₦airaland Forum

Forta:
cococandy!!!!! hear ya self na? i am not an advocate of divorce but let us call a spade a spade. we have traditions in Africa. Did he bring in another woman before she cheated? He is a chief and in some customs if he sleeps with her again he might die. THIS IS AFRICA

chukelvin:
whr v u been? ur bbm isn't active,add me up,Chuks

Akposy:
what' tins dat looks like seed on top.....i always c it on burger

Akposy:
i like all dis ur plate

freecocoa:
I'm sorry but I find this pill very hard to swallow.

I mean, people saw this man shoot someone and no one called the cops? And then the DPO coerced the deceased 's father(who is a lawyer btw) into signing some sot of non disclosure agreement? Did I miss something?

sleekman:
U Think Say Na America Be This? Once D Court Dissolves D Matter Dats All. Especially 4a Promiscous Wife. Now All Her Offspring Will B Affected

50calibre:
What do you mean by "the house is not his alone he should settle her nicely" do you think they're in the west where women get a free pass courtesy of the dysfunctional system? or is it how it's done in your village or you're forgetting your tradition so soon?

You knew what you were about to say was shyte, you also knew any reasonable people would find it offensive, yet you went ahead. Why? Are you not wilfully inciting anger?

His whor*e wife fled their matrimonial home 10 years ago to go explore her slu*tty side, two years after she left, the man had to bring in another woman to take care of his needs. 10 years on, his runaway wife decided to retire from her whor*e career and return to her ex-husband's house.

Cheating is a grievous offence according to Igbo tradition, more so the wife of a chief..... In this case, not only did she cheat, she had the effrontery to return to her former matrimonial home,...... This is an unspeakable taboo. In ancient times, she should have been stripped nake*d and paraded shamefully all through the village.

Without having to go to any court, the man has the right to throw her out of his house. He's done a lot for her, even bought her a car back in the 70s, (a very big deal then) yet her itchy puss*y pushed her to cheat.

That woman stepping foot in that man's house is a sacrilege, she should count herself lucky because had it been me, I swear!! I'd fire buckshots into her legs (as well as that of those who dare intercede on her behalf) before throwing her out.

babyosisi:
The old man should take it easy
All that anger could send him 6 feet under or give him a stroke and of course we know that new wife won't be there to nurse him
The woman is repentant
His people have judged and settled the case and done all the traditional rites
The children are on their mother's side and are even pleading with him
Why is he so unforgiving of something that happened 10 years ago
Tufia for this kain old man with a heart of stone

falconey:
what is gross in that?........oh I get it you are a girl you won't understand.

EroticAngelina:
Oluwa christi!! God, why didnt u give me such curves

but this is too much. I doubt any man will be able to handle her.

mumumugu:
Legalising prostitution will cure rapism

Shollypopzz:
At times, I wonder if these people realize how much of a low-life they appear.

Let's assume these made-up stories are true, what does that have to do with domestic violence?

What irritates me the most are women that laugh and joke with these butt-hurt nonentities.

I mean the "slut-shaming" is just pitiful. How can a thread about marital advice get people so worked up and jealous?? Is her supposed past suppose to make anyone dislike her or make her arguments void?

Chillis:
Lol, this place not worth it for me. I just come here to joke. Lol

I admire you and efe though, even though I don't get to read some epistle

At least my regime is back in place.

Omotowa like me.

moca:
Can't u see no real fun again?
If u laugh,it will be mis interpreted.
Somebody is ever ready to attack u and not ur message.

I have actually checked out some forum. Though I wasn't serious then.
Don't like blogs.

moca:
Abeg which forum?
I'm interested too.
I have once asked if there is another forum one can go to.
This place is too cold now.
If not for u,ed,coco and one or two other posters,i would have deactivated since.
One day now if my head is full,will just do it.

EfemenaXY:
Moca add Ile to the list.

What really is going on here?

edwife:
Oh dear,i am working on it though,but i can't go tomorrow- won't be able to concentrate.i have to go to the mechanic...

This week will be so stressful for me.

edwife:
Lol,i will go during thanksgiving.I had an accident today,i am still in shock,God saved me.

I don't even want to think about it ,my kids were all i could think of because it was the back of the car that got messed up.

**Sigh**

aderonila18:
Yeah , you just cover her expenses during the 9 months and take care of her bills during that period especially since the pregnancy may affect her working( depending on the kind of job she does and if there are complications with the pregnancy that will requiring her to have bed rest) for those months but not outright payment. A white woman did it for a friend of mine, she actually had 4 kids of her own and a partner . she's always wanted to help fulfill a couple's dream of having a child. The same way some people donate bone marrows to a complete stranger, some people are a lot more giving. What ended up costing them the most money was actually the legal bills, think that should be cheaper in Nigeria

NobleAky:
TB Joshua predicted a fall of prominent men and I'm beginning to believe him

aderonila18:
Some people actually even do it for free abroad, it's a way of helping others.

@Op, I will be following to see your progress. I and my husband are also hoping to use a surrogate next year with our DNA( gestational carrier), so same as yours. Was thinking we will have to do it outside Nigeria, but if yours go well we may look at our options here

toshmann:
Hmm, BabyO this your thread has become ebeano o

Come where is that cococandy and her twin sister

Toshmann nwa mama, na for church i dey de scramble nairaland o.
No ask me wetin pastor de talk

moca:
shege!
This babe and alcohol!

Funny, I don't drink alcohol.
Except on two occasions.
One was when AF was seriously disturbing me yet refused to come out. My cous(dr)told me to drink alcohol.
I did after bathing. I remembered I tied wrapper ready to sleep but went to lock the kitchen door.
D next day,i saw myself inside pool of vommit at d sitting rm stark naked.
And d hubby saw me. Cos he went to work so he must hv passed the sitting rm.
Cous was on 2 days call.
Her hubby called her from office to go and know what was wrong with me.
See me see shame .