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Y'all won't kill me on this forum, I must admit I have had my fair share of laughs.  Half of the ranters here have NOT an inclination about anything they rant.  Respect in a friendship/relationship is EARNED NOT force.  I believe in equal rights as a woman. However, I would NEVER attempt to wear the pants in any relationship I am in.  Most often the "men" abuse  "submission" and all the other so-called Bibilical statements regarding to cover up their inability to function as responsible humans.

I will continue to work ma ass like a donkey in order to afford me such privileges. I won't want any many to send me packing out of his house, or to tell me 'shut-up" when I attempt to air my views all because to him, it is the norm.  They say the more things change, the more they remain the same. Then again it ALL depends on where you are from. 

I am a Feminist, and a very proud one too,

tabakyl:
Ladies must we wear everything in vogue or do we no longer have to know what fits and what does'nt? must the girls with bow-leg and extra fat legs wear skin fit jeans? must babes with portuding stomach use stomach belt? must we use suspenders and belts at the same time?must chiks with bad stretch mark on their breast wear blouses with deep neckline?, the list is just endless.
please i want to know if it's time to enlist the services of fashion police.

ROFLMFSAO, You are indeed "My kinda people" I am with you 101%. It bothers and frustrates the hell out of me when I see people go beyond to make a fashion statement, and fail in the attempt miserably. My motto has always been "NOT every fashion is style should be worn by everyone" Me likey nice things, However, there are just certain things I won't be caught dead in. I was at a funtion recently ( name withheld lol).And most of the ladies were just clowns. Lipstick matching their shoes, black eye-liners on their lips, belts matcing their pocket books, Then last week I was out with a friend and he was lol so hard the people in the lounge thought he was crazy. Sitting adjacent to us was this 300lb woman in a low-rise, skinny jeans. Now you don't need me to tell you where most of her "tires" were sitting now, do ya?,

It's disgusting,

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I have always seen marriage of a prison, I am independent, I don't like being told what I shoud do, especially when I work for my own money. As long as the man is willing to control what belongs to him and let me do likewise, this marriage thingy might just work. If not, then to hell. I love my space and my freedom. We can marry but live separately, See each other maybe on weekends,

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Arabian Knight

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As long as he is willing to share his( and the truthful version) Why not??

When and if she thinks she is ready,
What is up with you people and marriage, Is that ALl you live for?

Why rush someone to make a decision that they do not want, or are not ready for?

Life entails so much more than a title,

I will marry, when I am ready, And if the day before that day I decide NOT to, I will walk away without an ounce of guilt,

Asked me this question maybe a month or so ago, and my answer would have been a definte NO, However, since men are all the same, Why not? , Better to tame the devil you know than one you don't know. Right? LOL

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The same amount of time it takes to fall out of love

J Girl, darl! You would NEVER cease to amaze me dear, That is why granny loves you so much ,

, Que las ti ma, LOL, I won't reply here, It is obvious what is happening here, LOL,