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babyosisi:
The old man should take it easy
All that anger could send him 6 feet under or give him a stroke and of course we know that new wife won't be there to nurse him
The woman is repentant
His people have judged and settled the case and done all the traditional rites
The children are on their mother's side and are even pleading with him
Why is he so unforgiving of something that happened 10 years ago
Tufia for this kain old man with a heart of stone

so the man has a stone heart for wanting to divorce the wh.ore? Nonsense!!!
For your information, the man will not go 6ft under because he is already happy with a new wife. And you actually think the woman is repentant? Do you have to boldly lie? The woman only came back because her market is no longer selling looool...no man wants her old pu.sssy again, no toaster, no lover. All her old lovers must be chasing younger women now. that's why she remembered that she has a husband that she run back to.

The old man should not break the heart of his new wife. The ssslut can stay in which ever building as far as she's not under same roof with the man and his new wife. The man also made a wise decision by avoiding her food cos she may poison him.

aderonila18:
Do you know how many good, honest , faithful and loyal wives have their husbands cheat on them regularly in Nigeria Many, many ....if those women went around attacking those men and pouring hot water on them most Nigerian men will be disfigured. The real hypocrites here are Nigerian men , who can dish it out but can't take it. So many of them cheat day in day out but act like the world is coming to an end when they get cheated on forgetting that Karma is a b....The man has every right to be angry and divorce the woman but he has no right to lay a finger on her and worse still is the silly men standing around and doing nothing to stop the abuse. If it was a woman pouring hot water on her cheating husband I can assure you those men would have stepped in to restrain her.

men are not hypocrites, women are!! After cheating on all your boyfriends, you'll be demanding for a faithful husband? How can tjat be possible? Some of you will cheat on your fiances and expect him to be faithful after marriage? Some dated married men and expect other girls not to date their hubbies. Now, that's the qualities of a hypocrite!! They even cheat and still snoop around their husbands phone.looool

cococandy:
Pls show us the thread and those celebrating that another human being's p5nis was cut off.

the thread have been so relegated that I can't find it. But since other women are sharing your post thinking that I'm lieing, I had to go through the stress till I find it. Funny thing is that you are even on that thread. I respect you for being rational though.

Now, below are some comments from the thread. The link is below too.

kreamidiva:


Chineke mee oooo. Beautiful woman. God bless her. Which part of China did that happen? I need to go and represent her in court. We must win that case!!!



Even my mum is hailing this warrior. Chai!

Abiagirl777:
Oh my God i can't stop laffin.the woman deserves a nobel peace prize for bringing peace on troubled waters.hahahahhahahahhahaahahahahahahhahaha.
Hell hath no fury lyk a woman scorned

https://www.nairaland.com/2092087/jilted-wife-chops-off-husbands#29781078

donpeey22:
I still maintain that this man might be a good husband who could not control his anger when he found out that his wife is a cheat.

do not mind these women joor! They love to take good men for granted and even cheat on them.

Recently in my area, a very known quiet man beat up his wife and every one was shocked. It was later revealed that the woman cheated on him. According to neighbours, he have never laid a hand on the woman before. And he's a man who comes home early. He doesn't drink nor cheat ,yet the foolish woman was cheating. That was the day the beast in him was let loose. If this thread was about a woman who pourd acid or hot water on her cheating husband, all these women complaining here will be celebrating. I can show you a thread where a woman cut off her hubby's diick and nearly killed him for cheating. You will see nairaland women calling her a hero. These women are HYPOCRITES!!

Last time a woman cut off her cheating husband's diick, nairaland women where celebrating..now a cheating woman is being beaten and they are crying and complaining.

Godmother:
You are so correct! And what we see as provocation here is a woman that was trying to challenge her cheating husband, albert she did it too emotionally. Dude was already cheating on her and I'm sure no matter how the situation played out, he'd have still married the other woman.

If she had acted unconcerned towards his cheating, the hubby would probably have accused her of being cold and unemotional.

it amazes me how devilish women and whores will always be the first to talk about cheating men. Where in her posts did she say that her hubby was cheating? Btw, she may also be cheating but she won't admit it here. She said she got insecured and started calling and chasing away all her hubby's friends and colleagues.how will you feel if your hubby go through your phone and start calling all your contacts, warning them to stay away from you? Even to the extent of calling a senior colleagues. You women need to accept your faults and stop ur mess.
She is a very BAD wife and deserves what she got. I even love the way the man didn't divorce her first, instead he choose to make it the most bitter surprise for her after all the years of torment she put him through.

Some ediots are here talking about women being independent as if a devillish independent woman won't be divorced by her husband. I wish they get this same treatment with the way they are making life miserable for their hubbies.

Women will be craving to get married as if its their trophy, but when they tie down one man who used to live happilly, they will turn his life to hell. Marriage of today is nothing but hell for men!!

almostFamous:
one thing I've learned...the guys on this forum hate to see a happy girl,a girl who doesn't give a flying hoot about them(guys).
A girl who says what she feels without reservations.



That's their grudge.

but you do not need to come out publicly to brag about how naughty you are..or how you can give up your life just to taste a diick.

zeepatoprick:
Side chicks exist virtually everywhere now... And it is more predominant in our black african culture... Now I've done some wakaing and I've seen d amt of chicks ranging from the higher institutions to the work force and beyond date married men.. Reason financial endowments..
Our women are fatally and mortally lazy people... Y is it dat a widower is always better dan a widow.. Dat is to say if I'm a child in a family and my mother dies.. Der is no problem.. But If I'm in a family my father dies extreme suffer for me...
D worst is dat women are naturally inclined to live longer dan men... Wicked set of people.. Work and get it for yourself and u will garner respect.. How do u expect me to respect you wen u are all abt my neck for money.. I don't think so.. It goes both ways cos if u are a man and ur woman feeds you.. She will insult Jesus out of ur life...
So let all dis girls forming innocent here jst pack well.. Cos na una own worst pass.. As far you are always dependent on a man for money.. U are likely to always be a side chick.. Make no mistakes wives are not exempted from being side chicks cos d main chick na who d man give attention to pass...

do you know that their are married men who has another man's wife as their side chicks?..no mind these women! They are their own problem. They try everything possible to seduce a married man. Then, when they get married, they'll expect other girls not to sleep with their own husbands. It doesn't work that way. Some of them will marry and still be cheating with another married man, yet, they'll still be complaining about side chicks when they are side chicks themselves. I know upto 4 married young ladies who still sleep with richer men. Are they not side chicks? Honestly, I don't pity women when they complain about side chicks or cheating husband because they are devils themselves.

uzolexis:
That's why there is something called making sacrifices 4 ur partner. Do u think women don't like having more than 1 man too or that women r "wired" to be with only one man If u want 2 get married, stick 2 what it entails, 1 man, 1 wife or don't even do it at all, afterall marriage is not compulsory. Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.

are you saying that women do not date more than one man at a time?..in NIgeria, girls cheats more than boys..our boys are broke so they can't meet the financial needs of more than one girl but our girls dates 5men at a time. If you ask them, they will say they are test-driving, some will say it is because one of them may get married to her, then a lot of them are doing it because of their greed for money..as far as I'm concerned, it is called cheating. But here, married men cheats more than married women. So, its balanced. I guese some Nigerian women doesn't cheat after marriage because they are scared of divorce. If not, they would have been cheating more than men in marriage also. The bottomline is that you women are also cheats, so stop pointing accusing fingers at men. These days, you can't trust a woman not to cheat at all..its not possible!!

TheSonOfMark:
Women try to blame men for their woes. Today's woman wallows infidelity without shame. Why should men have any regard for such lots? Cheap blackmail.

What of Rihanna who screwed with Drake while CB was in jail? What of Karrueche Tran who betrayed CB ? What about Jada Pinkett-Smith who Will Smith caught in bed with Marc Anthony ?


What about these Nigerian girls who admitted in this video that they each date several at a time?

Don't just get me started.

you dey mind them? They are always quick to associate the word "cheating" with men when they are also secretly sleeping around with multiple men. Even the woman who is complaining that her hubby has a side chick is secretly sleeping with another man o! But she will pretend that she is staying because of her kids. As far as I'm concerned, what these women get is what they deserbes. After cheating on your hubby at some point, you'll expect him not to date a hot chick when you get older and unnatractive.

A lot of these stewpid girls cheated on their boyfriends and they will be expecting a mumu faithful man to marry them..NO!!..it doesn't work that way. You must be cheated on so you'll feel the same pain..I have always said that NO girl in this Nigeria can swear that she have never cheated on a man before. It may be their boyfriends, a lot of them will even go into marriage with the habit of multiple sex partners because they are already used to it.

Mandu94:
READ MY LAST POST

I like you last post.

Mandu94:
Not in my life, I will chuck the man in the bin. Some African women deal with the crap some men do, for Economic and traditional/ cultural reasons. EMPOWERMENT TO ALL WOMEN

its good to be a strong woman but,truth is that our african woman are too scared of divorce. But then, a woman who will divorce a cheating hubby should be a faithful woman and not the type that will cheat at some point but when the man do it, she'll let hell loose.
My friend's fiancee cheated on him in the early stage of their relationship. I knew this very well but the guy didn't know. She told me that she did it because the relationship wasn't a serious one to her that time..smh..then after a year, the guy cheated on her. You need to see how she went raging. She packed out of the guy's house and the guy was begging her. This is a girl that also cheated o.well, they are back together again.

bukatyne:
Funny thread.
When will the married men write their own letter?

So that it will be balanced and We have all the views?

married men shoud write their letter to alll these gigolos used as toy-boys who sleep with their wives when they are away on a business trip...

I remember listening to chaz B(RIP) on a programm about people who sleeps with married men/women and some of these toy-boys where texting saying " we are just helping oga do his job when he's not around"..looool

Timbuktou:
Mister, Nigerian women do not cheat. They do not cheat. Please be guided in your utterances

abi o!..they do not cheat yet, they ranked NO 1 in world's most adulterous wives...the single girls nko?..5 boyfriends at the same time all in the name of test driving. Honestly, they do not cheat!!..looooool

Mandu94:
Another woman hater.

I guese truth is bitter!

Everthing I said there is the truth. Do you have to pretend as if you don't notice what is happening in this world? Or atleast Nigeria?.ma lot of married women cheat these days and they should stop making noise about men cheating. A lot of them cheated on their hubbies in the early stage of their marriage. I'm not making this up, its the truth!! Some do it with their ex, some do it with their colleagues. The bottomline is that they cheat too and they will cry when their hubbies returns the favour..especially when they don't look attractive anymore...looooooool

Mtcheew!!

When a married woman hits 40-plus, at that time majority of them won't look beautiful or attractive again, their husbands may lose interest and start dating hotter chicks and other men out there won't be giving them attention nor toating them..they will suddenly remember that it is time to fight or write to single ladies to leave their husbands alone. I hear you! But you forgot that in the early stagies of your marriage, a lot of you married women cheated so much on your hubbies because you were still young and attractive and men out there who didn't know you were married were toasting you every hour and your head was swelling. You thought you were the only girl in the world. And you also thought you could eat your cake and have it. Well, reality have dawned on you. Now that you are older and unnattractive, you have to go through the pains of being cheated on.
If you cheated in the early stage of your marriage like after 2,3,4,5 yrs of your marriage which, according to what I've witnessed a lot, is the period married women cheat the most, then by the time you get older and no man is looking your way again, and your hubby is old but still look fresh and good-to-go like men do, then accept your fate when he returns the same cheating favour to you. Yes, I know that it pains more at this point due to the fact that no man wants you any more..loooooool...it feels good to be a man!!!

tonak:
my advice to you, cut her loose and let her go cos she will cheat on you again.I had the same issue 3 years ago, I forgave her and took her in again because of my son, I truly forgave her. About a month ago I found out she was still communicating with the same person and both of them expressing love for one another again.I confronted her yesterday and she is not even sorry, so tonite she will leave my home for good.

bros how far? How did it go?

@man with 5 or 6 kids

Ngokafor:
....I really agree with those who have described most Nigerians as the biggest hypocrites for real..

...so cheating is now a good ground for divorce?...jokers!..

...see them spitting 'leave her' all over the place because the Victim' is a man...nonsense!

...confused folks with warped sense of right and wrong.

keep quiet there!!!

Nobody is forcing a woman to remain married to a cheating husband but the truth is that women are scared of divorce. They will not leave even when every one is advicing them to leave. I think they are scared they may remain single forever because there are millions of beautiful and young single girls out there, so it will be tough for a divorced woman to beat them in the market. Btw, men are not interested in tokunbo/divorced women. But a divorced man will remarry immediately if he wants to. So, you need to quit all the rants because you women are your own problem. Even YOU will not divorce your hubby if he cheats on you severally because, if you cheat, you'll pack out. If he cheats and you can't live with it, you'll pack out and another woman will take over immediately. Any how you look at it,it seems you'll lose. Inferiority complex is also part of women's problem and that's exactly what this Op is suffering from.

Married women of these days are nothing but sluts but everyday you login into NL, these stewpid NL women will be creating threads tagging all men as cheats, when it is obvious that NONE of them have never cheated on a man before.

When a man goes out struggling under the intense sun to provide for his wife and the wife will be sneaking around ffuvking other men, the pay back is bound to be off the roof. This man is soo betrayed and angered but then, instant divorce woulda been better. I can bet my left hand that the man she cheats with will not marry her. Nonsense!!

So this is supposed to be a useless male bashing thread?

You women will always blow with a trumpet whenever you spend a kobo on your familly or husband. Look at this 0p telling stories of men living off women and she forgot that, the man must have been spending immensely on the woman at the beginning. Once a woman does a small favour to the hubby, they'll forget everything the man's been doing for them.

Marriage of today are useless because women of today are becoming useless. They disrespect their husbands and they cheat more than men.

EggovinMma:
I am sure the wife got herself pregnant.What would you say about men fathering kids their wives know nothing about? Every blame should be shared between the man and the woman invinvolved.It takes two to tangle.

a man that fathered a child through another woman cannot decieve his wife to believe that it belongs to her but a woman can get pregnant and tell her hubby that he's responsible when another man is the real father.now you see the difference..that's why we keep hearing of paternity fraud.have you ever heard of maternity fraud?.its better to father another child else where and keep him/her there without hurting anybody but a man that discovers that his child does not belong to him after many years may die. Women's evils far outweighs that of men.

EggovinMma:
.Bastards are also human,and life goes on,

bastards are human and deserves love but this type of bastards that our women decieves their husbands to believe are their's when another man is the true father is the worst bastard a man can come across.I'm. Sure every man will rather adopt a child than to be decieved into fathering another man's child.

And the husband will travel,hustling to make money for the wwhore.instead of showing support to her husband's hustle by staying faithful and praying for him,she'll be opening her legs for other men.this is surely not the first time.maybe they normally do this whenevr the hubby travels.and the annoying thing is that if this woman finds out that the hubby has a girlfriend,she'll start visiting every blog complaining that her husband is cheating but she won't tell them that she's guilty too.
This is why I don't pity nigerian women whose husbands cheats.because if you take a look at them,you'll find out that they are also big cheats and ALL of them cheated on majority of their boyfriends.some also cheated on their husbands during courtship and majority are still doing it in their marriage.tomorrow,she'll get pregnant and give hubby anotjer man's child.

AreaFada2:
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I guess you will be happy for your brother's tenant to be banging his wife? Have you caught every man cheating, how do you know the hubby cheats?

This normally their way of justifying a cheating wife.they will tell you that the hubby may be a cheat too.but when the table is turned,they'll not remember that the woman may be a cheat too just like this one.do you think this cheating wife will take it lightly if she catch her hubby cheating? She'll pretend as if she's saint and lash out at the man.she'll even report him to everybody.

AreaFada2:
When you quote research statistics that 50% of first born kids and 30% of all kids belong to another man outside, not their assumed biological dad, ladies will be up in arms.
Soon marriage will have no point, free bang anyone you can. At least that would be an honest way of doing things.

this is the reason why its not good to ever trust any woman,not even your wife.but its unfortunate that some men are still foolish enough to trust a woman.that's why you see some men end up with stroke.and its aviceable to get a DNA test of your kids when the are still little.

lastnogood:
That was a very uninformed and short sided post. Look carefully, did she complain about sharing the family expense, or by having to single handedly carry them. Knowing how you men operate, he'd still expect her to do all that work that makes you folk grumpy and lazy by day's end, but she'd have to pick up and cook dinner, mind children and ensure the home is well kept.

which work makes men grump and lazy by the way? Cleaning the house and cooking? Are you naturally lazy? How is it something to tell the public if you look after your kids? Please,I don't see any big deal in it.so stop mentioning them.

Like I said, if a woman is making a considerable amount of money,she should also help out her husband.btw,majority of the working working class and business women has maids plenty at home.so what is their job again? To make money and buy make ups,clothes and go out partying abi?

lastnogood:
Then, I ask you, what is the use of marriage? If that that's how you expect it to be, hire ashewo for forking, househelp for cleaning, tutor for homework and be happy by yourselves. As for the lady, it's a shame she lives in that society, thank God I don't have to be burdened by a lazy man just to be considered a bonified woman. Chaaaa!!!!

all these words you jumbled up there makes no sense!
Who cares about the man you have in your life? if he licks your @ss,how's that my biz?

Rayhut:
Nigerians we pretend alot and like to use religious belief to cover up, those who are saying by grace couples can stay apart for long without sex is just story story, no married man or woman fit stay without sex for three months., they be fire wood. Come to alade market here in ikeja and see how women are rushing th intimacy gadget they call rabbit. In nigeria we live in secrecy and self denial. .is either they masturbate or have a service boy., for men they maybe patronizing love pedlars

for real nigerians live in secrecy.especially our women.after all the pretences as if they don't like sex much,there is somebody somewhere sleeping with them.and most hubbies travels always thinking that wives can cope because our women pretend so much about sex.that's why these men are shatered and shocked when they discover that their wives can't cope and start sleeping around.faceless forums like nairaland is where I've seen women admitting that they can't deal with a man that can't satisfy them sexually because they loves good sex but in real life,you'll never see a nigerian girl bold enough to say that to her hubby.let alone public.
Let me tell you a true story.
A guy(somehow a friend) was dating a church member.this guy is a very nice guy and was spending much on the babe.after 8months into the relationship,the babe demanded that they should stop having sex because its sin.meanwhile the babe was already cheating on him with a mopol dude she met wherever.she wanted to pretend to us and their church members that she was a real born again. Hence,the step to stop having sex with the guy.but the main reason is cos she's gotten some one who will be ffucking her secretly.we used to call her a wife material until she was exposed.

Sammiejokes:
ITS HER DREAM HUSBAND JARE. MARRIED WOMEN WITH FANTASY

you knew exactly why i asked that question..you know,if she goes through her hubby's profile and see that kind of pic,she'll be mad that her hubby is fantasizing on another type of woman but she is doing it.women always loves to eat their cake and have it.let me tell you...a guy opened a thread complaining that his girlfriend likes men with big chest and six packs...that the girl will start screaming each time she sees inyanya pics...everybody in that thread was advising him to hit the gym...but a lady opened a thread saying that her boyfriend likes girls with big b..ooobs and she has it small..do you know that some girls told her that such type of man will cheat on her.that she should dump the guy....i bet that if she see another woman's pic in her hubby's profile..whether facebook or nairaland,she will turn the house upside down.

Moana:
okay, how many yankee or london boys that you know who end asking people at home to look for a wife for them to marry or they come back and marry one random lady after one month of meeting her face to face and over a year of chatting via social networks? If thats not desparation, i dont know what else is

so this is why you talked about desperatetion?mtcheew!...you forgot that majority of these guys are already married to white ladies over there.they are only trying to marry a home-bred woman.some of them are scared of white women and had to come back to look for wife.the girls who marries them are the desperate ones because some of them will be left lonely in Nigeria while the hubby will be in yankee with his white woman.the women will be sex starved and eventually start sleeping with low lives like gate men and drivers.and when their bubble bursts,they'll be fired and ridiculed.

Moana:
thats pretty much the truth, if you know of any young girl who married a man at least 20yrs old than her, let her confide in you and you will know that its all about the money, they always get the good sex elsewhere.

who cares about their cheating habit?...these days women cheats a lot in their marriage so don't make us believe that only girls who are married to older men cheats.cheating is already in women's DNA and they cheats on their young husbands everyday.btw,the old men are also catching their fun too.if you doubt me,take out time to visit one bar or club..you'll see 70yr old men with their younger mistress every where.infact,their young wives can not have fun more than their older hubbies.how will the girls enjoy their bfs when they are hiding it from everybody while the oldman will be flaunting his girlfriends every where he goes except that he wont bring them home.abegi!

Moana:
but truth remains in your 40s you will still be desparate and the fact you can get a young beautiful wife, doesnt guarantee that she will be a good one. 90% of the time where a young girl marries and old tired men,will be because she will be hoping that he drops dead of diabetes or something before she clocks 35...

And yeah when you cannot perform in bed she can just use your money to get herself a strong young bobo to service her well at any given time. At the end of it, your hard earned money will paying one boy for going down on your wife on a regular basis, while all you will be able to manage is 15secs of bad sex.

So yes men do get desparate at 40 because he will just marry whatever accepts his proposal not a woman who is actually willing to marry him because she loves him.

By the time your kids become teenagers they will be to ashamed to identify their father fear of being mocked and laughed at by their agemates. Strangers will be complementing your daughter referring to her as your grandchild. Stop petting yourself with all manner of lovely nonsense because live isn't as rosy for you as you try to put it on a faceless public forum.

hehehe I think sometimes,you women need to be told the bitter truth.
Fact still remains that you can not turn the table against men when it comes to marriage.men are in control and can get whatever they want any time they wish unlike women who will be praying,fasting and defrauded by pastors,prophets and alfas all in the name of searching for husband.at just 30,a woman is more than desperate and can be deceived,used and dumped by anything that has a d!ck.this is the time they forget that they once wished to marry a rich,tall and handsome man. some of them will even help to pay their bride price if the man is finding it hard to come up with the money.lol

have you asked yourself why all these old men who are divorced find it easier to remarry? thats because they are males and they can get themselves women of their choice anytime as far as they still have their money(which is the most important).but their divorced wife will be wallowing in loneliness,falling cheaply for anything called man,giving out free sex,and these men will flee when they've gotten enough of her money if she has any.who wants to marry an old woman when he can go for the younger ones?

Moana:
And yeah when you cannot perform in bed she can just use your money to get herself a strong young bobo to service her well at any given time. At the end of it, your hard earned money will paying one boy for going down on your wife on a regular basis, while all you will be able to manage is 15secs of bad sex.

thank GOD you admitted to this.

its interesting how women can tell the truth about their bad behaviors if that's the only way they can win in an argument like this.not long ago,"younger women and older men marriage"was discussed and women in that thread claimed that those girls are not marrying for money and will not sleep around while men were trying hard to make them understand that those girls are gold diggers.if you were there,i can bet my last kobo that you will not tell this same story.in fact you will call it love.hehehe..mind you,as the girls are spending the money on their boyfriends,the boys will be spending it on their girlfriends too.and I'm sure women doesn't like this...who's fooling who?.the old man sef will be enjoying himself in clubs and bars with his numerous girlfriends.......but then,the type of old men discussed there are men in their 60s and not 40...for your info,a man in his 40 is still a very young man..he'll still be looking cute and sexy and girls will be desperately trying to get his attention because they'll believe he's probably searching.but a woman of that age will look very old,unattractive,over weight,sagged breast and frustration written all over her face.this is why girls tend to dump their younger boyfriends to marry an older man who is ready for marriage because,according to them,by the time their boyfriends will reach 30 and getting ready to marry,they(the girls) will look old and unattractive and their boyfriends will dump them for younger girls. I believe that by the time i clock 40,which is more than a decade away,i'll still be looking young and cute.and i can still date me a woman of my choice whether as a mistress or wife.
stop trying to shift it to men.a 40 yr old man will till relax and search for a wife of his choice.there's no rushing it when things are under your control.the word "desperate" can NEVER be used in the same sentence with MEN when you are talking about marriage.
we are desperate to make money and not to get married.once money comes,women will start flowing in.i know how my life with women was when i had no job but now,i even stay away from home cos some comes uninvited.

Nicklaus:
Even if she could she shouldn't , No decent man ll leave a woman in a place without so much as a visit for 8 years without having sth he depends on for consolation. We are talking about a woman who is married here and not a virgin.

you are making excuses for the woman and crucifying the man.that's senseless!
You forgot that majority of these women knew that they will not be staying together with their hubbie before marriage and yet,they'll still go ahead to marry him because some of them already knew they can keep boyfriends as well.if you read my first post here,I talked about my uncle and his wife.ok,the wife visited one day and I was helping her in the kitchen.I asked her when she'll be relocating to lagos and said she doesn't want to come over .that she's happy living in uyo.I already knew she is happy cos she's not lacking money and probably have a boyfriend there too.

Close to my house in lekki,a rich man who stays abroad with a wife over ther came back here and got married to a young lady.the babe already knew that she'll not be travelling with him but she still married him.she has a kid for him and she brings different home to sleep with her.who do you blame? I will blame the man and also blame her for marrying a man that she'll not leave together with.truth is that many people in distant relationships sees adultry as their only way to Cope.

Moana:
its the unmarried ones that always come form baddest boy on NL at 33yrs when they hit 40yrs old they will be trying to PM every babe on NL looking for a wife and babymaker because he knows that anyday his old, tired can just drop dead without a child or someone to share his last moments with

are you insinuating that men are desperate for marriage more than women? Stop decieving yourself!! If any man sent you a pm or promises marriage,he's only trying to take advantage of the fact that women are easily decieved with marriage talks to get you laid.you think men are really that desperate about commitments? Pfft! What they want is your p.uss.sy and after that,you'll start opening threads to complain that you were used and dumped.

Even at 40 or 50,a man, whether a widow or divorcee can still marry a young and beautiful girl of his choice.so, that marriage thing no dey worry men.the only thing that worries men is how to make a good money.as for women,we can get them any time.but you cannot say the same for women,once you are above 30,problem don start and desperation will set in.she'll start making mistakes and falling for the wrong people.if she reach 40,smh case closed.just don't make mockery of men when it comes to marriage issue because we have it under control.we marries when we wishes but you cannot marry when you wish,except when a man proposes.

sweettease:
So the husband actually peeped first, what if it had been the wife of another man, him self won tap small current jor.

this is sooo true. I bet if it was another man's wife or a single lady,he'll keep quite after peeping.but he got angry because it was his wife.that's why he slapped the guy without wasting time.