missdebs:
hmm, this man again

Missed me?

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dryakson:
They keep ranting cos they never try am.....your ebook works.. I never regret buying it

Hey bro.Thanks a lot. Your words have been encouraging.

You see; my new book would soon be out. Advanced Bang Rule. You will be the first to read it, and you will get it for free.

How can I get across to you. Are you on my watsapp list?

So my write up got featured on Linda Ikeji's blog, and the comments were crazy.

You know na, the usuals - enough yabs, and some sweet comments here and there.

You will find some of the comments really hilarious. Lol. Check them out here - http://lindaikeji..com/2015/06/if-you-talk-to-girls-in-these-3-ways.html#more

Hey bro…


You are special, you know it. You are a blessing to women, and you know it.


So how dare a girl reject you? How dare her say she doesn’t feel anything for you?

Now, stay with me.

The biggest problem most Nigerian guys face in their love life is when they walk up to a girl, tell the girl how they feel about her and the girl out rightly rejects him. It is painful.


As in, the girl looks you in the face and tells you that she can’t date you. That she doesn’t feel anything for you. Sometimes the polite ones would lie to you that they have a boyfriend, just to put you off.


The wicked ones will give you hope then allow you to spend on her and her friends before calling you up one day to tell you she can’t continue with you.


In Fact; there is one sentence a girl uses when she wants to play hard to get and that sentence is: “I will think about it”. When a girl gives you that line, her hard to get mode is on.


You tell her how you like her and how you would want to date her and, bam, she tells you she will think about it. Then the next thing she does is to start avoiding you.


If you’ve experienced this in the past or is going through it now, I’m about to show you, right away, what causes a girl to play hard to get and how you can avoid it and make sure a girl finds you irrestible.

Let’s take it one by one:

THE MAJOR REASON WHY A GIRL WILL PLAY HARD TO GET

See, I want you to really really understand what I’m about to show you. So I will show you an illustration. Just to make it clear to you.
Stay with me, this is important.

Now, imagine you are interested in buying a land from a man.

So you walk up to the man and say: “Hey, I like that land your are selling. You are selling it for 2 million naira. I have 3 million naira for the land but I will try and get you to sell it to me for 1.5 million naira”

What do you think would happen? Think about it.

Very simple, you will never get that land at 1.5 million naira. In Fact; the man would probably increase the price.

Why?


Because he already knows what you are thinking.


Now. Case two; Let us assume it happens the other way round, you walk up to the same man and you don’t tell him how much you have; you just start negotiating the price to beat it down to 1.5 million naira


Consider the two cases and you will agree with me that the chances of getting that land at the price you want is higher in the second case


HOW DOES THIS APPLY TO THAT GIRL WHO IS PLAYING HARD TO GET FOR YOU?

If you are smart then you already get it. But I will explain.

Stay with me.

When you meet a girl, she doesn’t know zip about you. She doesn’t know you, she doesn’t feel anything for you. Somehow, some really “jonsing” guys feel that the best way to get the girl to like them is to just tell them how they feel and ask them to date him. Hoping that, somehow somehow, the girl will feel the same way…

…Just because he told her how he feels about her.

Just think about it, does it make sense?

It is like showing the games and cards you have to an opponent when playing Whot (bridge). It is dangerous to the outcome of your game.

Why?

Because girls are trained to play hard to get, they are trained to never give in to a guy easily. If they give in easily to you they will feel cheap. So when she knows you are interested in her, she will shut down and lock up her feelings for you – it is a natural reaction. Then the shakara will start. Then she tells you she will “think about it”, so you can put more effort.


When this shakara starts, the natural reaction is for the guy to start chasing the girl. To try to get the girl to like him by all means…
And that is where the mistake starts;

You start trying hard to impress the girl. I mean, that is the same thing you see in the movies, right. Movies seem to paint that girls fall for guys who worship them and go crazy about them.


So you go crazy about her, you show her how bad you love her by Buying her things, calling her up regularly, always telling her you love her (even though she never says she likes you, talk more of loving you), you keep asking her weather she loves you, you keep asking her why she
doesn’t love you, you almost beg her to return the feeling you have for her.


I[b] WILL GIVE YOU ONE SECRET:[/b]

All these things will kill every single chance you have with that girl. Just think back to everybody who has ever tried hard to impress you, as in, really hard to impress you – chances are that, although you liked the attention, you never took that person as an equal.

A girl you do all those things to will never take you as an equal. You have to approach a girl like she is your equal and not a goddess to be worshipped.

A girl will never feel attracted to a guy she has absolute control over. A girl wants a man. Someone who is in charge of the relationship. A girl doesn’t want a worshipper – she wants a real man and not a guy who allows her take charge of the relationship


I will also tell you another secret; telling a girl that you like her before she feels anything for you RARELY works. It is the main reason most girls have been turning you down. You are showing her what you think before she gets to think the same thing.
I know what you are thinking.


You are wondering how you can get a girl to like you when you don’t make your intention known to her, right?

THE RIGHT WAY TO WOO A GIRL

The right way to woo a girl, funny enough, always stare right at us when we watch American movies. A guy and a girl meet, they get to know themselves – they kiss, then before the “I love you” talk.
Understand the process.


The correct step is; meet a girl, make her fall for you first before you show her that you are interested in her. A girl will find it harder to reject a guy she already likes than a girl she doesn’t like already. if you show her you are interested first before making her fall for you then you are making a big mistake.


So how can you get a girl to fall for you, how can you get her to feel some form of interest in you?; it is super easy (trust me) – you can achieve this by reading all my articles here on Nairaland and using the strategies in them (just click my username to see a list of my articles) – I exposed some powerful secrets in most of them. You can also read some more articles on my website (see my profile for the address of the website).


If you want more advanced secrets that you can use to get a girl crazy about you, I compiled and packed them all in my eBook, The Bang Rule. In it I explained the easy to use effective secrets that most players you know use to effortlessly get the girls they like to like them back (see my profile for numbers to contact to get it now)


To be continued....

eden2015:

wot if she doesn't call u? Becos i c many a girls wont call a guy. Even if u put the call through, they will still shakara u, by not picking. And if they do, they end ur call suddenly quick.
In this case wot shld u do?

in this case the reason is that the girl already sees the guy as a nuisance and a bore. A girl will never hang up on a guy, unless she doesn't respect him. so, what to do is to learn what can turn off a girl and what to do to make her attracted to you. and i explained all that on my website. see my signature for the address of the website

kechywillz:

Baba no vex oo. How i fit get dis ur Ebook or textbook,i need am seriously,i wan bad like u

Just click my name, you go see numbers to contact on my profile

Nori:
I guess because he is a man so he speaks from a mans point of view, we ladies also have relationship experts who tell women how to attract men and for ladies who are bold enough how to also approach men.
you guys don't even know you are lucky, by doing the approaching you are actually at an advantaged position because you get to approach the girls you like and find attractive. if not for the way the world is changing now and modernisation, its really not in the psychological make up of a woman to approach, chase or pursue men, we are not wired that way.

Thanks. You explained it all

dryakson:
Nice write up....
The tricks and strategies in your ebook is the bomb... E don fetch me many fine bebs Aswea...
This your ebook boost my confidence by almost 80% I noticed it...
Na my money I used purchased the ebook but I go still "thank you" again.. Lol.. Thanks boss

Thank you, bro.

*WARNING: Lazy readers, this might be too long for you. don't bother reading it.
*********************************************************************

Some days ago I saw this girl at the mall; very pretty girl. She was holding her phone close to her eyes & the smile on her face was something else – as in, the smile was so broad I was scared her face was going to tear.

At a point in time, she threw back her head and laughed so loud then texted something on her phone and waited.

She laughed again, after she got a reply, and this time it was louder than the previous one. She kept laughing in this way, on and on and on. It was really sweet. And I was damn sure she was getting those texts from a guy.

Now here is the thing.

Girls chat all the time. Infact, they love it. And over the years it has increasingly become a shortcut to many girl’s heart.

But there are two types of guys – the guys that CAN make a girl laugh like this through texts (chats) and the ones that CAN’T

I will show you how to be the guy that uses texts(chats) to make a girl laugh. This tips I will show you will make a girl find you more appealing and interesting than other guys.

Come with me…

You see, getting a girl interested in you using chats can be super duper easy. Only if you know how.

The Number one cardinal rule of interesting chats is this; Never ever ask her strings of questions. It’s boring, very boring:

For instance; never do this –

GUY: How was your day.

GIRL: Fine.

GUY: Did you go out today.

GIRL: Yes

GUY: Where did you go today?

Never ever chat this way…it is making her see you as a nuisance. And you are too special to be seen that way. Keep on chatting this way with a girl and she start will start avoiding both you and your text.

So what is the best way to chat “interestingly?”

ONE STRATEGY THAT ALWAYS WORKS IS THIS: Be Funny, fun and witty as crazy.

See eh, the right way to chat with a girl is to bring fun into it. And how do you do this. There are three ways you can use to appear funnier during chats. What I’m about to show you is the almighty formula of being funny both during chats and in real life.

Here they are

– 1. Making possessive jokes

– 2. Turning what she says and PLAYFULLY making it look like she is wooing you..


I will take each of them and give you examples; come with me….

#1: TURNING WHAT SHE SAYS AND PLAYFULLY MAKING IT LOOK LIKE SHE IS WOOING YOU:

The heading is self explanatory, right?

But just in case you’ve not gotten it yet, here are practical examples on how to do it.

Let’s assume a girl puts up a profile picture on Bbm, you could send her something like:

YOU: “I dodge it joor, that picture will not work on me. I refuse to fall in love with you”.

HER: “Lol. What do you mean (or something else like that).”

YOU: “Now she is sending me love letters *tongue out* I’m married joor. Don’t destroy my marriage.”

You get the gist abi, turn the table around and make it look like she is chasing you.

Here are more examples

HER: “What do you do for a living?”

YOU: “Okay na, she wants to find out if I’m a boyfriend material. Sha, I work in a professional boyfriend company. *smiley face* You?”

Another example:

HER: “Hi.”

YOU: “*smiling icon* I won’t reply your messages now. I need to play hard to get. Send me another message in the next 20 years.”

Hope you are getting it?

This style of chatting makes you appear incredibly interesting. The reason why it works so well is that MOST guys don’t chat this way and when a girl meets a guy who does, she finds him DIFFERENT. Plus chatting this way is not boring and that releases all the chemicals in a girl’s brain that makes her view you as someone who has an attractive personality.

This is just plain elementary psychology.

Now, let’s check out strategy 2.

#2. MAKING POSSESIVE JOKES:


This strategy involves chatting with a girl like she is your wife. As in chatting with her like you two already have something going on between you two.

Very quickly, let me give you some examples of possessive jokes.

1. “Hey baby, how is our baby. Hope you are taking care of her. make sure you breastfeed her enough, I don’t want story.”

2. “I’m thinking of you having either 14 sons or 16 sons for me. How many can you handle?”

3. “Mehn, I want a divorce. You are not being a good wife again.”

4. “Leave that boy and come and date me while the offer lasts. After two days I will change my mind.”

5. “I heard Blackberry Passport is out. I want that for valentine, don’t go and buy me singlet and boxers”

You get it, right?
Occasionally drop husband jokes on her and let the jokes be possessive in a playfully way.

Here are more examples:

You could send her a night gown picture you downloaded online then say something like>

“I want to see you on that when I return. If you wear something else I will start cheating on you”

Now, think up yours…

WARNING

Don’t overdo these two strategies. The way to use it is to drop it from time to time and then reverse to having a normal conversation (i explained the art of conversation on my website. see my signature for the address).

If you overdo it you will start appearing like a clown and that’s not good. (You wouldn’t want that, trust me). And while you are using these strategies, be relaxed. Use it like you are having fun.

Don’t try hard to be funny or fun. It will show and it will make the girl you are communicating with to see you as someone who needs her attention so bad.

INFACT, don’t just go and start using the chatting strategies I explained in this article. Before you start using it, you need to learn THE BASICS of creating interests in girls.

And that is where my ebook comes in it. In it, I explained what to do and what not to do when it comes to making a girl interested in you.

To order for the ebook today; view my profile and you will see two numbers to contact - one is a number you can send a watsapp message to and the other is another you can call (if you wish).

watch out for my next articles here on Nairaland....(also view my profiles for more of my articles)

see you.

Mubbyleey:
you haven't reply my e-mail....

Which of 'em?

smackimorn:
These guys are good, they changed me, and some nairalanders tho.

Used to be shy!!!! Buh now, omo I dey wonder if na me be this.

The way I dey run package no b here o

Wish I could meet them... Damn!!!!

Respect to xxxtedyxxx and charlesnneji1, and some other guys i didn't take note of their names sha

Wow, I'm honored and humbled of course. Glad to hear of your improved personality.

You are special bro, don't ever forget that...

After reading this, you will learn a "dangerously" effective way that you can use to make a girl visit you, even when she suspects you are "up to something" *winks*

Not just that, I will show you how to get her to "willingly" kiss you the very first day she visits. And it works almost all the time, trust me.

But before we dive into that, let me make something clear. All the tips I'm about to show you will not work if you've not made a girl interested in you, at least, a bit.

But don't worry, right here on nairaland, in my other articles I have explained how to make girls interested in you.

If you've been following my articles then continue reading. But if you've not, make sure you check out my other article after reading this (just view my profile then choose one you fancy).

In my other articles you will learn some secrets you can use to make a girl interested in you

Now, let's start...

Shall we?

Getting a girl to visit you is super easy. The problem is that most guys don't find it so.

You ask a girl to come over and visit you and she turns you down, giving some flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees to come over and then turns around to disappoint you.

I've been there before, till i learnt how to "trick" my way out of it.

Here is why girls are avoiding your house...

It's because you are scaring them away.

Don't worry. Let me explain further.

Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she finds you boring (read my article on "how to talk to girls" to put a stop to being boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if she notices you are desperate for her visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you. Never give her the impression that she is doing you a favour by visiting you.

You dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel you are badly in need for her visit. It scares them like crazy. It gives her this impression that: "he wants sex, that is why he has been begging me to visit".

The best approach is to make it seem you are inviting her over for something. As in, you have to give her this idea that she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example. Here is one trick that is damn effective

You could call a girl up today, after making her interested in you using all the tips in my eBook, then go like:

"Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I need directions abeg. Shebi you can cook it"

Of course she go know. Ask her to give you directions, then make a show of acting as if you are writing the directions down.

She will find this funny and you both will have a good laugh as she gives you the direction over the phone.

After she is done with the directions, thank her and hang up

Then give her like 30 minutes and call her again. Then say something like:

YOU: "Haba na. You give me fake directions na".

HER: "Lol. How"

YOU: "I just finished cooking the soup, it doesn't draw. you give me direction for non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the soup looks funny. It's red here and brown there".

If you do this well, it will make her laugh. Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her: "Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell you can't cook ogbono na". Bla bla bla bla. (If you've read my Ebook then you already know how to tease a girl)

When you two are done laughing over the whole thing. Tell her you will call her back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you feel like eating ogbono soup the next day. And you wouldn't want to take a risk again, and that you really need to learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not to cook it for you (you never can tell if she is a feminist who doesn't like cooking for guys. Lol). Use the word teach, it's safer

If you've been using the strategies in my eBook on her, she will come.

Hope you got the whole strategy?

Here is the point, directly asking a girl to come and visit you raises the red flag in her head and makes her wonder what you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her relaxed. Also, girls don't like to feel as if they gave in to a guy's "temptation". It makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation like it's not a temptation, you make it easier for her to come - even though she knows it might still be a temptation.

Some other "reasons" you can give a girl to come over are:.

- "There is this new action movie I got, come over let's watch it together. Bring pop corns. I will bring the drinks"

- "Can you play cheese? Come over let me teach you. Make sure you come with note books for note taking".

Are you getting the pattern here?

One; You are inviting her over with a reason

Two; you are making her see you are not desperate for her visit by playfully giving her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop corns)

Three; You are sounding as if she will agree to the invitation. As in, you went ahead to ask her to bring pop corns without waiting for her to give an answer if she will come or not.

DISCLAIMER: only use this strategy on a girl you suspect will turn you down if you directly invite her over. If you are sure she won't turn you down, just directly ask her to come and visit you (no need for the hassle in that case).

IMPORTANT NOTICE; to get relationship counseling and tips from me - you can add me on watsapp.

HOW TO DO IT:

1. First save this number on your phone with the name "Charles Nneji". 080158068422. (don't call, I might be in the middle of something important)

2. Then send me a message. And I will add Your number to my contacts.

See you.

WARRIBLOOD:

Number please
I really need your help

See my profile

WARRIBLOOD:
they never seem to like me back

Am too hash
I don't know how to talk with them
We could be friends this minute next you hate me
Am weird I know I am
I hate my self
I hate everything bout me

No, bro. you are a wonderful. You just need to see it. They don't hate you, the way you feel about yourself determines how others will feel about you. Send me a message on watsapp let's talk about this

[quote author=Mubbyleey post=32575745][/quote]


Hi bro.

Sorry about not replying your watsapp message, had issues with it.

However, the girl in question has taken interest in you. That is different from actually liking you. But from what you told me, there is hope.

Don't relax just yet and start acting like you like her. You have to be very very unpredictable with her at this point, and bring up every trick you've already used against her.

Firstly, be unpredictable the way you talk to her.

For instance, today you might say something like: "Babe, if i wasn't seeing my period na i for kiss you" (The "i'm seeing my period part" will make her laugh"

Or you could be like. "Hey, i want to get pregnant. if you can assure me you go give me belle with two sons then i will allow you to give me belle"

Smile while saying this and be creative - think up some of these kinda talks, it would give her the idea that you are romantically interested in her but at the same make her wonder if you are just joking.

Don't just stop there, mix it up. You are trying to be unpredictable right. Sometimes you could say something like. "You are my baby sister, i wouldn't want anything to happen to you"

Or you could say, while smiling: "Hey, i don't think we can even date. Our wahala will be too much. I will just have to friendzone you"

Then next say: "Hey, come here and take a kiss" then move close to her, stop and pull back then say "No, my kiss will make your head spin. i don't want you to faint abeg."

You get the gist right?

You can even say: "no go fall in love with me o, i will just break your heart".

I know, you might feel that saying that will chase her away. fact is, it doesn't. and i don't know why. girls that i have used it in the past always fell for it.
Are you getting the point?

As in, Alll the shakara that a girl does, turn it around and do it to her. they are not used to such treatments and it is going to mess up her head real bad.

If she calls, don't pick and don't return it. then a day or two later call her up and talk like her call never came through.
If she sends you a chat message, don't reply it for a while. Keep her waiting.
If she wants to meet you on tuesday, for instance, tell her you are busy on tuesday then fix it for thursday.

You are the boss, treat her like one

Samwell247:


Thanks bro... Currently I act as if I dilont see her. Only good morning...
Deleted her number though I like her but its to keep me away from contacting her...

Hope its okay to do that.

No it is not okay. You don't have to start beefing a girl just because she doesn't want to date you.

Act cool, don't bring up the issue again. Just act like it was no big deal turning you down. Laugh with her when it is time to laugh. As, treat her the way you were treating her before. BUT don't ask her to date you again. Infact, never ask a woman to date you until you are very sure she likes you. asking a girl out in the green light stage usually backfires. JUST BE NORMAL with her

BUT hang out with other girls more often and make sure she sees you doing that

Samwell247:


I remember sir...

I have never fallen like this before ..

Sincerely when this girl came...
I felt nothing for her just normal stuff..

Miraculously she became my friend..
But this never made me ask for her number..
Then one day she was like u no get eye for good thing and gave me her numbers...

She even kiss me on one ocassion at work..
I didn't make any move..
She will message me first..
Even pix mix our pictures together..
Everyone thinks I'm dating her..

The funniest thing is that she has a boyfriend and claims she has none which I know its a lie..

All these this things she does make my affection grow and I decide to do things the normal way... "" propose"

Then she said let's still remain friends and later we will date..

Then she starts ignoring me...

Now I'm her enemy... She doesn't want to see me at all

Guy, i feel like punching you

That babe was crazy about you. She was into you. What killed the attraction was because you went and asked her out. She was enjoying the chase, but when you started chasing her instead it switched off her attraction for you.

This is one of the most frequent things girls do.

You were too easy for her and everyone hates an easy catch.

Here is what you should do. First read this:https://www.nairaland.com/2212359/mistakes-make-cause-girls-friend-zone

Start talking to her in these ways:https://www.nairaland.com/2160203/talk-girls-these-3-ways

after two weeks of talking to her like i explained there, use this on her: https://www.nairaland.com/2239821/how-make-girlfriend-like-again

Goodluck bro.

Samwell247:
Hello bro... I have read your book and its so nice...
I noticed something... I can't find how to get out of the friend zone
..
How to get back a girl u who already lost interest in u and so on...

Omo I need these things...
Please update it oh...

I'm glad you liked the book, bro

I think i have written two articles on those two topics here on nairaland. Do you recall?

WARRIBLOOD:
am 21 never had. A girl to call my own I need help

I feel your pain, bro. so why exactly is this? Are you afraid of girls or they never seem to like you back?

Lala247:


Both lol

Say me hi to the Lala on the right then tell the Lala on the left that i will call her.

WARRIBLOOD:
bro answer me na

i'm sorry, bro. I didn't get your question

Lala247:
Y she got 247

Lol already don't like her

Lala the Lala. I just viewed your profile picture. So, which of 'em is you - the one on the left or the one on the "RIGHT"

ClassyAdewumi:
Nice one!

Thank you

layiwola008:
Great Charles... I used ur trick on my babe that is already loosing interest. She even threatened that she has a new bf, but I staid calm until I came across ur post and used it. Like U said, her reactions waooo me as she called to tell me it was just a lie that she has a bf, that am the only one she cares about.

Bros Which school of Womanology did U finish from.

I need your e-book but I cud not find ur numbers of your profile.

Please contact me with the details to my e-mail layisolver@yahoo.com.

I need the book bro

I'm happy to hear of your success, bro.

To find the number is simple.
1. click on my name
2. Scroll down till you pass the picture of my ebook.
3. You will find the numbers just below the picture of the book

Mubbyleey:
Mr charles Nneji am going straight for ya book... Hope i won't be dissappointed. And after payment, how quick am i gonna get the ebook?
Ama great fan of you bro.

I'm humbled, bro.

To your question, just call or watsapp those numbers.

dryakson:
Your ebook is simple and easy to read and understand its also straight forward... I read am like 5 times now.... Awesome
We're waiting for another ebook boss

I'm happy you liked it, bro.

clovislouis:
how do I get ur ebook?

See my profile for the number to call or watsapp.

Ekiseme:
Ok, i'll aplly it




thanks in advance

Anytime, bro

Obiomon:
Nice one Bruh! Your eBook is the bomb

Thank your bro, i'm very happy you liked it.

What I’m about to show you here, right now, is the reason most “players” are called “sweet mouths”. This one “secret” is the main reason girls love players’ compliment, while they take the compliments of other guys less seriously.

I’ve been getting a lot of emails from guys who have been following my articles. And one question that kept coming up is - weather it is right to even compliment a girl at all.

The anwser is yes.

Girls, like every other human being, love compliments and there is nothing wrong in giving it to them.

BUT THERE IS A RIGHT WAY TO GO ABOUT IT so as to get the desired result
Follow these “right ways” I’m about to show you and girls would always love to have you around them. Infact, this right ways will make any girl addicted to your compliments if you do it right.

THE TWO KEY POINTS ABOUT COMPLIMENTING GIRLS IS THIS:

#1. How specific and true is it?
#2. The frequency matters.

Let us take these points one by one.

#1 HOW SPECIFIC AND TRUE IS IT?

One problem about complimenting girls is that it makes them feel good JUST with THEMSELVES .

And why is this a problem?

This is why:

A guy compliments a girl so that girl will feel good and then like him in exchange.

That is; you don’t compliment her just so she go feel herself. You do it so she go feel you join. But when she go feel herself because of your sweet words and she no come feel you – the compliment becomes a waste.

The right thing is not just to compliment her but to do it in a way that will make her like you for the compliment.

HOW CAN YOU DO THIS?

Simple – by using a direct compliment and not a general one.

What is the difference?
Let me give you examples.

Just saying: “You are beautiful” – is too general, every guy says that.
“I like your nose, our kids go cute die” – is specific. Or you could even go like: “Nice hair, let me steal this picture and ask my baby sister to make it”.

ANOTHER ONE:

“Nice smile” is general. “The way your lower lip curve when you smile tho” - is specific.

Are you getting the gist?

The more specific your compliment is the more it doesn’t sound like wash, and the more it makes her really really not just feel good about herself, But also, feel good about you for complimenting her.

And the formula is to make your compliment direct, followed by a little teasing.

More examples: “You are sexy” is general.

“This your hips sha, if I dream about it I will bite your lips” is specific (No go use this one for pastor pikin o, she will vex for you).

The reason this works is that>>>>

One; it makes your compliment appear real and not just something you’ve said JUST to be nice.
Two; it makes her to feel good ABOUT HERSELF and the same time; GOOD ABOUT YOU.

#THE FREQUENCY OF YOUR COMPLIMENTS MATTERS

Too much of everything is bad. You should know that.
When you compliment a girl too often your compliments becomes too common and less powerful. Be sparse with it, you are not her ego booster, your job is not to make her feel good about herself. If you must compliment a girl make sure she has earned it. It should be a reward from you to her.

Guys compliment girls just so she will reward her with her attention.

Wrong Wrong Wrong Wrong. Very wrong.

Your compliment should only be given when she really deserves it. You are the boss. You should be in-charge.

If she wears something you don’t like, don’t compliment it. Last time I checked the devil is the father of all liars.
If you don’t think her lips are cute don’t say it.
She should just get your compliments when she really deserves it.

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Have an awesome night, bro.

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