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Health / Re: Graduate Dies After Wrong Diagnosis By Lagos Hospital (photo) by chiwetel(f): 6:18am On Jul 21, 2017
I actually took my time to make sure I read the story to the end. Truth is maybe we haven't heard from the hospital so we can't exactly conclude, But judging from the comprehensive facts at hand, it is very unfortunate to think that the carelessness and non chalant attitude of a doctor caused his death, this is definitely not going to be the first, we have heard of other countless cases about how a doctor's negligence have contributed to the death of a patient.
The sad thing is, it is very pathetic to know that doctors have actually killed more than they have saved. The question is what happened to the zeal, and commitment to save lives that they pledged to uphold
Celebrities / Re: Chiwetel Ejiofor Celebrates His 40th Birthday Today by chiwetel(f): 1:00am On Jul 11, 2017
Awwwn,happy birthday namesake� wish you an extra share of everything that makes you happy.Keep
soaring high.
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by chiwetel(f): 4:16am On Jul 04, 2017
gentlemanism1:


Which part of the world are u from?
Lol....The world where i can comfortably be myself and freely enjoy life.

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Person? Why? by chiwetel(f): 4:07am On Jul 04, 2017
i did say NO to a guy that seemed all perfect, nice,caring and hopelessly sweet .From the very first day we met,i knew we couldn't work,he was nothing short of an angel, but my instincts and intuition didn't just accept him,something didn't add up.
Fast forward to when we starting really talking and building friendship, he was a complete gentleman,almost did everything in the books,Lol at some point i started doubting his sincerity, guess that's what having bad experiences does to you,you kinda structured yourself into believing good men don't exist. Moving on, we talked and really did become friends this all happened within the period of four months,let me mention most of our conversations were via phone calls. Sadly,he was transferred to another state, so he eventually made arrangements to travel down to see me,which i greatly anticipated, somewhere in my mind i started accepting him,felt like i was trying to grow the love,his consistency made that happen.
It was on a Friday,we were supposed to spend the weekend together,i was a combination of nervous and excited,because it was going to practically be the first time we would spend quality time together physically,unfortunately all my fears were confirmed there was more to his appealing exterior sweetness, i discovered flaws i never perceived before then,our conversations were lifeless,there was zero chemistry worse of all was that,i realized throughout the period we spent together, i couldn't feel myself,i was being too prim and proper to make myself very deserving of this almost perfect man.

Summary is, from day one my whole being said no to him,but i wanted to give it a chance,i was so scared of losing someone that nice and caring,i was even more scared i might never meet anyone better,but deep down i kinda knew he wasn't the one. so basically it taught me to always confirm my instincts and fears and never settle for someone that makes me want to disown myself and pretend to be another,because really true love should accept all of you.


f**k this shii is long.

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Romance / Re: She Claimed She Got Raped After Visiting Him and Spending The Night With Him. by chiwetel(f): 2:15pm On Feb 01, 2017
agrovick:


Let me emphatically state I condemn rape.

I see where you said if you lost the will which is what I'm emphasizing, they had sex because the lady SUCCUMBED to the guy's pressure. She wasn't RAP.ED, they had s.ex after she caved from her initial stance of no.
If she had screamed her LUNGS out, are you saying the neighbors wouldn't have torn down the door to the guy's place?

If she had locked herself INTO the toilet/bathroom and refuse to come out till day break when she is ready to leave will the guy break down the door?

There is no doubt the dude acted antisocial but going by the narrative of the story, it wasn't rape.


BTW, you do need to scrutinize your friends well. The fact that you have/once had a friend who tried to take advantage of you calls for concern.

I had a similar experience back in school with a lady who came house hunting in my lodge and then decided to keep her stuff at my place pending when she sorts herself. Something came up that led to her sleeping over at my place and that was less than a month after we Ifirst met, we slept on the same bed but I made sure I was on my best behavior. Till today, that act of mine still surprises her.

As individuals we do need to be watchful of the kind of persons we let into our lives.
I didn't want to categorically say that he was friends with my very good friend,an acquaintance and ......fine,a 'chyker'.

Well said though...you made quite a lot of sense
Romance / Re: She Claimed She Got Raped After Visiting Him and Spending The Night With Him. by chiwetel(f): 2:57am On Feb 01, 2017
agrovick:
I don't understand, he pressured you and you succumbed.

How is that rape?
How is it not rape?
I once went for a concert with a supposed friend,it ended quite late and i could not go back to school,had to spend the night in his place,i shared my fears about sleeping over and he calmed all of them saying "he isn't that type of guy" Filled with reassurance i opted to go,i barely had started sleeping when he came on strong on me,it was a struggle till the next morning,i couldn't sleep,as early as 5am i left the house.If i hadn't fought hard enough,or if i lost the will and gave in and most importantly if he didn't relent his efforts due to my continued struggle it definitely would have been a different story.Sex should be 100% mutual,i don't see why an adult should be coaxed or cajoled into doing something that should entirely be out of freewill.

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Romance / Re: She Claimed She Got Raped After Visiting Him and Spending The Night With Him. by chiwetel(f): 2:57am On Feb 01, 2017
agrovick:
I don't understand, he pressured you and you succumbed.

How is that rape?
Romance / Re: Why Are You Still Single? by chiwetel(f): 11:27pm On Jan 17, 2017
Being single is kind of like a therapy, it helps you improve on yourself to be a better individual and somewhat prepare yourself to deserve the kind of person you ask for. We can keep going on and on about how it's stressful to keep relationships and all,how gals are hoes and guys aasholes none of these talks would change the fact that love is indeed the greatest gift of all and you haven't really lived until you experience it.We all yearn for it,we deserve it..let's stop thinking too much and give it a try.

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Sports / Re: Super Falcons Face Life Bans, Coaches, Officials To Be Axed - Officials by chiwetel(f): 1:32am On Dec 11, 2016
Benikuuse:
state Government But The Fact I Want You To Know Is Doing Something With Passion, The Love You Have For Your Country.
please,can you kindly stop talking.Thanks.
Celebrities / Re: Why Lilian Esoro And Ubi Franklin's Marriage Crashed - Vanguard by chiwetel(f): 11:55am On Nov 06, 2016
This is really sad....their pre-wedding pic was legendary.

So it was all a lie...
Literature / Re: My Honest Observation And Critique Of Americanah By Chimanda Adichie by chiwetel(f): 11:39am On Nov 06, 2016
I have read Americana countless times,and I can say without mincing words that is indeed a great piece.

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Literature / Lost by chiwetel(f): 4:12pm On Sep 23, 2016
It's new and exciting,LOST series coming soon on nigeriacampusconnect/blog,trust me you don't want to miss it.

Celebrities / Re: Karen Igho Lovely In New Photos by chiwetel(f): 11:25am On Sep 15, 2016
CHYMZZY:
I dnt mean to Hate, but this gurl no fine.. though nice outfit!
Did i hear somebody says she BEAUTY INSIDE?
how hard is it for you to admit,she looks quite nice in the picture..you know she does wink
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Celebrates Her 39th Birthday Today by chiwetel(f): 11:07am On Sep 15, 2016
Happy Birthday my role model,you have been a great source of inspiration to me and many others.I wish you an extra share of everything that makes you happy.cheers
Romance / Re: Please I Need Advice...... She Is A Single Mum by chiwetel(f): 11:02am On Sep 15, 2016
Being a single mom is definitely a great feat ,irrespective of the circumstances surrounding the child's birth.if you really love her ,it's nothing to worry about.focus on building a thriving relationship with her am sure there are loads of lovable things about her,it all should be enough to make u stay.
Sports / Re: I Won’t Represent Nigeria Again – Usman by chiwetel(f): 3:34pm On Aug 19, 2016
Ximenez:
Don't put the blame of your failure on anybody else but yourself, you could have gone all the up if you have what it takes without the government support, you are a weightlifter. But at the same time shame on the FG for sponsoring pilgrimage and neglecting the Olympians but i still believe that countries like Nigeria that is with so much pressing issues to deal with should be saved the distractions of even the world Cup for now, so they can tidy up the home first. If you had gone all the way to win a medal without support and dedicate it to your country, then you might get some sympathy and love. But what have you done for Nigeria? That's what you should be asking yourself rather thinking of what Nigeria should do for you.
your first paragraph though,highly insensitive.she did her part by being available and assiduously working hard,the government failed to do their part by providing the necessary equipment needed to consolidate her efforts, really the government is entirely culpable, she has no part of the blame . We probably should start telling ourselves the truth and voicing out justified grievances,hopefully we would be heard.


someday...

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Culture / Re: Christians Are Not Terrorists, But Commit Wicked Crimes – Sultan by chiwetel(f): 9:19pm On Aug 15, 2016
seunaj:

I am not a Catholic but I have always respected the Pope. EXCEPT this one. Jesus Christ never changed the pharisees and the Sadducees by defending them the way he keeps romancing Islam, homosexuality and other issues. Jesus Christ is loving, forgiven meek but he rebuked the pharisees and the Sadducees severally, he frowned at things he didn't stand for and rebuked it. Here comes our over caring Pope identifying with everything he is supposed to stand against.
you obviously can't make a statement without emanating your hate for the pope.if the church close it doors against the afore mentioned, where else would they go to?The Catholic church has outrightly condemned homosexuality and other outrageous immoral acts.what the Pope is saying is that the prepreteators shouldn't be condemned as jesus preached, hate the sin but love the sinner.He is encouraging them to come to church, so that God who is all forgiving can propel them to repentance. The church is for all,it's doors should always be open to even the worst sinners.
Culture / Re: Christians Are Not Terrorists, But Commit Wicked Crimes – Sultan by chiwetel(f): 3:48pm On Aug 15, 2016
seunaj:
Are you going to tell us how much the Emirate Council pays pedophiles for every impregnation and brainwashed conversion of young vulnerable gals? I bless God for Ese, she would have ended up another Aisha Wakil(mama boko haram)
I don't blame you for hailing Pope or what is he called... This present Pope is the most clueless Christian I have ever heard of.
so you felt using derogatory words about the pope would help you make sense.At least you should have been civil enough not to drag the head of more than a billion Christians to your pathetic cluelessness.
Romance / Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 12:58pm On Aug 14, 2016
Qualer:


well... in all my wisdom, i choose you.. oya talk ya own! grin grin
Lol...had any reason to do that?
Romance / Re: The Most Important Quality A Man Or Woman Needs In A Partner. by chiwetel(f): 10:27am On Aug 14, 2016
people should learn to understand that a partner is that significant other,that complements every aspect of their lives.He/she is that other half that makes you whole.it's indeed foolish to yearn and truly want one thing but for some lame reason opt for something else that doesn't satisfy your quest.let's start to choose wiselycheesy
Celebrities / Re: Lucy Of Rudeboy Records Always Braless (Photo) by chiwetel(f): 4:04pm On Aug 13, 2016
it's actually healthier to go bralesscheesy

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Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by chiwetel(f): 2:51pm On Aug 02, 2016
I vote photoshoot...
cc:NlJega

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Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by chiwetel(f): 2:49pm On Aug 02, 2016
I vote photoshoot...
cc:NlJega

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Romance / Re: #teamphotoshoot Says A Big THANK YOU. by chiwetel(f): 8:15am On Aug 02, 2016
if not you.. who else?grin

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Romance / Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by chiwetel(f): 5:18pm On Jul 31, 2016
August 15th is the feast of my name ( Maria Assumpta) and my folks celebrate it for me a bit. I'm in camp and don't get any celebration sha. I take it as my second birthday.

You of all people should have understood why I was trying to code in only wonder what went wrong. you know me very well FrancisTony. embarassed

Awwwwn..MariaAssumpta,ya my sister's name sake dats so cute.Marian children we arecheesy
Politics / Re: Akunyili's Family Discovers 110 Awards Packed Inside Her Box(pics) by chiwetel(f): 4:28pm On Jul 31, 2016
CharlieMaria:
God wants us to make heaven through the ordinary duties of Our state. St Joseph the foster Father of Jesus, was he not a carpenter? I get you are trying to pass a message but don't make it look like to get to heaven you don't need to work hard in life to attain a great height. If you want to know the answer whether being a professor will get one to heaven? Do you think many lives would have been saved if Dora was a dummy? Was St. Paul not learned? What of the likes of St. Albert the Great? St Ambrose and Augustine? Was it not in the quest for Knowledge that St. AUGUSTINE was converted? So don't think you can save your soul outside your vocation and your duty. God put you there to save your soul by that means. Thank you
your signature caught me.

Marian children we arecheesy
Politics / Re: Akunyili's Family Discovers 110 Awards Packed Inside Her Box(pics) by chiwetel(f): 4:25pm On Jul 31, 2016
Engrpj:
Its a Good achievement here on earth, the Question is, Will she get same awards from her Creator You might be very influential, but are u recognized by God.... Repent because Heaven is real likewise HELL.
she found her purpose in life,and utilised it to the good of humanity,leaving the world a better place than she met it. The Question is what are you doing with the life the creator has given you...........

He awaits your answercheesy
Romance / Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 2:01pm On Jul 31, 2016
TheModsAreMad:


Another guy busted!!
I don't know when guys will stop impersonating ladies on this forum

*NB, didn't arrive at my conclusion due to this topic you created, but the current picture on your profile and past comments has exposed you!
please do read dearcheesy.

iAmCharis.. they r saying your bae is a guy oooo
Romance / Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:34pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
lol am tired already
Lol..Thanks for attempting.

Africans never read anywayscheesy

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Romance / Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:27pm On Jul 31, 2016
mhisbliss:
Someone read the epistle up there and summarize while i make myself comfortable
oya start reading am coming to epp ugrin
Romance / Re: Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:14pm On Jul 31, 2016
cc:
tosynemuch
iAmCharis
joeCutie
Lsofdk
EOOJ
Breadmaker






food haf come o grin
Romance / Ladies,Stop Being Stupid! by chiwetel(f): 1:09pm On Jul 31, 2016
Hi guys,been a while so here is food for my readers,please do enjoy.
The price of not making a move towards personal development, has been and would continue to be great. Most women do not typically define self-esteem and purpose in terms of personal accomplishments, instead they primarily feel that the only way to have some sense of identity, value and meaning in their lives is through a RELATIONSHIP. When a woman doesn't dare to dream or commit to a purpose, her sense of meaning and worth generally comes from excessive emphasis on a relationship with a man.
It is sad enough that we women grow up believing in fairy tales, Cinderella for example, waiting for a man to come and fix her up. It is disturbing to think that most relationships are not because women are making sensible choices, rather it is because women are being driven to attach to men for identity, approval, safety and security all of which should come within oneself. If you are desperate for attachment to a man,if you are settling instead of being selective, then you are making stupid dating choices.
When we choose to include courage and personal achievement as part of our feminine identity, only then would we stop hearing"I know he is abusive, but I'm too scared to be alone" or "I know he lies, but if I leave,what if I never find another man?"all this and many other traps women fall into because of there lack of exercise of true courage.
Thus,it is high time we as ladies acknowledge that it is our job as a woman,as a person to become as fully realised as we can be by having dreams,forging a purpose, building an identity and making commitment to worthwhile things outside ourseleves. In doing so,we take a more active role in the quality of our own lives,so that other people;our friends, spouse and family can share from our growth.
please do vist www.Sirwels..com(#silk writes) for more articles by me.Thankscheesy

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