from guys who want to know "how to talk to a girl"...

...and today i am going to address that question..

These 3 ways of talking to girls that i am about to pour on your laps always work like magic, every single time. with just these three ways of talking to girls you can get them to become addicted to you, always come around you and basically love to be around you like crazy. Turn it up just a bit, use it on your dream girl and you will have her sending you love texts like her life depends on it

Go through these strategies then ask any girl around you weather they work and my guess is that they would give you a resounding yes.

Before i go into the strategies let me quickly tell you why these strategies work.

stay with me

Here is the thing;

- One; girls always get guys coming around them - every single time. walk through a girl's Facebook inbox and you will be marveled at the tons of unread messages in it. In real life, same thing happens - they get approached by guys all the time. an average girl gets approached by at least two guys every week or two guys everyday if she is pretty (that's 4 guys every week)

This attention gets to a girl's head, she starts feeling like a prize and when that happens shakara steps in.

- Two; Girls are bombarded by loads and loads of boring guys everyday. it can be tiring, trust me - what they do is to filter away the boring guys and focus on the more interesting ones.

If girls don't like talking to you long in real life and in social media then it means you are not communicating with them in these three ways i am about to reveal. If girls always give you "k" and "lol" on social media, it is not because they are rude - it is because you are plain boring (that is the painful truth). but here is the good news, you can change how you communicate with girls and become a more attractive guy by using this 3 strategies

here they are -

1. Teasing
2. Sarcasm
3. Bedroom talk

#1. Teasing:

Some guys can be a big nightmare to girls. what girls hate like crazy is a guy who keeps asking tons and tons of question when they discuss with them. questions like: "how was your day", "have you eaten", "hope your day was good", "hope you are fine"

all in one chat/conversation.

This is boring, it bores the hell out of girls.

You have to be more interesting than that if you want that girl to find you interesting. You have to flirt with her using the teasing strategy.

how does this work?

simple - teasing basically means to make fun of a girl in a playful way.

let me give you practical examples - Instead of coming to a girls Facebook Picture and commenting with "Beautiful Picture" (which is boring - every guy does it), You could flip this around and comment instead with - "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."

To a guy, a talk like this is silly (i know) but to a girl it works like magic. (Try it right now, go on Facebook and try it out under a girl's picture and watch her reaction).

More examples - You could call up a girl and instead of asking her "did you think of me?" (which is as boring as hell and makes her feel like you are begging to be thought of), the best way to start the conversation is to playfully say - "I know you've been thinking about me all day so i am here to free your mind" *smile* "how are you". The reason why this works on girls is that it:

- makes you different from other guys who are boring
- Makes you appear confident.
- Makes you more attractive because by making fun of her you give her the impression that you are not trying to impress her like other guys do (and nothing is as attractive to girls as a guy who doesn't try to impress them like a puppy)

Now note; it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it. someone can say the above things and it will seem like he is arrogant while another person would say the exact same thing and it would work like a magnetic magic on a girl. so the right way to tease a girl is to always make fun of her with a smile. it doesn't mean saying nasty things to her; the right way to tease is to always make it seem like you are playing around with your little sister.

for more on how to tease a girl and the right ways to go about it so as to make her see you as a potential boyfriend in minutes, that is where my e-book comes in (see my profile for a picture of it), in it i went into very deep details on how to tease your way into a girl's heart - no matter how tough or hard to get she is (to get the e-book you can add the number above on watsapp and send your messages to it or call the number on my profile).

PS: will continue with the other two strategies in my next posts on this thread. stay tuned. meanwhile you can visit my website (see my profile)

Stay tuned.

Nori:
In as much as we ladies would deny all he has said, he is actually right.
Acting weak by constantly calling, pleading to spend time with a lady, and just acting desperate generally would turn ladies off and even if they date u they won't respect you. This sends the message in our brains that you don't have options and once a girl feels that way you are finished! Lol

*smiles* Sharp Girl.

Help me tell the blockheads

stay tuned for more articles...