If you're the guy I'm suspecting,so sorry for you. I dated a lady like that sometime and can't stop thanking God for saving me. What nonsense love.

Brother from your post about marrying a single mom with two. I almost made same mistake, but thank God especially from here. It would have been the worst thing that has happened to me. Call me 09098605619 make we talk, we ought not to make same mistake

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I did write something similar to your story here on NL. The advice I got shaped me back. Ever since I left that relationship, things has been falling back in place. Matter of fact, u was lossing it-my sanity, focus, dreams etc just because I was trying to make a flirting bitch happy. A dyfuntional girl is not yours to repair, perhaps even amadioha has tired.

I asked myself few questions like Do I have a low self esteem? Am I hypnotize? Etc... I say the red flags just as you're seeing yourself now and my candid advice is FLEE.

I would have killed one of the goat and split the meat into two dishes- some parts for correct nkwobi and the other parts for asun.

With all this hype. BH boys will be smiling and waiting for her maiden flight to north east with their stingers

I'll keep preaching this, avoid dating a single mom and never take a cheating gf back. Hustle ooooooo

Elimon:

I've committed all except 16

Dating a single mum has always been a time bomb. I posted a topic about my own experience here on NL(romance section). I had to take the courage of breaking up that relationship this January. I work in a bank and earns 45k, she was staying with me due to her non-availability to pay house rent. From my merge salary I do pay my university tuition fees, house rent and other things (had to live below my means). And I became very wary and afraid each time she request for money and I fail to meet up, mehn the disrespect of do get

Also have to be there for her two kids, it was just a folly. NL participants truly helped me in regaining my senses as this young lady has infiterated my family(she was loved) ND I do surprise sometimes cause she does cheat in other to meet up with her needs that I know, she is not careered nor doing biz or talking about furthering her education,all she keeps pressing me on was marriage..

So fear any single mom, they are ticking bombs full with anger and low self-esteem in their selves. Any sane single young guy should be vigilant and not allow any nonsense love thing to overwhelm him into a relationship talkless of marrying them.

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I choose to be a coward in this ooooooooo. This guy(covik One-nine is too bigger for us all. He who fight and run lives to fight another day.

NextD18:
I choose to be a living coward in this situation than to be a dead hero.

I said I finally left the relationship. But using this as a warning and advise to others. Single moms are evil, desperate and can do anything. The lady in particular was loved by almost my whole family,even when a very handful of them haven't seen her in person. Having two kids(which some of the knew) and know am the first and ONLY son of my parents.

Brothers the story too long, but I can assure you guys that after the deliverance (broke up) my sanity has been restored and open doors ooooo.

A single mom, two kids, uncareered, unmannered,flirts etc na whoaooooooo that jazz too make sense. Just want scatter my fine live because she see fine guy.

Bro please kindly check my profile and see what a woman can do to you. If na wreck, that one na small. Am 27 and if I hear woman, lady, girl, female... I run �. Just read through my post and use that as a yardstick to pull off the plug now, RIGHT NOW!!!

Should I shout praise the Lord!!!!! Or scream Hallelujah!!!!..... Done and dusted with that bitch last two weeks. Perhaps you guys might not know why it took a little long? Brothers fear single ladies with their desperation, love juju no be small thing. How can a young guy love a single mom with 2 kids,divorced,uncareered, flirts and all the guys family loves her. Thank God for one of my rugged aunt (rev. Sister, based in Ghana) that saw her,the rest na testimony.

Brothers and sisters, love juju still dey exist. Praise the Lord!!!! Ah! single ladies, I fear ooooooi

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A well and understood message, convened in simplified language. What more should the children of God want? Have a THINKING BRAIN today.

I appreciate your advice sir,
But I strongly and convincingly think, it's not applicable to me due to some reasons.
1) Am the only son
2)Am 27yrs of age, while she's 25 as a single mom(*deliberate*)
3) Am currently schooling though earns about 40k monthly as salary.
4)Am an igbo guy, while she's from Jaba
5) Her ex still comes for her, pleading on regular basis.
6) If it's flirting, I can authoritative tell you YES, she does.
7) Am NCE holder that don't won't to further nor ply her profession but settles and comfortable with a job of 20k, how can the family be catered for?
My brother it's countless, fact is it's just WAHALA.

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Firstly, why do women become single mothers?
Some are DELIBERATE; some are TRAGEDIES (widows) while some are MISTAKES. So if you happen to like a single mother, investigate her motive before you configure the drivers of your feelings. If it's deliberate because she doesn't want to marry a man, you can just date her and walk away; but if it was a MISTAKE OF TRAGEDY, trust me she can be the best WIFE you can ever think of.

1) Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

2) If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.
3) Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

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5) If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget; see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.
6) If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, both of you should have an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife; it implies the gateway should be defined while you monitor the parameters; trust me, the child will grow up to love you as the man that made his/her mother happy more than the.....https://allsinglesandmarried..com/2019/11/the-untold-life-of-single-mothers.html

My gestures towards her yesterday when she visited me and the experience I had was too much too bear. Crying, cursing etc,i haven't even broke the news of breakup to her yet. I just need a logical way to do this in order to evade her hurting herself.

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Moderator should please, kindly move this to front page for more advice on how to go about this(breaking up) more maturely and appropriately.

That's how a pastor with Apostolic Of God Church was bleeping my ex gf then with church money. Pastors of doom.

I didn't fall in love all through my stay in school from my remedial days until my final year (500L). It was July 2008... I was in a hurry to meet my project supervisor who happened to be a visiting lecturer. Even in the heat of the event, once I sighted her, I knew I was already in love. Linda was a hundred level student in the Political science department.

I had to continue with the day's business because if I missed the appointment with my supervisor, it will take another two weeks to able to fix another one. But fate still brought us together at an event (jean carnival). It didn't take me much effort to woo her as she was also waiting on me to make the move... The love was overwhelming, it was awesome and inexplicably ecstatic. To the extent that a certain popular group offered to give us the award of best couple on campus, but I declined as I didn't want the public to interfere in what we had.

Time passed and I eventually graduated. Emmy, you must do something to cement this relationship asap, this I told myself because I couldn't stand to watch her leave. 1st I took her home to introduce to my parents and siblings.

While waiting for NYSC, I moved to back to Abuja to see if I could start saving money to towards the rites for cementing the bond. I started selling innovative ideas to big corporations (banks and telecommunications companies). (Story for another day)
And even picked up a job as a secretary for I am a computer literate.

Fast forward, while doing all these, we were communicating fine and things was smooth... For almost a year, we didn't quarrel or had any arguments. We were also best of friends until this young pastor showed his ugly face into what we had.

1st, he brainwashed the girl into believing in him. One day, Linda called to tell me that she ran into one of her childhood friends who became a pastor and that he had offered to counsel us in our relationship. I immediately objected, but she won't give up, on the ground that we needed to take our relationship to God and commit it into his hands...

Ok you can go ahead, I said. Two days later, the dude called to introduce himself to me and subsequently asked me about the magic I did to make Linda talk about me this much. As a man of God that I thought he was, I told him that constant communication was what's kept us until that moment and that she was my best friend too. Little did I know that he was looking for clues and hints on how to woo her too.

The sour moments began when each time I called her, she would be on the phone with the pastor... I tried to stop that, but it seemed I was a little too late. One perception too many, she called the following week to tell me that "we were better off as friends than lovers" I thought it was a prank, but that month wasn't April. When I got to know that she was serious, I com fall sick men... The fever won't let go, even to the extent that my parents had to provide me with an NHIS cover. NB: I called upon the pastor to help me talk to her, but he answered me that I should forget her that she isn't compatible with me.

I later learnt that she was courting the so-called MOG. Vivian her friend who tried to sleep with me but didn't succeed was the one who fueled the breakup. Miriam who always say she wished I was her man was a party to the breakup too. Grace the jealous one who wouldn't hide her jealousy made sure we broke up.
The pastor hypnotised them into succumbing to whatever he asked of them.

It's almost 6yrs now... I've moved on, but I've tried countless times to forgive and forget that dude, but the more I tried, the more I hated him for his deceptivity.

How can forgive him?

That can't be disputed. She wasn't married to the man though, but money was a huge factor that made her stay for that long, hence, getting 2 kids. She also cheated on him countless times(she did tell me some and I knew from other sources) when he lost his job and when he cheated on her too.

Thanks everyone, just got what I want and will surely make that important move soonest.

Timekeeper:


Bros,.maybe she was even flirting in the former husband house sef for him to have thrown her out... And again, bros, no one can be forced to marry someone u don't want in this age.

She wanted the man too bcox he has what he needed which is Money... She loves money and saw the man as the best since he's gat it... Trust me, she has her own fault dt we don't knows

Like you knew my mind. Hustle and education has been my priorities beside God and salvation.

Timekeeper:


Haaaa a.. U will be a deadmeat if u marry Her. 40k monthly, she get 2 kids.. Bro Pls I beg you, don't marry her.
. U r not financially okay, u r the only son, Pls hustle more.. Don't marry now, Pls hustle more... I dey beg u bros...

Find a way to tell her u can't continue... Just tell her u can't continue. Let her look for a single father too, u r too young Bro.. Pls

Wow.... Thanks for the advice bro, so true and I appreciate.

Timekeeper:

Sorry 4d insult Bro... Pls dont make mistake sir.. Let me highlight somethings for you.

1. It's not wise to marry a single mother when the husband is still alive.. From ur talk, he even stay within ur neighborhood..

2. The husband will still have access to her pussy anytime any day, trust me.. Ladies are dumb, she will still carry herself go meet him in the name of he is the father of my kids

3. She doesn't love u, she only want u to marry her so dt u can bear the responsibility of her kids.. She doesn't love u, take that from m

4. She had her own fault in breaking away from her husband but she wunt tell u. Women love to play victim... Frozen70 can attest to thia

5. U av seen a red flag sign, u r old enough to understand what red means, danger

6. U r too young to cater for 2 kids dt ain't urs even if u av the money.. U r too young

7. She wunt respect u, u r 27 and she is 25.. Trust me, she wunt respect u

8. She will always transfer the agrresssion of her failed marriage on you

9. If u kon born 3 kids, then u will be carry 5 kids dt 2 will soon or later leave for their father


10. I can't type again, I dey hungry. Send me money b4 I keep giving u advise. I think u r very rich for wanting to cater for 2 kids dt ain't urs at 27 year old. Pls dont

11. Just follow 1 to 9, 10 is optional.. Shey make I send my acct number?

Hmm.... Good one bro. Am so confused and need a way of telling her that am breaking up with her. As am only son, I need to be careful, most have this phobia of making the wrong choice, I swear I can't take that.
The marriage aspect is not even moving me, die to financial reasons---i earn 40k monthly while she earns 20

oodua1stson:
nothing wrong with marrying a single mother but you're too young to burden yourself with 2 kids from another man. Let her marry a widower or a divorced man that is over 30 or 40.


Just my 2 cents