que4:
My first job was with a man. He could moody as hell and quite frankly I was happy leaving.

Second was with a woman. Very inspirational but crafty and vindictive. Also a troublemaker and landed her entire staff in prison while she was tucked awaybsafely outside Nigeria. Still ok to work for but gosh... I like my freedom.

The third was a woman I grew to HATE. She was manipulative, arrogant, bossy.... Some of the things she did made no sense and was at the detriment of her company. I learnt how to be patient with her till i discovered her ethics was poisoning my life and I told her goodbye. She still found a way to blame my leaving on me. Wish her very well.

So what's left? A computer or be your own boss.

Maybe u might also need to do some introspection

Btw the moody man seems like your best experience

mamawin:
ha ha! men sha, do you all want us to list what women go through under male bosses? I only advised d guy to try those, maybe it will work, not that I enjoy them myself. why the insults?

There's nothing insulting about wat I said. I don't have to cater to my female bosses' emotional needs since I'm not her husband. Only there to work....

I'm no woman so I don't know how women feel working under a man, one thing I know is that for women its worse working under a fellow woman....

Jibolami:
This kind of letter should be addressed to Elohor the head of operation,union bank oyin jolayemi branch.very heartless human being

Write it if you have the balllz

If not keep working you way to the top.

Was fun to read

You are the hero for the lower cadre staff.

But you have successfully taken a professional bullet if ud keep working in the same line of Job.

As an employer, I definitely won't employ someone like you if I knew how u exited the previous company no matter how good on the job u are...

Don't let another persons behavior make you break you discipline....

mamawin:
well, I don't know what my own staff will say about me but female bosses ain't that bad. well my tips, be warm to her, compliment her dressing, do the work she assigned to you plus extra, seek her opinions on things like you really need her help. in all, do your best, and if it isn't enough, na she get wahala

Why go through all these when he is not her husband? Compliment? Ask for advise? Be warm? If this is what every female leader needs to be a good leader then women are NOT fit to lead organizations period! Everyone is there to work and make money for the company its shareholders and satisfy clients not unnecessarily fraternising.... Haba

chieveboy:


It is possible for you to see it all....beyond what the telescope could...beyond now...beyond the time factor for time is honestly a relative term and factor...

This is not the 'Motivational speech' type of "it is possible"... and you get nothing. Am talking about real adventures...but you must be bold and adventurous, plus you need to put in lots of love love removes barriers, difficulty...

What evidence do you have to back up your faith in immortality, type that would make a man experience things 4 billion years away?

You need to to let the world know your ground breaking finding, the Chieveboys key to immortality

[size=13pt]Amazing. Now wouldn't it be weird if we were the only living beings in the universe. Its utterly impossible if you ask me. so aliens are real, we just haven't seen them...

We came from a source science has not been able to adequately explain, maybe some other living civilizations from us billions of light years away have discovered how the universe came about and how evolution happened, maybe they have been able to create the evolution of beings themselves....

This is beautiful. I wish i was alive to experience the nearing of the Andromeda, would be a sight to see..... [/size]

ENDTIMELIFE:
Mama Everyday snapping photos uploading online like a small girl, go and marry before you reach Menopause .

day before yesterday you're in the kitchen snapping photos, yesterday you're in your dining room snapping photos, today again you're at your pool snapping photos, Go and marry we have seen your Banana and groundnut island

[size=13pt]Marriage is not the most important thing in life, there are more important things to do with life than getting married. You are a man you should know, but from your statement it reveals you are a very shallow man who made poor use of his education however insubstantial....

Basically you spoke like a true mo.r.o.n[/size]

Pat utomi!!

But first we need a new party... A party with a youth focused identity. Led by the younger generation and for the younger generation.

Anything else will loose against BUBU.

Your friend is lucky. Id have had him battered by military men and make sure they burst both scrotums. Pedophiles deserve everything that comes to them.

I wish he had been charged to court though.

[size=17pt]A picture without a face cap or make up will be better, its not a show off parade.....[/size]

Okupe should have known who he was dealing with. Obj would never forgive him. The fact that he is Yoruba and hurled insults at an elder from the same place as you is unforgiveable.

Hasn't he heard "omo owu atenu Moro" I.e owu people never leave matter, never ever.

Some guys are just too careless.... Even 50naira condom would have helped, now you have an ugly baby mama and certainly an ugly future baby.

Thiboss:


I'll definitely give it a try bro, thank you!

Jelqing works...

ajuwarhodes:


Sounds stupid when I hear or read the can't trust this girl's ish, when and if a girl, female, lady gets positive, an idiot called a man infected her! U need to be the one to big up here

Big ups means kudos fyi..... Since I assume he doesn't sleep with men its d women he needs to be careful bout... If op was a girl id say be careful of men. Kapish?

SAINTSAMURAI:
Well as long as her vaginal is clean down there then im ok with it. all i will do is purchase detergents for her to clean it up.

Bet you are a virgin to start with.

And if you are not then ur the type of guy that would still give cunnilingus to a woman who has enough yeast infection she could start a yeast company..

princetom1:
And result is out.... Wow, cant believe my eyes.... thank u all for d wishes and encouragement. For those who are still procastinating or thinking twice, JUST DO IT, either way u have nothing to loose but gain. And plssss, lets all stop d stigmatization, u never know how someone got infected. In my own case, even if i had got infected, someone did it to me intentionally while i was drunk (though is still my faulth)

Meeehn. Reminds me of myself. Congrats mahn. From now on always use a condom if u must dip o. Cant trust these girls o. Big ups

butanep:



Sometime the condom will just foolishly burst.


I remember how the condom I used on a babe burst. The thing pain me die. I still went for second round and the condom burst again. I quickly jump from my bed. She was so tight so the contraction was much which lead to the bursting of the condom.


She was afraid of getting pregnant and I was afraid of getting STDS. She told me not to be afraid after taking postenor II.

Thank God I tested negative thereafter. Since then I started buying good condoms not regular gold circle.

Yeah gold circle is as good as wearing a nylon bag as far as im concerned.... There was a time i was so scared the cd was leaking i went to the toilet and poured water in it to be sure.... cant just trust these girls, only the Woman one marries would be free from all these scrutiny abeg....

HopeAtHand:


Did you read where he said his ex tested positive to HIV.. dude is on a long thing.

Lets hope she got the disease after she was with him.

I still dont know why guys have sex without protection though, cant trust anyone but yourself. haba.

princetom1:
Morning guys

Has any one here done an HIV/AIDS test recently? How does it feel?

So, here is the deal, i have been feeling all kinds of feeling lately, got treated for malaria, yet it persist, i have catarrh for almost a month now, have high temperature, get tired very easily, constant headache and so on. All wat i can think of is I'm positive, bcoz anything i get treated for, it still persist.

To make matters worst, I have an ex that tested positive for HIV /AIDS recently.

So, i have decided to do the HIV /AIDS screening today. While i read a lot about HIV, I am scared to the bone to do this test, I was up, all night, roll from left to right and right to left, pray to God for it to be negative, even made promises to God for that.

All kinds of things going through my head right now, as i am typing this. Anyone in the house did test recently? How do u cope with ur fears? And how do u cope with someone fear of being positive? Will be updating this post as i go for my HIV screening today

cc: GAZZUZZ, 0rex, semid4lyfe, jeffy1206, Kingreign, dominique, Sissy3, heavenet

I was so scared and certain i had Hiv i did two tests in different clinics, all turned out negative.... So the symptoms you feel might be as a result of your fears. The mind is a powerful part of us.

However, man up and do your tests, its better..... And if you turn out negative, come back here to tell us how relieved you are. Never again be caught without condoms

Affluentkess:
op i have being reading your thread from the very first page eventhough i had to skip some,like being clearly stated deep thinker are astute.
Imagine the world believe there is no God, would this make this world a better place? coz mans natural ways is wicked even with advanced in knowledge couple with the facts that he die and that is end ......Even with the constitutional Law,a dead man cant pay for his crimes commited.

There would have been rapid technological advancement... Humans have free will to be good or bad. The society however would have provided laws to ensure that people behave responsibly, so the impact of religion on societal order is over emphasized...... A "religiousless" world would be a beautiful one.

HardMirror:

Smart guy. You are on point there. This are all sub conscious psychology that makes christianity work.

Reading all ur texts so far seems like my own story. What u stated above is exactly one of the discoveries i made that propelled me out of religion. The Hindu believes as much as a muslim or christian believes.... Psychology of cold reading (for prophecy), some influence and hypnosis for the "papa" effect.....whenever I go to church now I do I to confirm how fickle the religious mind or human mind is.... Its sureal looking from the outside. Now understand how the muslim must have felt when I preached to him.....
Back to reading ur texts.

charix:
These yellowbar demons. My small time spent in Lagos has taught me Banky W must've gotten tired of housing TJ in order to keep a good relationship with Tiwa and has now colluded with his mother to chase him out the house, he only wanted the responsibility of who chased him out shifted to a higher power so he can save face.
Situations of the sort happened to me five times before I gave myself brain.


If I catch a ban for this comment the God from the old testament would perform wonders in the offending mod's life - I did not direct my opinion towards anybody so don't take it persona.

You directed it to a whole tribe.... You should know generalizations make you look like a slowpoke to be fair.

That cocaine comment Tiwa made would hunt teebillz for the rest of his life if he stays in Naija. He need to do somthing quick. Its better he leaves the country ASAP start a new Life.