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Thank you

Baddestguyp: nice dp. g

Are you kidding me?

pickabeau1: i cant believe this...

coco... u saying that bad marriages are a fraction... wow

wonders

So because I belong to the dont-endure-maltreatment camp means I see all married people as living a lie?
If so,why am I married?

Some guys still manage to get some sugar from NL

Who are you to tell them what to do?
You go soon fvck your pride

Well can one really open a thread to say about the beauty of their marriage without being seen as bragging or painting a false picture of marital utopia?

I'm sure anyone with sense knows that the bad marriages are just a small fraction of the total number of marriages out there.

Just that only those with pain find cause to create lamentation threads.

You want to die before you know what to do?

Which Nairaland guys?
The ones always insulting us up and down?
OP na another site you dey browse o

ileobatojo: As to why she's staying? Most likely for his money. It's also very possible that this is what their relationship looks like on a good day, full of smacks, spitting and abuse.

Which is why I think we should all stop disturbing ourselves over the issue

Chillisauce: You are here arguing with coogar. Coogar that will see black and tell you it's red. If you are not careful, you start going for eye test.

crackhaus: How then is he able to monitor her keeping with his curfew?
..

I was going to ask that too.
Or is that he monitors her the days he's around.

Weird couple. And after 10yrs for that matter.
Mtchew

Coogar will be elated.

Some men really get away with bullshitt.
It's disgusting

kreamidiva: wickkid!!!

Prick

kreamidiva: Sometimes he doesn't come home at all sef.... lol.

Yea it really ruined his case.
A lawyer could plead that he didn't intend to knock her out cold but him not showing any concern(that's how it seems from the way held her) when she passed out will rub a jury the wrong way if it were to go to court.

pickabeau1: Seems its d dragging when she was out cold that really ruined his case
However a deadweight body is not easy to manoeuvre

Shes also a tall well built woman

Some disgusting things one read here everyday.
So if he stays out later than 7pm for no fault of his,hope he'll lock himself outside too

This one isn't that clear.

But I saw clearly the way he dragged her body.
That was awful.

pickabeau1: Na wa... which video person go believe...

cobras

Seen. I think apart from the knocks and spits and all what not,it seemed particularly cold the way he handled her unconscious body.
Wasn't he even scared that she might die?

One can react in anger,but when your opponent slumps,there's supposed to be that human fear for the life of that other person seeing as you didn't plan to really kill the person. I think he should have been frantic about her passing out.
That would have shown some humanity on his part.

Ok so they both spat at each other? Must be a house of cobras

pickabeau1: These are two different scenarios

Have u watched the video yourself or just winging it based on versions of people

She slapped at him, a version of the video shows her spitting on him

He raised his hand.. she fell and hit the elevator railing... that knocked her out


or do you have a differing version of events

Sure thing. Make I go find my tablet.

My earlier post was on the premise that she hit him first and spat on him.

freecocoa: You should watch it.

Just like Kanwulia would say, women learn violence from men walai.

I don't think I can ignore being slapped and pushed let alone being spat on.

Seems like there are quite a few different videos for this issues.

Which is why I'm wondering why she's apologizing to him and asking folks to stay away from their 'marriage' according to coogar.

How can one spit on someone they claim to love?

ileobatojo: So apparently, he was the aggressor and started it outside the elevator.



The video in this link shows it more clearly than the previous video posted in this section. It shows her just walking by and he spits on her which makes her try to smack his face, they go in the elevator and apparently he spits on her again which she responded by holding out her elbow to his face. Then he smacks her face…..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wsd8LtTTnAI

Based on this new information, I'm glad he got what he deserved. He is even sicker than I thought, I thought he was pretty sick already from the way he treated her unconscious body but this shows she was the one retaliating/defending herself.

freecocoa: Wtf? That nigga's a beast, see the way he dragged her, he didn't even care.

He's the one that even spat on her, omg!

seriously?
That means I've to log in with my other tablet let me see for myself before getting decieved with fake tales.

Coogar come and verify this.

Phut I'm not going to watch it,my device doesn't open you tube videos.

Phut: Coco candy o, she did not spit on him. He spit on her. Please watch the video again. He is standing by the pillar and she walks by him. That is when he leaned forward, pursed his lips and spit on her. She then pushed him

This should be illegal.
One shouldn't be allowed to abuse medicine.

Isn't it against ethics to tweak science like this?

True.
If they had conducted extensive background research like we do here,this would have been avoided.

gbadexy: Its a very pathetic situation. I doubt if it could have happened in africa with the courtship and meeting of families.

jaybee3: Ma

Your turn

I don't really respond to PMs.
Sorry

breezy047: Your nairaland email handle

I don't understand.

breezy047: Is your handle working?

Why would a married person need a curfew?
Unless they don't realize the responsibility they've under taken by saying I DO.

If you're a husband or wife you don't reminding that you've duties waiting for you at home.

Yea. I'll visit soon.


And you're free to join us under the mango tree

beeevan: You can still visit .

Danhumprey: Tell me,which sane guy won't be 'hitting' on a pretty girl like you?

That's a compliment.
Thank you

breezy047: She could always tell. She was only trying to play safe.

You could have been trying to find out something from me.
It's better not to assume jare.

Lmao
_{I don't even believe what I just typed}

Ok. You're forgiven.

Yes early starter I guess.

breezy047: I just knew today. someone said/wrote it up there and I verified. Its ok. You don't look it though. I suppose you are an early starter

Oh you knew?
So why were you hitting on me?

Anyway thanks for the compliment.
I like going natural sometimes.

breezy047: Perhaps your not saying the truth @ the bolded.

Your instinct was indeed right. I was hitting on you. So what's up? Ok I know already


You do have a nice hair though. It looks natural and full.