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michony505:
I don't know why some people Are so shadow and wicked in their taught? if you have a sis or a daughter you will advice her to keep on men so as to know the one compatible? what about after testing like 2 or 3 men and didn't find one will you advice her to keep on testing until she finds one? what if it's the 50th one? The point is this sexual compatibility is based on greed No body will want guys to be taking toll on his sis/daughter in the name of sexual compatibility. Anybody with the sexual compatibility notion is DIE HARD WICKED MAN, EXTREMELY WICKED SOUL.

mynd44, lalasticlala, adewasco2k, Slyr0x

TopGunFighter:
I am dating this girl and I think I want to marry her but after she told me her elder sister wasn't her blood sister and her father didn't know... she got pregnant and made the man father a child that isn't his for more than 18 yrs.. and dis young lady is a very sexual person some times we have sex for hours and my kinda of job I might be moving up nd down and won't be available for sometimes months and weeks so now I am even scared marrying her and all I should just save myself

dollytino4real:
are the teens working? or which kind of depend u re talking? if it is house work it is a most

chatinent:
Copyright: No part of this should be transmitted to an unknown source without prior consent and allowance by the author or acknowledgement. This was written by Richie of Chatinent.
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Dear respected ladies, there exist some rules of engagement that many ladies fail . You are engaged now, really, what next?
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Yes, it is marriage fever next! But did I mention you are only engaged but not married, yet?

Some reasons why most ladies feel used and dumped is when they get intoxicated by the ring afixed to their finger by some guy and the guy does not show up thereafter, maybe, after having her countless times!

My gay lady , don't you think you are worth more than sb's bed material?

Let's cite some areas that get ladies intoxicated while wearing the ring:
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1. You are only engaged not married.   I understand you must feel like a wife already but the fat truth is, you are not his wife yet but a name in his wife-list. Do you know? I bet you do not. Do not be overjoyed by the ring, rather be overjoyed by the wedding night. Chatinent Richie really advise ladies to keep their body untouched while hanging around the person you are engaged to.

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Yes, you may say 'I'm his wife to be so it does not matter if I give him my body.' Another piece of truth there is, notwithstanding that the body is yours,  you really are not his wife to be until you become his wife! During that period, men may propose to ladies who they think are outstanding, special and better than any other ladies in the world. Have you imagined; what if he thinks you so cheap and sees a more outstanding a lady who has your clone qualities but deprives him sex which you give him in plenty buckets?  Oh dear, he has slept with you so, that 'special you' bar is decreasing and will continue to decrease any female pride you may have shown, even peradventure, you get married. He may even end up dumping you politely and going for someone better(that part that you feel you have been over-used).
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What is my point?
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Don't you have sex with the person you are engaged to. Keep your pride. Tell them simply should they try to deceive you saying 'you are my wife to be already, so you shouldn't deprive me sex.'  Dear, stand for your right and what will help you afterwards, tell him, also logically that 'yes, I maybe your wife to be, so, if I am your so wife to be, why can't you wait till the wedding night? '
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Tips: Ladies who don't indulge in sex before marriage earn more respect, longer marriage than others. Reason is, their husbands seem to keep that first respect she has shown. Failure to observe the rule of engagements may lead to regrets.
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2. Most men giving engagement rings are not ready for marriage. Don't get ensnared by this. This is a cup-filled reason you have to always study your partner in the course of dating them. They will only hover around you longing for the juicy hannah montanna. Yes, they are humans, they know most girls will get lured wearing their deceptive rings.

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3. When you find someone good, stop looking for someone better. It explains itself. Use your instinctual calculating brainbook to harness the equation.
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4. Stop longing to wear guys' ring, you are NOT the lord of their rings. Yes, I understand that age doesn't favour women when not married but even at that, don't be desperate to wear a guy's ring. Guys, normally do notice desperate ladies when it comes to marriages and the wolf-like may come to hang their 'ring' on your finger to have you then disappear., then, this chase for marriage may end in suffeRING.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=Post&CODE=08&f=12&t=158&p=224&st=0

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Lalasticlala mynd44

menxer:
Brush your teeth as many times as you want but make sure you use a flouride free toothpaste, else you are doing yourself more harm than good.

brain54:
you didn't know that...you clearly stated it as an Igbo saying...

Goldfaze1:
the writer is a Muslim he doesn't know Bible verses.

Interesting15:
You know?

You know it's a Bible verse, and you tagged it an Igbo proverb?

dominique, Sissy3, mynd44, lalasticlala

dominique, Sissy3, lalasticlala

Rocktation, farano, mynd44

wristbangle:
When you ask some people facing turbulent period in their marriage today if they fail to do their homework when dating their life partner, the answer would be, Yes I did ... I never knew sh/he was pretending.

Some ladies can be slay queen or minaj type but due to societal pressure in order to get her choice of man, she would pretend even to the extent of becoming Mary magdalene hence attract her dream husband who is God fearing/rich/handsome/tall. Same goes to promiscuous, drunk and ill mannered guys who camouflage to become angel Michael to marry a pretty virgin lady.

This is exactly what is invoke in the society and I would agree with the part where the OP mentioned that we all want "the perfect picture" of our life partner which is where the problem starts.

Dating period is no child's play but unfortunately many people put the cart before the horse and neglect the danger signs of their gf/bf thinking they would manage it.

I am not married and I may not be in that position to advise married couples but for the singles, we need to set our priority right in order to avoid a regrettable marriage in the future.

menxer:
You would never know you made a mistake until the the result is out.

I object, that saying, "he who finds a wife has found a good thing..." is not an Igbo proverb but Bible verse.

Copyright: No part of this should be transmitted to an unknown source without prior consent and allowance by the author or acknowledgement. This was written by Richie of Chatinent.
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The Igbo people say: 'he who finds a wife has found a good thing.' A wife is really not only a helper, but can also be a mother to your heart and friend. Whereas, most men become a character in the Cinderella play but with no shoe to fit any leg. Here are most mistakes men make:
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1. A decent girl. Every man needs a decent girl. There's an adage in Iboland which says (when translated) 'you will always get what you give.' Karma is single and wishes to marry any volunteer anytime, anyplace. Yes, you would always meet a girl the kind of person you are. Wonder, how can you be searching for a 'Mary-Magdalene' inside a night club? What's the decency in a girl who exposes her body through transparent clothes? All right, if afterall you get a decent girl, how do you make ripe such decency to bear good frutition.
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2. Oh Minaj! Many men long to have their personal minaj. They go after body shape in place of future shape. My brother, do you seek a wife of a forever sex-mate? There exist many things to look at in a woman; character, sense of humour and belonging, taste, adaptive sense, not just wanting a bed-wife.
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3. Is she a virgin? Hello? Where did this question come from? Who then will marry those you deflower? Oh yeah, it's you I'm asking!
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4. Men fail to ask and know more about the girl. Some discreet class of men about to get married go as far as visiting the girl's hometown and know more. Yes, it matters.
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5. Marry her 'cos of family pressure. Are you kidding me? A wife should be a life partner not a pressure alternative, why then do you look for a feminine material just to fulfil all righteousness?
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6. Pikin Pikin Pikin! Grandson grandson grandson! Laughs. The scientists say children is the only good product of sexual relation. It is so true. Who doesn't need a child?
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The feeling of getting a child (probably a male child) as culture demands is making an uproar in Nigeria. Men should seek wife-before-child wife and not child-before-wife wife, however, most mothers are not helping out, this way, pushes the guy into a forced marriage.
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7. Where does she come from? This question seem to be most ear-seasoning to mothers and family. I do tell my folks that it is not where a person comes from which matters, it is the person's personality that does.
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Hey look here: When you find sb good, stop looking for someone better.


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So, pick a woman and stop always being a woo-man.

collinsebuka:
If marriage isn't for sex then what is it for to hold hands and sing kubaya

hold your ground prayerfully aunty while girls are getting married every other Saturday.

snazzy5050:
As good as that write up, there should be a lesson learnt from it not the other way round, i hope you understand now!

collinsebuka:
u reported her post?

collinsebuka:
whether or not she's a virgin I must have sex before I engage you.


Marriage is forever and you don't want me to know our sexual compatibility That Won't work with me

if you refuse I will go for someone who wouldn't

Ay04z:
Well if she is a virgin no qualms.

Evaberry:
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The op that wrote this trash is indeed sick


A misogynist fellow.


A mother should do whatever she wants to do.

Phi001:
Every time, English corrections...


We have heard. Oya come and be going!!!

jashar:
Find a better job. Really? Like it's that easy in Nigeria. Be real abeg....

The whole post reads like you're not in support of mothers working....

Davash222:
hall and hall, you try .

Gmajor:
I stopped reading after number 5. There is nothing like brisket bone in the human body

9izone:
Very educating
thanks

ayamprecious:
3rd something reasonable Z being posted on this site

soberdrunk:
You people can correct all you want, 'biscuit bone' has been passed down to at least 'two generations' and it isnt going anywhere soon!

HajimeSaito:
A sub evolved, ape descended maggot brain like you would know better of course.