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BarryX: Talking of Naturals here

Okay o

BarryX: Doubt my gender
I've a handful pack down there well aligned like a dietery banana and two apples ONLY for a honeypot

So proud of it !!

U dey craze

Is your banana and apples working well well? HE/SHE got them too.

geolan: With deep regret I type this inother to educate other guys out there who might wanna fall victim. No girl I repeat No girl is a saint, uve just not gotten her dirty secrets. Real men shouldnt be tied down by love,they should get education,chase their dreams and leave the rest but along the line don't let these descendants of EVE ruin u like they ruined Adam. Once ur a d top of ur career,u can now get to pick one from d flock of sheepsgirls around u. They are just distractions and hindrance to real guys. I give up on them

True, just like no man is a SAINT.

lil max: cus you are getting old right?

No, I had a time limit. Developmental stages have time limits, hun

You cannot be a teenager for ever, you have to move on to young adulthood. You get the drift?

BarryX: I'm a HE that likes a real SHE

Thank God, I was beginning to doubt

Mondisweets: make sure your "wife material self" ends up with a man who deserves you

I will hun,I face challenges just like any other Mary, but I take my time to take decisions

Thanks anyways

BarryX: I agree with this ! Women should be more assertive and expressive not being gullible

Aaaaaah ahhhhh, which side are you on na

I give up

Mondisweets: i have been with a fair share of bad men before, until i found someone who is good, at first i always thought he was too good to be true and every single time i always thought that he was trying to deceive me by being nice until i realised he genuinely is nice call it being naive but that man makes me happy every single day. He isn't one of those guys who when u argue with will leave you to be with another woman because he thinks you nag, he is that guy who is willingly to work things out, even when I'm the one who is wrong, he puts his pride aside and we discuss how we can avoid the same thing from happening.
Not all man think with theirs assses and not all men run away from their responsibilities. Once you have a good man to show you this, you will be able to understand

Good for you

BarryX: NOT all MEN think with their "thing" --- definitely not me honey!

Inasmuch we all like it , thinking with it is rather too extreme.
Generalisations and stereotypes such as these makes women vulnerable to men antics.

Since they "assume" such generalisations to be true , they play the victim

Are you a "HE" or "HE/SHE"

fluteman: And right after binis, Ibo girls populate the ashawo business in Nigeria and west Africa!

Na your mama populate the business, not Igbo's

Triciana gal: Thank you, women are indeed our our worst enemies. So 2 adults have unprotected sex and someone is trying to put the blame on the woman alone like the man has no brain. By the way in today's world the women with kids outside marriage also get married later like their male counterparts. Ultimately it takes 2 to bring a child into this world and once a couple has unprotected sex and it results in pregnancy their is little a woman can do except she is proposing abortion which is worse. Making excuses for men not thinking is crap because the same way he can end up with an unwanted baby is the way he can end up with STDs , so abeg both the men and women need to be smarter.

A man does not hold a gun against your head and ask a woman to make a baby with him. You still have your right to exercise. Good you said both of you are adults, so as a woman use your adult brain. If you don't want a baby don't make a baby If you don't want an STD insist on a condom. A man will always make silly suggestions, that does not mean comply and later on come play victim.

Mondisweets: i guess you are judging from the ones you have encountered its cool. Okay now i understand why you reason that way

I guess its your "selective understanding" I also read naivity in you.

Its your life, you will learn

BarryX: I'm here dearie

Time machine to the rescue !!

Aaaah aaaah, I don't play the games anymore

Mondisweets: im not naive i just wanted to know if you have dated a man who doesn't use his third leg to make decisions and runs away from the consequences of his actions thats all

All men do. But I take control of my relationship form the beginning

I don't use emotions to make decisions, I use my head. I have never had a man running away from me. I am always the one to run away from a man.

BarryX: Which of you sweet ladies mind being a baby mama for moi ?

I am wife material not incubator

BarryX: Which of you sweet ladies mind being a baby mama for moi ?

No me ooo

BarryX: Focus on his pockets
Look for the newest methods of defrauding a player not the old fake pregnancy ish (i-missed-my-period), mouthy love confessions etc ,

Dear, you'll have to be creative - G-boys/ Yahoo boys think out of the box to woo a white lady, Some even go the extremes "native SciencePlus"!

I can recommend that if you're really serious making a mugu out of the dude .

Or rather try the subtle ones like "jackpot monthly salary" BUT you'll have to up your game as regards the course bedmatism 069 and higher level cores like punchjobs, fingerjobs and blowjobbing.

The higher level courses helps in stimulating the mugu cells resident in the cerebrum, and that takes the intelligence and his thinking to the third gentleman of the realm

This lecture don't come easy !!
Drop your offering on your way out

Lawd where were you when I was a player

Mondisweets: does a woman get pregnant without having sex with a man? How is it being selfish when she is not the only one engaged in the sexxx? I'm not too sensitive... Okay have u been in a relationship with a man who doesn't think with his dicck before?

I have noticed that you also have "SELECTIVE INTERPRETATION" problem. You take one statement that touches you where its sensitive, overly intepret the statement and obviously out of context. If you can read all that I said. Understand it as is, you will understand what I am saying.

In essence, I am saying woman should stop making babies out of wedlock. Religion, culture and societal norms does not support it as well.

I understand you are SA through your thread, SA society is beyond repairs. But that does not mean live and accept abnormalcy as normalcy. Wrong should be condemned. I know here in SA, kids out of wedlock are the order of the day, thereby anybody in society gets scared to address the fact that its wrong because of fear of being judged that they judge the new abnormal normalcy.

To answer your questions:
Yes woman get pregnant with man
Selfish in a sense that the woman partakes in making babies sometimes to trap a man and not thinking of the repercussions for the unborn child
All man can sometimes be pushed by their third leg, even the strongest Pastors. Adam, Solomon etc in the bible could not resist.

I was once as naive as you are. Overruling the human factor in man. I just hope you don't pass through the dangers that I went through because of naivity. I thank God, i am here today

Mondisweets: but then again its only when a woman has had a relationship with a responsible man that a woman can know that they are men out there who can use their heads to think

Well I am glad that you shine your eyes that you choose responsible man. Some woman don't shine their eyes well, well oo.

All I can tell you is, in this journey of life you will realize that all of us are not perfect including your responsible man. Then you will realize that men out there can really be pushed by their third leg

I just hope it will still be too early for you to make amends. Then you will realize there was nothing condescending with what I said. Just plain facts and truth. Woman are making themselves cheap. Why have a baby Though I do not have the statistics, but I can tell you that majority of the time when a woman have a baby out of wedlock, they dont end up with the babydaddy or the babydaddy demands abortion and leaves you afterwards. But you choose. Its your life.

[quote author=Mondisweets][/quote]Ooooooh, that

@Mondisweets, honestly what you quoted, I do not see anything condescending. Just pure truth. Or perhaps using the word "rat" was condescending/

If I was fond of putting women down I would not tell them to wise up against man and stand up for themselves. Instead I support woman except the foolish ones, who take foolish decisions and cry foul for being man victims.

I think you are very sensitive and read too much into statements. You also interpret statements too much and reading too much into things Perhaps you read some of my statements from other threads now you want to see " A self fulfilling prophecy"

I am just against woman selfishly making babies meanwhile the victim will be a the child at the end of it all.

Mondisweets: you really are fond of putting other women down

How did you come to that conclusion? "AM FOND" Its as if you have been observing me

masonkz: Nope. Just that the people you thought were heterosexuals are coming out as gay... and of course when many of that start happening, you'd naturally think that straight people are turning gay, when the case is not so. If Nigeria is to allow gay be themselves today, you'd be heavily surprised by the number of people that would come out as gay, including a relation/friend. If you're straight, you're straight.

True

I can imagine Naija. Alot of parents will be admitted to hospital for hyper-tension. Some buried

Evy E: somehow i am so scared of dating someone with a baby or speaks bad of his ex.

That's future normalcy luv. Hurtful as it is

No wahala, so long as it not my man oo. Keep away from my man, abeg.

Looks like heterosexuals may get more and more extinct.

Mondisweets: i don't have a child yet my point u are making it seem as if the value of a woman is determined by sex whereas the value of dignity of a man isnt

I did not say the value of a woman is on sex @ all. You keep on interpreting something which does not need interpretation. What I wrote, has no hidden meaning it just as it is.

But thanks for adding that point,its also true. No man wants a community bicycle as a partner or wife.
Unfortunately we live in a mans world, where the standards used on a woman are more harsher and stricter than the standards used on a man.

A man can have gazillion children out of wedlock, but a if a woman does equally the same, she will be harshly judged. So woman should wise up, and know your value, procreating out of wedlock like a rat will not help anyone.

mimopel: Forgive me am very religious person so dnt blame my opinion...bt an a lady, G string pant is nt spiritually hygienic for dedicated christian or muslim, u nd I knw dis pant is bad bt because u love dem u want to make dem feel lyk its an obligatn...G string pant hav a lot of effect its nt comfortable @ all it stick deep in btw ur boobs nd doesn't make u feel ok...puttin on a G string pants is d same has wearin nthin on cos ur boobs is still dis left open!!...a decent lady ll nt only wear her pants (nt G strings) bt ll also put on a short tights as well dat if she isn't wearin a trouser, haba!!...decency in d insyd too matters!!!

Hun, spiritually unhygienic, which verse is that Remember that's your religion and its not our religion. If your religion says so, so be it. It will do you no good enforcing your religion on other people. I am Christian and my religion has never said anything about my g-string.

So all people who wear G-strings are not decent. Eeeeeh? I disagree with your reasoning. But If you are talking about hygiene, I hear you and I agree with you. Besides what happened to" each man to his own"? We all have the facts about hygiene and one should choose what they want, freedom of choice.

Mondisweets: this, IN MY OPNION, sounds like you are saying that sex should continue to be treated like something that is not sacred for the men, i.e. i can shag u and simply move on to the next one, no strings attached, doesnt matter, but for a women sex determines her value.

Eeeeeew, pheeeeeeeew, your thoughts are so abstract I can't comprehend if you are asking or if its a statement. I read it over and over again, and still could not comprehend your question or statement.

Anyways, I was trying to say with the highlighted is as is..

Whether there is a baby or no baby if a man is not meant to be your man, you can never have a "HAPPY ENDING'' So woman should stop procreating before the ring. It makes no difference to a man and the feelings he have for you.

Woman are getting cheaper everyday, by being voluntary baby making machines everyday, that man do not make any effort to get anything to get them.

That's so cheap. Sex and kids before marriage is cheap. Having kids before marriage is cheapest. Sorry if you have one, but is the truth.

Mondisweets: a man can never be trapped by a baby, if he knows the possible outcomes of his actions then he shouldnt claim that he was trapped

We all know that man think with their third leg, while woman think with emotions and thereby lack vision to see clear long repercussions of their actions.

Because a man suggest sex does that mean agree to all his suggestions even when you know they are wrong??

If man claims to be trapped, let it be. Let them lie. We dont need in our society woman who cant think, putting innocent kids in difficulty of being neglected by their fathers, missing an opportunity to live with their fathers etc. because of them

Sex and procreation before marriage is wrong. Woman are in control and we have the power to stop it and stop playing victims of man.

chaircover: That is not a fair statement. The thread has been in existence since 2008 and with no problems and a lot of people have gained positively from the advise received here.

All the mods have been on Lucky-G's case long before you came in contact with him. His other handle has been banned and he has been asked not to post medical advise on here anymore.

We shouldn't kill a mosquito with a sledgehammer and if we close the thread, many more people will loose out.

The Bottom line is, (and I am stressing it here again) , This thread does not serve as a be all end all solution for health issues and people should still go and see their respective doctors for a proper diagnosis and treatment. All the doctors are doing on here is offering advise.

Thanks. I heard you. This is not an attack on you. Or you as a person. It was just a suggestion.

I am still saying better close the thread. It used to serve its purpose, now it doesn't. Maybe open a new one or better manage the contributors, so that we know that we have these particular contributors ( if possible ).

Not some random OKADA MAN like LUCKY G and his cohorts