Nanaborga: This one better pass Cubana people , at least he nor spray the money for crowd to fight and kill them selves while picking , he nor gift to his fellow rich niggar , na direct gifting to the poor them do
Will you shut up Cubana never stole from the government. This is our government money that they are spending
don4real18: Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story. ______________________________________________ Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.
Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.
Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.
We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.
I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.
Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.
I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.
She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.
We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.
We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.
She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.
I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.
I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.
God bless us all.
You must be a nice man. Pls come make we marry jare. On how she no value Wetin she get
TheRareGem1: On Sunday, the Nigeria basketball team, D’Tiger becomes the first African nation to defeat Team USA, although it was an exhibition but the defeat didn’t go well with Team USA Basketball fans.
In a recent development, the Vice President, Prof Yemi Osinbajo while delivering a speech at the send forth ceremony of team Nigeria for the Tokyo 2020 Olympic Games at the state House yesterday made a reference to the 90-87 defeat against the US team led by all-world forward Kevin Durant. ‘‘For anyone who thinks we are joking, maybe they haven’t seen the exihibition basket ball game on Saturday against the USA team, especially that amazing block by Precious Achuwa against Kevin Durant (KD) who is probably the best NBA player probably right now, so Precious, you are the real MVP’’, he said.
Following the development, American celebrity sports commentator, Kelvin Clancy had taken to his Twitter account to express disappointment that the United States had lost to Nigeria’s D’Tigers. ”’We lost to Nigeria in Basketball? Do they even have food? ”You know what am just gonna watch UFC,” he wrote.
Contrary to his opinion, the US coach Gregg Popovich said “I thought that the Nigerian team played very physically, did a great job in that regard and knocked down a lot of 3s,”.
[quote author=bigpicture001 post=103379962]Yes it true that we always claim that family is everything, they will never desert you bla bla bla....but my main question is, is your family always right in taking your top ranking position of importance..?
Many atimes we have heard of family members betrayals just like friends do. We have heard of family abandonment of a sibling, we have seen a lot if times how elder siblibgs jettision youger ones and face thier own life...
My girlfriend is an orphan with four other siblings. Who grew apart in other relatives houses. Everyone is now adult..she cant seem to get over her emotional connections to her siblings, always claming they com first even before her lover or eventual hubby or even the children she will birth...
Looking at the family, I don't even see what is so special a sacrifice they have done for themselves. Example her eldest bro who earns over 600k monthly gave her a paltry 15k for a trip to sokoto for her NYSC. A place she has never been to..this includes t/fare, feeding etc. Her siblings would never feel like being around each other except it calls for a serious Holiday like xmas...there are many more I can't list here.
Wtf! My family have much more sacrifices for each other yet we understood the roles new person entering the family through love have in each and everybody's lives....
People are so two faced in this country claiming family family but dont really care..for the ladies that wil crop up on this thread..first ask yourself how many times have your brother bought you exmas gift or burthday gift before you open ur lieing mouth
Mind you this is not to underscore, the relevance of family bond, but everyone that affects your life should be rightly placed where they importantly belong.
Eh poster I don’t joke with my Parents and Siblings I cannot love them less.
Igbankpa: My younger brother is dating a married woman.
I've tried talking him out of that unholy relationship, whenever we have such conversations, he retracts for a while and then goes back to her.
He thinks he is in love, But I keep reminding him that what ever he feels about her is all bolllocks and can put him in harms way.
I sincerely understand why he feels the way he does towards her, considering the love and affection he gets from this woman. No stress, no drama. just attention, care and good sex and she also spoils him with gifts as well. she is a business woman and her husband lives and work in a different continent and only visits once in a while. This days he is barely around, as all they do is go from one hotel to another having fun.
I'm scared for him. The other day at work, I and my colleagues where having a conversation about African traditions and repercussions for cheating in marriage and my boss who happens to be from the same region as the woman was telling us about the punishment for cheating as obtainable in their culture which puts my brother in grave danger.
He is my immediate younger brother and he is closest to me, I'm the only one in the family that knows about this relationship, I'm thinking of informing my mum, maybe that will help in putting a stop to their affair, But that would be a breach of trust. I don't know what to do!
Even if all the Islamic country join hands they can’t defeat Israel God will rather come down and handle the guns than allow any country defeat Israel. Ask Goliath. This war is like fighting God
peteregwu: I don tell una. Praying with candle is more like a wifchraft practices. Give your life to jesus and have faith in God Una no go here. Go to babalawi, occult kingdom, marine kingdom and every occult practices, they use candles for spiritism.
OluwaLina1: So there's this woman in my area, She's a hairdresser and I normally greet her anytime I pass the front of her shop. She has 4 chilidren (3 girls and a boy) and four of them are albinos. The woman and her husband are dark in complexion.
So I asked one of my area friend the reason why the woman gave birth to albinos since he's close to the woman.
He said the woman husband is from traditional home, they have their own deity they do worship, and they have water they do give their pregnant woman and failure to drink the water will result to birthting abnormal children.
The man became a Christian through his wife and then stopped worshiping the family's deity and even told the wife not to drink the water (the man's family were pressuring the woman to come and drink the water) which result them giving birth to albinos. The last born which is the boy is not that normal, almost 4 and he can't walk and talk.
Is the deity so powerful that it made the children like this or it's just a problem with their gene mutation?
Anything is possible. For those saying science this and that. What if there is no trace of Albinism in there family? What if they are the only people affected and others weren’t affected cos of drinking the water? The law of science Can be broken not everything is science. Why is the last child not normal?
Zionmdde: Wat is all this rubbish na Questions Igbos should ask themselves at this point What did those Ipob guys said their aim Is? Protect igboland and ensure peace
What is the outcome since ESN was formed? Escalated bloodshed, insecurity, people fleeing their homes, apprehension everywhere.
Why is kanu still in UK instigating violence? Because he is afraid to come home for the fear of being killed
If he loves life then why is he pushing others to their death? because those obeying him reek of stupidity
Who stands to loose in all these things? IGBOS.
How? No peace, no conducive environment for commercial activities, no conducive environment for investors, Anarchy, kids will pull out of schools, massive suffering. Ariaria market will close up, onitsha market market, grounding of commercial activities
Wat of the politicians we think we are giving a hard time? They are enjoying themselves, they have houses overseas, money keep flowing even more into the face of unrest. An igbo adage says "Ala adi ghi mma bu uru ndi nze How do northerner regions see this? They will be very happy that its not only their region is burning. U can't expect those who hate u to feel sad wen ur house is burning
Wat will happen in the long run? Innocent citizens will bear the brunt. Wen a region is in anarchy army will kill anybody they want and tag the person ESN and get away with it.. People will no longer be safe in their own homes, take a clue from borno state.
Wat Igbos should do? Stand vehemently and fight these ESN guys, stone them wherever u see them, let dem know they are not fighting for ur security.
As for herdsmen, we all arm ourselves ready to deal with them wen they come.
[quote author=Babysho post=100025183]For about 30 minutes, I've been unable to access Facebook Messenger, Instagram and WhatsApp. All owned by Mark Zuckerberg. Anybody having same issues?
[quote author=Jerryherd post=99036405]How does it feel for you Ibos in Yoruba land to lament and wail all day.... A Barack boy like you with so much bitterness and hate for your accommodators
Mumu, d igbos are the one feeding the miscreants and lazy Yorubas
SilverNorGold: My brother, perhaps you should do some google search. Criminals from various tribes are being arrested in the North daily. And no one is justifying criminals, don't get me wrong. My point is deal with the criminals and leave their tribes out of it..
God bless Nigeria.
This guy will you shut up? How dare you compare igbos with one Animalistic Tribe called Hausa Fulani?you don’t have respect abi? Or na sense u no get?
Habiyo: The story looks fake. there's no woman that will come and tell her spouse how another man slept with her, and the man just forgave her like that. that man is lying. let him come out and say what exactly happened between them.
Politics › Re: Mayorkun Performs At Yusuf Buhari And Zahra Bayero's Wedding (Video) by Chi133(f): 9:05am On Aug 21, 2021
Cubana never stole from the government. This is our government money that they are spending
