There is no magic number, no right or wrong answer. If you ask 100 women you will get 100 different answers. What is important to me might not mean a hill of beans to another woman.
The only way to find out what a woman wants in a man is to ask the woman that you are with what SHE wants in a man. Because real talk she is the only one that should really matter.
So just be yourself, either you are the one for her or you are not.
Like i said in my praise him thread, my husband knew how to love me correctly from the start. I did not have to tell him how to love me or what i needed, he knew and he did it, he won my heart even thou i tried to keep it from him. Our love was/is effortless.
Love should be effortless. It comes naturally when two people who are compatible come together.
Are you attracted to the ugly one? if so then go ahead. If not, then leave her alone because we don't want you to come back in the future to tell us that you're so unhappy because you ain't attracted to your wife.
[quote author=sista-jay link=topic=189976.msg3019949#msg3019949 date=1225441814]How do I get a guy NOT to notice me? I am sick and tired of all the attention I'm gettin.[/quote]It is just a stage. It shall come to pass.
You lost his trust once and you need to gain it back. It won't automatically come back but with time and a little more effort from you; He will come around.
They say a man who knows what he wants won't even waste time to marry a girl he feels is the right one for him. Doesn't matter if he's only known her for a month or 2yrs That's what they say.
[b]Guys,I'm serious,[/b]I'm seriously in love with this woman. I can already see us picking out baby clothes for our kids,deciding whose turn it is to take care of the kids or go on school run.