₦airaland Forum

aminulive:
https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-nigerian-government-to-evacuate-citizens-in-ukraine-as-war-escalates/

saintftm:
A perfect example of God's Grace. #togetherforever. Papa and Mama got married on 28th August, 1971. 50years of togetherness, through thick and thin. #goldentogether.

yanabasee:
You've been exposed to early maturity and right now your siblings will be looking up on you for everything...



You have found the problem...But yet to find the solution....



Fighting your mum is not ideal...Ignoring her is an insult....


If I were you, I'll rather refused fighting her... Greet her and go your way... Cook and serve her if you may and show her love....

She doesn't find the happiness in the marriage and not even from the kids and could be some hormonal issues or a mental health issues....


Just love her as a mother and look after your siblings.... Ignore her curses.... Always be nice to your father's neighbor and don't let them see you kids as a product of your mother's making....

mabeni:
On the 6th of January, the sum of Twenty Five Thousand (25000) Naira was fraudulently withdrawn from my wife's Stanbic ibtc Bank Account. What baffles me was she didn't get alert for the transactions till even as i types this. She found out her money was missing when she bought airtime directly from her account.

We went to the bank to get statements of her account put realised her ATM CARD was used on the POS centre and machine below in the picture.

Please, how do we track this transaction?
Thanks

LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him later that evening. I was so tired that I took a quick nap and woke up to missed calls from him. I called him back and asked if he got my message and he said he didn't. I informed him of the change in plans and he got very furious. He accused me of being indecisive and playing games. He said he had cancelled lots of meetings and spent money preparing for my visit and was disappointed that I didn't take him as seriously as he took me. He ended the call in annoyance and I've not heard from him since. He isn't picking my calls or replying my texts. I've sent him voice messages on WhatsApp apologizing and explaining myself but he hasn't replied..

I really love this guy and I don't want to lose him. He probably thinks I'm lying to him or that I have someone else I'm seeing but that's not the case.

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Why do these ladies always associate personal celebrations with unclothedness?

Don't say they're looking for clout and popularity, this one's an OAP for crying out loud.!

It seems there's always that desire in every woman to do the outrageous, the scandalous, anything to assault the sensibilities of the general public.

It's a Tufiakwa sonnting.

Tufiakwa.

ZKOSOSO:
Was raised in DCLM....as we used to call it then..

...my ishh with the church has always been RESTITUTION in Marriage. It's weird kind of.....

The women and children are always at the receiving end.

It's actually not a CULT but fanatics of the Faith.

Oyindidi:
You can still marry, 2 Saturdays left

amahthelma:
That wedding gown was a big turn off... She should have located me i gat a friend that runs bridal gowns in the states would have gotten a better 1 for ha.....this certainly looks like a carpenters handwork....why are they both sooo black wow!!! Just feel for their coming little kids and I hope they don't name one charcoal

Xbee007:
And this is coming from a lady, smh. I will screenshot this comment so that I will know how fast I should run if I ever come across pathetic spiteful people like you.

safarigirl:
lol...azzin, very fat. Even Toolz was not this fat at her wedding. Let us hope it is not cholesterol fat, maybe she's just big-boned

MizMyColi:
Sis, it is true that we do not exist in Isolation. There are different opinions my dear. Some are positive, some are negative...You have the right and power to choose the opinions that are relevant to you.




I thank you very much for your honesty.
First, please understand that your life situation is different from your life.
Please also understand that you cannot continue to identify with people's undermining and demeaning remarks...else you will not make any head way.

I have taken up interest in politics.
There is hardly a day at least one person doesn't say things to undermine me and make me feel really bad about myself.
I have been called a LovePeddler, I have been called a bigot, I have been called FAT and Ugly, please name them

But I made a choice not to identify with any of those....because that is not who or what I truly am.

Accept it or not, it does not matter what the world sees or thinks of me...what matters is what I see and think of me.

I am sharing this because I know that there are people who are out there who have one issue or another but aren't bold enough to talk about it.

If people have called you fat and ugly...If people have called you a perpetual bachelor or spinster....if they have labelled you unprintable names....WHAT IS YOUR OWN PERCEPTION OF YOURSELF?
You might not fully grasp it now, but that is what matters in the long run.




I understand your point my dear.
But what is the use of holding on to people's opinion if it doesn't favour me?
What is the use of holding on to negativity and pain which people try to drag me into when I can very much chose life, positivity and sweetness.

It is hard, but we need to understand that that first and foremost we exist for ourselves, not for people.

Yes, people will talk...
But this is life and it is what we make of it.

There is a spirit in you and I that gives us understanding of what is right and what is wrong. Though people's input are welcome, but you and I have the right to discard it if it does not resonate with that which is inside us.



I beg to disagree here.
That is a worldly mentality and I will not be part of it.

So because people shame those who have no job, who are fat and unattractive, who have one ailment or another and other negativities....then I should join the band wagon because that's what they do in rome?

No!

I will not compare myself to anyone.
I don't want anyone to compare theirself with me.
I am whole, I am complete. I am strong.
This is the reality of everyone else reading this too. How much of this you believe about yourself is what matters.
Remember, your life situation is different from your life. They are two different things.

That things are not the way you want them to be now is never a reason to think less of your humanity. Focus on the right person...Not the wrong people.
Let that which is within change that which is without.

MizMyColi:
Lol

Falconey, your truth is noted and duly discarded. No offence please

The truth lives in me.
I live the truth everyday.
I am one in being and in flesh with the truth.

There is no truth that I will be told now, that deep within me, I do not know already.
What anyone can do is to remind me of that which I have long forgotten.

obyno10ten:
U r sweet, I hail u pass tnx for making me feel like ur one nd only

Mzflexydeeva:
hello dear! How have. U been? Been a while, hope u are good?? My dear d holls was boring o! Nothing interesting. How did u spend urs? Hope u come around often

obyno10ten:
Extend d 'hi" to ma side I think i'll appreciate it more

Mzflexydeeva:
Eku election

ferdimako:
oh really...we the matchmakers should answer ur questions abi? Wish urself what you want others not to question.

iykedare:
This is the kind of mentality that kept her where she is .

ferdimako:
just link her with ur brother and tell him not to ask of her past. problem solved.

ferdimako:
d rejections may have led to the current situation. Meanwhile, ur brother dey there... link them.

plendil:
If only, only your fellow females will heed this beautiful advice. Where do you think the bulk of the pressure to get married is coming from?

Yes! fellow ladies.
Very true!

RedBenson:
Smh! Always referring to a friend. Madam, if u don reach 37yrs and still never married but now desperate for marriage, be bold enough to tell us openly so we can enter market go buy one husband come give u. We no be simpletons wey u go think say u fit use our heads any how how.