sladimeji:

Its obvious you are no Christian...God made us with flaws..if you want to go about pointing at people's flaws just make sure your fingers are clean...leave her alone if you cannot wish her well...what if someone is saying it won't be well with you in ur marriage because of what u belief in ??

I am no Christian that's true. My beliefs do not go around pretending perfection like Christianity. I know I am not perfect too.

If someone were to say" It will not be well with you" to me. I will definitely an introspection and establish what I did wrong. I didn't get my husband from another woman who happened to be the 1st wife. So, nothing will happen to my marriage.

Anything that will happen to my marriage will be because of a role I played in ruining it. Not because I made one woman and her children cry knowingly.

Mind you I am no Christian but I know that when you take a man from his wife and kids, a lot of things suffer.

eyinjuege:


Then perhaps she's no longer Christian?
Since when has Christianity or any religion stopped any vices in the world? Has it stopped people from stealing, killing, envying, getting jealous or whatnot? These are all vices the bible discourages.
She has exercised her right as a human being first, by choosing whatever she wants to practice. Why is that an issue?
If you have an issue with Christianity, that's your cup of tea. It still won't stop those that want to practice it from doing so. The interest and angle in which you've pushed your narrative is very suspicious, particularly as you claim not to even believe in the bible.
Even the spirro Christians are not this pained about this union to the extent of cursing her and her marriage.
It seems to be beyond her being a Christian, and the Ooni being a traditionalist+Christian.
Anyway, that vibrant shade of green you're wearing makes it all clear Madame.

Listen, whether she is no still or no longer a Christian is not an issue here. The fact of the matter is she made her decision while she was a Christian.

I am against that same fukkin religion since it has not stopped any of the vices that you mentioned above including adultery by the prophetess.

You Christians are frikkin hypocritical. You only apply the bible when it suits you and on the other hand wanna practice culture and African religions when it suits you while criticing those who practice African religion and voodoo.

You are not suppose to be taken seriously for practicing foreign religions and claiming them to be your own while criticising others.

She took someone else's husband while she was practicing Christianity and that is adultery according to her hypocritical adopted religion. According to her hypocritical religion there are consequences for her sin or act. And that is " It shall not be well"

She can ask for references from wife number 2.


As for green and envy Really ma'am!!!! You don't know how lucky I am. How loved I am. I cannot even start naming all my blessings because it will.look like I am bragging. I married a wonderful man I don't even know where to start describing him. I cannot envy this 2 min marriage.


The cane that flogged the 1st and 2nd wife will definitely flog her ( Mrs Prophetess Adulterer )

sladimeji:

so you are blind you did not see where the verse said except on d ground of sexual immorality.... werey somebody..be passing judgment upandown like you are flawless

Christians and condoning your immorality. Mmxceeew.

I saw that part. I find it unbelievable that both wives cheated.

Thats not my point. My point is on the decision taken by the prophetess to take someone else's husband while they are alive and claim to be Christian.

I am challenging her Christian stance and taking someone's husband.

Mind you I am no Christian. I.am showing you how hypocritical Christians are.

eyinjuege:


Her husband is a traditionalist. He is allowed to marry as many wives as he wants. The more the merrier.
Everyone is allowed a freedom of religion, and she has exercised that right. She has also become a custodian of tradition by virtue of association. She is free to practice her Christianity with it, perhaps even add some other religions.
She is a young beautiful lady who has agreed to marry a king. Wish them well, and move on.
You are already wishing their marriage to break down, yet trying to twist it that it's what the Bible says, despite not believing in the bible. We see through the dark place your thoughts come from.
You actually wear green very well.

You don't get my point. I have no problem with how many women her husband decides to marry. Or the fact that he is a traditionalist. All traditional leaders are traditionalist.

All I am asking is,

"How does a Christian woman marry another woman's husband while the first wife is alive?"

If she is Christian, that should have not even crossed her mind.

otherway:


You be mumu.

What if it as the women that divorced him and not the other way round just as Anita divorced Chris oyakhilome.

You are toddler regarding this matters.

Thank you oo, I sleep a better mumu knowing I no longer follow a religion of hypocrisy.

Christianity only condones separation in the event of cheating any other circumstance the bible only recommends celibacy or reconciliation.

Matthew 19:9

And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery


1 Corinthians 7:10-11

To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife


Meaning

Luke 16:18

“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery

It's impossible that both his first and second wife are all cheaters. The second one was already committing adultery. Particularly the first wife, the mother of his grown children.

This one a a whole Prophetess decides to go and enter another woman house Where are her single age mates who have never been married ? How does she read her scriptures. Upside down?

The Ooni could have possibly reconciled with the first wife if there is no woman entertaining him. So she is standing in the way of reconciliation.

eyinjuege:


Why are you saying it shall not be well with her? She didn't snatch him from anyone as he was well and truly divorced. He might even decide to marry 10 wives, all of whom are recognised as his wives and their children given the status of the children of a king.
While you're laying curses on someone, don't forget that curses do boomerang.
You better go and remove the curse you've just laid over yourself, because the spirit in her and those tough ones in her husband will soon come after you.
Go and ask Oba Akiolu of Lagos

Listen, it's Christianity that is totally against marrying someone else's husband while they are alive. There is a part in the Bible that even encourages any divorcee to reconcile with their partner. If you are a Christian and you marry a divorcee, you standing in the way of the couple reconciling.

1 Corinthians 7:10-11

To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.


I am no Christian I was just highlighting what your bible says.

Christian love justifying their immorality and picking and choosing things you want in the Bible.

Don't pick and choose, do everything required of you by the bible.

I didn't curse her,I am stating the obvious. The second wife left. It was not well with her. The third one will leave too.
So long as the first one is alive, Christianity does not condone this marriage.

Martin0:

otherway:


This is one of the most stupid comments I have ever read on nairaland.

You sound pained and damaged.May GOD heal your soul.

Pained!!!? Funny how Christians attach a label on anyone who challenges them and their religion.

These are the verses from your sexist and patriarchal and shitty book.


Luke 16:18

“Everyone who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.

Matthew 5:32

But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

1 Corinthians 7: 10-11

To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife



Your Ooni divorced the mother of his kids ( 1st wife ). He married again ( mind you someone else's wife ) and divorced her again.

Now he is marrying a prophetess who should be knowing the bible better than her husband.

If your Christian God exists and he really contributed to compilation of the book, do you think he is happy about this?

sladimeji:

it is already well with her...you will wait till kingdom come..werey

Mumibaby:
Continue to wait, all I see in you is jealousy.

Jealousy I am married to a very humble and loving man. I can't be jealous of her who will now not have freedom to even go shit without people accompanying her. I am content with my husband and our lives my dear.

Praktikals:
You shall wait in vain. Eleribu

We will see. A two times divorcee!!!

otherway:


This is one of the most stupid comments I have ever read on nairaland.

You sound pained and damaged.May GOD heal your soul.

Which stupid? I quoted her bible. I didn't make anything up. The man is a two times divorcee. The girl is a Christian who should know that marrying someone's husband destroys hope for the couple to reconcile. She a party to the sin.
IT'S NOT MY RELIGION, IT'S HERS.


I will wait for a Christian God to answer to this matter. Five years is too long.

According to her most loved and self imposed foreign religion ( Christianity ) so long as the first wife is still alive, she is committing adultery.

It shall not be well with her.
The Ooni divorced the first and second wife. What will stop him from divorcing her too.


We will wait and observe

ZombiePUNISHER:


You seem to know much about genitals

Yes. I am familiar with my own and my husbands.

Why show his genitals? Can't you blurr it ? ��

Why run to his house? WHY not bank account?

The guy is recruiting him for his gay activities.

charliboy654:

Sad but true, it very obvious, look at all black nations in the world, within and outside Africa, they are all backward.

How do you measure backwardness or forwardness so to speak?
Who or what is the standard?

Smellymouth:
Nigerians sef . How can someone say she is a Traditional evangelist?

Its clear that religion has never been ours. We just like pretending and owning our colonisers things by force.

NwaAmaikpe:




I bet she is very local.
She can't even use makeup.

Make-up is deception.

ireneidiva:

Is English your native language? Why not type in Igbo language? Why wear or eat things not African too? Allow people to breathe and have their own opinion. I detest people who use insulting words during arguments. Africans are trained to be respectful. Humans should even have mutual respect so this is my last message to you.

Listen, I didn't even invite you to respond to my comment. You invited yourself.

On using Igbo, how will I have known that everyone on this platform understands Igbo. Yes we were colonised and made to ignore and believe that English is the most convenient and easiest language. We were made to ignore our languages in favour of English and that was not right. We can change it.

As for using Western products, that's one absurd and retarded comment I always hear from white supremacists.
I say it's ubsurd, because
1. it clearly portrays your thinking as a white supremacists. You think white people are the only people who created things in this world and therefore black people are merely consumers.
It's really retarded thinking. So many inventions were invented by Africans/black people and some were stolen by the same white people you are praising and passed on as theirs. Read your history.

2. Trade has always been the backbone of human existence and survival between continents and races. Arabs, Europeans, Indians sold their goods and took Africans good and raw materials, so whatever technology they have it would have eventually ended in Africa because of trade. Whatever we had was eventually going to end in their hands too.

3. That being said we traded as Africans and exchanged things that were useful and that added value and improved our lives. What does giving an English name improve or add value to an African? Does it make you immune to racism and discrimination when in Western countries? Instead it demeans you and make you look stupid for adopting things that you don't even fully understand.

4. Our African names always have meanings and always defined our path in life ( consciously or unconsciously. You are pathetic if you are not aware of that and continue to fight for names that mostly have no meaning to Africans.

As for allowing people to breath
1. If their business is not on a public forum I will not add my two cents. So long as they put their private business on public forums for ordinary people's consumption, I will continue adding my two cents on the matter and there is nothing you can do about it.
2. I have a right to add my two cents on how black/African people should operate. In fact every African has a right to say how they want our societies and race to operate. Deal with it.



What you need to do is
1. work on your white supremacists attitude that makes you think and believe that only white people are the only inventors and creators ( a lot of inventions were invented by Africans/blacks, some continue to do so even today in Nigeria alone). Some were invented by Japanese, Chinese etc. So your thinking is retarded.

2. Work on your attitude that white or English or foreign things are good. That's white supremacists attitude. You are colonised and you think that your own is inferior that you are ready to fight for foreign names.Pathetic.

What a pathetic woman you are. What are you going to teach your kids about self love, if you despise the very same thing that defines being African ( name).


You are a disgrace.

ireneidiva:

Veronica means 'She who brings victory'.

You heard or Googled? It's not your understanding or common man knowledge. It's what you got from Google. I am sure of that.

Why does it hurt for Africans to let go of colonisation? WHY do Africans love being colonised so much?

English names were given to Christians and Muslims by force in an attempt to wipe out everything about your languages and not that God never appruoved of your language or Native names. It was all White and Arab supremacy, yet you find it hard to let go.

Why are Africans so stupid and docile?

ireneidiva:

What is wrong with giving MY child an English name? Apparently, anybody that has a different opinion from yours is an Idiot. You are really pathetic. Have a nice day madam.

What's idiotic is not knowing that you hate yourself and your language that you cannot stand naming your kids in your language. That's really pathetic.

You love foreign things that you are ready to fight for them instead of fighting to keep yours. You are so in love with being subjugated.

Have you see a White, Indian, Chinese with an Igbo or Yoruba or any African name?

What's so special about English names. It's so backwards and sick.

It was used during colonial era to brainwash and make us forget about our own names and importance

SO, you find that acceptable. If you do, yes you are stupid.

safarigirl:
i am not justifying anything. I only corrected your wrong assumption that Mama Hailey is an "African mother"....just because someone is black doesn't mean they can relate to an African name.

Would you have preferred the child be named Taquisha or one of those 'African-American' names?

Listen, the father of this child is Yoruba and it would have been appropriate for her to get a Yoruba name.

Giving a child a foreign name is plain self hatred.

safarigirl:
she's not an African mother. Hailey's mother is an American

So does that mean she should be called Veronica or Hailey. What do those names mean? What's wrong with having and African name?

Does that make this child less of an Africans ( Yoruba)? Does that makes her white?

Why bear an English name when you are not white.

Have you seen a white Amaka, Chukwuemeka, Babatunde etc? Why are you trying to justify bearing an English name?

Nixiepie:
pls what is wrong with the name Veronica?

There is everything wrong with having unAfrican names when you are African.

What does Veronica means? Do you know?

ireneidiva:

It's people that don't mind their business and make unnecessary comments about other peoples lives that are pathetic.

Rubbish. If it's private then it should be on social platforms.

It's unnecessary to you probably because you give kids English names.
Idiot

"Veronica"

Which sane young African mother will name her beautiful girl "Veronica"?

Pathetic

kumakunta:

That is why you should learn to attack the people and not the religion. I give little or no bleeps about the inhumane Arabs also but I won’t accept someone drag my religion into it . Same way Christianity also has nothing to do with Slavery . We have bad Muslims and bad Christians . I don’t want to argue on which one has more bad people shit . Imam and pastors are one of the most bleeped up people on earth .

YOU OWN NO RELIGION. ISLAM IS ARAB RELIGION.

YOU ARE A SLAVE TO A RELIGION THAT WAS IMPOSED TO YOUR FOREFATHERS.

YOU ARE PROTECTING AND DEFENDING A RELIGION WHICH NEVER HAD YOUR BEST INTERESTS AT HEART AS AN AFRICAN.


OWNING IT AMOUNTS TO FOOL.ISH.NESS.

IT WAS NEVER YOURS. AND NEVER WILL BE.

Ugosample:



Hmmmm


I thought you were in Saudi
that means you know then very well.

But Muslim non Arab countries are not as terrible as the Arabs

which makes me think it probably has to do with their ethnic inclinations and values

As since there is no blurred line between culture and religion for them, it creeps into Islam


yeye

I am back. ARABS AS A COLLECTIVE are BAD.
Arabs are the bearers and owners of the religion. You cannot separate the owner from what is owned. If the owner is bad, his whole belief system is bad.

Islam was imposed on people. None of our forefathers accepted Islam because they wanted to. They accepted the religion under duress and facing death.


Arabs rationalised slavery, thuggery, sexual violence using the same Quran. The Quran has verses that condones slavery, owning slaves, keeping sexual slaves, sexually violating slaves.

They still believe in that even today even though world laws do not permit them, they still do it and see us as inferior.

There in nothing good about Arabs as a collective and their thinking and Islam. Islam and Christianity are bad.

African Muslims are stupid because they support something that oppress us as a collective. They are also bad.

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kumakunta:

That is why you should learn to attack the people and not the religion. I give little or no bleeps about the inhumane Arabs also[b] but I won’t accept someone drag my religion into it .[/b] Same way Christianity also has nothing to do with Slavery . We have bad Muslims and bad Christians . I don’t want to argue on which one has more bad people shit . Imam and pastors are one of the most bleeped up people on earth .

You are very misinformed if you think religion ( Islam and Christianity ) have nothing to do with slavery.

Both those religions have quotes or verses in both the Quran or Bible which condone slavery and asking slaves to behave and accept what their master says.
Both races ( Arabs and Europeans ) rationalised slavery using religion ( Islam and Christianity ) that's why till today Islam see no reason to apologise because the Quran condones slavery.


Let me remind you, as an African no matter how many times we convince ourselves that Islam and Christianity are ours, their will always remain foreign to us. They were imposed to us by both Arab and European colonisers.

ISLAM with its LANGUAGE IS NOT YOUR RELIGION, YOU ARE LYING TO YOURSELF. IT WAS IMPOSED TO YOUR FOREFATHERS AND PASSED ON TO YOU.
ISLAM IS OWNED BY ARABS. YOU ARE NOT ARAB, ARABIC IS NOT YOUR LANGUAGE AND THE RELIGION WILL NEVER BE YOURS.

You sound retarded for fighting to own something that's not your. That your forefathers resisted to accept and some died and some enslaved because of it.

Ugosample:


what is this one saying?

Arabs (well not all of them) are animalistic punks
I know because I have had dealings with them

And they committed far worse crimes in Africa, and are yet to own up to it

Arabs are the scum of the earth
(the millennial seem to be a lil different tho)

Well ALL of them. We should stop affording other races the luxury of individualism while they don't afford you as an African individualism.

If an African man does something, we all get labeled as a collective.

Arabs and their Islam are all evil. Period.

Even those good ones you are talking about have never fought their own people to stop what they are doing. Meaning they condone it too.

kumakunta:

And what about Italy ? Christian dominated country , how do they treat blacks ?
When the whites brought slavery to Africa in the name of religion fools like you would have called it development. Deranged son of discord .

You must be Muslim that is why you are trying to defend and divert the issue.

No one defended Christianity. In fact both Christianity and Islam committed heinous crimes in Africa.
BUT Islam was the first religion who came to Africa to enslave our people. Their slavery started earlier and lasted longer than that of Christianity. They have never edmitted their wrong doing and apologised. Instead they pretend like it doesn't exist while continuing doing it.

She spent her money shooting the video, make-up, catering, venue,back up artists, instrument artists, wardrobe, equipment, lighting, advertising.

SHE CONTRIBUTED POSITIVELY TO THE ECONOMY.

What have you done?

She looks good.

I wonder what is she going to teach her daughter.

Self loathing and self-hatred I feel for that child before she is even born.