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I actually took my time to make sure I read the story to the end. Truth is maybe we haven't heard from the hospital so we can't exactly conclude, But judging from the comprehensive facts at hand, it is very unfortunate to think that the carelessness and non chalant attitude of a doctor caused his death, this is definitely not going to be the first, we have heard of other countless cases about how a doctor's negligence have contributed to the death of a patient. The sad thing is, it is very pathetic to know that doctors have actually killed more than they have saved. The question is what happened to the zeal, and commitment to save lives that they pledged to uphold ![]() |
Awwwn,happy birthday namesake� wish you an extra share of everything that makes you happy.Keep soaring high. |
gentlemanism1:Lol....The world where i can comfortably be myself and freely enjoy life. |
i did say NO to a guy that seemed all perfect, nice,caring and hopelessly sweet .From the very first day we met,i knew we couldn't work,he was nothing short of an angel, but my instincts and intuition didn't just accept him,something didn't add up. Fast forward to when we starting really talking and building friendship, he was a complete gentleman,almost did everything in the books,Lol at some point i started doubting his sincerity, guess that's what having bad experiences does to you,you kinda structured yourself into believing good men don't exist. Moving on, we talked and really did become friends this all happened within the period of four months,let me mention most of our conversations were via phone calls. Sadly,he was transferred to another state, so he eventually made arrangements to travel down to see me,which i greatly anticipated, somewhere in my mind i started accepting him,felt like i was trying to grow the love,his consistency made that happen. It was on a Friday,we were supposed to spend the weekend together,i was a combination of nervous and excited,because it was going to practically be the first time we would spend quality time together physically,unfortunately all my fears were confirmed there was more to his appealing exterior sweetness, i discovered flaws i never perceived before then,our conversations were lifeless,there was zero chemistry worse of all was that,i realized throughout the period we spent together, i couldn't feel myself,i was being too prim and proper to make myself very deserving of this almost perfect man. Summary is, from day one my whole being said no to him,but i wanted to give it a chance,i was so scared of losing someone that nice and caring,i was even more scared i might never meet anyone better,but deep down i kinda knew he wasn't the one. so basically it taught me to always confirm my instincts and fears and never settle for someone that makes me want to disown myself and pretend to be another,because really true love should accept all of you. f**k this shii is long. |
agrovick:I didn't want to categorically say that he was friends with my very good friend,an acquaintance and ......fine,a 'chyker'. Well said though...you made quite a lot of sense |
agrovick:How is it not rape? I once went for a concert with a supposed friend,it ended quite late and i could not go back to school,had to spend the night in his place,i shared my fears about sleeping over and he calmed all of them saying "he isn't that type of guy" Filled with reassurance i opted to go,i barely had started sleeping when he came on strong on me,it was a struggle till the next morning,i couldn't sleep,as early as 5am i left the house.If i hadn't fought hard enough,or if i lost the will and gave in and most importantly if he didn't relent his efforts due to my continued struggle it definitely would have been a different story.Sex should be 100% mutual,i don't see why an adult should be coaxed or cajoled into doing something that should entirely be out of freewill. |
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Being single is kind of like a therapy, it helps you improve on yourself to be a better individual and somewhat prepare yourself to deserve the kind of person you ask for. We can keep going on and on about how it's stressful to keep relationships and all,how gals are hoes and guys aasholes none of these talks would change the fact that love is indeed the greatest gift of all and you haven't really lived until you experience it.We all yearn for it,we deserve it..let's stop thinking too much and give it a try. |
Benikuuse:please,can you kindly stop talking.Thanks. |
This is really sad....their pre-wedding pic was legendary. So it was all a lie... |
I have read Americana countless times,and I can say without mincing words that is indeed a great piece. |
It's new and exciting,LOST series coming soon on nigeriacampusconnect/blog,trust me you don't want to miss it.
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CHYMZZY:how hard is it for you to admit,she looks quite nice in the picture..you know she does ![]() |
Happy Birthday my role model,you have been a great source of inspiration to me and many others.I wish you an extra share of everything that makes you happy.cheers |
Being a single mom is definitely a great feat ,irrespective of the circumstances surrounding the child's birth.if you really love her ,it's nothing to worry about.focus on building a thriving relationship with her am sure there are loads of lovable things about her,it all should be enough to make u stay. |
Ximenez:your first paragraph though,highly insensitive.she did her part by being available and assiduously working hard,the government failed to do their part by providing the necessary equipment needed to consolidate her efforts, really the government is entirely culpable, she has no part of the blame . We probably should start telling ourselves the truth and voicing out justified grievances,hopefully we would be heard. someday... |
seunaj:you obviously can't make a statement without emanating your hate for the pope.if the church close it doors against the afore mentioned, where else would they go to?The Catholic church has outrightly condemned homosexuality and other outrageous immoral acts.what the Pope is saying is that the prepreteators shouldn't be condemned as jesus preached, hate the sin but love the sinner.He is encouraging them to come to church, so that God who is all forgiving can propel them to repentance. The church is for all,it's doors should always be open to even the worst sinners. |
seunaj:so you felt using derogatory words about the pope would help you make sense.At least you should have been civil enough not to drag the head of more than a billion Christians to your pathetic cluelessness. |
Qualer:Lol...had any reason to do that? |
people should learn to understand that a partner is that significant other,that complements every aspect of their lives.He/she is that other half that makes you whole.it's indeed foolish to yearn and truly want one thing but for some lame reason opt for something else that doesn't satisfy your quest.let's start to choose wisely ![]() |
it's actually healthier to go braless ![]() |
I vote photoshoot... cc:NlJega |
I vote photoshoot... cc:NlJega |
if not you.. who else? ![]() |
August 15th is the feast of my name ( Maria Assumpta) and my folks celebrate it for me a bit. I'm in camp and don't get any celebration sha. I take it as my second birthday.Awwwwn..MariaAssumpta,ya my sister's name sake dats so cute.Marian children we are ![]() |
CharlieMaria:your signature caught me. Marian children we are ![]() |
Engrpj:she found her purpose in life,and utilised it to the good of humanity,leaving the world a better place than she met it. The Question is what are you doing with the life the creator has given you........... He awaits your answer ![]() |
TheModsAreMad:please do read dear .iAmCharis.. they r saying your bae is a guy oooo |
mhisbliss:oya start reading am coming to epp u ![]() |
cc: tosynemuch iAmCharis joeCutie Lsofdk EOOJ Breadmaker food haf come o ![]() |
Hi guys,been a while so here is food for my readers,please do enjoy. The price of not making a move towards personal development, has been and would continue to be great. Most women do not typically define self-esteem and purpose in terms of personal accomplishments, instead they primarily feel that the only way to have some sense of identity, value and meaning in their lives is through a RELATIONSHIP. When a woman doesn't dare to dream or commit to a purpose, her sense of meaning and worth generally comes from excessive emphasis on a relationship with a man. It is sad enough that we women grow up believing in fairy tales, Cinderella for example, waiting for a man to come and fix her up. It is disturbing to think that most relationships are not because women are making sensible choices, rather it is because women are being driven to attach to men for identity, approval, safety and security all of which should come within oneself. If you are desperate for attachment to a man,if you are settling instead of being selective, then you are making stupid dating choices. When we choose to include courage and personal achievement as part of our feminine identity, only then would we stop hearing"I know he is abusive, but I'm too scared to be alone" or "I know he lies, but if I leave,what if I never find another man?"all this and many other traps women fall into because of there lack of exercise of true courage. Thus,it is high time we as ladies acknowledge that it is our job as a woman,as a person to become as fully realised as we can be by having dreams,forging a purpose, building an identity and making commitment to worthwhile things outside ourseleves. In doing so,we take a more active role in the quality of our own lives,so that other people;our friends, spouse and family can share from our growth. please do vist www.Sirwels..com(#silk writes) for more articles by me.Thanks ![]() |



