₦airaland Forum

coogar:
when you get up to the 5th pack, mail me(privately)



i need to discuss logistics with r231 then. meanwhile, what's the population size of africans out there? i am sure it can't be up to 100.

moca:
Coc,never ever dream of entering into biz arrangement with coogar
He is still on the run after collecting money to supply mazi nweke 15 kegs of palmwine .
I'm just shielding him else I would have told our chief tee tee

Even the % he promised to give me, otu awu na ezi

coogar:
from my grandpa's barn. in short, all the yams in my village are affordable. a tuber of decent size yam out there should be about $10.

Madampinkolo:
Just came on NL and it seems it's bash cococandy day. It's just so horrid the things people use against others.They go to whatever the person wrote eons ago and use it.Everyday,circumstances change and the view i hold today will be modified tomorrow,does it make what I wrote them less valid?At the point that's how I felt naa.
It seems some people have been waiting to pounce..I have noticed also that some usernames are fond of stirring trouble and leaving snide remarks..It's not nice at all.
It makes it difficult for people who truly need help to come and write in all honesty knowing that whatever they'd written before will be used against them.
Take me for eg,I had issues last year,where I was disappointed with hubby does that take away from the fact that we are a happy couple doing our best to make this work?So,one day someone will dredge up what i wrote an insult me with it?Nawaya.
Or is it my conviction of cheat i cheat or cheat i leave nko?
It really pays to remind oneself never to rise to the bait on here,faceless forum faceless people who don't matter.Write and disappear
Even internet friends using style to pass insult.tueehhhhh
I'm talking to myself o jare.

@babyosisi
I had to laugh at your friend cancelling church..Make I no lie,i'm no longer as churcheous as I used to be.Less emotional too towards church and more invested in charity..Maybe it's the devil?

I understand your view on working though..Plenty risks being SAHM esp with a bad partner.Hopefully, we all will make the best choices for us and our families.You and your hubby have really come a long way,KUdos!! I can't wait to pass this stage abeg!!

@Salsera


Yes,the costs can kill.I've been thinking of an aupair as well but i'm not too sure I want anyone living with us at the moment.So,i chose the nursery option and that's what we will keep using.When baby hits primary school age,we will use the wrapround care as per after school club.

Aupair is luck o.Someone i know got an aupair and saw shege..One day she got a call from police..Wetin happen?Fire service was at her house,trying to get in and remove the baby from the house.Apparently, au pair went out for a smoke and mistakenly locked the baby indoors with the keys stuck inside.This same aupair during the interview said she doesn't smoke and drink. She resigned though and will resume work this year cos the kid is now older.Fortunately,her hubby is wadded just that he's a tight wad and she was having to ask for everything.So she's counting the days.

Another person i know has had fantastic aupairs.Me,i don't like to take risks and i'm really hoping everything will fall in place as i start work next year.Nannies are soooooo expensive!! That's why people don't really use that option if pepper no too rest.

coogar:
ladies first!
lemme see your own 12-packs for a start.



this could be a business opportunity.
i could be shipping yams there straight from ituku ozalla. where's moca when you need her?

Chillis:
Mix up in your environment, eat their food, party and try to adapt.
That is where your future kids will take after and you need to rapport well with them when you understand where they are coming from
If you want to meet Nigerians, enter here.

coogar, still waiting for the six packs oh

coogar:
it's not that serious.
that's the new slogan!



WA is too far.....cheiiii
it's like the other side of the border from NY. getting african food there would be a pain in the neck.

bennyrazz:
bold YES

coogar:
WA?
you would be lucky to find any african there, let alone nigerians. too far for africans.



i am the fittest african male you can ever meet. even my instructor is jealous of physique. i for send you pictures but "it's not that serious"

babyosisi:
He is beating her for being barren when he has been in prison for most of the marriage
If a husband leaves me and doesn't return,I am free to move on with my life and find someone else.
The girl was very naive and wasted her youth on this low life

coogar:
hahahaha
you know i am addicted to health & fitness. if she doesn't love working out, she's not for me.



there's owambe everywhere na - where are you based? NY or GA?

coogar:
i am afraid, no one can beat sambarry in owambe parties. she has sewn 25 different aso-ebis this year alone.

coogar:
you have just described sambarry!

bennyrazz:
there is nothing barbaric about it so far MIL channels her inquiries in a proper way. Not creeping in on her in the bathroom. When the whole Mary Kay, hairdos of most Nigerian girls is off that is when you see their true beauty or mgbekeism but I'm sure mother in-law is after seeing her body. She wants to know if her son have made the right bargain, she wants to know if her son is buying a brand new car/fairly used/Grade A tokunbo car/ over used car. I see no invasion of privacy here cuz MIL is a woman not a man and also an older woman for that matter.

GreenApple123:
Your head dey there my brother. You said it better..... @OP if you don't have anything to hide from your mother-inlaw, take shower will her as the intelligent mother-inlaw want to inspect wetin her son want to buy........ Please you are strongly advise to bath and even instruct the woman to bath you for her to have completely inspection.....if the mother-inlaw certified you okay, I SWEAR YOU DON MARRY her husband.

coogar:
only heaven knows what black women love doing. i must have used 50 different gyms in the last 5 years, the highest number of black women i see there at any point isn't more than 2.

it's always black males & white folks striving to keep fit. when health issues start creeping up on them in their 40s, you see them running from one spiritualist to another for help. all they do is sit in one spot, gossip, eat and fart like a constipated buffalo.

Chillis:
Good. Back in track jare.

moca:
Baby gal,im fine o.
Hope others are cool too.

Nne, let me tell u something.
When I entered nairaland,i was very passionate.
Infact,i saw a thread where someone sho normally operates in other sections described me as a very passionate individual .
I thought everybody sees things tru my lens.

As time goes on,i started clashing with some folks. That wasn't my intention for joining here.
I started get some PM I don't want so I deactivated.
The name I took was like my old name so the same thing continued. I deactivated again and decided to just be carefree.
There r people I once played with and they misconstrued my jovial pranks so I stayed clear. Even when they realized they have gufffed,i still stayed clear.
I now play with whomever wanna play with me.
Few times,i chip in one advice or two.
Note,i normally post on threads that have no bearing.
At times I enter a thread and start looking for whom to play prank with.
Everybody now got the message.
Also if a thread is heating up,i will withdraw.

This way,i can stay here for as long as I want without having any problem with anybody.
I also have learnt how to maneuver out of an intending attack. It just happened recently.

So dear, re strategise and learn how to ignore. But be sure, we Nigerians don't ever mind our biz.
Just learn how to divert and ignore.
If people call u out to come and comment on some certain issues, u can send a message across by ignoring
They will get the message very clear.
It is well my dear.

One poster was having d same problem u had and even more, she deactivated and started using another moniker,still it was war but she has learnt how to evade them and lo and behold,she can now joke with those her perceived e enemies.
Think about it.
It's well.

Chillis:
i dey find money.

Where is Efemenaxy. She is owing me health insurance. I got muscle cramp trying to do her 1hr jogging last night.

Ilekeh:
Beautiful women!




pix 1: Yoruba women

Pix 2:
Miss E.A Adebonojo, a Nigerian Student Studying At University Of London
Geography class at Marlborough Senior Girls School
Islesworth 1946.