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Maybe it is time for you to go get married.

Lmao

Go to bed. Are you a cleaner at tesco?

kokoye:
I feel some bitterness and loneliness here.

peace & love

loneliness and bitterness ke? No man would want a woman who would wait him hand and foot. You lot love a bit of a challenge and that's all whatever90 is trying to say. We know you are happily married. So good luck to you!

How can you meet her when you live in naija?

sistawoman:
I agree.  I know that I would not want to feel like what he is doing for me is a favour but instead from love.

Therefore what and when I do things for him it is always out of love and from a sinceare place.

Egwu!!

How many times do we see a thread on NL about a lover looking to come back after dumping him/her? It happens all the time. Most people don't even know what they have until it isn't there anymore.

Ify: ahubeghim moto owu ooo. Akam n'eche kwa gi.

Which one of the above do you have?

Sexyhotmom: Is that your baby?

Awww. The whole world was watching!!!

I just knew it was over when he won Ohio! This is history and I'm glad i was a part of it.

kokoye:
Every man is unique - what works for sistawoman might not work for other married women - but Yes, she has listed most of the basic things that a RESPONSIBLE man will love and appreciate in a wife.

But unfortunately, not all men (and women) are responsible - some will see ur good deeds, take it for a weakness and then start taking you for granted. Some did not experience the full joys of being a single man, start making money after they get married and suddenly decide they want to experience what they missed out on while being single despite the fact that they have a loving wife. Others are just simply greedy and dogs.

So be careful not to apply the same formula to every man and marriage. You need to study who ur dealing with well before you become a couple.

I so agree with you on this.

MrCrackles:
i would take my wife's maiden name when we get married

howzat?!

Good for you!

spikedcylinder:
Jeez. Thats really disgusting though.
What was the incentive to sleep with her again and again after the first bout of blood?

So he can discuss it with us on NL. After all his identity is protected.

Gamine:
I know its a black man thing.

I have a Yoruba friend that can hardly construct a sentence without "my mum"

But don't you think the Igbos Monogamous background

has a part to play in this?

How old is this friend of yours? It really bothers me when "boys" let their mothers control them.

abujabooks:
I don't agree with keeping my maiden name.

Neither do I

MrCrackles:
ok i take it that your stats is fictitious and dodgy

i got nothing against hookers but i only wanted to know the source of your own information

and you have stylishly manouvred your way without providing the answer

no problem, enjoy the rest of the debate!

No need to get a "source" on this. We all know good girls finish last. The bad ones marry first and many say it is because they know what they want and also go out of their way to get it. Me? I think it is something else entirely.

lmao. This is clairvoyance at its best.

kokoye:
Believe me. I said I messed with a girl that had a convenant when she was still like 15 yr jokingly.

The minute she starts enjoying sex na soso blood go dey comot like say she dey do her period o. This is real.

don't mess with da blood!

Are u for real? Please anyone else have something to add? I really wanna know.

whatever90:
prostitutes r human  beings too,infact stats shows that "they make d best of all wives"

They even marry first .

~Sauron~:
Of course.
The past does not matter to me. . . . .
There are some women worse than whores so whatz the dealio?

I hope so. Easy to say now cuz when push comes to shove. . . . . .

Onye bu ikenga?

~Sauron~:
Exactly ma point!!!
Some of em have got no choice.
Man must survive.

Okay so after understanding that . . . would you then marry one? A girl that has been unfortunate to go through such?

whatever90:
_{except its obama}

Oh there is even an exception?? Wait make Michelle catch you.

lmao. Everyone is huffing and puffing. We all know our people like money sha and some villages go over board with it.

KarmaMod:
some women actually LIKE having sex.

Mind boggling to some people, I know.

and if she's just doing it for the money then the exqample is pointless because then she actually is a prostitute

Of course. Actually i think most women like having good sex and not just with anyone. This is where the difference comes in.

whatever90:
smtimes its not all about money,but frustration of the emotional mind

sm women sleep wt any tom ,manliness and harry just because their lovers disappointed them ,and they r out they trying to live a life wt emotions and dumping men after sleeping wt them

I ain't judging anyone but most times they sleep around for the money.

KarmaMod:
Depends on why she does that.

Quite a difference between a prostitute and a slut (male and female)

I agree with everything else however.

What other reason does she have other than the money?

plus_Queen:
why do they call prostitution the oldest profession?
how come?

Even in the bible and the roman times. . . men paid for sex.

kokoye:
What is the difference between a prostitute out there on the streets and the cute girl out there who has slept with almost all the federal ministers but still has a regular day job??

Is there any justification for being a corrupt govt official ?? we still praise then when they spend their ill-gotten wealth wisely

The prayer is that God should not let us hit rock bottom, especially when you have dependents.

Judge not.

it is all one in the same. Finally someone who actually makes some sense.

Does that thing even work sef?