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ZarZar:
OK, I don't regret it per se but I've always wondered what if.

I met a "perfect stranger" once, it was when I was about 17 or 18 years old. It was the school holidays & I was going back to my hometown, to spend time with relatives. My sister dropped me off at the bus terminus & I boarded my bus, really not looking forward to the long journey ahead. I was sitting alone, the seat next to me was empty & I put a bag on it on purpose because I didn't feel like small talk with whomever was going to sit next to me. The bus moved from one city to the next, it was there that he boarded the bus. There was not that much available space inside, so I had to give up "my" other seat. I didn't even look up to see who was sitting next to me, I was feeling that much antisocial at the time

A very long moment of silence between us went, but then he broke the ice by asking if it was my 1st time going to EL. I told him no I was born there. He admitted it was his 1st time & that he was going there to meet his brother. The conversation soon moved on to other general things. We were no longer strangers. He talked a lot lol. As he spoke, I was busy "studying" him. He was attractive

Long story short, he did some things for me during our trip, that really touched me to the core. 1) was when the bus stopped so we could all stretch some legs & buy refreshments. I've bought food before I boarded the bus but I didn't buy anything to drink. I planned to buy some juice at the place where it stopped. But it was dark & freezing cold outside, so I didn't feel like going outside the heated bus. He said he wanted to buy airtime at the convenient store & asked if I needed anything. I gave him money to bring me some juice. To my surprise, he came back with so many things, he could barely hold them. He gave me back my money & said everything he bought was for me, his "new friend". I almost cried. Honestly, I'm easily touched by random acts of kindness. I was really digging him at this point, just not in a BF/GF kind of way. Anyway, the next morning we arrived at my hometown. It was raining hard.This guy quickly bought an umbrella & we huddled under it like a couple I told him I was gonna go catch my taxi home, but he begged me to wait with him. His brother was coming to fetch him. Since he's been good to me & it was his 1st time, I decided to sit with him until his brother arrived. When his brother arrived, he offered to drop me home. Amazingly, we were going to the same part of the city, so it wasn't going to be an inconvenience on their part. His brother told me he had to 1st drop groceries at his house as some things were going to melt. I had no problem going with them because he was talking to his wife on the phone, so I knew I was safe going with them to their house. OMG, when we got there, the wife made such a huge fuss over me. She thought I was the younger brother's GF lol. I explained that we met at the bus, she said but you make such a cute couple blah blah blah She said no you can't go home now, you have to come in for breakfast etc. I spent almost 3 hours with them. They were such a lovely family & they treated me like family too. Later they dropped me off at home. I saw them again 2 or 3 times after. I was invited to a party they were throwing. The "boo" gave me his cell number, but I didn't have a phone at the time, so we kinda lost touch that way.

I will never forget those people for as long as I live. Plus I was at a dark place in life at the time, so they really made me feel like I was human, yanno.

After reading your story, I stopped reading any other person's.

Your story make sense!!

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#nuffsaid

Mourinholic:
Even if Ivanovic dies,Mourinho will embalm his body and start it the next match

I just hope mou won't bench Azpi if rahman takes over as first choice left back.

Please cheat if you want to...mtcheew!! Na today? I don't know why some women will want to announce that they feel like cheating when others are seriously fvcking around without making noise about it.

If you are cheating to hurt your hubby, meaninng that you want him to find out, then you should get your bags ready and prepare for the shame and stress that comes with it. Nobody will want to entertain your reason for cheating when you are sent packing. After all, every cheat has something that pushed him/her to it.

greatgod2012:
And the soldier just embarrassed/
humiliated himself with this his
action!
Abi is this not the same woman he's
been knacking and banging all these
years! What happens to gentleman
approach of simply divorcing the so
called cheating wife?
What exactly does he stand to gain
from this show of shame. The to-to
he has always been crazy about all
this while is the one he's now
exposing to the whole world to see,
His common sense is not common at
all.
Not supporting the useless cheating
wife, though, but honestly, this man
humiliated himself by
himself............ lol.....
Smh

why are you crying for the woman? Did you see any guy here crying for the nak.ed man in the pic? Hehehe I see women hates to be shamed and exposed as bad people. They love all their evil deeds to remain under the carpet. Hehehe lot of them are who.res who decive us with outward saintly attitude. I love what the soldier did. If the woman has no respect for him that she'll chose to break his heart in the worst way - bring another man home to fvck her ontop of his bed, then he should also divorce her in the worst way by humiliating her in public. He doesn't need the to-to again so he can expose it to the world so that any hopeless man out there can go for it.

landinfo:
So many cheating married women everywhere...chop clean mouth na their way
God bless the soldier man

chop clean mouth indeed. You'll think they are all responsible people. They'll even tell you that men cheats and how their hubbies cheats, meanwhile, they'll be secretly sleeping around. Fvck other dudes and come back home like nothing happened. Faithful women are exticnt.

silverr:
1stly, I am civil and wish to believe you are a matured mind so bear in mind that I detest insults of any kind. Just like I will not insult you, I demand that you reciprocate the courtesy.

True love is not relative to the purse.
Accepted, a man's gift makes room for him but it doesn't mean that love is tied to giving.
Christ so much loved the world that he gave his life (not diamonds, crude oil, gold or dollars). We all must first give in order to receive but it doesn't have to be money or expensive gifts.
True love will understand and be contented with what you can give, fake love demands material gifts cus there's no root in the heart to appreciate anything short of that.

Our parents are happy with us when we give then from our pocket but it doesn't mean their love is tied to those gifts.

does true love exist these days? I seriosusly doubt that!! Yes a woman may love a guy, but it doesn't mean she won't be tempted to give in to advances from a richer one. She may be with the poor guy and still be seeing and sleeping with the rich one for his money.

A close friend of mine met a girl and pretended to be very poor to test her. He told her that he was staying with a good friend who travelled abroad and left his aprtment for him so he can look after it. Sometimes when the babe will be about visiting, he'll soak garri to drink, and the babe will meet him with it and even join him in drinking it. The guy will want to buy her gift and the babe will reject. She'll tell him to keep the money and take care himself until he get a job( the guy own a big business outfit).

Fast forward...the guy eventually fell inlove with her(the first time he's truely falling in love with a woman). The girl got a job and right there, the temptation came. Before you know it, she started sleeping with her manager. My friend was almost dead when he found out through the girl's friend that she was cheating on him. He never believed until he confronted her. She started crying and confessed everything. They settled and the guy revealed himself to her. She was shocked but, the relationship wasn't gonna be the same again. They ended up seperating.

Yes, being rich or poor cannot stop a woman from misbehaving, but I'll rather be rich and have my woman messing around than to be poor and still have her fooling around. More money more women. Its as simple as that!!

Captainswag225:
o.p and finditng, great points but i think its not always abt money in the relationship, its abt how u treat her, making her value u and the little u have. Making her think and feel u are irreplaceable. Why is that some women marry rich dudes and still have affairs with their old broke lovers? Some ladies even leave their rich husbands for poor dudes coz at the end of the day its abt how u make her fall for u...... Power belongs to u not money.

dey there dey form mr lover boy until you learn the hard way. No matter how much love and care you show to a woman, as far as you are not financially ok, she will cheat on you with richer guys and eventually dumps you if one of her lovers wants to take their affair serious. But, that doesn't mean she can't cheat on her rich lover with you. After all, she knows the truth - That you are the only one that geniunly loved her.

Women are hardly satisfied. If you are rich, you may not have their time always, if you are poor, they will need a guy that will provide.

As for those that gets married to richer guys and still sleep with their broke exes..that's the nature of 95% women. They don't dudes that they had se.xual relationships with( rich or poor). And those are the promiscous types who couldn't live without sleeping with different men. But then, a girl that dumps her broke ex for a richer dude is only telling her ex that he's not good enough to be the one she'll spend the rest of her life with. YOU really need to wake up to reality and stop decieving yourself.

If you girl dumps you for a richer dude, only to be using you as a se.x tool and comfort when she needs one, then you should consider yourself a FOOL who allowed himself to be used by the same woman that dumped him. A woman that will nebver live her husband for you. She only wants to eat her cake and have it - dump you and still have you..hehehe you no dey shame?

A Nigerian policewoman has been demoted after she was caught having sex in a car inside the police college during a promotional examination course.

The married woman, simply identified as Helen, was said to have been discovered making love with another man, who is not her husband inside her personal car.

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The incident would have been swept under the carpet, but it became an issue because the mother of four indulged in the sexual escapade at the Ikeja Police College, where she and thousands of other policemen and women went for the ‘Sergeant to Inspector’ mandatory promotion course.

Rather than go back home and await her new rank of inspector, Helen left the training ground as a corporal.
According to a police source, the course was just for a month.

It started on June 24 and ended July 25.

All the trainees were warned not go out of the College or entertain any visitor during the examination, but Helen flouted the order.

The provost of the college, who warned that nobody should be seen after “light out” decided to carry out his usual security check around the College compound before turning in for the night.

He was, however, shocked to notice a car, with people inside.

He drew closer, beamed his torchlight and saw Helen and her partner stark Unclad, making love inside the car. They were ordered out of the car.

As soon as the provost started interrogating them, the man took to his heels and disappeared into the night.

Helen said the man was her lover and that the car belonged to her and nobody knew how the man came into the College.


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The guilty ones are those being caught. 90% women out there cheats too. They've not been caught doesn't make them better than the women listed on this thread. And the problem is that they tend to cheat with your close friends, colleagues and familly members. They can't go far. They'll try to seduce the closest person you have around you which makes them more deadly and foolish.

Just now, a friend is telling me about his friend who have been fuuucking his Oga's wife for more than two years and the man have not suspected them for once. Imagine how the man will feel if he finds out. And the woman is even extremely jealous when she sees the guy with another woman..lol.

Women? Trust them and die before your time!!

PunkyVeer:
The case of the 1st 3, I understand. The 1st two are in polygamous marriages. It must be lonely when he's with his other wives. Winnie's case, well, Mandela was in prison for almost 3 decades. The nights can get cold & lonely lol. I'm amazed she cheated with only one guy all this time while he was away.

shhh!! You think every other women are like you and many other Nigerian women who are known for jumping from one diick to another. This mentallity is the reason why you people are topping the adultery chart.

Chidoks:
nooooo! i don't think so.it's you men! the bimbos are call girls!

so who are the sugar mummies? Are they not married women? Abi married women no dey taste another diick? Some of them even have agents online looking for young men. Lol.

Diamondamsel:
serve d guy right!!!

serves him right? Hmm!

If I may ask, have you not cheated on a man before? Is there a woman that won't cheat or never cheated on a man before? (In relationship or marriage)

I don't know why you people are always quick to associate men with 'cheating' when it is obvious that women even have more tendency to cheat. The problem is just that most foolish men still trust women.

Lisaflex:
A lot of people seem to have swallowed this maxim,hook, line n sinker.. I'm one of the very few who do not agree with it.Don't get it twisted,cheating is very wrong on every level ,but i think we should stop being hypocrites and cut each other some slack.

Everything we know now,we learnt at different times in our different lives. No one amassed all he/she knows in one day.Eg maybe as a kid u were curious about fire and somehow you put your finger in it,obviously it'll burn and i doubt dt a sane individual would do such a thing again, or you tell lies and it backfires, you'll definitely do your best to avoid telling lies seeing that you know the consequences .I believe dt a person who has cheated and has lost a really wonderful person because of that singular act is more likely going be faithful in the future.

If you love someone and he/she cheats on you, i think you should forgive that person if you can and not let the maxim "once a cheat,always a cheat" deter you

This is my opinion, feel free to drop yours...

hehehe.. . You must be a cheat who thinks she's changed and feel disturbed for being tagged "forever a cheat". As far as I'm concerned, once a cheat is always a cheat. That thing that made you cheat once, can always come back to haunt you. And whenever you have the opportunity to cheat without being caught, you'll do it again.

baralatie:
and got herself connected to a serial cheat(wonderful)
I never wanted that,i wanted her at least to get a good life not this idiiiiiiiiooooooooooottttttttttttttttyyyyyv of a guy who just wanted to spoil her life.God Forbid!

my man, you don't need to feel sorry for her. She got exactly what she was looking for. She cheated on you, so its only better if she's cheated on so she can know how it feels to break some one's heart. Women are the most jealous. They won't want you to admire another girl, flirt or date, yet they will want to flirt with every other guys and date multiple men. I hope all those cheats get the same treatment as your ex. She broke up with him cos she couldn't stand his cheating habit but she cheated on you also. This is why I don't pity women who cry and complain that their husbands are cheating because if you check the past of those women, you'll be shocked at the number of men they broke their hearts. And some of them cheats secretly on their husbands too. I'm really happy for what happened to her. Karma is real!!

I've always vowed that I won't be sleeping around. Not because I want my wife to also be faithful. Not because I'll love, trust or won't want to cause my wife any pains. But because I hate joggling two partners. Its not in me at all.

Being a faithful man does not mean your wife won't cheat on you according to what women made us to understand....like.." If you want your wife to be faithful, then you should also be faithfui".
Infact, faithful men suffers the most cos women takes them for granted. These type of men are always gentle, cool and quiet. They are not the party and wild types. When you possess these qualities, your woman will start craving for something wild and end up doing something wrong. I've seen real life situations where good and faithful men where dealt a blow by their wives' infidelitie.
A close friend of mine is a typical example. A good man with good job. Yet his used-to-appear as a good woman did the unthinkable. His pains is the reason why I lost hope in women and feel like women deserves no good man. Love of fun, attention and fake compliments from outsiders is what spins their heads and have them cheating emotionally and before you know it..boom..

uboma:
For now she's not aware that I know of her escapades. My friend is so happy and down to earth for his wife. He'll be emotionally broken if he knows about his wife's infidelity.

this is the problem. Whether a man is nice or bad to a woman, a cheat will always be a cheat. Good men are treated like trash by women. BTW, how have it been since then?

And the name plato sounds like some one I know from awka. Are you him?

Aminat508:
This long standing anomaly of men sleeping with house helps even in most times ending up the woman leaving her matrimonial for the maid....who gets blame?
does the wife takes a greater blame by leaving the house maid to run everything in the house...even attending to the man's needs

while she plays madam sitting doing nothing nd forgetting her wifely duties

Married women sleeping with their drivers...who's to blame?

babygirlfl:
That is why I said women have the power to stop men from cheating. The day women start making men pay for their cheating ways is the day we will start noticing at least a reduction in the number of cheating men.

How will they make men pay? Is it by killing them or divorcing them?
If it the later, then its a win win for men! Because divorced and old women no dey move for market. That is the only reason why women tend to remain with cheating men. Forget excuses like " I'm staying because of my kids". 98% divorced women end up extremely promiscous and free sex givers to low life men. I see a lot of them. The wealthy ones pay jobless guys for sex while the poor ones are taken advantage of by randy old married men who use and dump them. If you go through their purses, you'll see condoms.... lmao... They be begging and seducing men for sex.

Btw, if men are also making cheating women pay, they won't be existing again. Or do you think women don't cheat as much as men? If nigerian guys should start crucifying their cheating girlfriends, no woman will be alive in this country. A place where a single woman will be dating 3 different guys(including married men) at the same time. They go into marriage and still continue. Just last week my friend's married ex visited him and seduced him for sex. The hubby will be thinking he has a good wife.

My point is, you can't do nada to cheating men as long as more women cheat everyday. Though they do it secretly.

The only thing women of today think about is sex sex sex, yet they will be pretending about it. If they don't get enough sex, they will start complaining and sleeping around, then the next day, they'll be telling us that men are only interested in sex.

This type of stories is the reason why men shouldn't marry all these girls that have tasted every sizes of diick. They can never get enough. How can a husband satisfy a wife who used to date 4 different men at the same time? This is Naija women for you.

Mbkite:
And this is entirely different from all d advice i hv gotten. U looked into d mata from a different perspective, anyway u may be right. But, I think d lady was nt bn remorseful at all.
Thanx

do not mind that post. If she wanted him to see it, why is she still lieing that it doesn't belong to her even with her name on it. Don't be decieved!

She cheated on him with another man, got pregnant and decided to abort it so the guy won't find out.
This is the reason why I don't trust women who ask for no sex before marriage. She will be getting ffucked by another dude while you'll be starving, waiting for wedding night.

Mbkite, your friend is a very lucky man to find out unsuspectinly. She was cheating on him but didn't want to loose him because he was a good guy patient enough to wait untill after marriage. He should DUMP the girl ASAP!!! Please, do not marry out of pity. She's even a compulsive lier. He can never trust her. She will still cheat and continue lieing.

Women and sex!

Well, I'm not surprised. This is what divorced women normally turn to. They easily become free sex givers. The condom shows that she doesn't want to get prgnant another man, and she is carrying it becuase sex may present itself at any point. Divorced women are more promiscous than any other type of women.

If you dreams are the type that will keep you away from eachother from time to time then, the marriage is dead already.

babyosisi:
Maybe she couldn't go with divorce because people like you will call her names and persecute her for divorcing a cheating man and his death gave her the freedom from the hellish marriage she craved for
Just maybe

you are one of those people that always encourage divorce, so why do you think she should remain there just because of what people will say to her. Now that she is celebrating her husband's death, don't you think people may suspect her to be responsible for it?

babyosisi:
Well , that is your choice
And we don't know in what condition this man died do we?
We don't know if he was ever remorseful,we actually presume he wasn't based on the post
A woman who is being cheated on continually also has the choice of not mourning the man,why does that make you mad?

the problem in this is that she waited for the man to die before she will start feeling fly. If she divorced, then heard the news of her ex's death and was like " good for him"..it would have been understandable sef.

babyosisi:
Please excuse you
Will you mourn your cheating wife,change the thread to suit your gender and Tell us your answer rather than the usual useless talks

if she died during sex with her lover...the anger will still be in my heart yes, but if after cheating, we still continued living together and she dies, I'll mourn her. She is the mother of my kids and I'll always have a soft spot for her.

If you see them ranting, you'll think they don't cheat. Even worse they are nigerian women who must have dated mutiple men and broke many hearts before they married.