₦airaland Forum

Sugarpeaches:
Wats dis one saying? Abeg swerve!

Swerve? usually the next thing to be posted by an individual with no comebacks after having their apparent ideological deficiencies and nematode size reasoning exposed! Lmfao! Have several seats my dear!

it is either this op is canvassing for more people to have open marriages and patiently wait to be cheated on, or she sef get plans 2 cheat at some point in her marriage! Na only death worse pass any marriage problems and no one marries in order to die early na! Cheating is right up there with domestic abuse, neglect, irresponsibilty etc! All na twins!

MEGGATRON:
http://9javibes.com/gist/see-lady-calls-her-friends-hoes-because-she-has-a-man/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

The MAN she claims 2 have no dey lucky sha! Na him bae resemble man sef! He needs 2 find a new madam rather than persist with this "MGBEKE" of the highest degree!

Babymama1:
Is there a part of you that wants to tell all these heartbroken posters with cheating husband to go out there and cheat back if they so wish maybe it will help ease their pain.
Imagine a poster seeing evidence of 15 girls her husband is sleeping with and paying money afterwards, basically a man patronizing prostitutes without remorse ,some even do it openly and dare the wife to leave if she wants and the wives are crying their eyes out and some attempting suicide like we just read,some staying because of the kids,miserable because society expects her to accept it.
My natural side wishes these ladies could just go and find one good bodied man their age to give her a good time
But that would be sinful abi?
But he doesn't care about the sin and she has to?
It's so annoying to read these posts about men who think it is their God given right to treat a wife this badly.
The other lady on my thread,found explicit texts between her born again husband and his babe describing what they do to each other and I asked her to tell her pastor since they are very involved in church and the MOG warned her never to look at his phone
It's like a good ole boys club where they cover for each other
Even in the house of God

And the advice people give
Pray for him
Fast for him
God will see you through
Contend for your marriage
It's a man's world
Be a good wife
Nonsense!

I feel like saying go out and look for a man with a bigger blokoss than your husband and just do it and get the anger off your system
Sheesh!
This is babymama just venting .
So annoying to read these things
A 27 year old in her prime,married to a 40 year old man that is treating her like crap when there are tons of men out there who could give her the exact same things her husband is sharing to everyone and be discreet about it too.
Very very annoying to read

Anyone that cheats desrves to get cheated on whether male or female! And If you both can't respect yourselves the sanctity of your wedding vows and the family unit you may have built together, then I'm sorry marriage over! All you both have left is "arranged deception"!

Babymama1:
This thread is an offshoot from a conversation somewhere else and I think it deserves it's own full discussion because it's an interesting one
Why do people marry?
What are the various driving forces that makes one want to be married and what factors dictate the person we decide to marry?

I remember some years ago on a forum,a lady argued that sometimes marriages could just be for convenience and it was OK.She made me see a perspective I had never before considered.
For instance ,a woman is getting older,approaching 40 and has a good career going but no suitors and she eventually marries a man one would consider to be well beneath her status,physically and economically.
One might wonder why she would " stoop that low just to marry".
However,considering that the clock is ticking by, she needs a husband ,she finds one who is willing to both be married and also raise his economic status by the marriage,it wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing she argued, or would it?
It will be good if love was in the mix but if not and the marriage serves the purpose they both desired,Is it wrong?

What do you all say?

NOT in nigeria! Most here occur either due to opportunity, scam, the safety of comfort, unplanned pregnancy or desperation! Love would play a part in maybe 1% of the population of married couples here!

Jacksparrow0712:
His brain can't handle it

I just found out! My bad! He should start calling himself "sweetebele" since thay are both extremely thick the name go fit am!

sweetorgasm:
ha ha ha ha ha ha get ready 2 b ban till 2090, chai e pain am.

BAN? So the reason why you always lick asses is because you are scared of bans? Oh lordy, I can see that I am sparring with a 3 day old baby chimpanzee! Your I.Q must be the same size as a grain of salt! Abeg get the hell of my mentions and swerve into that gutter by your left!

sweetorgasm:
i just cnt imagine staying in politics session for 5 minutes or in family session for 0.1 seconds. chai d gods 4bid. "Romance is da best

Politics is good, especially 4 U wey be student, u can learn a lot from there and nobody send anybody 4 here, no be all dis yeye ban ban wey the wor wor mods of romance section dey like do!

MizMyColi:
@Emboldened
...and proudly so.

You call them doomsayer, I call them realists, forerunners.

Has it occurred to you that the meal these folks you talk about are currently serving this administration could actually be a repertoire of the " What goes around, comes around" parlance?

When you talk about this supposed PDP that the nation is tired of, I'm bemused.

It feels like you're saying, the nation was tired of corruption under letters P, D and P and decided to try it out under letter A, P and C.

Because last I checked, the ACN and CPC were mere regional parties until the crack heads and corruption personified bottlenecks in the PDP threw their weight behind them.

You now see why I maintain that APC is an evil party?

Tell me, look at everyone that ran away from PDP, who or what were they running from? Perchance that Umbrella no longer served their purposes? Because as far as I know...they are/were the pillars of the party.

Why are we Nigerians so quick to forget, why are we easily swayed?

The same person we saw no good in, in the year 2011 has suddenly become the best thing since ice cream in 2015?

The writer said Atiku was better prepared and he gave facts to buttress his point, or are you averse to the truth also?

Well, we look forward to building a party based on RESILIENCE and TRUE DEMOCRATIC TENENTS...especially now that the corruption togas have jumped ship

Say it with me

It is Well With Our Nation!!!

So what tenents were you guys building for the past 16 years? The ones of Nepotism, corruption, incompetence,jingoism, sabotage, murder etc? And who told you the pdp is still not stinking out the periphery with all manner of old, confused and very corrupt men and women? These Tanoids are a joke! Your party and "shayo presido" were voted out for a very good reason! Its called failure don't start wishing the same to your new president after one week! Change takes time!

yang:
An illiterate is an illiterate. . .the way the North and south-west voted for an illiterate with no WAEC certificate and expect him to produce a blueprint, draw up strategy manage bla bla bla beats me. You cannot plant cassava and expect to see a palm tree. What you have done is remove a working govt of GEJ and put a confused dullard putting the Africa biggest Economy in reverse gear and the small agricultural minister that was growing agriculture, they chased him away to AFDB to sit in an office and speak English when he could be of better use here in Nigeria growing the Agriculture sector

Even jesus thinks you are dumb! Copy your post, go and show it to your parents and see if they both won't shed tears because of you!

This zone is wack! Off 2 politics or family section!

Sugarpeaches:
Fallacy of hasty generalization! you can't say girls are not logical cos des no way all de girls in Nigeria wul not be logical. Pls where did u get dis from? U haven't met intelligent and very logical ladies then .

U say the op is hasty in generalization? And asked were he got his info from? Even though he has said he experiences this with his friends and family? And u also know him so well that u can already tell he has never met intelligent and logical ladies(generalization season 2)? My dear your whole post is ILLOGICAL and u are a good example of the kind of women he is referring 2!

Any gamers in the house? PS4 only!

All these una south south leaders sef? Na only 2 thief, womanize and 2 dey shout oil or amnesty for militants dem sabi! Althought this caban dey 4 maitama and I think it actually belongs 2 his father not him,anyway the son of a thief is a thief!

is it 4 achievements in cluelessness? Incompetence or corruption? If so it would be a befitting honour 4 him! NONSENSE!

Its okay 2 say it immediately U deposit a fat load of "man milk" into her mouth and she gladly swallows with a smile on her face! Na those types deserve 2 hear am!

[quote author=Beremx post=34448094]I knew Uche right from when he was the Director of Transport in IMSU. He was a year ahead of me in school.

I got his number from a close friend when I visited Owerri." Why the guy no dey pick im number?"

No be school days be this again na? The guy levels don pass una own! Work harder and become like him and see if u sef no go dey dodge calls?

So na J.s.1 babes sure pass 2 begin dey nack this days? I'm sure if I investigate All those who assented 2 and endorsed this bill I will find out that their birth cetificates are actually apology letters from condom factories! May their underaged daughters be the 1st set of smallies 2 benefit from this LAW 4 THE PEADOPHILES!

Abeg make all of them GET OUT from those plush offices! Although had it been them monetise those vehicles and houses 4 them, even "samson 4 bible" 4 no fit comot them from assembly without their ghana must go's! Execu-THIEVES indeed!

abi the watch dey use fuel? Akinyemi and the boy suppose be cellmates!

This na the best time 4 boko haram members 2 begin write their letters of resignation give SHEYCOW oh? I beg sir no dey 4 PMB dictionary! Na death sure pass 4 them!

coming soon to PS4!

Darkrebel666:
Angelmarve/sweetorgasm .. your career and life jus got ended with this....

Similar to how they ended yours?

Babymama1:
The OP doesn't encourage infidelity
She encourages women to carry and present themselves well

Sister! Can U point out where I wrote,implied or suggested that she is encouraging infidelity? Maybe U should read my original post again! And by the way which 1 is "carry and present themselves well again?" 2 a man that is willing 2 love U with all your warts and all? 2 someone that U are going 2 spend the rest of your life with? With someone U hope 2 raise a family with? Unless u enjoy living a lie or if deception and ulterior motives are your stock in trade, it really makes no sense 2 go into marriage under these conditions! Men fall in love with your character and not your past or family issues! Or are men angels without problems 2?

mirexxx:
MrCork Talks Too Much

He talks 2 much? Or did he call U on your phone? Instead of Type? Bloody olodo rabata!

Ploutos:
Delusional? Why do you think so? Always contradicting herself?? How did you come about that seeing that you're just 3 days old on nairaland. Sick in the head?? You diagnosed her?

Lolz! No worry later 2day U shall know how this" 3 day old baby is already running after 72hrs!"

Ploutos:
Few days back, you asked jacksparrow why he deactivated only to come back with the same moniker in less than a week. I remember you referred to it as _stupid.

I'm surprised you did the same thing you called stúpid. Isn't that hypocritical of you?

Are you minding this delusional girl? Always contradicting herself! She must be sick in da head!

Ruggedbaba:
@ Cheeba, before you call him a scammer, can you actually post anything to back up your claim? You and I dont actually know how wealthy Juvante is, or if he was in need of a stay paper. From his posts, you can tell that he is well read and travelled. There are several people who have received cash gifts from her and she has never mentioned him as one of them.
Like I posted earlier, it is obvious that they are in a relationship, and if you read their past posts, you will Understand my point.
As for his cruel intentions, I dont think you are right about that because I saw some of those posts that was removed by the mods and they were really bad. They were insulting her and Juvante!
I am still regretting the day that I replied that pm from that girl who is attacking me.

Lol! Bros all of us can form bigman on nl if we want and as u know a real rich or well travelled person allows others blow their trumpets 4 them not themselves! I only saw when he accused someone of claiming 2 know her only 4 the guy 2 now drop the womans latest what's app photo and the last digits of her number! As the guy catch am he took off! Anybody that chats 2 the lady the alsatian go just come dey bark like say na govt work! Them don mess am up tire! Go thru his posts! Na NATI abeg

Ruggedbaba:
Hi Cherlene, How are you and your kids? I don't mean to sound rude or poking my nose into your personal affairs but I have say this for posterity sake.
I have been observing your activities on Nairaland and it is impressive. You are in a relationship with Juvante. Please, everyone can see through the act that both of you are putting on. I was curious and read through both of your posts and it is obvious that both of you are referring to each other on all your posts. I have intentionally poked both of you to see Juvante and your reaction, and the reply was matured.
My advice is simple - A real Nigerian does not respect any woman who flirts with other men. If you know that you want your relationship to last, stop flirting with other guys on Nairaland. You might give them wrong ideas innocently, and your relationship will suffer as a result. You have been flirting with several guys on nairaland and agarawu23 is the latest one. I mean no offence but it is not right in my book. Maybe, that is the reason why both you and Juvante have been verbally attacked of late. Before their removal by the mods, I have seen and read over 7 posts insulting you and telling you to leave Juvante! That is the work of a man whose advances you most likely have rejected.
I am under attack right now from a lady that I met online on nairaland and she thought that I was into her. When she realised that I was not responding to her womanly wiles, she resorted to sending threats as if I even dated her.
Be careful online and stay safe!
Mods, make una nor block me o!!

Don't mind the hungry juvante goat! I'm sure he is trying 2 scam the lady 4 cash or travel visa! Anyway it seems the cherlene lady is just a friendly woman that is aware of his cruel intentions!

babyosisi:
What things should you keep

1. Things you know will shatter him emotionally.for instance a woman,a friend's mom here was teaching me to cook native soup and told me some not so good things about my MIL,claiming she treated my FIL badly.I will be a fool to tell those things to my husband.The consequences will be far reaching so I will be taking that info,true or false to my grave.

2.Details of issues in your own birth family.
Believe me your hubby ain't telling you all of his
So don't go painting your siblings and parents in a terrible light.Some stories you must tell obviously but always leave some details that have to do with family integrity to yourself.Keep your parent's and family honor where necessary especially if you fear it may be used to taunt you as some immature men do.

3 your infidelity ..
This is a controversial one,I believe in faithfulness ,let me make that clear first of all.Women being emotional beings feel the guilt of infidelity more than men.It is wrong to cheat,I will not condone it and by Gods grace will never .However,if you happen to err as humans often do and are remorseful, repent and confess to your God and take that secret to your grave. Revealing it can be disastrous and will serve no purpose.Just go and sin no more .If you are a habitual cheat,of course you should seek divorce rather than living in deception.

It seems this op is trying 2 encourage arranged and deceitful marriages! Madam if U cannot be open enough to share your faults or problems with your spouse who you claim to love, then stay single and don't deceive yourself