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chival:
@ chibic: I can confidently tell you that I have not cheated before, not while we were courting and not in our over 5 years of marriage so don't go making sweeping statements.

then,good for you and your marraige..but people like that are very rare!...with what one experiences/witness everyday,you can't help but conclude that this is actually how it is!!

kemiola89:
You sound like you know the OP before; why do you think she might have cheated on him before? Just for the record; women are more committed to relationship than men.

and you think men are not committed too?...women who are always on dating sites flirting and looking for new lovers are also committed?..smh..

Rosarie:
re u married if yes den u will kno relationship n marriage has long ropes

which one be long rope?...whatever it is,whether relationship or marraige,cheating is cheating!!..a lot women cheated so much on their bfs and fiance sef..and they slept with married men too and as far as I'm concerned,90% of the women that cheated during relationship,will still do it in marraige cos they are already used to it and they enjoy it...majority of them I know,cheats on their hubbies with their ex bfs in the early days of their marraige...maybe,by the time the ex bf will not be their and the hubby starts cheating,she will open threads to tell us how promiscous hubby is...
Like I said,due to what I've witnessed in real life,I don't pity women who are cheated on because most of them are guilty of same crime but they'll never admit!..don't trust any woman!!!

firstEVA:
All the long story means he's cheating. 80% of men cheat, tell him how u feel about his attitude, pray for him to change, that's all.

70% women cheat too...infact,their own is worst cos hubby may die from it..I bet no woman on this thread can swear she's never cheated on a man before during dating,courting,marriage..

Why I don't normally feel pity for women that complains about a cheating hubby is cos if you investigate the woman properlly,you'll be shocked that she might have also cheated sometimes in their relationship/marraige but the hubby didn't find out so it'll make her seem holy...everyday,we come across promiscous wives who will even want to turn this world upside down if she finds out her hubby is doing same..so,you should just stop crying foul.

devour129:
The lady now has a boyfriend n I don't blame her .

Now this is what I'm talking about!...and how old is this boyfriend? Cos I believe that the worst thing a man can do to himself is to be used by a married woman as a se.x machine..well,most times,these guys are jobless and men with low self esteem.

devour129:
you are so funny and so right . Av had a little counsel with a lot of ladies and believe most problems faced in marriages can traced back to sex and most times lack of it. Most ladies have given up , now they have made up their minds to find it whenever it presents itself . And women can do worse , they will go ten rounds with boyfriend n give hubby 15 rounds that way he never suspects . In the north they have some things these Hausa ladies mix for them to drink , it can keep a lady wet the whole . Giving men tips now , Bleep your wives ooooooooo and she will feel you have only eyes for her , don't n she will think you have someone outside and if she gives up on you then you are just living with a rattle snake

giving men tips doesn't count!!...you think lack of s.ex is the only thing that will make a woman sleep around?..what if the hubby is not that rich and she meets a rich man who is ready to spend on her juust to lay her?..a hoe is a hoe!!...she may bang her colleagues,boss etc...a man whose wife will never sleep around is a man that is married to a born again or a woman with strong self control and a woman who is not a s.ex freak..because,if not one of these,even if hubby satisfy her se.xually..by the time he travels for a weak/month, she will ffuck the gateman,driver etc..

I know a girl whose bf ffucks properly,the guy is a s.ex freak and he gives it to her everyday...but she still sneak out once ina while to ffuck another guy..abegi,no excuse is enough to commit adultery but the problem with naija women is that they don't open up..they keep pretending while they are sleeping around too and putting the blames on men..
As for your friends that do it,its a matter of time before they'lll be caught and sent home.nobody will want to hear the reason why they did it..another woman will gladly take her place..then who lost?

devour129:
they will go ten rounds with boyfriend n give hubby 15 rounds that way he never suspects .

if a woman can give the hubby 15rounds..smh..why the complain on lack of s.ex?..

delishpot:
Many Naija men, dont sexually satisfy their wives.

truth!!..very true..infact,a lot naija men are selfish and do not care about how their patners feel about the poor s.ex they give them.

delishpot:
Unfortunately many men believe that women can cope without sex and society dictates such.

here,you won't blame the society and men who believes that way.
Naija women pretends a lot and that's the problem..a naija woman who is married to a man that doesn't satisfy her will always pretend as if all is well and the husband will think he's doing a great job..but most of these women will be having affairs outside their marraige to seek se.xual satisfaction..instead of them to siyt and discuss with their hubbies on how to make things work...but because of their pretences,many men will think women are actually ok without s.ex.some men will travel and live far away from their wives for months/yrs and still believe that their wives are coping without knowing another man is doing the job back home.

delishpot:
In naija marriages where they have sex 2ce in a month or less, its the woman that is really the sex starved partner cos if you look well, many men get more than enough from their babes then return home tired and not in the mood for more action so the wife is left hanging.

this is still because women doesn't let the truth come out!
If your hubby isn't doint a good job,why don't you complain?..but many will rather keep mute..
And who told you the wife is left hanging? Because that's what she told you?..a lot of them has a man they are seeing too,but they won't talk truth cos of the problem it may lead to...they'll just keep pretending all is well but that's because they have an alternative.

Amelian:
Alex, a piece of rare advice: don't hold yur breathe on having a honest n hardworking guy. he doesn't exist. focus on kids n career, lover by the side once in a while.. simple..
trust me u will last n live long healthy years

2nd marriage?.....bad idea babe

are you actually advicing a married woman to get a lover by the side??...well,I'm not surprised cos I've seen one of your posts on a thread where a pregnant woman was caught in a hotel with another man and you said "its like the husband is not giving it to her deep" or something like that..just to justify her who.rish life.
I can bet that in real life,you are a who.re!!!...no wonder nigerian women are the number one in worlds unfaithful wives...your type will sleep around with almost every man that comes your way,even a gateman..smh..who ever that marries/married you is in trouble because his kids may belong to other men.you think a second marraige is a bad idea but sleeping around is a good one?..you are mentally unstable!!!..I hope your foolish husband catch you red handed and kick you out so you rot in this earth as a single mom cos no man in naija will want a tokumbo wife talkless of a woman kicked out for being a wh.ore...please,stop coming here to corrupt other good women..you can live your ashewo life but stop trying to influence others!!!

Please y'all should leave dis topco alone.he may spew all the nonsense but ion fink d tourney wil be affected.

these id1otic comments are always coming from yorubas when it's obvious that if the war was just between Igbo and yoruba...those wimpish cowards{yorubas} could have been wiped out by now and obasanjo oculn't have been anywhere near Nigeria.

hausas mainly fought the war and the yorubas who are famed for their fearful nature are smiling and taking pictures..fools!!!..always jealous of igbos..

HYBRID-X:

@all netcees

whats ur opinion ,should the brid organise a battle tourney ?

why not?

abdurrazaq:
The journey to the top is not a piece of cake
You need no seatbelt don't worry about the brake

Me I no be netcee oo, but I think say i try small

the journey to the top may not be a piece of cake
my mind is made up so i'm heading there for the money I'll make

It's music bizness, we'll be there soon

nkem owoh is the best
ogus baba on cosmo f.m

rugged is better than BABOONTUNDE

silence is the best answer,not violence
that's why I bring war to the violins.
this is a "safe"from M.I feat.djinie



what does he mean "to bring war to violins"?or did he just say that crap to rhyme the lines.

sheyee:
she deserves it.
Congratulations Funke
Sulia kan Ayetoro kan

stop vomitting rubbish language.she's the best my D!CK!!!that girl too ugly to appear on my television.I tried watching jennifa,but the movie was crap so I never waisted time finishing it.the best is from nollywood,not junky YORUBAWOOD.NDI ARA!

rugged man is the best,mode nine is the worst,nigga raw is second indeed.he's soooo original.

tight jam

Phillfree:
The most f**k'd up ever

u are not alone

and yorubas should improve their yoruba wood also and not bother over igbowood

dammiecool:
no wonder there is nobody left in ur crew,sway,nomoloss,jafar n T boy left u.-mode baboontunde
abeg people tell whats new in people leaving each other,groups dey split,lovers dey waka,family dey split,even country dey break.mode f9 himself is a product of a broken group,I wonder why d so called lyricist is dissin like a big babby.

u can say that again.one love!

AfroCynic:
Why are you getting hot under the collar, did I touch a nerve? Your empty threats do nothing to me mate, I am as cool as the other side of the pillow, 'na'mean?

nice talk,but i think u are as cold as ice.it's frosty over there now that u wished u were in naija.lol

well,i think u guys shouldn't be in pain over this shit.especially those who thaught the whole movement was tribalistic.
glo top executives are yorubas cos the owner is yoruba{tribalism and shit}
all glo adverts,even the cameo ones are given to only yoruba artistes cos the owner is yoruba{tribalism and shit}.
now they decided to extend it to other tribes through another medium,i think it's a big change in NAIJA.and now u monkeySare whining?y;all problems are summarized in one word.AFROCYNIC has the word{ETHNOCENTRISM,lol}.but it's all good anyway.

IT'S NAIJA!

chrisical,u are a FOOL.I'm not from aba sha!but u whom is from OSHOGBO,U THINK SAY NA JUJU ABI?

I think the glo windfall is a herald of improvement in nollywood.it was a money well spent.I'm happy about it.at least,let igbos gain from glo also.

shut up ur mouth audio.what do u mean in particular?are u saying nigga raw is not a rapper?u must be dumb.

WELL,U DON'T SOUND HOW I THAUGHT U WOULD.U KNOW WHY I'M COMIN  AT YA.try and take it easy on how u dislike the opposite tribe.

hey 04
i never knew u liked mode.ain't no hating on u ,but I hate mode,
but ruggedman replied him thru me,it goes this way.
wild like a baboon like modenine under the MOON/
mode 9 sucks.his timbs must be scruffy SOON/

point of correction,I'm not ur mate.better take note

both are different in their styles.may be all of y'all don't understand nigga raw that's why y'all pick LOA.nigga raw is BETTER. i don't even understand ajasa.he don't even rhyme his lines.his voice sucks also.

@AFROCYNIC
u r not happy with the whole thing because it's igbo-centric like u said.u can hang urself for that.top glo executives are yorubas and u are happy.TRIBALISTIC SCUMBAG.keep hating igbo,u will die on it .I promise u