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doggedfighter:
Just finished watching the video.
And you did a good job.
Thanks for your efforts.
Only say you no dey agree recommend phone for me

Can I DM you?

hisgrace090:
Power of money!

Power of charity

Too many mistakes that I nearly sacked myself by myself.

E no choice

If the bankers' bank insists on it's january 31st policy, the net outcome would be the very opposite of their hope; purchase of the same item with old notes would become higher for as long as the new notes will be in short supply.

Please I want to ask the favour of the arabic scholars, and of all who understands the arabic language.

What does the arabic inscription on the naira notes mean?

Nemere2020:
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You sure you can stand a revolution?

ElSudani:
Just what I thought, even if Obi was caught in a bank with a balaclava on his face and a pistol in his hand you will still find a way to rationalize it.

It is called survival. There is no law against that

The principle of Nigerian politics is simple: wait until the last minute to do the unexpected, leaving the uninitiated in the dark. The more you look. . .

NezzyMike:
He will take responsibility for the man's foolishness? I guess you never experienced such sha. Some fathers can be ruthless and WIC.ked and even transfer it to mumcy

You feel this way because you don't see youself singly. You look at your parent and depend on them for almost on everything. It is true they are reponsible for you, but if you made them an added advantage and saw more of yourself, you wouldn't be disappointed at his WIC.kedness.

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

OP, since you care so much for the the forum that you bring your issues here for advice, don't forget to share with us the advise you took and how it worked for your case. Hence, you have to end what you started.
While you are still contemplating, tell your moma, if she listens, how you feel 'bout her action, with no emotion, straight and blunt. And don't forget to BEFRIEND your sis.

Kobojunkiee:
Not really because lunacy has little to nothing to do with looks.

A person might not care much for his outward appearance and still be capably sane. Case and point is the dirtiest man alive who was recently reported to have died only weeks ago. According to reports, he was relatively sane.

https://nypost.com/2022/10/25/worlds-dirtiest-man-amou-haji-dead-at-94/amp/

There would not be anything special about mad people sleeping in refuse dumps. But would that be the issue with a sane person? When sane people dress and behave like the insane it becomes an issue. Looks speak even before action.

Kobojunkiee:
Nope.... a decorated pig is still a pig! Looks have nothing to do with trashiness.

somethings are literally complementry. Assume you walk into a place and see a good looking man, well dressed too, and you are told that he is a lunatic. . . That sounds odd. And so it is with looks and trashiness.

Kobojunkie:
Ever heard the saying, " Never judge a book by its cover"? The key word to pay attention to here is never as in the moment you judge a book by its cover, you have erred.

ok, to be precise about your question, looking good makes trash 'look' less trashy.

That women fall head over end for good looking and well dressed men is rather fallacious.

Kobojunkie:
Does being good-looking make trash any less trashy?

At least, at first sight, some of his trashiness would be covered up.

To Kobojunkie (and his sticker friend), his reasoning is something else.

If you can't get someone who is working and making her own money, then make the one you find to work and make money. For marrige I mean; not filthy affair with ladies.

Could you lend me some your books on archeology and metaphysics?

Niftkid:
I wan dey online swears .

O ga di mma, oo

Niftkid:
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I can feel it

Kobojunkiee:
1. Note that all logic is not wisdom, so also your logical choices. But logical choices made with wisdom are.

2. We are, all as a race, related by blood-- either to Adam or another first --- so why elevate your family members, even a father who chose to invest his time and care on those outside of family, above others? I honestly never really understood the logic of that as it all seems self serving to me. Yet when people do it, they pat themselves on the back believing they have accomplished the most unselfish of feats.

An issue that made you change your signature must be a serious one, a reminder even.

Kobojunkie:
1. But Wisdom is of logic, and we are best served when we apply wisdom as far as our choices in life. So, are you suggesting we abandon wisdom in our dealings even where family relations are concerned?

2. Oh, I intentionally refuse to repeat any of the mistakes of those who came before me for sure. That is how I lay my bed

Rather associate logic with choice than with wisdom.
2. And you are wise when you let your family member die? 'cause he didn't take care of you?

Kobojunkie:
1. Why in the world would one waste one's time teaching an adult what he or she ought to have learned in life? Isn't one's time and effort best used in teaching the wisdom gained from one's experience to the next generation?

There is a popular saying which goes "as you lay your bed, so you lie in it", so shouldn't the father shouldn't be allowed to lie in the bed that he laid for himself?

2. Someone I could help? There are millions out there I could help. Why does it have to be that one and not the others? What has friendliness to do with this?

You know what, everything is not about logic, but everything is about choice. If he (and ofcourse you), find no logical premise to help a man, then fine. But know you are also making your own bed, hmmm?

Kobojunkie:
Why in the world is he meant to be saddled with responsibility of taking care of a man who squandered his time on earth without making certain he would be adequately cared for in his old age?

2. Is paternity some sort of burden to bare of what? Indebted to him for squirting you out as sperm from his dick?

Because at that point he would call to the mind of the Dad, all his forgone responsibilities. At this point, he would teach him the lesson he has learned from being negleted; never to neglete anyone. Anything more soothing than that? And if he lives . . . you think about that.
2 You would stand see someone you could help expire? C'mon that dude's diction is not friendly. He could even take the Dad's life if he is given the chance.

judedwriter:
If the man already abusing her on wedding day....

How much in the marriage proper?

If everything is to go on, proportionately as on the wedding day, then they would live in peace; because the man will keep slapping, and the woman will keep understanding!

Bethanybethel:
You are right my dad is paying the price for abandoning us with our sick mother. He have some health issues I have decided not to help him, he will suffer until his last breath on earth..

My guy if anything happens to that man, you will take the responsility you think you are running away from, in his death. You think you can change your paternity. You are indepted to him NOW in the same way you think he was to you. No go help your DADDY. Guy no vex me oo

Chee59:
It is not masculinity to abandon your offspring.
You brought them into this world.
Don't think your only duty is to buy food and pay school fees.
As much as possible, be present in their daily lives.
Don't let toxic masculinity destroy your home.
I'm begging you. Please.
Those children NEED you. They need your presence. They need your attention.
Get involved in their daily lives.
Ask them important questions about their lives.
Affirm them. Speak positively over their lives.
Please never curse them.

O.K. I'll do as you said.

Voiceofthestree:
Omo to ni iya ohun ko la to ni baba ohun ko ni owo lowo enu ni ohun na wa yeh

whatever that means I hope it's not demeaning

Voiceofthestree:
Bros don’t say what you don’t know. Yoruba use to say that omo ale afi owo osi Juwe ile baba ree. My father was a solder I was born and brought up with iron hand if you no work no food you Bleep nah collect. I was in Jss 2 after school close I will go to farm to work as labourers Nd my father is a millionaire got bakery got houses many. By 5am you should be up if not my father will wake you up with water or kick can you imagine a house when you sleep and your father wake you up with water I think my father is wicked I thought he was an evil father I realize a lot of things after the death of my father I realize he was doing us good and not bad.....

I am sorry, but is that what you call good?