₦airaland Forum

chris51:
You are irresponsible. Just face the music. How can you, a married man make a mistake of impregnating a girl friend twice?

Fabulozz:
As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.

She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.

What should I do now mature advice please?

theophorus:
500 Kwa?

Wetin I see for there no less than 2k.

Yam = 500
8eggs = 500/600
Pepper and Onions =200
Sachet tomatoes 2= 250
Oil = 200
Maggi etc... =100
Gas

successmatters:
He wasn't a better governor than Wike.

chris51:
Very sad though. Anything to do with dead is a very serious matter. You should have alerted her people or take the trouble to see her.

Phone talk and one and one talk are not the same

Richy4:
I don't want to turn to a motivational speaker... But we all have scars.. some are emotional and some are physical.. it's part of what makes individuals who they are... Their stories, their history is what makes them thick..

The last time I checked, people still die of bike accident..I attended a funeral in our church 9 months ago of a 24yr old.. He was white..
I never liked to attend funerals but there was no one to livestream it for those wishing to watch online, and the mother is a strong member and poor me have to put up with unhappy faces for 2hours..

Now imagine how the sea of faces that attended that funeral would have lightened up including the mother and that girlfriend of his who couldn't stop crying assuming he survived with your kind of scars... U should be proud of yourself that u are alive.. not the opposite...

Get a wingman, storm any public swimming pool of your choice, pull off your shirt and splash the water buddy... U were given a second chance..

Wodu89:
Excellent

barbstee:
Olodo

ChristineC:
you didn't know you wouldn't survive 6 strong women before you shook head in the marriage?

obembet:
Congratulations to all the winners.

Kudos to all the Obidient that make LP a great part.. this is good for start.

May the next administration favour us all.

chris51:
God bless Hakim's mother for protecting the son's interest. The only thing western women know is alimony and child support.

saintbillion:
Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce
The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.

Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.

Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''

“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.

"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!

“Which woman will be happy that everything that happens in her home is controlled by the mother of her husband? Even if she brought him up and was part of his success - it is wrong and very calculating of Hakimi also. I am sure if she has a GOOD lawyer - she can collect a good alimony for herself and her sons.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/i-find-it-more-disgusting-that-his-mother-controls-him-laila-st-daniel-mathew-reacts-to-achraf-hakimis-divorce-drama-2.html

chris51:
Definitely it's her life but I hope her womb is not damaged for life. What is wrong with protected sex? You can not eat your cake and have it

kingsleyejims:
Personally, I see nothing wrong with abortion if it's not convenient especially at the initial stage within 8 weeks. Nothing stops the OP from doing a lab work to be sure the removal is complete. Life is all about choices, you've taken a decision, own it and move on. There will always be a next time if necessary. Africans will always come at you with stories as this but may do worst if met with similar circumstance. It's your life, find ways to make your fiance' understand your deep plight so you both can live happily...peace!

chris51:
In the 1st instance why did you have unprotected sex when you are not ready for pregnancy?

Secondly your fiance accepted the pregnancy and offer to give the baby to his mother when born.

Thirdly go and check the statistics of girls running helter skelter looking for the fruit of the womb when married.

Fourthly, one abortion can cause infertility in a lady for life.

I pray to Almighty God to forgive you your son.

chris51:
Don't talk about the US election you know nothing about. Trump lost woefully. I VOTED. Were you there?

densiks:
Her so called open or closed letter is basically her little way of defending her ethnic loyalty which in my opinion is fine as far as it can go which is certainly in the the shredder to trash bin.


Secondly, Biden was declared the winner of one of the most disputed elections in American history which in the view of a lot of Americans remains a totally flawed election and led to the desecration of the capitol (Obidients could take note)
Trump doesn't accord Biden any form of respect by the way because Trump believes he won the election and was rigged out.

The elections that also brought Trump was disputed and the Russians were blamed for hacking servers to aid a Trump win.

Therefore writing some silly letter to Biden about the internal affairs of another sovereign state shows she should definitely rather stick to her fiction and dubious feminism career where she has recorded some level of mileage.

chris51:
Biden will suffer nothing. If you live in the USA, you could have understood the type of person Trump is.

YeyeGbami:
Who say no government.

Biden go suffer for all these rubbish wey him dey do.

He pleaded not guilty.
He is headed back to maralago.

chris51:
It's not a witch-hunt. You know nothing about American politics.

AImiron:
TRump will Triumph eventually.
This is a witch-hunt, nothing much.

Staphylococcus:
34 count is baseless?

Watch the movie!

FactBoyz:
Since Biden won this election, America has been on a decline

ifihearam:
Democrats ae the problems we have..this is pure witch hunt and it will not fly. They have handed the presidency to him on a platter of gold.
From the moment 45 was declared president, it has been from one witvh hunt to the other.

Forst they spent over $30m for Russian hoax,they found nothing, and then it was the call to Zelensky where he was impeached twice at a row, then FBI raided his apartment for classified documents which Biden had when he was out of office as a former VP and now this.

It only shows a pattern that this man is feared by the democrats and a lot of people are beginning to see through them. Soros and his crew are behind this, Trump will always stand for the truth, he is our hero. Hos only crime is to make america great again and drain the swamp.

45/47

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Congratulations Lagos. LP is now officially a dying party.

Oshafile and Fashina will decamp to APC eventually by the time LP fizzles out.
38 out of 40 for APC is loud gan. Even Ago still fell into the laps of APC

chris51:
Wearing ankle chain for a job interview is a no, no.
When you go for job interview, dress formally. Points are scored for dressing.
If you go for social gatherings, you can put nose ring, ankle chain etc.

chris51:
How is Chinedu not your?
Ademola Adeleke's mother was Ibo
Desmond Elliot's mother is Ibo.
Stop this tribalism.

shigishege:
I know na. Nothing concern me with jandor. He is our own. Shinedu obi don collect wotowoto

TheGreenHouse:
Igbo wise up, start transferring your investments to the SE.

It happened in 1966, neither the SW, SS nor North was safe for igbo, except SE.

Igbo go back and build home.