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Slowpois0n: wen single unmarried ladies full everywhere like recharge card, na expired product i go con carry put for house. its a no for me.

Too many single woman, but very few wife material amongst them. You choose

If you want peace in your life never ever borrow money to family, friends & partner.

When you borrow money to friends, family and partner, write it off. Simple as that.

If I were you, I would not even give a man ideas that I have money. I never borrow a man money, especially if we are not married.

Under no circumstances should you give a boyfriend money or borrow him your car.

[quote author=business MODE ]True talk... But believing the term TIME WASTERS could be dangerous... Accepting anyone could lead you to loosing everyone... Men are conscious of the kind of woman around them and what the future hold... Recently a friend's family caught his girlfriend in a hotel cuddling someone... She left them in an event they all traveled to as a family claiming she want to console her friend who lost a relative only to be shocked when her boyfriends older brother and a senior military officer caught her in the act of been smart.... Be ware ooooo[/quote]I don't think OP meant having more than one relationships simultaneously. He meant having friends, who are possible suitors

Can't trust a man these days

publisher: 2. Be open to younger men: if you are in your mid 30s upwards and still insisting on finding an older man; be prepared to settle down with a divorcee, widower, polygamist, handicap or a homosexual. Go figure.

3. Never close doors to suitors even if you are in a relationship. A lot of women make this mistake and become prey to 'TIME WASTERS'. If a woman is currently dating a man that has not yet paid her bride price she MUST never close her doors to other 'serious' toasters. This doesnt mean she should sleep around,but keep them as friends. You may break off the friendship with all your toasters ONLY after your current boyfriend has presented wine to your family and openly declared his intention to marry you with an established time-table.

CONSULTATION IS NOT FREE O! lol

No 2 . Tufiakwa. I can never date a boy. Sorry.

No 3 I love it I've always practiced it Man are unpredictable.

Harbosede02: hold on,are u blaming d lady here??do u knw wat d guy might av said 2 ha??he might av told sumfin lyk"if u don't get pregnant i can't mari u,cos afta d marriage aw am i sure u wud concieve",datz aw sum naija guys thinks,afta they've impregnanted d gurl,dey wud nw start tinking of aw big d marriage responsibility is,so d way out for dem is 2 run away!!

If as a woman you feel compelled to do such, then you are not ready to get married. You are a pushover and he will continue to bully you even after marriage.
No one can force me to get pregnant when we are not married to him, period

baralatie: did u read the part 'they had done their traditional weding.read the story again.
And the constitution of nigerian recognises traditional/customary marriage.
Also marriage is not when u put ring on a girls finger

I read the story, so my comprehension was clear. For Christians, so long as you have not went to church, the wedding is incomplete.
So park jare

Woman, smh

baralatie: what is customary/traditional marriage!
D child was born into an already married status.thb husband only ran away becoz sombdy said if he cont d marriage he wil die.
Now if d child becom a mikel or omotola/don jjazi.what wil hapen!

Unfortunately for Christians its not so.Before the wedding its fornication.
Besides a woman get pregnant for nine months dude, so they most likely were not customarily married, when she got pregnant.

Anything can happen between engagement and wedding.

Personally, put a ring before baby

GustavoFring: A man has to upgrade when achieves a certain status.

A man aiming to achieve a higher social status must find a more befitting bride as soon as he can afford to.

Harsh fact.

Very painful truth

You can measure the loyalty and love of a woman when a man has nothing. and
You can measure the loyalty and love of a man when a man is somebody.


But man are different, some do stick around

Why a baby before wedding/ marriage

See na, she is suffering the consequences. If she waited, she could have moved on gracefully when the man dumps her. smh

Sorry for her