₦airaland Forum

FemiATL:
Hold on! Where do you reside? I guess the US based on your posting! Did I mention language? No I said “accent”!
So what was your question---- “Are Nigerian Men Lazy or Just Completely Insensitive?” My answer ----only Naija women who come to the US try to turn the naija men into complete nonsense, just because they cannot maintain a balance between their culture and the new environment they meet themselves. Did I answer you question or you still think I am digressing. Sorry to say your thoughts of how a typical Nigerian man must behave has been affected by the US environment, thus your question.

Sometimes a conversation might get a bit technical so you have to be able to think ahead. And based on the fact that you are not close to the age of marriage, that explains you are a bit immature to understand the depth of a response.

younghoodi:
well am going to have err one in bronx sayin that is just like ca' passé.

younghoodi:
killacali niggas don't got accent they speak just like new-york niggas but the only thing diff is that they speak gang language like calling each other cuzz and blood trust me when i was in compton i feelt like i was in new-york if u talk about accent the dirty south niggas got hard ass accent sometimes they make u want to said wtf? are u talking about.

money4you:
We don't care about the US life ok? that was the us fucking life, talk about nigeria life olofo

JustGood:
Seeing that English is not that difficult, you could have written that in better grammar.

Get away and find something else to do. Na by force to post something? The only idle hands like you want to do is to bash Naija. How many foreign men have you been with?

shuo

hmmm,God, why?? bash naija?? now, why'd i want to do that when am from there.It's funny how pple have brain but refuse to use it. See, ain't nobody askin' u to post so if u ask me, u shld be d one gettin' out not me. As for ur last question, u don't know me or my age, so be quiet. As for english, u can bet i can speak in better grammar but seein' that this is just a forum, i learned to take it easy because nobody really cares what u speak as long as u're comprehendable. That,i know i am so i don't know why u're confused about my post because i clearly stated that it has to do with a couple.

Ralvy:
If I decide to say something here, It'll just end up wyv beef. .

@poster; whats wit d question?

what u mean?? i can't ask a question?? just answer, jare.

hbrednic:
yeah some women works more than their men,
but you shouldn't have generalised.
simply put (your friend is married to a lazy nigerian) thats more understandable.

@chiogo
marry a naija man and you will live happly ever after

don't worry, i'll do just thAt.

mamaput:
No
in the good old days when we used to go shopping for cloths with our dad. we would never have allowed him to carry those cloths even if he had begged on his knees.
for the simply reason.
we did not feel that bthey were importat enough to my dad to take good care of them.
he may have lost a bag or let one get stolen etc etc,
am some how sure that woman would never have allowed her husband to carry those bags she would have felt the same.

true for my father but my husband?? he gotta carry it. am sorry.

LAURA07:
[b][/b]In my opinion, Soulja Boy is a sick song and a cool dance 4 this generation. Now, Nigeria stoopin soooooooo low to make that is really silly of them. What do dey mean by; " HATERS GET MAD COS I GOT ME SUME GUCCI SHOES!!!?

Isn't that similar to soulja boy saying, "Haters getting mad cuz I got me some bathing apes?" Yea it is a 'sick' song if you understand the meaning behind the lyrics e.g. "superman that hoe" People just listen to what they don't understand. The naija version is funny, tho, lol, seems to me like they were makin' fun of the song.

MoOdYLaDy:
Well have been busy with my midterm, and am usually at the music section now, it's much better and relaxing than the game. Am addicted also to her new album, her vocals has improved a lot, the songs are great and I just love them all. “Just like you, I remember and fallen are my favorite” but all the track are awesome

oh, ok.me too, d semester just ended today.no school on monday. yay!! I never heard the sond "fallen" lol. i'll check it out. see ya later!!

MoOdYLaDy:
Missing my sweetie cute-ass

Moondust (haven't seen you online for a while now)

Chiogo

Damsol

fEMI

dEMI

Henry01 (long time)

Awwwww, i miss u too,boo. U've been scarce,huh?? now u got me addicted to keyshia cole's songs, lol. my bad, she can sing!!!

MP007:
what a man can do,, i woman can do better,

JustGood:
If you don't like the man, leave him. Na by force?
Why bashing Nigerian men everywhere? If you don't like the ways of Nigerian men, please go and find men from wherever you like and you can come back to tell us how much they respected you and your relationship.

My point is, there are different personalities to people and no single person or group of people is 100% perfect. While you are seeking out the negatives in Naija men, start looking for the positives in other men. Please go and be with those others.

Looka here, what i posted has nothin' to do with me. Go back and read correctly but when d time comes for my marriage, u can bet it's goin' to be a naija dude.don't let that be your personal problem now. Besides, i never said they were disrespectful just not sensitive. c'mon. english is really not that difficult.

londoner:
Justgood, I agree with you. Chiogo, there are many men from other nationalities who don't do that. South Africa, Ghana, Cameroun, Ivory coast, Ethiopia etc. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

Exactly, u're right about that but unfortunately, i am not from any of those countries and d people am talkin' about here are not from those countries u mentioned either. I would have said "African men" but this has to do specifically with a Nigerian dude.

mamaput:
so from this one man you judge all nigerian men.
are you sure that the lady was not the bossy kind that would not even have allowed the man to carry her bags for her.
are you sure he even wanted to go shopping for her.

davidylan:
You'd think men from other nationalities were made of divine gold.

Nobody said that. I prefer naija dudes to other dudes from any other country or even continent. This just has to do with bein' sensitive or not. simple question. why do people make life so difficult, huh??