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chris51:
She refuses because you hurt her deeply.

Bongadu:
I've tried to be friends but she won't agree

Sending her money , she refuses


Buying gifts for my daughter, she says no

chris51:
You are irresponsible.
You said she should abort pregnancy, if she had done so, could you have been talking about "my daughter"?
Do you know what she went through when you abandoned her?

chris51:
Simply tell her you will give her money when she comes to your house.

Ememmmi:
I have an uncle that passed on early last year. My daddy told me he's my "uncle" but a distant relation because I don't know him in the village. We only met in lagos here so I think we are related but not close relation. Before he died, I use to send money to him especially during covid. At times he will ask and atimes I will send without him asking me. So when he passed on early last year, I was still sending the little amount I can afford to his wife. Its been 4 months I gave birth and she did not even come to see me. Her house to my house is about 500 transport fare to and fro. She knows there's no how she will come to my house and I won't give her cash even if at all she don't have transport fare.

She called me 2 days ago asking of Christmas money. I told her I will send it but inside me I am not happy honestly. People came from very far distance to visit me when I gave birth but this woman didn't even show concern. Anytime she call me will always be to ask of money. She said all her husband relative has abandoned her.
It is not like I don't have money to give her but her attitude is bad. She has only one daughter which she claimed she's in university. I don't know how true is that
Do you think I should overlook her character and give her the money

advanceDNA:
U said she's on a student visa..and u just arrived one month ago....so how are u already due for permanent papers.??.

chris51:
You will not be sent back but if it's based on domestic violence, you will be dealt with. Be very careful and live in harmony with your spouse.

Notfogotten:
Please I have a question to ask.

I don't want to go into details so my partner doesn't trace this to me.

My partner came to UK before me, though still on student visa. I joined her with my 3 children one months ago.

I have noticed some red flags which never happened while we where in Nigeria and I was footing the bills alone.

Each red flag, I pretend nothing happened because I don't want to be thrown out like the man I read about on social media.

My visa is dependent on hers and we are still on student visa.

My question, in the event that we get papers to stay permanently in UK and one day she decides to send me packing or I decide move out, will I be asked to return to Nigeria because she is the main applicant?

Please I need urgent answers. I may not play the fool for long. We are very certain of getting papers next year.

chris51:
Wike did worse than this to his benefactor

FreeStuffsNG:
What a tragic way to end the year, 4 is now bigger than 27. Smh.

In just less than 3 months he got into office, Sim Fubara started fighting his political benefactor. Less than 3 months out of 4 years o!

chris51:
Thank God that children are not yet in the union. My honest advice is, DIVORCE her.
She had the guts to say you also cheat. Get rid of her. Trust is the basic foundation of all relationships

fourboys:
for real

TechCapon:


You have decided to be a slave to your pastor and church so take whatever embarrassment they give you. As for me, I'm not a slave to any pastor and I won't place myself in a situation where a person will embarrass me in the name of church. Is church marriage compulsory?

chris51:
As long as the traditional marriage is done, Catholic church will wed you.

LadyRosa2:


But they ought to have followed the church's rules.
Thats why I love Catholic Church, your wife fit wear gown today, enter labour room tomorrow.

Although its not encouraged to get pregnant before marriage, but the Catholic Church will still wed you,so as to discourage a " change of plans" that might hurt the pregnant woman and child tomorrow.

Thonyboy:
https://.ng/2023/11/29/rivers-fubara-to-get-ambode-treatment-wike-determined-to-remove-him-primate-ayodele/

PuZZyNegro:
It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.

Gifts are symbolic you know.

illicit:
Why will he shout for help and proceed to lie on the body?

Confusing

chris51:
I support the idea of you
moving to your parents home if he doesn't pay the rent. He needs to wake up from slumber and face his responsibility

advanceDNA:
Whats this one saying..??

cococandy:
He will be abusive as hell

Someone you’re not betrothed to and he’s already policing you

chris51:
My dear girl. Block the man completely. At your age, you will get a husband that has no baggage.
Imagine a married man with a child talking about virgin, he is a fool.
Do not allow anyone lure you into such a relationship.
Focus on your career or whatever you are doing and husband will come

chris51:
There are people whose body cannot tolerate milk.

I had same experience but not in Nigeria. I tried different milk until I settled for Organic milk that is lactose free.

My suggestion to you is to minimize your intake of milk, also change the brand. Full cream is not suitable for you.