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Family › Re: See Eight (8) Ways On How To Be A Better Father and husband. by chatinent(op): 2:11pm On Sep 28, 2017

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Family › Re: See Eight (8) Ways On How To Be A Better Father and husband. by chatinent(op): 10:59pm On Sep 27, 2017

Views are welcomed.

Family › Re: See Eight (8) Ways On How To Be A Better Father and husband. by chatinent(op): 9:18pm On Sep 27, 2017

Florblu:
They know all this but they won't do it.

Laughs. Many do not.

Romance › Re: See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by chatinent(op): 8:51pm On Sep 27, 2017

onyeezeigbo:
If the lady go check all this,then she no go fit marry.

assuming lola is waiting for okoye's family approval she no go marry Peter,she be sharp girl
you only need to be smart and alert make no woman no come collect your destiny husband.

This is funny, however, Lola was not after marriage but wealth; it's pellucid.

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Romance › See Ten (10) Things To Check While Choosing A Husband In Nigeria by chatinent(op): 8:29pm On Sep 27, 2017

All right reserved.
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Dear prettiest,
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It is a good thing to decipher that prince charming if really he is husband material to avoid stumbling upon. There is this rampant saying that 'real men are difficult to find.' How true is this? Well, let's harness few things to check while choosing a male life partner, not just a male lover!
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1. Am I a side-chick? Yes, dear ladies, you should ascertain your stance in the relationship so as to discover what really he sees you as.
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2. What does he take me as? My dear, you might be an alternative to his boredom. Do check, check and check.
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3. Is he ready? Is he, really? Does his readiness register in your IQ? Is he financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually ready? Or is he just trying to fulfil all righteousness, from maybe his family or likewise?
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4. Are you ready? Suppose he is ready, are you, also? Are you looking up to married Amaka and also wants to be classified among the married? Are you jumping into marriage because of pressure? Maybe, because everyone is? Or perhaps, because you are of age? Don't compromise your future with mere thoughts.
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5. What does he do to earn a living? Dear dear, don't let expensive gifts blind you as it may turn expensive shit. Check what he does for a living? Many ladies feel reluctant in this area. But I tell you dear, you are feeling reluctant for your future.
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6. Where is he from? Does his people approve you? Do yours approve him? Do they? Check all these minors things to fuel your happiness, loveliest.
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7. Does he love you? If you think it doesn't matter, sooner or later, you will know it does.
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8. Do you love him? Please, always marry who you love and who could catch a grenade for you.
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9. Does he have what I call 'marriage maturity?' I mean, does he know what he is jumping into? Will he tomorrow turn you into a punching sack? Will he tomorrow throw you out of his house? Study him.
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10. Is he a drunk? Does he flirt? What are his bad characters? Figure these out! A drunk will make a bad companion. A flirt will still look outside for other skirts.
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Dear beautiful, dating failures are usually marriage failures. - Richie.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=372&st=0&#entry712
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Family › See Eight (8) Ways On How To Be A Better Father and husband. by chatinent(op): 8:16pm On Sep 27, 2017*

My dear man,

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A good father is liken to a good shepherd who takes care and carries all his sheep along not letting one behind or feel dejected. A good father is known for protection, food provision and care.
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Here are few ways to becoming a better father:
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1. What does the family need? Be there to always sign-in all your family needs. What do my kids need? What do my precious kids really want? What do I do to make them see me as responsible?
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Table these things out and try to sort ways to answering their needs.
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2. Are my flock lagging behind? Regularly, do a random check if there is any among your flock needing the shepherd's care. This will ensure them that they have a shepherd who cares.
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3. The mother of my flock. Don't you forget this lady. Privately, you may give a scrutiny of what she might be lacking and provide them, even going extra miles asking her. Make her the only gold no other man can afford, make her unique; believe you me, every mother is worth it.
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4. Funds! House-rents, school fees and all that, funds! Make a budget, keep money in advance for more important things than on irrelevancies.
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5. Spend time together. Spend time together with your wife and kids: go on vacations, picnics, amusement parks! Set a time for relaxation! In fact, I'm beginning to feel jealous! Hey you, don't forget to call your wife endearing names.
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6. A life minus beating your wife. No human owns the life of another because you cannot make life. Beating your wife (thinking you are correcting her wrongdoing) does not make you a teacher, to yourself, and your children! This is being irresponsible.
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7. Do not yell at your wife amid your kids. It explains itself. It does not make you a disciplinenarian; it indeed, makes you fool's shadow.
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8. Correcting protocol. There are politer ways to correct your wife. Assuming your dog poos in the kitchen, rather than yelling and renaming her to insulting words, you could, be politer: 'honey, seems Bingo has a runny stomach, come check this out.'
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So reader, maturity is not always rated by age, at times, by brain - Richie.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: See Twelve Things You Must Experience While Going For The Nigerian Military Test by chatinent(op): 8:25am On Sep 27, 2017

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: See Twelve Things You Must Experience While Going For The Nigerian Military Test by chatinent(op): 7:25am On Sep 27, 2017

ajimotoke:
noted....but are u a soldier ?

Smiles.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: See Twelve Things You Must Experience While Going For The Nigerian Military Test by chatinent(op): 6:04am On Sep 27, 2017

Orodje:
geez I love the write up

Thank you a lot. We are happy you do.

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Jobs/Vacancies › See Twelve Things You Must Experience While Going For The Nigerian Military Test by chatinent(op): 11:46pm On Sep 26, 2017

The Nigerian military (be it in air force, navy or army) is a place to be! Well, you are being patriotic and found wanting too.
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Though, most times, they are basic requirements depending on the school, for instance, some army schools disallow those with tattoos, flat foot, eye/ear problems,ex-convicts etc. You also, MUST be a Nigerian. Here are twelve few things you must experience and may also avoid the hell part, while going for the Nigerian military aptitude tests:
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1. You must run there! How athletic are you? This is a culture you must face! So, if you are planning to wear skirts, dear, start selecting a nice pair of trousers. You will run for about three-four hours approximately.
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2. Double Double! This slang is all way energetic meaning you should hasten up while running. In fact, you must always double in anything you do amid the premises.
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3. Being like a soldier ant! You must be organized! If you dare bring your 'last-born character' there, dem go humble you. So, start wearing off the grin!
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4. You will be searched! Who knows, you might be a terrorist wink

... So, you must be searched. But, I'm sure, a bullet is always watching everyone from afar.
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5. Sit down. No one's going to get you a chair, you must sit on the floor (I mean, you go sit for ground), come rain, come sun, and you dare not take an umbrella or koboko go fall on you.
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6. Slapping is a religion there. Be warned, put on your most obedient character.
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7. Epilepsy in dust-bin. Many get seizures here. That's a passport to bid you bye.
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8. Expo can be peppery. When caught, dear, I just will say: 'I pity you.'
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9. Come with all they require. No excuses, just be there with all they asked or don't come at all.
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10. If you are supposed to be in Centre A, don't come to Centre B. Yes, go where you are told to go, everything is strict.
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11. Don't wear an army camouflage. Haha, they will rain beating on you oo.
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12. You must answer every soldier with 'yes sir' : Store this in your memory.
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Thanks for reading, you may also like to read Current news about The Nigerian Army Institute of Technology and Environmental Science here as their application is open.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=ST&f=34&t=370&st=0#entry710
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Education › Screenind Date And Requirement For The NAITES University. by chatinent(op): 11:05pm On Sep 26, 2017

The screening date for 2017/2018 academic session is on the 30th of September, 2017.
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All successful applicants are hereby notified. You are to come along with the following Items:
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(1) Orignal Copy of your O Level Result(s) (waec or neco etc)
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(2) UTME Result for UTME applicants only
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(3) Writing Materials (HB pencil and pen)
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(4) N2,500.00 for Post UTME Interview (Compulsory)
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(5) Application Report Page for Online applicants only
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(6) Offline application form for all Offline applicants who have not submitted their form
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=369&st=0&#entry709

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated! Payable Moderating Job On Chatinent. by chatinent(op): 5:47pm On Sep 26, 2017

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Career › Re: See six (6) things to do to stop bad thoughts arising in your mind by chatinent(op): 9:31am On Sep 11, 2017

Easylife2020:
The number 6 really help... Thanks.

I am most grateful for you reading my article, thanks.

HiddenManna:
OP, thanks for this piece. Was kinda helpful.

Moreover, your no 2: 2. Interact. Talk to somebody you trust about what is bothering you.

We should share our problems with God and not man. What is man? Man would only add more problem to a certan condition.

P.S. Hmmm, thoughtfully, I can also follow this copyright trend on nairaland.

You are right. Thanks for reading.
- team Chatinent Forum.

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Education › See Eight (8) Beautiful And Foxy Success Tips For One's Life by chatinent(op): 9:25am On Sep 11, 2017

Copyright 2017 ©. All rights reserved. No part of this should be transmitted to an unknown source without prior consent and allowance by the author or acknowledgement. This post was written by Didi of (Chatinent .).
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People ask: What are some Tips for Success? Here are eight success tips:
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Success means different things for each of us, but there are common traits that all successful people share:
1. Do what you love and are passionate about.
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2. Work hard. This is not hard if you're doing things you enjoy.

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3. Practice doing what you love until you're great at it
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4. Be completely focussed
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5. Find ways to motivate yourself to overcome obstacles and doubts
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6. Apply yourself to solving a problem and making life easier

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7. Keep generating ideas. It will inspire you
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8. See failure as a learning experience and keep going
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Credits to Richard St. John.
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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?act=ST&f=42&t=352&st=0#entry659
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Career › Re: See six (6) things to do to stop bad thoughts arising in your mind by chatinent(op): 4:14pm On Sep 10, 2017

bkool7:
How can you claim copyright on something that is common knowledge online .

A simple google search brings out over a hundred sources

The original writer demands so; her time, effort, designs...you know, the post wasn't originally written on Nairaland. Thanks for reading.

Career › See six (6) things to do to stop bad thoughts arising in your mind by chatinent(op): 3:56pm On Sep 10, 2017

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Here are tips for overcoming depression by changing your mindset from negative to positive position. You’ll notice an immediate difference if you:
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1. Swap. Change your frown to a smile, stand straight, with shoulders back wink

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2. Interact. Talk to somebody you trust about what is bothering you
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3. The setting. Spend one minute taking deep breaths in and out
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4. Finger with the trigger. When you feel a negative thought entering your mind, question it. You’ll see that there is little rational reason for it.

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5. In me. Be creative, do what you love, dance, using, paint, write - for yourself. You’ll remember the positivity you bring to the world

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6. Me-diary. Every day take 5 minutes to write down what you’re grateful for, and what accomplished.

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Origin: http://chatinent.com.ng/index.php?showtopic=353&st=0&#entry661
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Family › Re: 4 Things To Do After You Are Engaged To Him (Advice For Ladies) by chatinent(op): 3:38pm On Sep 10, 2017

CzarChris:
Truth is, I love sex(who doesn't?), but I proposed to a beautiful young lady who stood her grounds on, no sex before marriage. I agreed to that, not because I am a fool, but because there was something I saw in her that made me insist on making her my wife(I've even done my introduction).

It is pure immaturity that makes a grown man think that marriage is all about sex. I've been there done that. Sex ultimately becomes boring and turns into a chore if you continue doing it with one person over and over again, when that happens, what then do you do, when you hinged your marriage on something as superficial as sex and it becomes too common or boring after a short while into the marriage?
Note:I don't believe in love, love is just a silly invention that keeps weak minds busy, because it fades as quickly as it ignites.

Marriage should be about two friends who understands themselves coming together, sex and children should be a bonus that comes with marriage not a priority. The days of "go ye and replenish the earth" is over we are battling with over population in the world right now.

If you guys are so much into the "sexual compatibility" question, ask her if she is not a virgin (if she is worth it o), if she is a virgin, fuuccking take to a freaking gyno and find out about her sexual health.

Cc:
chatinent
collinsebuka
somebody1

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Celebrities › Re: “I Still Love Flavour” – Anna Banner by chatinent: 1:33pm On Sep 09, 2017

danigbo:
How did she win the most beautiful girl in Nigeria ?

I wonder too.

Education › Re: See Four (4) Words/phrases Misused By Nigerians And Even The Learned Ones. by chatinent(op): 1:23pm On Sep 09, 2017

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Family › Re: Loss Of A Loved One To Death. How To Cope. by chatinent(op): 1:22pm On Sep 09, 2017

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Romance › Re: Is It Right For Parents To Depend On Their Children While They're Still Teens? by chatinent(op): 1:20pm On Sep 09, 2017

iamJ:
Depend how?

Hope this isnt abt u being an ungrateful pikin that doesnt want to do any work at home

Modified

If i have money and my dad or mum needs it even if am 10years old, i will give them gladly

They can depend on me till the day i die

I asked a simple question for discourse.

Health › Re: See How Many Times One Should Brush Their Teeth A Day by chatinent(op): 1:19pm On Sep 09, 2017

generalbush:
I do twice a day.

How can I brush 3 times... will I be carrying brush and be going to work?

smiles.

Health › Re: See Illustrated Symptoms Of Syphilis by chatinent(op): 1:19pm On Sep 09, 2017

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Fp.

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