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Hmmm. What do you want somebody to say? You Neva tire? Do what is best for you oga.

greypencils:
Oya feminists, come and carry your wahala...na your fellow woman do this one

They been tell you say all feminists na women?

If you don't think its also embarrassing to say you're broke as a woman...you're not serious. By the way, am is not I'm, I'm is not am.

If a man said the same thing, he's not a hoe but a 'boss'. Y'all so stupid.

eluquenson:
I don't argue with a nitwit or an olosho in the making

I made my statement clear. He who has brain, sense is expected

True. Cos you never argued with your mother.

I didn't expect sense from you, its already obvious you don't have a brain.

eluquenson:
I insist, sorry if it affects your lifestyle dearly or you pray to be like this olosho in actress clothing

You know that because you've been a customer? I bet not. Now you see how stupid you are? Any woman that is richer than you is an olosho. Loser.

eluquenson:
Sorry if it touches you dearly

Your stupidity? Nah. Can't touch me.

eluquenson:
If you and your hubby are righteous, there isn't any need for a side this or side that.

Simply because you have a side boy too, you want your future man to have one.

Actress and prostitution be like 5 & 6

Nigerian men and slut shaming be like 6 & 7

iCauseTrouble:
Yes. I support. It's called guarding your asset.
Do not take your friends to where your bread is been buttered. Some friends will take your bread, the butter, the Baker and the bakery and leave you with nothing.

Erm...its okay to refer to your partner as an 'asset'?

ladiesreject:
Lol
Why?
Insomnia don catch you abi wetin? Hanty, try and catch some sleep, you need it.

Me, I want to know what's on your mind o

ladiesreject:
Lol
Na.
I don ever talk am for Facebook I get up to 70 replies, all insults

You for no comment at all, now I can't sleep :/

DominantMale:
I hate it when they tell me about their period. I don’t ever wanna hear about that ish, lets just pretend like it dosent exist

Whaaaat? Lmao. Male version of me.

daddytime:
Lol...no mind me are

Why your eyeglass rim enter your nostril?

daddytime:
That's life bro...

Bro? He is a she. Lol

deltateam:
He swore never to marry from that state and yet he was sleeping with someone from that same state without condoms. I think he was looking for us to congratulate him and for someone from Anambra to tell him how to reclaim his children back. That's after insulting them publicly.

What an imp.

The fool. I was highly offended as I'm from Anambra state. It has come to the point where people are now judged by where they're from, not what they are. Smh.

Angry bachelor.

sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.

Wait o. You don't want to marry her because she doesn't sweep your house and she's from Anambra state? Is there something wrong with your hands that you cant sweep by yourself? bleeped her without condoms. What were you expecting? Potatoes?? Tbh you don't even sound like someone that is intelligent. You're not good enough and its sad that she is too naive to see that. You want her to keep the babies but she doesn't want to. Your opinion matters and hers doesn't? I don't support abortion, but I believe that women should have the right to do what they want with their bodies, especially if the guy she's having the babies for is someone like this. Please, for her sake, don't marry her. Imagine. What do you think you are sef. She doesn't sweep for you. Mtchew. Girls really need to stop acting stupid. Disgusting.

GHoJes:
Most sons need this training repeatedly to get the point in their adult life.

Wow. Really? Play play thing na you want to turn it to serious thing.

If hijab isn't part of the school uniform, she shouldn't wear it. Simple

Mayor08:
She is vexed and pained.. I know some men has failed but with the way this feminist say we are equal in all aspects, then no gender is responsible to protect the other.. Protect your wives and female members in your family, protect your mothers and close female pals who are worthy to be call females.. Not some dimwits who has bastardized a movement to help women succed and turn it into a beer parlour movement...This is what feminism should be about and not who washes at home, not who's surname you bear.. All Nigerian feminist are male-like and can protect themselves...Men are not stronger than them.Thumbs up tiwa..saynotorape

Everything na war with una. Someone cannot be a feminist in peace.

Tonymegabush1:
I stop hitting ladies since my secondary school days the day i beat a girl now a mother i nearly blind this girl, seeing her after that incident i wasn't proud of what i did to her since then till now me never rise hand against any girl las las na vex i go vex if she still dey misbehave she is on her own oo

No o. Continue hitting. In secondary school you were still going around throwing punches at whom you can defeat. Its not about not raising hands on any 'girl', because make I tell you, its not every woman you can beat.

mrkunlex:
I dont know what these shameless women want to turn themselves to, the senator have apologized and now you are still crying.do you want us to treat you like an angel

Imagine. You're useless.

And what concerns your sister's collapse with you repeatedly slapping someone over nothing? Looking for pity. You're still a beast.

KidsNEXTdoor:
Stretch marks everywhere...

This is the devil's ploy to deceive the gullible

Say no to this evil show... Immorality every where

What's wrong with stretch marks?? You're the devil. Body shaming pig.

I love her.

You say?

Not to sound jealous or anything but...this shape is not fine tbh

Gosh. when I see young African kids doing stuffs like this, I get so jealous. What was I doing at twelve? Lol. What am i even doing now? Reminds me of 'The boy who harnessed the wind'.

CreepyBlackpool:
You mean you seduced and fvcked an innocent armed robber that came to rob you?



Fear women!

See broda
Broda wey mumu

OgogoroFreak:
But Nigerian girls are very cheap these days na.

Smh


They should have bleeped him the expensive way,that would have been right. Smh.

imam07:
You support her because u too fucking for money or u grew up with your mama bn the bread winner in your family. We men make our wealth without ladies influence.

I had to read that thread again. I was looking for where she mentioned that she f.ucks men for a living or where she mentioned that men depend on women with influence. Shows that you're that type of man who would just assumed that wealthy women depend on men because women cannot make it in their own. You're not even worth arguing with. I just had to reply you so you know that you too, you are simply a mumu.

IamD18:
Frustrated and wayward feminists wannabes are gradually turning to motivational speakers on social media.

Failed marriage bad gan!

You're simply a mumu. You'll never recognise a smart/strong woman because you're simply a mumu.