Joey82:
SMH @OP
You guys keep writing lists, epistles, dos and don'ts on how to woo a girl.
U know what? I personally find your type boring and may I say jobless?
My advice is put this energy, this stream of thought to making money, earning a good living.
If it were these other small random guys around in here, I'll understand. But u said it urself - u've been teaching for the past 12 years. Na so u go de dey?
There are no rules to getting any likeness from ladies, no head teasers pls.
Just be urself, work hard, make money and take good care of urself, them girls will come flocking around like flies on feces.


I repeat - Just be urself, work hard, make money and take good care of urself

*smiles*

Thanks for the insult. and for the earning money part *big smile* My e-book has sold over 1000 copies this year alone and i sell one for 1500 naira (do the maths). People who have bought the book keeping referring others to buy so i will make more money before the middle of march *smiles*.

and for the make money and girls will flock around you talk - in the past years i have counseled mega rich guys who still have problems getting the type of girls they want. so money doesn't solve the problem, most of 'em keep getting gold diggers. i understand your point sha, guys like you rather dream of when they will make money and get women "like flies" than try to improve themselves now and for clicking to this post it just means you wanted to learn something here but here, you found out you can never be good with girls and it put you off. *smiles* enjoy your dream sha.

Have a great day, enjoy bro. peace

Equalizer:
my relationship of four years is about crashing and am really unhappy about this latest development. I reside in pH while my girl works at Uyo, lately I discovered she no longer picks my calls early in the morning and at night before bed time and this has been going on for weeks now and most times when i keep on calling, she will just busy my call and off her phone. Her excuse is that her phone is always on silent mode.. Am just confused.. Please what do I do? Should I pay her or surprise visit or just let her be?.

Hi, equaliser. My name is Charles Nneji and i'm a relationship coach for men.

i feel your pain and i will really like to help....

Now listen carefully and brace yourself because i will be blunt with you here. The problem is not that she is cheating on you. The problem is that she is starting to loose interest in YOU.

It happens with women, when you do not spice your relationship and bring new things to the table a girl starts loosing interest and the first sign of it is when she starts behaving the way your girlfriend is behaving right now. she is giving you signals telling you that she doesn't want you around anymore.

the more you call her and show her you are worried the more she will keep withdrawing from you.

give her space, my guess is that you now call her almost everyday....stop it, it is chasing her away.

click my profile and read all my articles here, read the first one - it will help you alot. or you can visit my website(it's in my profile)

peace, bro

ARE YOU AFRAID OF WALKING UP TO GIRLS AND STARTING A CONVERSATION



Women love confident guys like crazy. If you still cringe and get scared at the thought of walking up to a girl you like then you need to fix it ASAP or it will ruin your life.

Some years back just thinking about walking up to a girl I like and starting up a conversation would make me shiver with stark naked fear.

…Just the thought.

Whatever fear you think you feel right now whenever you want to woo a girl you like; I used to have that fear times four.

These days I walk up to very pretty girls, easily start a conversation with them and have them happily give me their numbers in less than ten minutes – a guy who couldn’t face a woman and talk to her.

What does that tell you?

Simple – that is possible for you to improve and start having girls of your dreams falling over you. it’s hundred percent possible. If I could improve to this level, I am hundred percent sure that any guy can do it.

How many times have you talked yourself out of walking up to a girl you like? I am sure you have done that time without number. We all have.

You see a girl and you start giving yourself all the reasons why you cant get her.

She is too pretty for me.
She looks like the type who likes just rich guys
She is a big girl, I can’t get this type.
I am not handsome enough
I am not rich enough
She will laugh at me.
She will insult me if I talk to her
I am too scared, my voice will shake if I talk to her

You what I have come to realize – all these reasons are nonsense when it comes to been good with girls

Here is what I have also come to realize from all these years; if you don’t fix the problem of fear when it comes to walking up to women it will never go away. It doesn’t go away even if you get rich; I know very rich guys who girls have turned into just ATMs they can’t fall in love with because of these guys have a confidence thing.

I have this female friend who calls me up to tell me that she just can’t help cheating on her rich boyfriend because he is not a real man who can stand up and face her like a real man does. If you don’t fix this problem right now girls would keep laughing at you to your face and behind you, they will cheat on you – that is even if they agree to date you in the first place.

When you realize how easy it is to walk up to girls and get a favorable reaction from them you will be shocked.

But first thing first; you need to realize that the fear you feel now won’t just go away in a flash. I know you wish there was a tablet you can take and you will become as confident as confidence itself. The bad news is there is no such tablet like that.

Does that make it impossible?

The answer is No

A guy who feels fear when it comes to walking up to a girl and starting a conversation can still change and become more confident. You have to work on your mind

One; You have to realize that all the worst things you think will happen when you walk up to a girl is possibly never going to happen – the insults you imagine she will heap on your head; every single one of that fearful thought is just in your head.

I used to be scared of pretty girls, used to think they are the hardest to get but when I learnt the secrets of the female minds and started interacting with very pretty girls more I discovered they are the nicest people on earth – trust me. You only need to learn how to break their defenses and breaking their defenses is easy, if you know how to do it.

Two; the fear you feel now will vanish automatically as your success with women increases. True enough, I fumbled when I started out with learning how to manipulate girls and make them fall for me – I failed like crazy.

But as I learnt the secrets and slowly started getting girls respond to me in a favorable way I noticed my self confidence increasing. The more girls I got, the more confident I became and the easier getting girls became. If you can get at least one very pretty girl to fall in love with you it can go a long to boost your confidence beyond your imaginations

Three; imagine how you will feel if you know you have all the secrets that can break a woman’s defenses in a minute and make her want to keep talking to you…that would blow your confidence level through the roof. Imagine if you are sure about some certain set of secrets, so sure about them that you are sure you will never get rejected by any girl if you apply them. That would go a long way in at least raising your confidence level a bit, right?

Here is the good news, such secrets of breaking a girl’s defenses actually exists. And I have packaged them in a step by step process and put every single one of them in my e-book “The Bang rule” (see my profile for a picture of the cover and for my website). In the E-book you are going to learn secrets and strategies that will increase your confidence and completely eliminate the fear you feel right now when it comes to approaching girls you like.

Daninya11:
Thumbs-up CharlesNneji, great psychological tips..
Wow, you are now a walking women's magnet..
I want to be a walking human bible.. Lolxxx..
Sir, I added you on WhatsApp but till date I have never seen you on line neither have you replied my messages..
Daninyastephen@gmail.com is my email.. Please inbox me..
More ink to your pen..
Shalom..

hey brother, sorry about that - i'm not active on watsapp anymore - i couldn't handle the messages i got daily and so i quit. please call the number on my profile for any enquirers. hope your day is going fine?

Hoshea:
ofcoz he is focusing in getting rich by advertising and teaching.
what are you trying to sell with your full belly.

Thanks man. lol, no mind am, he knows my account balance. *big smile*

MrWizzy:
I dey feel you.

What's the price?

Thanks bro, The price and other details will be sent to you after you speak with my PA. hope you are having a great day.

justmag:
Shout out to all the guys who came here with their note pads and pen to learn but found out the post was to long and left!

lol, you don't have to read everything na - just pick the ones you find interesting and then leave the rest

Allureoftheseas:
total rubbish,

to you, but i'm sure this will touch and improve alot of people - i do this for those ones, it's not for everybody. have a great day.

HOW FEMI, MY FRIEND, NATURALLY MAKES GIRLS TO LIKE HIM


In this post I am going to be telling you about my friend Femi.

Why should you be interested in knowing about Femi?

Well, there are two reasons why you should…

One; when it came to getting girls he is not like me who learnt the secrets – he was born with it. As in; back then in my university days we used to call him the gift to womenhood. No, he wasn’t that goodlooking – just an average guy. But his power over girls was lengedary.

Two; back then I used to watch Femi in action and felt really really terrible because what he could do to a girl in real life I couldn’t even do in a dream. At a point I told myself to stop feeling bad and instead start observing him to at least learn how he achieved his “magic”. So if there is ever a need to use a specimen to learn this stuff, Femi is the right choice of a specimen.

In this post I will show you how he thinks and how he acts. If you can be able to internalise these secrets and make it part of your present character and personality you will be amazed at the wonders you will do; trust me.

Ready?

Lets go…

MINDSET #1: NO WOMAN IS TOO IMPORTANT FOR YOU

If you stay one day with Femi you will be shocked to pieces. I have seen him ignore a very pretty girl he was dating then and treated her like he was nothing; right before my eye. Back then it had shocked me senseless. Here I was, praying to get an average girl and she was treating this goddess that came around him like she was a leper – the next day I still saw the both of them laughing like nothing had happened the previous day.

This doesn’t mean you should treat girls badly; nah – that is not what I am saying. The message there is you have to be in control. It doesn’t matter how she looks – you are the boss, never forget that. When you hand over your power to a girl she will ride you.

MINDSET #2: IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT SHE THINKS OF YOU.

Although girls rarely turned Femi down back then, the ones that did never made him feel bad. He would walk up to any girl and wouldn’t give a damn about what she thought of him. He understands that every girl can’t like him and he just acts the same way he acted around his male friends with the girl he is trying to woo.

And guess what? It made girls like him more. Back then I just didn’t know how this was possible, I used to have this idea that I should act differently around girls and just try and be nice but with Femi I learnt that you a guy should never live his life trying to impress women – it doesn’t even work, if you want to get them to fall in love with you, trying to impress them or trying hard to make them like you will never work. If does every guy on earth would have girls running after them by now.

MINDSET #3: TELL HER WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND WITHOUT FEAR
If a girl messed up with Femi she is definetly going to get tongue-lashed, big time. If he doesn’t like her hair, he tells her – straight up. He doesn’t care if she is a beauty queen or a classy rich type – what mattered to him was been honest; no matter the implication.

When I started getting good with women I found out that the reason why this worked so well for Femi was due to the fact that girls don’t usually get this sort of treatment from guys; guys always are so interested in pouring compliments upon compliments on girls so when a guy who doesn’t try to give her the “you are a queen” treatment comes along she starts wondering why and this makes her want to impress this guy?

Back then, in the university, i saw really pretty girls from very rich homeS struggling real hard to impress Femi whose father was just a civil servant – While I watched and wished it was me.

MINDSET #4: WHEN OUT WITH A WOMAN HE FOCUSES ON ENJOYING HIMSELF:

Most times when guys go on a date with a girl, they focus so much on wondering if the girl is having a nice time with them. They wonder if she likes the place, if she liikes how he talks, if she likes what he is saying – but not Femi. Femi would just go on, focus on himself and enjoy the hell out of himself. However, he had a way of doing all this in such a way that he doesn’t appear as been arrogant, rude or self – centered.
Grab my book, digest every single thing on it and you would be able to make these mindsets a part of your personality real fast (See my profile for the number to call to get the e-book).

Of course, the above listed mindsets are just a very few of how Femi, Me and most other guys who get women chasing after them thinks, in my book, The Bang rule (see my profile for a picture of the e-book cover), I will take you by your arm and show you other mindsets that you can add to your personality right now so as to do “magic” on a woman’s mind and make her pick interest in you fast. Only very few people will be allowed to buy the book, the earlier you call the more likely your chance to get the book will be

IF YOU DON’T TALK TO GIRLS GIRLS IN “THIS WAY”, THEY WILL NEVER LIKE YOU

Now grab your phone, if possible get it close to your eyes if it’s going to help make what I am about to show you right here and now to sink in.

This one secret of talking to girls that I am about to show you will make girls laughing and practically throwing themeslves at you. As in, it will make girls love to be around you till it starts looking like you use jaz or something.

i‘m sure this startegy works because I use it too to do magic to girl’s head – like, I have been using it for over 8 years and it NEVER fails, also, thousands who have layed hands on my book have also strongly given feedbacks that this strategy works. The prettier a girl is and the more classy she is the more likely it is that these secrets will work on her.

With that out of the way – let’s break this down.

This strategy I have been (how I go take put am sef), this strategy I have been hyping here actually has a name – I call it THE JONSE-HUMOUR-SHOCK method

If you want to turn a girl from just a friend to a girl who would practically beg to kiss what you need is to learn how to communicate with them in this way.

JONSE-HUMOR-SHOCK

I learnt this strategy from a friend back in the university and it works like magic, it's almost scary sometimes.

Here is the principle behind this strategy: Girls are accustomed to guys who try to impress them but when a guy comes up and doesn't try to impress her but instead, jonses her in a funny way she sits up and take notice.

Now think back to that ladies' man you know, that guy that has girls flocking around him. Have you ever gone close to hear how he talks to those girls?

How he doesn't try to be a gentleman around them. How he is blunt with them. How he is always jonsing them.
Now, don't get this concept wrong - don't be harsh to women and say bad things to them, that's not what I'm saying.

Instead of saying; "Your hair looks awful".

Say; "Hey, is that the size of your head or is that wig three times bigger than my own head".

Then smile.

The strategy is not to insult her, but to jonse her in such a way that she realizes you don't seem to be under her spell like other guys are.
I have had a very pretty girl ask me out after I kept on telling her that she is too fair for my liking because she reminds me of my granny who I didn't like.

I always made her see I was joking, I wasn't all mean and straight faced but because I said it showed her I wasn't freaked of her looks like other guys.

She would hit me and be like; "you are comparing me to your grandmother. Is she even fine as I am"

Then I will be like; "Before? She, you and smiggle in lords of the ring look alike"

Then I will smile.

One day I told her I can't date her because, even though she was fine, I wasn't attracted to her.

The next day she kissed me.

The more pretty a girl looks the more Jonse-humor-shock will work on her. These types of girls have been so worshiped by guys, so when a guy who doesn't worship them comes along they struggle to impress those guys. That's why you will call this girls fifty times and they won't even call you for once. Instead, they will call one guy who doesn't even look that fine.

Have you noticed how silly in love pretty girl act when they like a guy. And still, that guy don't take them seriously.

If showering praises and compliments on girls makes them fall in love then everybody will have girls chasing after them.
One thing about using this strategy is that it can also make a girl sexually interested in you, as in, using this strategy in a certain way can make a girl want to have sex with you real bad.

I covered exactly how to use the jonse-humour-shock method to make any girl see you as someone she wants to sleep with in my E-book; the bang rule (See my profile for number to call to get the E-book).

not everybody who calls will be allowed to get the book, so if my PA refuses to send you details on how to buy the book, please don't feel offended. pirates have really done "strong things" to us and this has made us careful of who we sell the e-book to

BONUS: Just for buying the book, I will PERSONALLY call you up with my personal number, listen to your problems in relation with girls and give you a 4000 naira worth of practical advice on how to tackle it – TOTALLY FREE

TO get the book, call my PA with the number on profile before 4 pm today. If you pass the voice test details on how to get the book will be sent to you.

My fingers don dey pain me, to be continued abeg...always check up on this thread for more.

GIVE ME A CHANCE TO AS YOU 9 QUESTIONS AND I WILL SHOW YOU WHY GIRLS YOU REALLY LIKE NEVER AGREE TO DATE YOU.

Now stay with me; these 9 questions I’m about to throw at you will really really open your eyes

if you answer yes to just six out of these questions that I am about to ask you; just six – then you really need to change ASAP or you will have every girl you meet treating you like trash all the days of your life (No be bad prayer I dey pray for you – na the fact).
Don’t lie to yourself, answer these questions truthfully. And note; I’m going to be really brutal with these questions – don’t take any of it as an insult; I just want you to get this (You be my man na).

Ready?

lets start.

- Do you tell a girl that you love her even when you are not sure how she feels about you? (Na big jonsing be that)

- Do you call a girl you are interested in more than three times after she doesn’t pick the first call. as in, you nack her like 3 missed call in 5 minutes (another mega jonsing).

- Are you the type who always tries to impress a girl you like (Why na, You be clown?)

- Do you buy things for a girl you are still toasting?( like, you be her father?)

- Do you feel scared when the thought of toasting a girl you like comes to your head? (You be woman?)

- Do you always ask girls question upon questions during chats and conversation (Can’t you see you are boring that girl? girls hate interview questions jare)

- Are you the type who girls rarely chat with on social media. do girls always ignore your messages? (what it means is that you are boring)

- Do girls never agree to sleep with you? (I pity you)

- Do girls always turn down your request for a date? (You need to upgrade your game, guy)
If you answered yes to 6 out of these nine question what it means is that you don’t know how to make a girl fall in love (No be go come, na the fact)

If you still do any of what I just asked, what you need to do is to chill, pause and then come here make I knock your head. You dey fall my hand big time.

Now here is the koko; the main fact is this – when you show a girl say you dey trip for her, when you show her how much you like her – you kill her interest in you like shaparly; straight.

When you always try to impress a girl; bam – she starts seeing you as a fan. And when that happens, forget am – e don be, she won’t ever take you seriously again.

The sure fire, mega working, baddest baddo way of making girls fall in love is to always keep them guessing and to never allow them know for sure how you feel about them. From the very first day you walk up to her and say “Babe, whats up”

As in, it works like magic. Like, it never fails. In my over 8 years of teaching guys this I have seen thousands of guys apply this simple secret to make a girl who treated them like trash to fall madly in love with them.
But the thing is this; there is a way to go about making a girl never too sure about how you feel about her and I covered it all in my E-book; “The BANG RULE” (see my profile for the number to call to get the E-book). That is, if you want to learn the step by step, sure fire way of making a girl crazy just thinking about how you really feel about her, then you need to lay hands on my e-book ASAP.

Hunderds of guys have already called to have the e-book sent to them but just very few are allowed to get the book because people just get the book to pirate it. Believe it or not, I have asked my PA not to sell the book to anyone who has a very suspicious voice (No vex if you are turned down, na pirates cause am).

BONUS: Just for buying the book, I will PERSONALLY call you up, listen to your problems in relation with girls and give you a 4000 naira worth of practical advice on how to tackle it – TOTALLY FREE.

TO get the e-book, call my PA. If you pass the voice test then details for how to get the e-book will be sent to you.

Peace.

My name is Charles Nneji, my guess is you’ve already heard about me.

But if you haven’t, it’s alright (though I wonder why you haven’t) – very quickly; let me introduce myself. I’m the famous author of the hot selling Nigeria e-book – “THE BANG RULE….ultimate guild of seduction for Nigerian guys”. The Number one Nigerian E-book that has been bought by over 1000 Nigerian guys alone (See my profile for a picture of the e-book cover)

But that is not what I’m known for. Thing is – I’m a player (Lol, i know this will make all the nairaland attackers come for my throat)

As in – I change girls whenever I want to, I date the prettiest girls you can ever imgaine – and I have a rule; If she is not rich and pretty I don’t even say hi; I’m that selective. I get girls I just met to fall in love with me within minutes.

But I will tell you the basic raw truth. Here is the truth, I wasn’t born this way. As in, twelve years ago I used to shiver whenever a girl comes around me and wouldn’t even be able to look her in the face – yes o, it was that bad. Twelve years ago the very mere thought of asking a girl out would make me want to die.
12 years down the line and I’m now a walking lady’s magnet.

So what changed about me?

Did I get richer – if I hear, I still work as a teacher like I used to 12 years ago. I didn’t get richer.

Did I get more handsome? Story for the gods – I’m still average looking.

So what changed.

Simple – I learnt the secrets of seduction. After days of heart break and tears and been played I finally learnt how girls minds work and I now use those secrets to get them attracted to me. You too can be able to be like me (If not better) only if you learn those same secrets.

You know what; I’m giving back – I will be showing you these same secrets that turned me from a shy guy girls look down on to a confident guy girls scramble over. And I will be doing all these right here on this on this nairaland thread.

What I went through at the hands of girls was horrible and after i finally cracked the code of how to effortlessly make girls fall for me, I swore that I would never allow any other guy to go through the same thing.

So to learn all these secrets so you can apply them in your own life and get the same results I get with girls, all you have to do is simple –

1. stick to this thread.
1. you may Like my page by clicking www.facebook.com/attractbabes

2. Read all the articles I have posted here (It will change your life, trust me) plus the ones on my page

3. And finally; keep checking back to read more articles I will keep posting as time goes on.
Now; like this page to access the power secrets of getting babes flocking around you.

Now, let the ride begin *winks*

You can also like my recently launched facebook page by clicking www.facebook.com/attractbabes

Elslim:
I will love to get ma Ex back doctor... Buh she's married. is their hope??

Lol, you are a bad person sha.

Yes, you can get a married ex back but that is only if the relationship she is in now is going badly. A woman gets committed to a particular man after sleeping with him or Two; getting married to him. when either of these happens getting her back, assuming she is an ex, becomes almost impossible.

that is to say, if a woman sleeps with you and you don't have bedroom deficiencies it reduces the chances of her cheating on you with her ex. If she gets married to you - same thing.

BUT

If you have some bedroom deficiency or you do things that kills her attraction for you then an ex can come possibly come in.

My advise is; leave her alone - i don't advise breaking up marriages.

Hi, bro (Assuming you be guy sha - all these amibo nairaland girls will just come rushing in here) Welcome to NLC (Nairaland Love Clinic). My name is Charles Nneji, Bestselling author of, "THE BANG RULE....ultimate guide of seduction for Nigerian guys" (see my profile for a picture of the e-book). For the past 8 years i have helped guys find love by teaching them powerful mind tricks that make girls fall in love, I have also helped hundreds of guys become more confident around girls and i have practically turned guys who girls use to reject into ladies' magnet, plus my book have been bought by over 700 guys round Nigeria.

*Big smile* I can brag sha, no worry

*Adjusts my glasses and puts on my labcoat*

- Is there that special girl treating you like trash, ignoring your Facebook messages, your calls, your watsapp messages. No worry, your troubles are over - i will show you how to turn her into a lover.
- you Want to get your ex back
- you are shy around girls and would want to totally eliminate that shyness
- you are afraid of walking up to girls and collecting their numbers and would want to learn how to remove that fear from your system completely
- The girls you ask out keep turning you down
- or do you just want to become a player who gets girls at will

What ever your women problem is, i am here to help you. I get paid big money for this but i will give you all my time today for free (i'm in the Valantine spirit). All you have to do is tell me your problem and i will give you practical and effective solutions for them, if the solutions i offer you here don't help - then i will give you my car keys, relax joor, just kidding, of course the solutions will work - i'm Nigeria's number one highest paid love doctor (Yes o, i blow my own trumpets).

Now, this is how the clinic works. First thing first.

1. Read these my trending Nairaland articles then come back and drop your question.

SECRETS THAT CAN GET YOU A GIRLFRIEND IN 7 DAYS https://www.nairaland.com/1978211/secrets-get-pretty-girlfriend-7

SECRETS PLAYERS USE THAT MOST GUYS DON'T: EXPOSED https://www.nairaland.com/2015126/secrets-players-use-most-guys

3 STEPS OF MAKING A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITHOUT SPENDING https://www.nairaland.com/2055360/3-steps-making-girl-fall


If i don't answer your question at once, no vex. i could be in a meeting or sleeping *winks* but one thing is for sure: Your question will be addressed as soon as i see them.

Peace, bro

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nebukadnezzari:

Charles nnejis ish works my problem is just that he stole extracts from neil strauss and wrote his own book. Since i was introduced into the pick up society ive slept with girls n im tired of it.

thanks bro. for the good word you put in

but lol, Nah, didn't take anything from Neil's work (I hate plagiarism). as a matter of fact, every thing Neil teaches is not his original idea (You can check it out). it's just basic secrets that works, it's just like saying that anyone who writes about force stole from Newton. nobody owns natural principles.

Happy val's day, though

Check back on or before noon today for a continuation of the article, meanwhile you can read my other posts here by clicking on my name then scroll down to anyone of your choice.

or click this link for a start https://www.nairaland.com/2055360/3-steps-making-girl-fall

princeogbeide1:
am not a fool. please I can't read this lengthy gagonz

No wahala, bro *smiles* the post is just for intelligent people who read, not for blockheads who don't. Enjoy

[quote author=Psalmwise post=30704300]hmmm great idea.. 9ce one bro

Thanks, bro

Redoil:
The gurl that will fall will surely fall for you

My brother, what if you don't like that particular girl who falls for you.

the more beautiful a girl is the more she gets toasted by better guys and the more competition you will have with other guys, you need a weapon. see this strategies as a "cheat"

it is better to use secrets that work than to make mistakes.

Never rely on luck when it comes to a girl you like...if you do you might do the wrong thing and loose her.

have a great day, bro

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lordfalcao:
how much is your book?

i can't advertise here, pls call the number. (btw, sorry for the late reply)

brightballer:
CharlesNneji taught me WRONG!

*smiles*
No, you used it wrong. I taught you to tease not to insult a woman. Nobody likes to be insulted, bro

benuejosh:
hmmm.. works on some girls not all

If it doesn't work on any girl then you didn't apply it well. No girl is too hard for a player who knows what he is doing...mark my words; NO GIRL.

Stop fighting the idea, go out and try it out first. Read my other articles too. They will help.

Peace

chimexcomm:
CharlesNneji1 The great author. I see you. You are the bomb

Lol, I see you back *winks*

I don't like blowing my own trumpet, so follow this link to see what someone who has used my seduction technique has to say; just scroll down the comment till you get to the testimony

www.nairaland.com/1978211/secrets-get-pretty-girlfriend-7/2

Please, I do not advocate insulting a girl. The right way is to tease her playfully to show her she doesn't intimidate you and that you won't try to impress her.

Also, for everyone trying to reach me by email, the email is not delivering, you can send a watsapp msg to the number on my profile.

Guys who can't talk to women or woo them always have this wishful thinking that money will make girls like them.

So they say to themselves; "I won't work on my seduction skills. When I get money girls will like me"

This is because they are lazy, they just don't want to put in work to be a better MAN.

But here is the bitter truth; If you can't get girls to like you when you are broke then when you get rich they will still not like you - they would only like your money (that's if you get rich sef)

A girl who only comes to you because of what you buy for her will leave you when your money dries up.

Every guy needs a weapon stronger than money - you need to learn how the minds of girls work and use it against them.

But still; if you still want to BUY love...enjoy, Mr Father Christmas le mugu.

youngice:
I won't deceive my self I'm a nice guy to the core
I'm the kind of guy that holds the door open for a lady
I call her by 6:45 to be the first to start her day. I don't shout at her , I'm a nice guy but I'm not a pushover
I don't take shiit (what I considered shit might vary from what others considered shit)
But I have perennial bad luck with women ,looks can be deceiving , I have the looks a player and also my startup lines and catch phrases are straight out of the players manual,I tried to be a player but it never worked out for me
Maybe it because I'm the only guy among 3 girls and mom ensured and still ensures that I treat all women like queens ,im yet to meet a lady that hasn't given me her her number and I'm very picky but I've only had 2 successes in all my dating attempts, admittedly I'm quite young (very early 20's) , but in all the ladies I've woed I've observed a pattern it goes like this

week 1 everything perfect, she calls I call , lovey dovey shi, love is in the air

week 2 I really have no idea what always happens

subsequently she hates me,absolutely detest me, she doesn't reply pings, see's me and ignores me I'm beginning to wonder if I have a problem because the pattern is getting very annoying
PS
I'm in an 'all guys uni (FUTO) and I'm in my early 20's with a young fac
please relationship experts advise needed
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lefulefu:

u no spend on a girl and u want make she fall 4 u?
how e go take happen ?

No disrespect, but these kind of guy is exactly the type that girls call mugu.

Never fall under his category...learn never to buy love. Only people who have nothing else to offer buy love...people who are not attractive

I am about to show you the same step by step secrets players use to get girls swarming to them like magnet. This is the same secret that gigolo guys use to land themselves rich sugar mummies and girlfriends

Apply these same step by step process and you would get a girl interested in you without taking her out on a single date.

Yes, money can attract a girl (no doubt about that). Especially the gold-digging type of girls. But sometimes using money to attract girls can be annoying, we guys want a girl that would like us for who we are and not because of how fat our wallet is or how much we have spent on her. Sometimes all we want is true love and not a girl who is interested in our money.

If you don't want a gold digger who is just interested in money then this step by step seduction secrets will be really helpful.

#1. MAKE YOUR APPROACH WITH CONCEALED INTENTIONS.

I really want you to get this. Let's assume you meet a girl In a bank, what case will she be more friendly?

CASE 1: when you walk up to her to collect a pen?
CASE 2: when you walk up to her to toast her?

Of course, case one is the answer. A girl you try to toast would naturally try to be hard to get.

When a girl is sure you like her she tends to raise her defence. What players do is to approach a girl without showing signs that they are interested in her and by the time she knows it - bam, she has already fallen. This is simple psychology. They approach her this way so they can get into her head before she starts forming.

So how do you apply this seduction principle in real life?

To understand this try to think about this scenario; have you ever had this happen to you before: A particular girl gives you green light and shows signs she likes you then when you toast her and tell her how much you love her she suddenly starts withdrawing from you.

Ever wondered why this happens?

Answer - because you went against the step one of the players rule-
Players never make the mistake of allowing a girl become too sure of how much he feels about her.

Here is the rule: Never tell a girl how much you love her, make her guess. The best time to tell her is when you are sure she feels twice the way you feel.

Girls would tell you they can never date a guy they are not sure if they love them, but the truth is this - girls don't know what they want. You have to make them fall in love with you.

#2: JONSE HER WHEN YOU COMMUNICATE

Let me give you a picture of a girl's life.

Visit the facebook picture of a girl and you will understand how they think. Their pictures are filled with praises from guys and they receive those praises like it's their right.

No sweet thing you say to her is new to her. Her inbox is filled with all sort of praises. The average ones get at least 5 serious guys toasting them in two weeks.

To get her attention you have to be different.

How?

By Jonsing her.

Shocked?

Well, if you were a player you wouldn't be shocked. This what players do all the time.

Try and watch the way any player you know talks to girls. Notice how they talk to a girl and make fun of her in a playful way - no matter how pretty the girl looks - they don't care, they just talk to her like she is their small sister.

It's simple psychology.

People are naturally attracted to people who don't try to impress them. The more pretty a girl looks the more it works on her.

When other guys are saying sweet things to her and you show up and say things totally different from what she is used to hearing from guys - she starts wondering why and she starts trying to be close to you.

My favourite approach is to playfully tell a very pretty girl that I have friendzoned her and that I don't find her attractive. I say this in a particular way that tricks her into wanting to make me fall for her. (In my book, I explained more on how to use this trick to make pretty girls chase you - see my profile for how to get it).

#3: CONFUSE HER WITH ON AND OFF

Have you ever wondered why girls like guys who don't like them while when you shower her with attention she still ignores you.

Infact, the more you show a girl that you love her the more she withdraws from you.

Have you ever noticed that?

Well, players have found a way to put a stop to this. This is called the ON and OFF strategy.

How is it used?

Simple; by acting like you like her this moment and then the next moment you start acting a bit cold.

You must have seen a girl who has fallen for this particular trick from a player. They cry that he doesn't call, he is unpredictable, that they are not sure if he likes him, sometimes he quarrels with them for no just reason.

A popular celebrity player is Chris brown. Notice how he treats Karrauche and she still always keep going back to him.

This is the players' little secret. They never make a girl become too sure...

For more steps to making a girl fall in love; Get my E-Book
"The Bang Rule...ultimate guild to seduction for Nigerian guys", see my profile for details on how to get the book.

PS: You may drop your relationship questions, pains, or basically ask for advice on how to tackle that babe giving you wahala - I will try as much as I can to answer the questions.

Shalom, brothers