tiredoflife:


I agree
She didn't know the meaning of what she demanded
No woman in her right senses would ask a man to come and collect the dowry back
Unless she is damn sure another man is standing to pay for it on the spot
You do that u bring shame on ur clan
And u and ur family will not be forgiven

I think she once said she paid the dowry herself. As in she gave Churchill the dowry.
That means she knew the man was poor before marrying him. Or it could be she was saving face when she got pregnant before marriage.

So how come Churchill had to collect it when she could walk to her father and collect it herself ? ���
It was her dowry, abi?

kimbraa:
This is what happens when you marry for the wrong reasons.

It's clear she married for money and Obasanjo's fame.

She is right with regards to hair, but her reasoning is still not right.

Our hair was a tool to mock our Africanness. It was a tool to make us feel inferior and hate ourselves. Out hair was a tool used against us to encourage us to hate anything about being African and praise European standards of beauty and make them our standards.

The same religion is guilty of perpetuating hatred for our African standards of beauty and also anything that has to do with our uniqueness.

Nevertheless, she is right. When you wear weaves and foreign hair,
1. you are agreeing with those who mocked and continue to mock our Africanness and the essence of who we are.

If you wear WEAVES and WIGS ( Peruvian, Brazilian, Indian etc) know that you
1. Are Perpetuating hatred of African standards of beauty by other races.

2. Are funding a business founded on hatred of your natural looks and that promotes European standards of beauty.

3. Are funding a movement thats is against African standards of beauty.

4. Are making a mockery out of the whole African race and also promoting a perception that we hate ourselves because of your individual self-loathing.

5. Are economically elevating another race ( Indians, Brazilians etc.) by freely giving your money for something you really dont need while you are making yourself poorer

Forreellinc:
horse teeth

NotBeenPaid:

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Camel teeth nko

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Chizzyjoyce:



As I hear Tony Umez's daughter I come dey think say na one beauty queen like that unto say her papa na fine màn. Buh I was rather disappointed

I'm not saying she isn't fine oo.. I'm only saying she fall hand small

Meanwhile see how fresh Tony Umez is

sotall:
She is beautiful

Those shovel teeth though

sotall:
She is beautiful

Those shovel teeth though

HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE

OladimejiRufai:


I like you

*covers my face out of shyness*

I hope I dont get a sting sha

It seems I am likely to get one

Yes oo, I wanna sting, but I feel sorry for you.

You just started engaging with me and you like me?? You need God

OladimejiRufai:


wow! impressive!

But I want to say something.

Can i say it

as long as you will say something that will not earn you a sting from me. Proceed.

OladimejiRufai:


How did u know this by the way

I used to listen to the guy for interest purposes and followed his background history. I also read too much of Southern African history.

I know he is Indian, he is not Arab.

Some Muslim Indians like hiding their Indian identity probably to avoid racism within the religion. I guess no one will give him attention once its openly known he is Indian. He is unlikely to get airtime especially in the Middle East and Asia. So his Arab regalia and light skin confuses everyone.

See how religion has divided a country and it's people.

People are using religion to define themselves. It's no longer tribe.

Europeans and Arabs did irreversible damage. Rubbish.

chuddyforlife:


hi chinelo which part of s.a do u reside?

I am back now. I could not last longer than 3 yrs

vioment:



Abeg no make me laff. Born in zimbabwe and all the excuses you made for him. One solution, make we check im papers.

If his arab countries don't accept africans in their place fully and respectfully, kindly inform your idol/master that africa is not his home; he is an illegal immigrant as far as am concerned, and our Zimbabwean sibling nation should be concerned and deport and seize all his properties, before he become a nuisance to Zimbabwe and the rest of africa.

Exactly. He was just born in Zimbabwe, but he will never be native. In fact he is Indian, but he likes wearing these Arabs regalia God knows why.

OladimejiRufai:


Dont mind his colour

He is actually from Zimbabwe.

As in a native of Zimbabwe, born to Zimbabwean and grew up in Zimbabwe before going to study Islam in Madeenah years later

Educate urself before u spew rubbish anywhere not only on Nairaland. Ignorance is a poison. Believe me, it can be the cause of ur death

Yes he is Indian, but in no way does that make him native. Most Indians in the Southern African regions landed in South Africa as slaves and then moved up north to Zimbabwe.

No race is native to Africa except Africans.Even Arabs too are not natives. They are mere colonisers.

He was just born there, he can never be native. I think you need to Educate yourself more.

Saff:
everybody is a millionaire online. Go and sit down my friend, miserable cow even on a Sunday. Shiooorr

that was savage

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Very very Ugly house

TEYA:
Ugly house

At least she has an ugly house to give to her parents. Show us your own na?

Show us your pretty house you gave to your parents??

God bless her.

It's good when we take care of our parents. May God bless her again

neolboy:
Justin no resemble him papa at all

You took it out of my mouth. 2face genes are too strong, but these kids don't look like him at all.

I can never be surprised if they turn out not to be his kids

There is absolutely nothing that looks like their father.

enemyofprogress:
The daughter is very ugly just like his parents. I ate ugly childrens

Are you depressed??

alexistaiwo:
Is he not supposed to be in NYSC camp?

Good question.

Elder0001:


Linda ikeji,mercy aigbe,tiwa savage and toke makinwa aren't feminists.

Please don't be stupid

I don't have your energy. Next time we can debate. Not today punk.

Herrmes:
You dont know what I support or don't support

I agree, with your gender talk

Hmm, I have nothing to say about the last paragraph.

Society building starts with building the individual, if each individual is devoid of the right mindset, I do not believe, the society is going to be a very prosperous one.

Building societies start in families. The same families that you feminists tell women they don't need.

A broken child is made broken by a broken home. A child come into contact with the society after home training and moulding.


INDIVIDUALS don't build themselves they are built by families then communities.
That's what I don't like about feminists. YOU DON'T understand that. White people's mentality is dominating your thoughts that you don't think that they only thing they could use to destroy you is destroy an ANCIENT old institution of marriage and family.

Herrmes:
Sweetheart, I cannot play these name calling games with you.

Of course you did attack her, because everything you said was in an attempt to mount an offence to her current stand, so that's an attack, albeit you trying to make it subtle

Do I need to be more purposeful in my explanation of these things to you?

So now opposing people who spew weak stances of Feminism is attacking, then yes I did. Fortunately she proved me right that she needs a man.

Yes I take a stand against feminists and their feminism because it's just anither white man's strategy to create divisions in our society. I don't believe to achieve an equal society for all genders we need feminism.

You have not proof. You cannot even quote me where I attacked her, so your insinuation is just rubbish. You don't need to explain anything because you have nothing to explain.

Linda Ikeji, Toke Makinwa, Mercy Aigbe, Tonto Dike, Town Savage ALL need a men. Including other feminists who buy into this feminism ideas which don't serve them well.

Herrmes:
And you're so bent on attacking her, just so you can say "I was right"

Sweetheart, if there's an idiot here, it's you.

I wish you lot can stop supporting this rubbish the way you don't support HOMOSEXUALS.

All genders need each other. Every women and men need a COMPANION, for the purposes of BREEDING , SEXx,FAMILY,STABILITY, BELONGING etc.

Even the most vocal feminists don't reorganise and rearrange their lives into chaos for the purposes of being a feminist.

We need this to build our societies. It is not luxury it's the purpose of life.

Herrmes:
And you're so bent on attacking her, just so you can say "I was right"

Sweetheart, if there's an idiot here, it's you.

When did I attack her?

All I said then was that people should not think that ladies with money don't need or want a man.
When they have money they always pretend like they don't need or want a man. They become so obsessed with feminism that they start denying themselves the very same thing that is their main purpose in life ( companionship and reproduction/breeding).

She proved me right and openly said she wanted a man ,marriage and all that comes with it.

Unfortunately because of her age, she settled for someone else's man and father. Rearranging the life of someone who chose to settle earlier and the life of her kids.

How did I attack her, dunce??

Beautiful people. Congratulations.

Elder0001:



So sad how Nigerian women enable misogyny and patriarchy.

This is the same way you were insulting Genevieve and feminists on that thread where she came out to be a feminist because you were getting praises from foolish men.

Why do you think every woman sees marriage as priority like you ? So sad we are in 2018 but you reason like someone living in 1205 .

You're just a fool.

Foolish women like you suffering from Stockholm syndrome is the reason Nigerian men don't respect women.

So I hold mysogynist views when I point out the obvious?

The same people who claim don't need men, you see them running up and down having kids from a whole lot of different men like a box of kindergarten wax crayons.

The same woman who think they don't need men go on to date married for money, sex and children and give trouble to woman who choose to settle down earlier in their lives.

Marriage and giving your offspring a stable life with both parents is a priority. No matter how you feminists and people who support modern family rubbish view it. A family should have both parents of opposite genders raising sound children. Besides, it has been proven through your same scientific psychology and social reaserches that children who grow without both parents tend to have maladaptive and maladjustment issues.

I read somewhere that Mercy Aigbe, was dating a married man who funded all her lifestyle.

Apparently Linda Ikeji's baby daddy is married with kids that permanently live in London.

If the likes of Tiwa, Linda Ikeji, Mercy Aigbe, Toke Makinwa etc don't need men, they must leave the men to us who need them.

White people fool you with their feminism and that you don't need a man and meanwhile they marry a lot and divorce later. But they do marry.

Listen to your feminists and "we don't need men" rhetorics and destroy your societies.

Ask African Americans. They did that a lot in the 80's and 90's now they have realised their mistake and going back to basics. Most African Americans now hate being babbymamas, they now marry.

Wait for about 25 years in this Nigeria for this generation from these arrangements and come and tell me. Research and observe the repercussions this has had on African American communities.

Everyone needs a partner for companionship, support, for stable environment for their off springs, for sex, for finances, for security, for love and create stable communities.

The biggest idiot here is you who thinks and wants to copy foreign rubbish.


There is nothing mysogynist about wanting to create orderly and healthy societies. There is no Stockholm syndrome in wanting to have a stable environment with a man contributing his sperm and I my ovum to create a human being.


I need a man. Marriage is important.


I have noticed that most woman who are against this are those who have made huge mistakes in life and find it hard to settle. I am sorry I am not responsible. I made my mistakes and fixed them while it was still early.

Herrmes:
Are you speaking for Tiwa?

I got the same backlash way back about Linda Ikeji. People were so bent on defending her single status, saying she is content with who she was and needs no man. Fast forward, I was right.

So I will not respond to your idiotic question. Figure out for yourself.

mapet:


Nope,

This is how some of you turn logic southwards.

It is the largest in terms of comparative capacity and output.






Simply turn the numbers to percentages and check those percentages with other African countries

Listen, I didn't dispute the numbers. In fact it's normal because we are the most populous nation and have the highest number of people living below poverty line.That's my logic? What logic do you have Mr Logic?

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Rstc:

She forgets that Nigerian fans can unblow you.

By the time they decide to sit on her matter, she would return to her back up singing job in the UK.

No single respect to the fans sensibilities.

Very true. She thinks God came down and supported her and paid his money for those concert tickets etc. She forgets she is who she is because of people and they can still pull that rug from under her.

kaen1317:
She living a better life than most of her haters

That is if you are using material to measure a better life.

What's better about coming home with all the money, but to an empty house with just one kids and a nanny? Deep down she wishes she were still married and she wishes she was still young to probably lure someone into marrying her.

Do not be deceived. Ask Linda Ikeji, money is not everything you want. These ladies who make money lie too much and try and console themselves using money and material things. It's not easy oo.

I wonder why can't things just be done without using yourself as a measure or standard of Africa.

That's why we are fooled because we are made to believe that we are better than the rest of Africa.

It is supposed to be the largest because we have the largest population and highest number of people living below the poverty line.

What does he expect?

neolboy:
The day you became a celebrity your life became a public opinion so stop displaying your life on the gram

True and she was the one dishing marriage and relationship advice, left, right and centre.

She opened a blog and now she wants us to mind our businesses��For the how?

eyinjuege:


Who are you to decide what is immoral or not?
Is the bible your standard? Particularly when you have continuously said here you don't believe in the bible.
So, if you don't believe in the bible, why do you think an immorality has been committed here because a young single girl who is of age married a divorcee?
Do you find it immoral for divorced people to find love and companionship again?
I would have taken you more serious if you were arguing because you truly believe as a Christian, he shouldn't marry again, and she shouldn't have married him, but you don't even believe that. So what exactly is your grouse in this matter?
To the extent of saying it shall not be well with her. It makes you sound very bitter and green with jealousy...
And I doubt it has anything to do with your lack of belief in religion, but rather shows the kind of person you are.
My personal thoughts on this matter is I couldn't care less, but i still wish them well.

I didn't decide on morals. Its the religion that she claims she follows that gave her morals to adhere to.

According to her adopted foreign religion, she commuted adultery by
1. Marrying someone else's husband and father
2. Standing in the way of their reconciliation
3. Marrying a man knowing that his 1st wife is still alive
4. Depriving this man's kids a father

All this was done while claiming to the a prophet. Prophet my foot.

It's Christianity that is clear on marrying a divorcee. She is commuting adultery. Plain and simple, unless she were to denounce Christianity.

It shall not be well like it was not well for the second wife too. MARK MY WORDS.

As for jealousy, really!!! Drop it. I cannot be jealous of someone who has literally lost her freedom to dress in whatever she wants, eat whatever she wants, go wherever she wants, say whatever she wants without people around her. That's a miserable life. No. I am not jealous at all. I currently get all right now.