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bigbird:
Hello everyone,
I was a member of this thread in 2018 and had my baby, I got pregnant again last year with my second baby but unfortunately lost my baby after birth in January this year.
The holy spirit has been ministering to me to give out everything I bought to a mother in need, so I am ready to do that but i need someone who is really in need and has not bought a single thing so i can give them all I have.
But i will need the group's help in choosing who i should give them to, i have things like car seat, dryer etc and other neccessities. Please anybody can reach out to me with the best way to choose or if there is already someone on this thread who needs it please let me know.
May you all deliver safely in Jesus name.

May the Lord bless you soon and with double.

jumyte29:
Yes ma'am because there is won't be anyone to stay with me during the process.... although we ve concluded on going today

Okay, please go. May the Lord be with you.

jumyte29:
Pls fams, I need help on this, I am 40 weeks plus, I went for antenatal today, so when d doc asked abt babies movement, I told him that the movement isn't that that strong as it was before so he said that I should be admitted and asked me to do CTG test and ultrasound and also get ready to be induce, after doing all the test and they came out fine but the doc insisted I get admitted and be induce, he said because I am a FTM and that am already full term but hubby is not around so I had to leave the hospital but after telling hubby, he doesn't want me to get induce... So I need advice on this....
Also, I have been feeling this ache in my pubic bone that makes my VG ache so much, I can't even walk straight, although I told d doc about it and he said it's d heaviness of the baby

Why is your hubby against inducement at 40 weeks plus? Because he isn't around?

Bloomingbud:
Congratulations to us mine too has reduced, I've not thrown up today.

Congratulations Mama, let the enjoyment begin

Blessedmum:
Okay na we are waiting. You can do roll call as many times as you are up to it.

Okay then. October Mamas, oya, submit your date ooo and gender when you find out. Thanks

voucher:
It’s like i will join October mamas o, this one I’m not hearing anything from team November.. i need the days to run by fast , November seems so far

Lol ok ooo porting is allowed

Omakraid:
Haa, haven't come across that one, it may also be fake.. maybe you should show us a pic so that we can avoid it

I gave it out and it's been two years. My sis said she would use but it ended up bleaching her skin. I don't think it is fake, someone else complained of it too. I think the one with carrot is intended to lighten the skin.

Hi Cappos, how is the roll calls made and how many times a month? I am thinking of bringing together October mamas as my morning sickness don reduce or until we have someone willing to be the cappo

[quote author=MorningStar233 post=112347065][/quote]Yes, that one is good.

Omakraid:
The one for babies has it indicated on it as early age

Okay, that's nice. Someone gifted my baby the carrot shea butter and her cheeks started to darken like she was bleaching. I stopped using it for her and my sister used it, it lightened her skin.

When buying jimbo ori, don't buy the one with carrot please. It bleaches the skin and is not good for baby. Buy plain one or the one with natural shea butter on it.

Mandela89:
Good day mama, I am in my 35 weeks, today at antenatal my bp is reading 140 and I did a urinalysis the result indicated a trace of protein in my urine. Please can anyone help me on how to reduce my bp and clear protein in my urine please

For BP: check often and tell your doctor if it goes up again and they will give you meds to lower it and monitor you.
Secondly, reduce salt in take.

For protein: Enough rest and drink water often. All the best.

MorningStar233:
Good morning mamas, pls is the chi exotic made of coconut and pineapple safe for me to drink now or will it cause contractions due to the pineapple in it? I'm in my third trimester

That's not real pineapple, carry go

aderebecca:
Sabi mama,s make una help me look into my matter, I am 15 weeks pregnant, instead of putting on weight, I am getting lean right from the beginning of this pregnancy. I don't know what is happening oooo.

don't worry, you will surely put on some weight later, if not much, maybe a little. Throwing up can make you lose weight as well.

Amakapritty:
Pls can a pregnant woman eat bitter kola?

Yes, moderately

Blessedmum:
Mine is doing on and off now, am entering 13th week tomorrow, hopefully it will be better. I really can't wait to enter the slaying mode.

Me too, same here, on and off

miracletoday:
But seriously in that aspect d nurses n doc are trying. I remember a friend who has not been able to poo for 9days. It was on the labour bed that she sprayed everyone the hard substance with hot pee. Omohh, the delivery process still continued o. She later bought drinks and food for them on her LO's naming day sha.

They ought to have done an enema for her before active labor. It makes labor easy too, they did it for me so if you push and push, nothing foul will come out.

Bloomingbud:
I'm here o, still throwing up terribly.

Me too, sorry.

MorningStar233:
Waoooo, what an experience. May God make it easy for us all

Amen

MorningStar233:
But is it something someone can hold? Like preventing yourself from pushing till you are asked to.

When it is time, you can't hold it. But you can hold if it is not time. The nurses told me I was pushing and I said I was trying to pee. The nurse said stop, don't try to pee. So, when I felt the push, I stopped trying to pee but when it was time, even me, I knew it was time. You will just know.

Jennifer89:
I want to ask mummies that have delivered a question

If you are having contraction are you suppose to push at each contraction or hold it like you're holding up urine .

Don't try to push unless you are instructed to do so to avoid tears

khaffi2:
Lucozade boost noni but drink moderately. The Lord is your strength.

Thanks

Is any October Mama still having morning sickness and what do you use to boost energy apart from Lucozade boost?

Layormiii:
Good morning mamas

Let us pray

Eternal rock of ages,the king of kings and the lord of Lords,father we appreciate you for giving us another beautiful privilege to be among the living this morning,it is not by our power nor by our might but it your grace that kept us,we want to say thank you for your unconditionally love, for strength in this period, unmerited favor, good health and mercy that you always show on us,your protection and provisions lord we appreciate all you are doing on our lives and In our families be exalted in the name of Jesus
Lord forgive us all our shortcomings and cleanse us with your blood and grant unto us the grace to do only your heart desires and follow your plans for our lives in Jesus name.
We cover today activities with the blood of Jesus
Our going and coming in today is blessed in Jesus name.

Lord we pray for mamas with children already,
They shall continue to grow in the way of the lord IJN, none shall be sick IJN.
We commit our pregnancy into your hands Lord, our LO's are our source of happiness we will not weep over them IJN, No miscarriage, no still birth, no complications IJN. ,they shall be a blessing to us their parents and to their generation,we declare save delivery in Jesus name, we shall not come back from the hospital alone with our hospital bags but also with our healthy babies and husband ijn.

we pray for the TTC moms we declare conception in Jesus name, we pray that our home, husband, family is blessed in the name of Jesus
We declare peace into every home facing one battle or the other,lord let you peace reign in our homes in Jesus name
Thank you Jesus for answering our prayer in Jesus name we pray
Amen

Amen

MorningStar233:
Thanks ma'am..I'll do that now

Please leave that thread. someone who can't argue objectively without wishing death and misery upon someone else, don't waste your time arguing with such people. And to think someone here claims she is a matured aunty that teaches tough love tough love with no solution, only bitterness

Jennifer89:
Cinderellashoes wow! I love your write up so I'm not the only one that watch such documentaries on CBS reality. Mheeen those stories can be crazy and you'll begin to wonder why people can be easily brainwashed I have watch some and they give me goosebumps!

Yes ooo, sometimes I'd cry so hard that my husband would wonder why I was still watching it. Life is scary.

nahzyla:
But why are many men so evil and why are many women so foolish?

That second story is too horrifying to read, I don't think I will search it up. The Jtown one I already knew of it before.

The heart of man is wicked (both men and women) we can only vouch for ourselves as only we know our hearts.

P.s Am I the only one finding it hard to sleep? Yet very tired

I onced watched a documentary that shook me to my bones and I stopped watching CBS reality for a while. I will find the story and share the link, read at your leisure and if you still don't believe that woman's story, then it's your business. Nobody should mention me again, I have witnessed a man lock out his wife at midnight, four days after she put to bed. I have seen a lot of things and I have been scammed in the past, but it doesn't mean I will term everyone with an unbelievable story a scammer. Going to search for that link now.

Modified:
Have you heard about the J town massacre where thousands of people were murdered by their pastor because they believed they would go to heaven? Mothers surrendered their babies and children first and this evil man gave them kool-aid that has been poisoned. Read about this one too or once in a while, watch those reality crime stories and documentaries.

Link to J Town massacre (918) people were killed in one day. Still searching for the other link

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.britannica.com/biography/Jim-Jones&ved=2ahUKEwi-65m_l6T3AhXy_rsIHZyTCekQFnoECAQQAQ&usg=AOvVaw1alUmA649m_UPuSl96nmSE


I don't remember the name of the man who committed the crime in the first story I wanted to share, and I am tired of using keywords to search so if you know this story, kindly provide the link as I watched the documentary in 2019 on CBS reality:
A brief summary

A man meets a woman who has a daughter who is 9 years and he starts to date her. They get married and he dotes on her and the daughter, paying special attention to the little girl until she began to see him as a demigod who could do anything. This man brainwashed the mother and said he was the messiah and he has been assigned to create a special bloodline by inbreeding his daughters and that when the world ends, he and his new bloodline will rule the world.

The woman who has been brainwashed, left her job and stopped reaching out to her family or friends. They moved to a new place where no one knew them and when the girl turned 15, the man said God asked him to marry the girl and start breeding the new bloodline. The man and the mother performed the wedding and then the girl became his wife. Soon, the mother dies and the man and the girl moves away to a new place. Their doors were always locked because he said the world had ended. At night, he would sneak out to steal food from dumpsters, so they were feeding on food that came from the dustbin. When someone starts to notice something fishy, in the middle of the night, he would blindfold the girl and they would move to a new place. Twenty years passes and they now had many children. The man started breeding his daughters and soon they had their own large occultic family where they believed their father was the messiah. The man told them whenever they see someone be wearing a blue uniform (policeman) they should all kill themselves and the family will reunite in heaven. Many years passes again and he now has grandkids from his own daughters and sometimes, he found some junkie women, brain washed them and brought them home too. His family grew so large that food from the dumpster wasn't enough anymore and he was growing old so they couldn't move every now and then. The man starts a new story and soon sends out his sons to go hustle and sometimes the wives were allowed to sneak out to get food or medicine. One day, the first wife, (the 15 year old) now a grandma slipped a note to a police woman, asking for help that they were being held hostage. She did it secretly because the other women were with her. When police came over, the other wives said she was a mad woman and the husband too said the woman was crazy. Police turned away at the door and when the crazy man went inside, the children already had out their guns to kill themselves (remember they were asked to do so if someone knocked on the door or they see someone wearing blue clothes)
The crazy man locked the first wife in the dungeon for days without food to teach her a lesson. One day, two of the nieces of the other wives who were also wives escaped and they came back for their children. They came with the cops to take their kids because the girls were wiser and realized they had been brainwashed for years. The wives were out, so when the children opened the door and the man saw the policemen, he grabbed a gun and shot seven of the children before the police could stop him.

Find this documentary if you can, my fingers are aching

Note: I never supported what Flower or her husband did, mine was not to chase her away so she could get help and that was what happened.

FlowerGirl040:
I appreciate everyone that gave me a good advice... Those that scolded me are also well appreciated from the bottom of my heart... Those that insulted me and call me names for speaking out are just barking with no course... It baffles me how some lies against me are flying left and right... Pls where did I mention I still want to be in this marriage? Or where did I made mention of leaving either? I replied comments and questions, nothing more. Besides do they expect me to leave my marriage empty handed? Those ones barking and calling themselves names on the other thread are just wasting their time,is that how to scold an adult? Talking as If I am your child,no one lives with me,so why shouting up and down ontop my matter as if their life is so perfect? You trolls,I dare anyone of you to come drag me out of here,call the authorities or even arrest me. Nonsense.

You expect me to start doing gra gra with my condition? Puting my life and my unborn child at risk? Isn't it obvious it you trolls that lack common sense? You think everything is done with fight or quarrels? I shared BS here but the busy bodies and unfortunate ones carry am for head... YOU all can talk from now till tomorrow,it changes nothing as I have already taken the few sensible advices here. See how stupid false assumptions about me are flying around on nairaland. Is that how to advice an adult? With insults, calling me names and shaming?

You can continue calling me whatever name you feel like,that's on you as it takes nothing from me or the life of my children. You did not read to understand,you just jump to name calling. No one knows my husband and my life more than I do,drop your advice and allow me make my decision. Imagine calling me a scammer with multiple monikers,did I beg anyone for money? And I swear no one has ever sent me money here. So I wonder where those accusations are coming from.

Kokaiye
TOHHAN
Omakraid
Expectantmom
Layormiii
Cinderellashoes
Mummytoo
Miracletoday
Tiffanyj and other Mamas I can't seem to remember the correct spellings of their monikers right now,I appreciate everyone here. This may be the last you hear from me. And I really hope our next meeting will not be life after,I really hope so. Is suicide an option. No.. But I hope I don't commit suicide unconsciously and out of depression. I really do hope so. But if I survive this heavy pain in my heart and head,then I promise you the next time you will hear from me will be a good expected news,that I promise.

Please, please don't deactivate your account. God will see you through and we appreciate you for speaking up. Keep the account and if going offline for a while is best for you, please do so but don't deactivate your account. Na me dem say I be your alternate account and I know I am not, so just go offline and return when you are able

waistbead:
@Cinderella joon,Baby123 is a woman

Ehn