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 Romance / Re: How To Develop The Confidence To Woo Very Pretty Girls by CharlesNneji1: 1:11pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
PRISTINEMUSCLES: Thanks, bro... And I agree with you, pretty girls easily fall for the tricks I teach than the normal average ones |
| Romance / Re: How To Develop The Confidence To Woo Very Pretty Girls by CharlesNneji1: 12:54pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: How To Develop The Confidence To Woo Very Pretty Girls by CharlesNneji1: 12:52pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
Holla911: Ok. If you say so. |
| Romance / Re: How To Develop The Confidence To Woo Very Pretty Girls by CharlesNneji1: 12:51pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
falconey: Hahahahahahahha. Funny. Sha, there is one way to make a pretty girl loyal, I explained that in my book. Visit my website for details 1 Like |
| Romance / How To Develop The Confidence To Woo Very Pretty Girls by CharlesNneji1: 12:44pm On Mar 28, 2015 |
*Warning* this article might seem too long for lazy readers. If reading easily bore you, don't bother reading this. But for those who reading doesn't bore; I included headlines throughout the article to make it easy to scan through ***************************** WHY YOU DON'T WOO THE PRETTY GIRLS YOU LIKE: Lol... There are some type of girls that just make a guy loose hope. These types of girls are so beautiful that their beauty makes them intimidating. They are classy, they dress well, guys are always chasing after them... When it comes to this type of girls a lot of guys just chicken out and convince themselves not to make moves on such girls (even though they dream of dating her type). Such guys say things like: "Oboy, na only rich guys this babe go dey roll with. Make I bone am" Or... "This kind girl no go like me, she too fine abeg" No matter the reason you give for not approaching very pretty girls you like, all those reasons are wash. Let's face the truth and shame the devil *big smile*... The real reason why you don't walk up to her is not because you are not rich enough. - it's not because you are not a "big boy". IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE SCARED (never lie to yourself). And it's because of INFERIORITY COMPLEX If you can pause and admit the truth to yourself you will agree with me that - You lack the confidence, that is the real reason why you did not make your move. When a man lacks confidence to do something he starts to make up excuses. And the fact is this: Statistics have it that 92% of guys end up marrying girls they don't like just because they lack the CONFIDENCE to woo the pretty ones they like. That is; dream about marrying a beautiful woman all you want - if your confidence level is low, you will only end up with an easy catch that you don't like. But here is the good news, it doesn't matter how scared you are of wooing pretty girls now - every man can improve in that area of his life. And I mean, every man - no matter how shy. HOW TO BECOME MORE CONFIDENT TO WOO PRETTY GIRLS 2 things can increase a man's confidence when it comes to wooing very pretty girls (not just any girl - extremely pretty one). One; it's either you get drunk and then make your move. Or Two; you learn how to become more confident with those type of girls. I will not advice you to take option one (the next morning you will wake up, with a clear eye and you will still be the same guy you were before you drank"  so, that leaves us with option 2, which is, Learn how to be more confident with girls. So how can you achieve this...? I wish I could tell you that all you need to do is to buy a tablet and drink or to buy my eBook and read and you will become more confident, but it's not that easy... No matter the wash you might hear from someone else, If you want to become more confident you have to learn it...Yourself. That's the only way. How do you learn it? By going out, stopping pretty girls you like and talking to them. Lol, don't freak out now. I know it sounds difficult but I have written an article right here on nairaland that would make it easy for you to approach pretty girls easily: click this link to read it: www.nairaland.com/2163678/how-stop-girl-like-talk . People are not born with confidence, same way you were not born with the ability to walk. You have to learn it. You don't have to make mistakes while at it, in that link I listed out tips that work in disarming pretty girls if you use them in approaching those type of girls. As you practice what's on that link, you would feel fake at first but with time it gets easier, becomes part of your personality and before you know it - you become extremely confident. It will take time but it will finally happen. Now, click that link above. If you want to receive direct advice from me, feel free to visit my website (see my signature for my website address) click on the first article there, scroll down to the bottom and you will see a box, add your email and click "enter" : |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 8:18pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Fizboy: Ok. enjoy 4 Likes |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 7:45pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
SOLUTIONS TO MISTAKE GUYS MAKE........Continuation. What To Do If A Girl Doesn't Pick Your Calls: Don't ask her about it when she finally picks....that would make her see you as a nuisance, it would make her look down on you and it would make her treat you like trash. Even if you must say something about it, Just tease her, you could say something like: "Okay na, you are afraid of sexy voices abi, tried your line and you went and hid your phone". *say this with a smile* My point iis "don't whine", don't act like she feeds you with weather she picks your call or not. You are a special person, bro - don't be a girl's plaything. How Often Should You Call A girl: Calling a girl too often is a bad idea, especially when she doesn't call you half as much as you call her. And when you two are not yet dating - When you keep bugging her with calls you give an impression that 1. You are desperate for her attention. 2. You don't have a life. Some guys call a girl they are asking out 3 times in a day. Funny thing is that they believe they are being romantic. Nah, that is not being romantic, you are bugging the poor girl to death, bro. Not just that, you are also killing your chances with her. The rule to follow is; Ask yourself - "If a girl does this same thing to me, how will i feel?" If a girl who you just met starts calling you everyday, how you go feel? will you take her seriously? Girls are human beings too, call her like you feed on her voice and she would treat you the way people treat people who call all the time. You need to allow her miss you. There is no specific number of times to call a girl, but when you ask yourself the above question your instincts will give you an answer - weather to call or not to call. - Don't ask a girl "do you love me" (It is what weak men do). - Don't tell her that you love her when you two have not even yet known yourself well. Haba na, it is like telling a girl the summary of a movie before she gets to watch the movie. You have to make her attracted to you first (I explained how to make girls attracted to you in my ebook. see my profile for how to get it) Just because you tell a girl that you love her won't automatically make her like you, it doesn't work that way. a girl doesn't say: "He loves me, let me love him back". Infact, when you tell a girl that you love her at the wrong time - it will kill your chances with her (in my ebook, I went into details on when to reveal to a girl how you feel) To be continued.... 4 Likes |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 6:39pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 6:38pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
akinsadeez: Thanks, bro..well we have to start from the basics to the more advanced stuffs. we shall get there. right here on this thread |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 6:37pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
Minet16: I will cover that in the part 2 of these, bro |
| Romance / Re: "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 6:36pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
StealthIdeals: Lol, well there is a trick i use to get a girl to my house that ALWAYS WORK - I explained it in detail in my ebook (See here http://straffcode.com/bangrule/ for contents) But let me give you a glimpse of it here. I call it the "indirect request trick". directly asking a girl to visit you makes her suspect you have something up your sleeves Instead of directly asking a girl to come to your house, give her a reason to come.and make that reason fun. For instance, what i do is to tell a girl it's been long i ate egusi soup and that i want to cook it, BUT Can't cook it. then i ask her to come over and TEACH me how to cook it. mark the word teach, asking some girls to come and cook for you might put her off. It always works, girls can be really caring when they meet a guy who is "helpless" *winks* (In my ebook i gave out more of these tricks) 1 Like |
| Romance / "Mistakes You Make That Will Cause Girls To Friend-Zone You..." by CharlesNneji1: 6:06pm On Mar 23, 2015 |
( NB: To make this easy to skim through, i have added headlines through out this article. But if you are not a lazy reader, you can go through everything) ********************************************************************************************** I'm sure you have had girls say this to YOU: "Let's just be friends" or... "I don't like you in that way. Lets JUST remain friends" Those words are painful, especially when you like the girl. Here is the thing: Girls see friendship and a romantic relationship as two DIFFERENT things. Stay with me, let me explain to you what i mean. Take for instance, you have this female friend who is "Just a friend", you two do things together, you know her boyfriend and everything. One day you walk into her room and you find her naked, with a seductive smile as she waves for you to join her on the bed - That would send an instant PLEASANT feeling down your spine. Right? Now, let's turn it around: Try the same thing. Get naked, wait for her to come in then smile and wave seductively - and she would definitely scream "Rape" or, if she is the muscular time, she would walk to you and slap you then scream  .What is my point? A guy can feel the need to become intimate with a female friend who is just a friend - WHILE in MOST CASES, a girl would find it hard JUST PICTURING herself kiss a guy she sees as "Just A friend". So how does a woman decide who she would friend-zone and a guy she can date? How does she differentiate between a boyfriend material and a guy who she would keep around as a personal It all depends on HOW YOU MAKE HER FEEL. It depends on the EMOTIONS you make her feel. A girl doesn't decide who she likes. Attraction is involuntary. So when you follow a girl around, begging her for her love, begging to date her - you are wasting your time. It won't work. It's either she feels it for you or she doesn't. Infact let me list out the things most guys do that kills a girls interest in them... [center]ALL HOPE IS NOT LOST[/center] HERE IS THE GOOD NEWS; it is actually POSSIBLE to make a girl like you INVOLUNTARILY. Girls have a "dream guy" they feel they want, no doubt, we all do - tall, six packs, baritone voice - name them. Personally i don't like fair-complexioned girls. But i always end up dating them. Check out Bianca Ojukwu, a former governor's daughter and a beauty queen, she had an option to marry other guys MORE GOOD LOOKING and RICHER than Ojukwu. But she ended up with Ojukwu. Why? Simple - We don't choose who we decide to like. To make a girl like you involuntarily; this are what you need to start doing. #1. STOP CHASING HER LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT. Girls are turned off by guys who need them badly. I know, this goes against everything you've ever been told since you were a teenager. Take it slow, bro. I know she is beautiful, other guys are hitting on her and you feel that the only way to get her attention is to show her how crazy you are about her. BUT IT DOESN'T WORK. Here is what happens when you show a girl that you are crazy about her: First, she feels good from the attention she is getting (Everybody loves attention) then she starts seeing you as a nuisance as time goes on. To get what i really mean, Imagine a girl calling you everyday to tell you how she loves you, sending you love texts everyday even though you don't reply, always asking to see you, always begging you to love her back.... IMAGINE IT. My guess is you won't take her seriously. You will only feel flattered but you won't take her seriously. So why are you making the same mistake with a girl you are interested in? That too happens with girls. She will feel flattered but she won't take you seriously. [center]SO WHAT SHOULD YOU DO INSTEAD[/center][/b] That would lead us to number two... [b]#2. STOP ACTING LIKE A BABY. Most times even full grown men turn into big babies when they pick interest in a girl.... if you do any of these things i am about to list out, you are a big baby. - Giving a girl 14 missed calls in a day, Forget it - she won't date you. - Asking a girl why she didn't pick your call (This has a way of making you look desperate) - Begging a girl to date you (Forget it, even if she dates you it would be out of pity - and she would always look down on you). It won't work. - Begging a girl to come to your house (That is fishy as a hell plus it makes you seem desperate) - etc etc... When you do any of this, you make a girl see you as a nuisance and it kills every chances of her seeing you as a guy she can date. To find out ONE Reason Why Girls You Like Don't Like You Back...plus THREE ways to talk to girls that will make them love you like crazy CLICK HERE Now - http://straffcode.com/straffcode-insiders/ TO BE CONTINUED...more mistakes loading, stay tuned 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Webmasters / Re: The Real Hustle In Web Business Is Offline! - Prepclass Founder by CharlesNneji1: 9:52pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Seun This is a great tip. Thanks for bringing it here |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 11:23pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
JahzaraAde: Lol, no wahala na - I will take back back the kiss and just take the sentence. You can keep the pregnancy, I dash u. *winks* Have a good day, love. Take care |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 11:19pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 6:51pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
JahzaraAde: Yo smart. Now I'm thinking of getting you pregnant so I will have kids that think like you. I need to copy some of what you said here in my next article, shey you no go sue me for piracy abi? "A girl's desire for you is not synonymous to her desire for your money"...(I'm so stealing that line) Come here, You need chop kiss jare. I have been trying to put that same thought into writing for over a week now. Thank you joor. 1 Like |
| Romance / How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by CharlesNneji1: 2:06pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
After reading this thread you will find out: - Why girls usually friend zone you, even when you have been a perfect gentle man and nice to them - Why a girl who formally has an interest in you suddenly starts loosing interest, even after giving you strong "green lights" initially. - Why, after spending on a girl, training her in school - the girl either still does not like you or even go ahead to dump you. - Why the more you tell a girl that you love her, the more you show her how YOU like her the more she seems NOT to like you By the time i'm through with all this you will finally find out a bit of HOW THE MIND OF GIRLS WORK and why all the girls you have ever liked never liked you back. Stay with me... Most of the time most guys have no idea how to make a girl interested in them, I mean - they no dey teach am for school na. so what do they do? They start practicing what they see in movies, what they hear from friends, and what they hear from music videos by: Buying a girl gifts, pursuing her like crazy, always doing things to please her, heaping compliments on her. But still, they find out that all these things doesn't work and they wonder why. Most times the wrongly believe something is wrong with them. Sometimes girls find guys who do all that i have listed above really "nice" - Then wonder to themselves why they still don't feel the butterflies for such guys. "He is really sweet and a good friend - why don't i like him" they ask themselves. Then another guy comes along and without even trying as much as you, makes THAT SAME GIRL to fall crazily in love with him, sometimes guys see this as plain luck. The raw truth is this: Some guys know how to trigger attraction and interest in a girl while some others don't. The reason those girls are turning you down is not because you are ugly, it is because you are not doing something RIGHT. And that brings me to one thing you have to understand... IT IS NOT THE SAME WAY A GUY FALLS IN LOVE THAT A GIRL FALLS IN LOVE. For women attraction and falling in LOVE HAPPENS IN STEPS; it is a process - for them it just doesn't happen. This why when you tell a girl you've just met that you like her she feels you are just saying that just to have sex with her. A woman might flash her "body" at a guy and she will have his interest (even when he is not in love with her, it will still make him chase her), but try flashing your "stuff" at her and watch her scream. It just shows you that we are DIFFERENT. Stay with me, i want you to get something. Making a girl fall in love happens over time and depending on some certain things - that attraction she feels for you might either decrease or increase or even stop totally. Lets dissect these scenarios together one by one: - SCIENCE OF WHY A GIRL WHO LIKES YOU SUDDENLY LOSES INTEREST. Sometimes a girl sees a guy and likes him, even without the guy saying hi, so she starts showing him "green lights" - showing him signs that she is interested in him. Then the guy, as a sharp guy, codes the signal and moves in. THEN HE SPOILS EVERYTHING. By calling her up every time, telling her how much he feels about her too often, trying to please her all the time - practically going crazy for her. Sometimes, while still toasting her, he goes ahead and exposes how much he likes her. AND THE GIRL LOOSES INTEREST then he wonders why, wondering if the green light was a FAKE one. No it wasn't fake. To girls, attraction is like a suspense movie, if you show her EVERYTHING at once it makes her loose interest in watching how the rest of the "story" will go. Becoming too predictable too quick will switch off her interest switch - you have to feed her the info of how you feel bit by bit. Yes, a girl will tell you that she wants her man to tell her how he feels about her like it is a song BUT do it too early and she will loose interest and do it too often and it will start becoming boring. The more unsure she is of how you really feel about her the more she will want to know, and the more she wants to know the more she tries to get you to tell her. This is how you build an attraction tension. And attraction tension is what triggers the chemicals in the brain that makes a girl fall. The questions girls ask me too often is: "How do you feel about me", "Are we now dating", "Do you love me", "Why don't you ever tell me that you love me", "If you don't show me how you feel about me, i will leave" Yet they stay on... Yes, girls will always say that they can't stay with a guy who she is not sure of how he feels. BUT...the truth is this, attraction is not controllable, it is not something a girl wakes up one day and just switch off or on the way she likes. This is why you hear relationship questions where someone is asking weather to leave someone who cheated on him/her (Making you wonder why he/she is even asking that question in the first place). Because a girl can't control it; you can't just convince her into liking you. It's not something you sit down and say: "Ok, when you go fall for me". No you don't do that - You MAKE HER fall (i explained how to make a girl fall lin love in my e-book: The Bang Rule, see my profile for how to get it). I will be covering why girls friend zone guys in my next article on this thread. stay tuned. My page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 8:05am On Mar 08, 2015 |
I don't write these articles to "impress people", i write it to educate "the right people". SO.... if you don't like it, it is okay...enjoy if you feel money can get you love; then enjoy....use money to get love. If you feel that you don't have enough will power and that having someone you like around you will distract you and make you not to get rich, then i agree with you, please whenever you see babe you like close your eyes and pass. BUT BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO conclusions that money can get you love, i said LOVE, not one night stands; first - read the comments of every girl that commented on this article. Two; get closer to rich bachelors Because sometimes; when we swim in fantasies we start believing them Happy sunday ya'all, *smiles* If you like no go church 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 9:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Mubbyleey: Lol, no bro...you are getting it wrong. You are not to IGNORE her. Next you see her, say hi to her, have a nice laugh with her, be friendly. Why would you totally ignore someone you are interested in? how then will you form the much needed rapport with her? i'm sure you haven't read my e-book. If you had you wouldn't have any problem with this. The trick is not to ignore a girl you like, the whole sermon is to be MORE IN CONTROL. To be less Boring, More funny, Give her much more breathing space. Tease her. Project value. 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:51pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:49pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:08pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
SkinnyDude: First, before you get someone to like you, you have to first love yourself. I know, this sounds like a textbook advice but that's just the truth. Regaining a battered confidence takes time and inferiority complex don't disappear overnight. Infact, motivational books will always preach "positive thinking" but the fact still remains that it doesn't work - positive think from today till tomorrow, if you don't act you will never improve. For someone like that, who has a battered self esteem, my advice is not to "toast girls" yet. What he has to do is to start doing "positive actions" What is "positive action" Simple: start doing things, little by little, which would trick your mind into not fearing what you were once afraid of, and while doing this - NEVER JUDGE each action and fight the negative thoughts that come up for such action. Let me make it clearer For example: a guy who is always afraid of talking to girls could just start with saying "Good day" to every girl he comes in contact with. For instance; walk into a restaurant, sit on a table near a girl turn, say "hi, good day" then face your table. Church, want to joing the pew: "hi, good day" It's easier than a full blown toasting. The more this guys does the "hi good day" routine the more he finds out he is becoming less intimidated by saying "hi, good morning to a girl" His mind has been tricked. When this is achieved, he should move over to the question stage and throw in the "hi goodmorning" routine: For instance: "Hi, good morning, what's the time please" "Hi, good morning. What's the name for your hairstyle. I want my sister to get it" "Hi goodmorning, I just leaned on a dirty chair - is my back dusty" Get her reply, say thanks and walk away You get the gist? I know, it sounds silly - but it works. After you are comfortable asking questions you will find out you are more relaxed, your confidence grows because you find out that saying hi to a girl is not as intimidating as it once was - that is when you start working on keeping a conversation. If you jump directly into been a casanova or getting a girlfriend it won't work. And the more things don't work the more you get discouraged. Also, while you do this - throw in the "pretty girl chewing guming" trick I outlined up there. The mind is stubborn...to bend it to your will, you have to trick it. To the stuttering part; it's your mind. When you concentrate a lot on how your voice sounds that's when you stutter Try this: Play a loud song through an earpiece then when you can't hear your voice - record yourself say something long, then play the recording - you will be amazed how reduced your stuttering would be. To stop stuttering, you need to stop been self-conscious about your voice. To stop been self-conscious you don't just need positive words; you need positive actions. Answer questions in a group class, then tell yourself you sounded well - yes, your mind won't believe that but here is the big secret of psychology: When you lie to yourself long enough you will start believing it's true. It will take time, but it always works. Hope this helped. Have a great day. 39 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 9:05am On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:58am On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:57am On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 12:00am On Mar 07, 2015 |
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| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 6:55pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
morethanadoll: But still, most guys just don't get it. I wish they did 2 Likes |
| Romance / Re: "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 6:52pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
#2. FEAR Do you know that most guys shiver and sweat all over just at the mere THOUGHT of walking up to a girl they like - some of these guys even go as far as been single all their adult lives believing that when they get money it would be easier, at the end of the day they end up not been as rich as the thought they would be or end up having their mother look for a wife for them or end up marrying someone they don't like just because na only she gree for them, or end up (should i go on??). I recently read a post by Farano on how "sweet" it is for guys to be shy sometimes. Well, i guess the keyword there is SOMETIMES. If you are the type who ALWAYS get the shivers EVERY SINGLE time you think of walking up to a girl you are interested in then you need to work on that fear ASAP. See eh, most of the time all the terrible things you think will happen when you approach a girl will just not happen - trust me. - She will laugh at me. - She will embarrass me. - She will shout at me if i talk to her.... All these are just your imagination playing tricks on you. Yes, there are really childish saucy girls out there who will go all out to embarrass a guy just for saying hi. But the truth is that most girls are really very nice wonderful tender things, only if you approach them right. The reaction You get from a girl will DEPEND ON HOW YOU APPROACH HER - I mean; why would you walk up to a girl and say something silly like: "Hey, BABY " (You be American Gangster?) - What do you expect when you walk up to a girl YOU ARE JUST MEETING for the first time and start telling her how much you love her (Of course she will embarrass you na). Girls of value don't fall for that trash. - Why on earth will you expect to be respected by a girl when you can't even look her in the eye while you talk (By the way; will soon release a free report on how to eliminate fear of approaching girls; like my page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes to grab the info when it is released) I know, guys who have this problem wish they can just take a pill that will completely eliminate the fear they feel around a girl they like. But bro, here is the plain truth - in as much as you want sharp sharp easy change, the truth is that it will NEVER happen. To eliminate the fear of approaching pretty girls, girls you like or every girl in general, you have to GRADUALLY work on yourself. Over the years i have helped guys eliminate this fear using a method i call "Fine girl Chewing Gum". If you are shy around girls or feel afraid walking up to them, this strategy i am about to show you will help in drastically reducing that fear by 70% Here is how it works: - Look for a pretty girl who doesn't seem like the gossiping type (She must be very pretty). - Walk up to her (feel free to tremble when you meet her), Tell her you want her help. tell her you get scared around girls and you believe hanging around her will help. at this point she will start to freak out, like, which kind mumu boy be this...don't let the eye she will give you get to you. Tell her you are not attracted to her, make she no fear - that all you want is just to be her friend. To hang around her NOTE: DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH HER because IT WON'T WORK, A GIRL WHO KNOWS THAT YOU GET SCARED AROUND GIRLS WOULD NEVER FEEL A THING FOR YOU (unless you jaz her. - After she has agreed to be your friend; start using her to improve - call her up, make conversation with her then ask her to tell you where and where you were boring, hang out with her. as in, become her buddy - she should be like your manest man - do practically everything with her (but don't overdo it, she is seeing you as a nuisance already - if you chewing gum the poor thing all the time it will freak her out). Now here is why this strategy works so well in eliminating women related shyness in guys. The more you get to know her the more you find out that girls are HUMAN - Just like you, she dey mess, she squeezes her face when passing out "stuffs" in the loo, her mouth stinks when she wakes up in the morning. simple basic psychology 101; these realization makes you find her less intimidating and the more you find her less intimidating the more you find other girls less intimidating. She will introduce you to her "fine fine" friends, plus plenty other benefits.... IT ALWAYS WORKS; i have watched over a hundred guys i have worked with use this simple psychology secret to improve. When you keep approaching girls with the intention to date them, they will keep rejecting you when they notice your timidity, and the more they reject you the more your ego is hurt and the more timid you become. You go soon marry, so invest in your social skill around girls or else na your mother go find woman for you *smiles* I reject it for you, bro. 72 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance / "3 Top Secret Reasons Why Guys End Up Not Getting Girls They Like" by CharlesNneji1: 5:41pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
I was driving back from my office this afternoon when the idea for this article hit me. For a moment i thought about parking my car by the side of the road to pull out my laptop and write this but thought against it; stopping to type by the road seemed too "crase-manish" for my liking... But still; THE EXCITEMENT TO WRITE THIS WAS THAT STRONG... Now, stay with me - this is very important. The thing about these reasons i will list out in a moment is that they are not really a secret, i tagged it "secret" because guys hide these problems of theirs and keep it to themselves I spent the whole of last night replying tons of email from guys who are going through hell in the hands of Girls they like; reading those emails was really a painful experience - nothing pains me like seeing a guy been treated like he is nothing by a girl he is crazy about. This is why i do this; to make sure that as many guys as i can reach with my articles would never make the same mistakes that get girls to take them less seriously. *smiles* Of course, not everyone will like these articles - infact, most people won't agree with them. But it's fine - na so life be - everybody must not agree with you and you mustn't say things just to impress people. Now; lets get to business. #1: THE "MONEY WILL GET GIRLS FLOCKING TO ME" MENTALITY: Trust me, i have come to find out that when a guy says: "get money first and girls will come flocking around you", such guys usually say this because they have been frustrated by girls in the past. such guys get so frustrated that, to console themselves, they "wish" for a time when they will have a fat bank account and girls will come rushing into their arms. THIS IS PURE FANTASY - Wake up, bro. Also, most of these guys freak out when they see a girl they like, some of them cannot even hold a conversation with a female for 5 minutes. See, don't get me wrong - having money is cool, pull up with a Bugatti to a party and girls will look at you like "who is that boy". Some would even want you to get them pregnant. But here is the hard plain truth... At a point in time you start wondering if these girls really like you or if they like your money. Money brings you lazy, materialistic, cheating, "no dream" kind of girls who just want to stay at home and make babies and eat. If that is the kind of girl you want, then i agree with you - money will get them flocking to you (For sure) But when it gets to getting a girl who has real value, who has a job, rides her own car (My type of girl) - you have to show her something else; money alone can't get her interested in you - you have to dazzle her with your personality and when your personality is wack - guy, nothing for you. I have very rich friends, when i mean rich, i mean - RICH. I have worked with over a dozen extremely wealthy guys and they all have the same problem, which is: "How Do I find a girl who is not just interested in my money", "how do i find a girl who will love me for who i am" *Go and listen to chorus of Iyanya's Orei - he is presently having that same problem too* I hear alot of guy say things like: "be ugly, have a bad personality, have pot belly, have mouth odor - but once you have money girls will throw themselves at you". This maybe true, gold digging girls will scramble over such a guy (I no go drag am with una). but the question is this... - Do they really like him?? - Will they be faithful to him if a better guy shows up? - Will they stay on if the money dries up? Think about that. If you are the type that tremble when you talk to a girl, getting rich won't solve that fear - you are still the same guy, bro. If you are a boring guy when you are broke, get rich - you are still boring, bro. Moreover, the richer you get the more quality women you will meet. This women will have their own money and won't give a damn about yours. This women meet guys who are way richer than you everyday; the competition go still dey bro. You need something more than money - You need a charming personality. Simple and short. If you Like console yourself from today reach tomorrow, money won't erase your lack of a charming personality (for those who don't have one). Funny thing is that most broke guys go after girls with this mentality - they buy her gifts, pay her school fees, send her recharge card upon recharge card - and still get dumped. Haba na www.facebook.com/attractbabes 77 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance / Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 4:05pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
moneymagnet: Hi, bro. Sorry this is coming late. Asking for her number from her friend is not a nice move, if you have to get her number you have to get it from her. Getting it from her friend will send an "I dey overtrip" signal to the girl you like (and that will make her raise her defence). The only way to get the number is to GET IT FROM HER. Therefore, you need to find a way to get to her before she runs off after church. However, when you make your move be cool about it - don't make her know you have been thinking of approaching her all these while. Read this: www.nairaland.com/2163678/how-stop-girl-like-talk then use it to craft an approach that fits your personality. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance / Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 9:35pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
linkin8k: I am happy to hear this.  |
| Romance / Re: The Secret Why Giving Girls Too Much Attention Never Makes Them Fall In Love by CharlesNneji1: 6:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
InZA: That is my hope too. |
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