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JustifiedChild: It is good that you dumped her o..wherever she is I'm happy for her 'cause for you to leave her alone for preaching to you online, you clearly had no good intentions for her in the first place.

I'm happy for her too that's why i had to let her go. By the way, i never had any bad intentions towards her.

Sir-Tunechi:
na strategy tins o. Mk you think say she be wife material

No mind her jare, i don dump her behind wen the thing too much for me to bear. I love it when a girl is religious but not too religious. Asin, na me know God pass.

I'm still a student and i don't fancy paying tithes. But if you check my life, i'm better than some people who do.

frank3.16:
I hate it when the pastor says 'look at ur neigbour and say....' People just behave like clowns in the church.

I hate tithe time, when tithers are brought out and given special prayers. Its seems god/pastor is more excited when people are paying tiths

I couldn't have said it any better.

PRAYERS! But don't get it twisted, i' am not a demon, i just get tired when the prayer is taking too much time. I pray for five minutes neva do, sometimes i have to repeat the same prayer points. The worst is Night Vigil, why should i go to an All-Night and pray for 3-hours non-stop as if na me my village people carry put for head. Abegi!

People sleep in church so that they can communicue better with God, Afterall they say you can't see God if your eyes are open.

Imagine one girl wey i dey try chyke dey preach to me online as if facebook na church. SMH!

No! I just type AMEN because my conscience will not let me be if i didn't.

Kanwulia: Hmmmmmm!!!

Wey part 2?
Work don close!!!
HALLAYLOJA!!!!

Hmmmm!!! oya click here to read part 2 But what do you have to say about this particular one?

Relationship is a very STRONG word. To be in a relationship you have to be ready physically, spiritually and most importantly financially. No disrespect to men out there, please if you're a man and not financially stable then don't search for a wife, instead search for a job. It's not a crime to love but atleast have something doing where the money is coming from, Should you Rob a bank when your wife starts demanding money for baby wears, baby pampers, etc..

And if you're that man who doesn't have a good job yet you already have 3 children in 4yrs of your marriage then i pity for your life.. (witches for ur village dey dance awilo for ur head) meaning you'll have atleast 8children in ten years time when you could barely cater for their
needs. Why bring those innocent children into this hostile world to suffer? Are you not ashamed as a man that your children are going to beg for garri from the next door neighbour. I'm not saying you shouldn't get married but be patient, don't say because all your friend are getting married also you want to get married, marriage is not a competition. As
a man, you can get married at the age of 40, no biggie! It's only
a woman that should get married atleast before the age of 22. And to those girls in the
other side who are married at 16, 18, and 19 respectively, hmmm, i comment my reserve.

The list will not be complete if i do not mention our so-called "sexy-mamas" according to wizkid. You're 35 and you're still playing hard to get, i sorry for you Oooo, by the time menopause go jam u ehn na u go begin beg guy of 20 to marry
you. Yesterday there was a thread on frontpage asking why
ugly girls get goodguys and vice-virsa now this is what i think. The statement might not be entirely correct but most pretty girls are ingrate, aggressive, and wicked. Majority of ugly girl are loving, homely, caring, family
oriented and nice. They know that they're ugly hence if they try nagging with there husband the man will bring in another wife so they maintain. Also, ugly girls do not get jealous over slight issues. No wonder they say beauty is from the inside. If you're a beautiful girl out there don't be suprised when every john d'ick and harry is stalking you, they just want your kitty-cat and when they're done licking your honey-pot they will go and settle with the so-called ugly girl who will give them rest of mind. No man wants to marry a lady who every guy wants to nyansh. A wise man once said "girls are smarter than we think they're but not as smart as they think
they're" if a guy is sending you recharge card, taking you shopping, and giving you all the best you could wish for he knows what he's doing, he might save your phone number in his phone as "My heart" while you save his as "Mugu 2" but in his mind you're Mugu 20. Gone are those days when girls use pregnancy to trap a guy into marrying her, try it this time, if he's not going to marry you he's not going to marry you, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Are you going to arrest him?! Did you not enjoy the sex while it lasted, Girls should stop acting like they're doing guys a favour when they ask for sex, as a matter of fact, girls enjoy sex most, likewise guys. If not for our culture abi
courtesy some girls will be on their knees begging us for sex because na dem dey enjoy am pass. Abi guys in the house na lie i talk? I'm not trying to sound like a chauvinist here but these are the things happening. Every time i give advice i try to be on a neutral ground so my audience can learn a lesson. Girls be proud of who you're, stop depending on your guy to pay your BIS, your house-rent, even your bus-fare when you guys took a shuttle together. It will not make a man respect you. He's a human being like you who also has families depending on him, if you need money for those things go get a job or ask your father. Last time i checked, he's not your father neither is he your husband. And if you're using "I GIVE HIM SEX" as an excuse then you're no different from the ashawo on the street. The most painful part about it all is that you'll still dump his behind when the time comes.
Please turn a new leaf, because when you change your mindset towards the way you do things then you're indirectly changing the world for good. May God
bless our hussle.

LOVE and RELATIONSHIP are two
words that has been intertwined
since like forever. Now i'm not
perfect in love but i do know a
thing or two. When you love
someone you can literally do
anything to show your partner
how much you care. Instead of
finding fault in their flaws you
find strength. When your partner
is talking you keep aside
everything you were doing to a
halt and listen with rapt
attention. You laugh whenever
your partner tells a joke even
though it's not funny. When your
partner is in problem your don't
say "what can i do?" you think of
something appopriate and do it.
You can't let a day pass you by
without hearing his/her voice.
When a guy abandons a crucial
football match just to see his
lover then such dude is in love.
When a girl pauses an interesting
scene from a noolywood movie
just to text back her lover then
such lady is definately in love. But
often time we tend to mistake
love with lust. These are two
different words entirely. An
epitome of lust is love at first
sight. Another example is
distance relationship. How can
you just love somebody the very
first time you set your eyes on
em? How silly could some people
be. I was listening to a radio love
programme sometime ago and a
dude calls and says he's been
dating a girl on facebook for
over three years. I was like WTF?
Which village did that guy hails
from. The worst part is that he
had been sending the lady
recharge card since the onset of
their so-called internet dating but
now he's trying to meet with the
girl and she started giving him
excuses. It is incontrovertibly
obvious that dude had been a
potential mugu all this while. As a
lady, you barely knew a guy
for a month and you guys had
started having sex, please know
that you're not in love. It's either
you're a side-chick or you're his
sex-machine. And the painful
part is that immediately he's
done, you're gone. They say love
is blind and to some extent i
disagree to agree. Some people
are blinded by what they see, feel
and imagine. You know that a
man has a wife and children at
home and you're secretly dating
him because of his money. Only if
you know the damage you're
causing to somebody's home,
because of you a man is refusing
to sleep with his wife, eat her
food, keep late night, beat and
verbally abuse his wife and also care
less about his family. If you're
that lady out there you should be
ashamed of yourself. And if
you're that guy out there that
has been proposing love to a girl
but she turned you down all the
time, and as a result of payback
you resorted to r'aping her then
you're worst than an infidel. It's
not by force for someone to love
you, if everybody is turning
down your request then it means
you need to check yourself
because something is definately
wrong with you. But my advice
to everyone out there is to love
the right way, if somebody
turned down your request then
let them be, there are several
fishes in the sea. Just keep on
searching and hopefully you'll
find that someone that'll love you
for who you are. That someone
that knows the song in your
heart even without singing it out.
Find that someone and let love
lead.

Read my short story with the link below to see my encounter with an ugly girl. https://www.nairaland.com/1510210/twisted-emotions-short-story#19400999