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Dreyl:

donpeey22: Not all men are put off by women who don't hide their se,xual cravings. Personally, i get turned on easily by ladies who don't pretend about their high libido.8-)

TV01: Where money is not a consideration (or they are just fantasizing - as many do ) other "manly" traits become paramount. That is why women will go ga-ga over a good looking criminal;
http://blackamericaweb.com/2014/06/20/model-prisoners-good-looking-mug-shots-go-viral-in-california-photos/

jaybee3: They cheat because they have a ready and willing accomplice. No be so?

jaybee3: Oya tell us jare

1stCitizen: There are 2 sides to a story. He only got to hear her own. What if the man is in jail over immigration offences and awaiting completion of his sentence to be deported. Could be why the family ain't saying nada? What if the "move on" part is an exaggeration?

Dude comes back to find out his impatient disloyal wife has divorced him in absentia and married her ex. Madness!!!!

Gratia: look at your username and you are talking about JESUS.

Hypocritical being.

Mtcheww.

damiso: Coogar and carefreewannabe both of you are something else

Coogar I want to contribute to this thread based on personal experiences to buttress points made by others about lowering(ok not lowering but being a bit realistic about your spouse's libido) as there are various factors that could contribute to a woman's loss of libido which has also been talked about on this thread.I consider myself(shy face ) someone who has a healthy se..x drive and we were at it alot in our first year of marriage esp as we did not have a child in our first year.

But yeah we had a 3 month drought (am thinking even 4 sef ) after I had my daughter. And when I say drought I mean zilch zero nada just cuddling with a non se.xual undertone.

I actually had to undergo counselling and had to see a doctor cos it was horrible and I could not believe this was me(heck my husband could not believe this was his vixen wife ).I think I have shared on here once that I had a mild form of post natal depression after the birth of my daughter due to a lot of factors

I just lost my dad
My mum was unable to come over to help so me and hubby had to learn and do all the new born ish ourselves
I was just about 2 years in the uk most of my family and friends were in Nigeria and even though my Inlaws and church members tried they just had their own lives and so when hubby went back to work I felt alone
We were moving house
My daughter was a crying baby and had serious bouts of colic
I had a very very nasty tear that I had to have stitches with a spinal even though I had A VB

It was one of the most traumatic times in my life and my hubby was really really patient with me as he knew I was very fragile both emotionally and physically and even when I kept apologising that I was denying. Him he kept asking me to stop being silly and try to get better.That time of my life taught me that depression is very real.With time and patience(also sought medical help my GP and the NHS were fantastic I even got free prescription for KY jelly for about 6 months ) we eventually got our momentum back and our s..ex life is even much better these days.As a man you might (might not every woman had that experience) have to cope with something like that and believe me if you love your wife her wellbeing at that point will supecede your needs.Funny enough it was the exact opposite after I had my second child but then most of the issues I listed earlier had been dealt with.

So Coogar chill s..ex is very important but sometimes in some cases the libido of a shoe has legitimate and medical reasons and you just have to work and communicate with your wife to help her get momentum back.

carefreewannabe: You are an exception. Most women don't enjoy it. They only do it to get married and have kids. This is what TV taught me / us.

coogar: be deceiving yourself - most women don't enjoy sex at all & it even gets worse post-birth. this is why the intimacy gadget industry is booming in the first place.

more than 70% of the women out there cannot even cop orgašms via vaginäl sex with a male partner & every man gets orgaśms in every sex session so what exactly do women enjoy?

MizMyColi:

Wait, is it just me? Or should the OP have exposed the guy's face thus?

Haba?! When posting on issues like this, discretion is advised na, even if you caught him pants down with your wife, posterity demands that you @ least cover his face.

If you were in his shoes for whatever reason there might be and your face is this vivid on Nigeria's most popular indigenous website, surely you'd call it assassination/defamation of character.

Show some consideration already.

Dreyl: hahahahaha forget that bae,i'm goin to do anything for you,well if u don't want me as ur side nigga then take me as your companion i'm ok with that

jaybee3: I see you coco

Dreyl: jeeez!!! Ok babe do u mind taking me as ur side nigga i don't mind tho

edwife: et voila!

Dreyl: you re so beautiful are you single lets mingle

edwife: how far?

itstpia1: That's why women need self defense training.

itstpia1: Lol.

Can't say the same.


If you yell at me, I yell back, unless its not expedient for me to do so.

Why are you yelling at me to begin with? You never chop?

Dreyl: Lol..i was just teasing tho ,just wanted ur attention besides U look like someone i have seen in owerri,dunno maybe i'm right tho

apolonius: This is about certain men and women of a particular class.

Most men and women behave saner!

Dreyl: talk to meee

Dreyl: are u not in naija