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Chillisauce:
Nigerian men again ?

Nigerian men, change oh!

did you say change? Well, ladies first! I'm sure those decent gals are other men's girlfriends/wives. So, you see? Those decent gals' men will be complaining also or being decieved and lied to.


Honestly, this Op no be am! How can you hear "decent gals" and you stilll allowed him to go? Are you so scared of talking to your hubby? Unless you are just adding salt and peper to make the story sweet.

Justfollowit:
At least he would be providing something in consideration for her endurance? Since there isn't any, why should she stay?

who told you that she is/will be enduring? The woman in this case is already sleeping around and that's what many other women do to satisfy themselves,but they will pretend to be enduring..lol..who them dey decieve? In this world where women loves sex as if their lives depends on it. enduring my foot!

Just two weeks of no sex and you people are agitating? Now I know why both men and women cheat whenever they sre distance apart.

They are more wicked for leaving her there!!

They didn't even think about the kind of prison they'll be thrown into if the lady dies. Wicked people!! And they are women, no wonder!!

MRBrownJ:
This is an insult to all the hardworking married women who STILL make the effort to be attractive, sexy to their husband, and work however they see fit in looking as hot as these young biatches out there that are ready to fukc married men. if a married lady does NOT turn her man on, physically OR se.xually, then SHE (and only she) should be blamed for that, and vice versa.
MBJ

it goes both way man. Men are also blamed for not satisfying their wives whenever the hoes starts sleeping around. I mean, how can a woman cheat and the husband gets the blame? I've seen that a lot in this section (esp from women).

khiaa:
How do women benefit more from marriage than men? Are you saying men don't cheat and have children outside of their marriages? Be honest about the state of marriages and relationships today, both men and women cheat.

I agree with you, but let me tell you the glaring truth. In Nigerian, you'll hardly find a woman that have not cheated before. Its almost impossible! They are just good in pretences. 100% of the girls here have cheated before. They date multiple men and they are proud of it. Their reasons are " one of those men may marry them" etc. But they'll make loud noises when their men flirts with another woman. They want to be one and only yet, they are never satisfied with one man. 60% of them will marry and continue cheating because its already in their blood. The remaining 40 maybe faithful because the opportunity is not there or temptation never came their way. Only 5% out of that 40 will vow to remain faithful no matter the condition. I've seen a lot in this country. As far as faithfulness goes, there's no hope in our women.

kenadekunle:
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you no dey shame. A married woman like you is on public forums looking for boys to waste their bright futures.

fellis:
abeg scrap marriage altogether jor.
everyone gets bored of their partner eventually, if it isn't weight or resentment or infidelity on the part of the men then its cos of monotony.

scrap the institution its useless in this day and age.

infidelity on the part of men? When women of today are never satisfied with one diiick? They cheat so much that You can never trust any of them. I support the fact that marriage should be scrapped completely because women benefits from it mostly. That's why they want it so bad as if their lives depends on it. They will get married and turn their husband's life upside down. They sleep around and give their husbands another men's child. Its a wicked world!

The man in this situation is a very honest man. Its better to divorce than to be sleeping around which women does whenever they are bored in their marriage.

floxy1989:
hello. am forced to comment because i have been reading through and i realize that most guys commmenting stupidly are kids.
Now when you grow up thats if you do, you will realize that body build wouldnt be your issue. whether slim, chubby or fat. we are all wonderfully and fearfully made. GOD IS NOT FOOLISH.
You say most fat ladies sweat and as such they smell, once again you display your age and level of exposure. I drive from AC in my house to AC in my car to AC in my office everyday and it has become a daily prayer for me to sweat apart from when i workout and sweeties am size 14/16 but the attention i draw from men even as a married lady my slim friends cant beat it even if they use original HB pecil.
my husband adores me and i have many friends but all my fat friends are married but the slim ones keep going from one heart break to another.am not trying to generalize but i rest my case.

people are voicing out their choices and you are calling them stuupiid, isn't that stuupiiidty displayed by you- a married woman? So, if a woman says she doesn't like men with pot bellies, we should call her suupiid?

Ok, I get it..you are fat, no wonder you bitter. Being fat does not mean you can't get married so spare us the marriage talks. After all, ugly women and short women do get married to rich sef. And most men marry ugly, short or fat women because they don't want other men to be disturbing their wives. Yes, I said it. If any yeye man is toasting you, then he's looking for cheap sex because that's what married women offers randy men. By the way na who we go ask? For your information, fat girls are never attractive!! But a fat girl can get married due to her good character and other qualities that have nothing to do with the physical. Ok, your husband adores you right? Why won't he? You are his wife for petes sake but it won't stop him from having mistresses who are slim and sexy. Better hit the gim before its too late and you become one of those fat married women who get sex from their gatemen and drivers.

What if your mom have cheated on him before? Or even have a toyboy now?
Most women who are cheated on and starved of sex normally have secret affairs too.

In this situation, you just need to talk to the oldman though.

happywife:
Thanks 4 all d info advice guys i ve decided since my husband has adopted d married but living single life i will do same. 2 can play this game.may d best man/woman win .


m out.

a very good decision!
You are not the 1st and you won't be the last because millions of married women are doing it already. The problem is that you are announcing it. Other ssluty wives keep it secret. They don't go about telling every one. Good luck!

NmaGOD44:
sorry to say this but ur husband is silly for saying dat and u are even more silly for sharing it with us here.....he should tell u not to fight cos it will damage ur image not cos he won't support u....wat kinda silly talk is dat??....wat if his youngest brother slapped u and u slapped him right back and he will come home and scold u for slapping his younger brother dat should be same age as urs??.......very silly indeed.....some people shaaaa....taking nonsense from their so called husbands ......

she is enjoying her marriage with her husband and you are suffocating over it.silly woman!

Most of the women here got married before furthering their education,but here they are advicing another woman not to get married and choose her masters.
Same women will taunt and laugh at this babe if she eventually remains unmarried at 30.

valdes00:
many wil tel her such, including me..... he does not want a suitation whereby she wil fall in luv wit anoda guy in d course of her studying.... after spending enof to fund her education, he w now bit his fingers in regret..... d guy round it up bfor he loses her to sum1 else

this is exactly what I think. Personally, I won't have nothing to do with a woman who is still schooling after everything I witnessed in my UNI days. A lot married women were there having open affairs because their husbands are living in another cities. How much more an ordinary fiance? My friend was hustling and sponsoring his fiance in school while the babe was sleeping with her school mates until the guy found out. He regretted so much. I won't even advice anyman to get involved with a female student unless she goes to school from home. Some will still get a boyfriend there. Its really scary and I don't blame the guy in this story.
What the girl is supposed to do is to get married to him and later continue with her education. Its that simple!

The guy is getting old and wants to marry. So I don't see any reason why this girl will want him to wait more years. But, on the course of doing her masters while the guy is waiting, she'll be getting older and may even not look attractive anymore to the guy hence, he may dump her along the line. She's 27 already. Time waits not for women. Make she no go reach the point where she will want to marry anything at all at all. Most of the women spewing gabage here will quit their masters pursuit and marry the guy immediately. He works in oil company and well paid- he's hot cake!!!

Godmother:
You are the ediot for not being able to air your points maturely without having to resort to insult and calling people whores. Infact every female in your family is a LovePeddler! Silly mofo! Who told you marriage is hell for men? Haven't you seen women going through shit too.

Marriage is what you make of it. Someone like you will definitely make marriage hell for the unfortunate woman who agrees to marry you. Class A ediot!

youa are useless!!

The type of ediot that will accuse her husband for sleeping around when it already embedded in your DNA. I called you that because that's what you are. You read the OP's post and started claiming that the husband is cheating when she never said that. I always suspect that Your type who are quick to point accusing finger do it just to cover your own tracks. Have you not cheated on a man in your worthless life before? So what right do you have to accuse another man? Hypocrite!!

vindicated:
The accusers aka in-laws will be surprised IF their brother forgives her and still stayed married to her. The worst he will do is divorce her! But I ask, is he guiltless? Has he never slept with any other woman since he married her? Do the in-laws know whom their precious brother has slept with? (

are you ok? Do you think every married men must cheat? Or do you have an evidence to prove that the husband is also a cheat? Why is it that when a woman cheats, people will start saying that the husband is a cheat too without any proof, But when a man cheats, everybody will forget that the wife may also be cheat?

Ewuro4:
And your point again??

Your inferiority complex couldn't be more obvious in your posts. What has Americans got to do with the situation at hand? Get off my case abeg.

inferiority complex?..you must be smoking the hairs in your pubic region!..my point is that you people are always quick to condemm things that has to do with africans. Do you have to call them shameless for catching a wh.ore? If it was your brother, I hope you'll be happy and celebrate her?

She should be arrested asap!!.. Where is the proof that the hubby is cheating with the teacher? Even if he did, now I see reasons why he's doing it. He's living with a devil trapped in a woman's body.

Ewuro4:
Shamèless family

how about americans who will even make sure their cheating husbands/wives are exposed on national television( episode of cheaters) ? Is that not worst? Or is it because these are africans?

matingo:
Thank you. Two people committed this crime, why prosecute only the woman. They both did something bad and unforgivable so let them both dance to the tune. We tend to over look promiscuity in men, that shouldn't be.

it wasn't the man's inlaws that came here, it was the woman's inlaws. So, its about the woman and all their focus will be on the woman. If it was the man's inlaws that caught him in order to expose him to his wife, the story would have been " a cheating husband caught pants down in a hotel" ..I have seen stories where a cheating husband was caught with another man's wife but the whole story will be focused on the man because he's the one caught, not the woman he's cheating with. Maybe from the story, the husband of the woman will later find out and do whatever we may not know. Same thing applies to the man in this situation. The wife will find out from this story and react to her husband when they meet.

cococandy:
What happened to reporting her to her husband let him handle the matter as he sees fit.
Divorce or however best he wants to go about it.

Beating and snapping pics to upload on the Internet by folks who are no morally better than her is supposed to solve what?

Hypocritical turds

And it is Nigerian women who with their own hands by themselves uphold all the practices that belittle and oppress them.

You would never find a man doing his to his fellow man for cheating on his wife.

No shame
No self esteem.

what is the self esteem there? Living with a woman that cheats on their brother and may kill him?

From what I learnt about this story, their brother is a business man who normally travels to lagos for a few weeks once in a while for his business. And whenever he's out, his wife will start sleeping with his friend. Maybe the woman is a ssex monster. His sisters suspected and her and made sure they caught her red handed. I'm sure they were able to succeed because they are all women. They knows themselves.

Come to think of it, do you actually think that the sisters are the ones that posted it on net? It may be the people who were there when it happened. I think the only thing the sisters did was to get a proof for their brother by snapping pics. It is very possible that this woman have been denying and even accusing them of trying to break her marriage hence, their action to nail her.

Now, put your self in their shoes. You think you can spare a woman who is busy sleeping around when your blood brother is working his @ss off trying to feed her lazy @ss? This type of woman is wicked and deserves no place in my familly. If a woman I'm related to do this type of nonsense, I'll condemm her in her face because she brought it to her self. Before you go about sleeping around, you already knows what the outcome may be like.

kandiikane:
Someone interpreted what they were saying. The woman stole something and one of them said something about calling the police.

so she's a thief? Even a thief does not deserve such beating. They should have handed her over to the police.

So because they are getting older with no husband, they had to confess? Woman and their hunger for marriage. Yet, they will end up making life miserable for their husbands. Look at this man now.

teasel:
You're a stupiid bastard and an idiiot. Abusers are cowards whether you accept it or not. I ought to have even used 'all' instead of 'most'. The fact that you're defending them means that you're one. Just like your father and brothers, you're a cowardly foool.

how about women that abuse their spouses regularly with their gutter mouth? Are they not cowards? And what do you call the the cheating wh.ore?
Btw, I hope you saw where I posted comments of women celebrating because another woman nearly killed her cheating husband? Now that the table is turned, you people remembers that it is an abuse to physically attack a cheater. That's hypocritical!!