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bebe2: Dats d problem o, they think am not religious enough.

I called the younger sister last night. We gist tire I was hoping she will bring up the matter.
But nothing.

Frm now on am minding my own business. After all my battalion go soon start school again and my stress level go sky rocket.

Make I save my energy.

donpeey22: *Btw, lorrie, from my aproko when i don do for ya dp, u fine well well no be small, infact if i marry your type na you go geh everything*8-)8-)

donpeey22: You know the truth but just don't want accept. 99% of women in their selfishness, seek wealthy men for marriage. Even women who are relatively doing well Financially still will not marry a man who isn't atleast as wealthy. It's been known that most married people lose trust way into marriage, don't be Carried away by d lovey dovey thing you are still enjoying as a newly married lady, you may understand better later in your marriage, though i pray yours wont be too bad.

sexybash: If you know you want to focus on a man
Then tell your parent not to waste time sending you to school
Abi. You can even master the art of scheming
Learn to work for your own money so you can afford the luxuries of life you need

donpeey22: Yes!!! Though i know that the odds are very rare for a woman to be wealthier than her husband and/or die before him, but in the event that it happens, then, the husband does not and should not AUTOMATICALLY qualify to be the trustee to her wealth. If her children are not up to the legal age to inherit her wealth, then her most TRUSTED person, which could be her sibling, husband or friend should hold her wealth in trust for them until they are upto the legal age.

Crocz: I think that's what we are trying to establish here...whether she is "Omoshalewa" or "a punk"...someone just proof he knows the girl and that she's most certainly not this "bustyhelen"

soulglo: It's gross irresponsibility in my opinion. Makes no sense to me. You just cannot hide these feelings. If someone truly feels that their wife is that useless that she cannot make sure that their final will and testament is carried out then the marriage always had problems. You cannot feel that poorly about someone and think they do not know. Classic case of "we meet in the bedroom and make babies" marriage. Everything else is separate.

donpeey22: Your advice was wrong in the sense that you made it seem as though ALL siblings or relatives will always take all the dead man's wealth and live his family with nothing. You didn't take into cognizance the fact that some siblings/relatives could even take better care of the man's children than the wife as some wives have abandoned their children with her late husband's siblings upon his death and got remarried to other men. I think it would have been better if you had said that the man should entrust his wealth to his most TRUSTED person, be it his wife, friend or sibling, if his children haven't grown to the legal age at the time of his death.You made it look like none of the man's sibling/relative can EVER be trusted to take better care of his children in his absence, while the wife is always trustworthy.

donpeey22: Ok. That means i would have to cut all supports for the boy and his mum and have him withdrawn from school next term so as to focus on my family alone. Thanks for the advice.

wolewill: @cococandy I came in for the weekend always come in by friday and leave early monday morning for my base. But I just couldnt sleep so I woke up early and to tired to be on the way to my base which is some hours from my family. Now why cant I tell my wife in such a short a notice? Because it will be mean to tell over the weekend and leave for my base on monday. It will take time to register and the whole process needs to be gone through. I think it unfair to tell her and pack my things to be away for another 2wks. I need like a week with entire family to pull this thru. I may be wrong. Why did I respond to you? I did because your responses have been encouraging. I might not respond to anyone anymore who insist he or she doesnt believe it. Each person is left to take his or her own action

TribalEAST: when a feminist can't counter your strong point, she writes the above.

xynerise: You can't find public toilets in all part of Nigeria. This girl never jam emergency ''piss'' sha. Na bush na e sure pass o.

I really don't like guys urinating in a public place though. Imagine when a heavy wind blows while urinating. That one na fountain of blessing

jnrbayano: This thing you are searching for eh.

I laugh in Kalabari

blank: Who is deceiving whom?





Can's stand all these fake Nollywood stories abeg.

tbaba1234: I am muslim so i'd give you our understanding.

On this earth, these are two types of 'intelligent' creatures.. The man and the jinn (unseen creatures/spirits).

They have the good and the evil, in both categories. They live separate lives and usually do not interact except in exceptional scenarios.

This could in the form of possession, where the jinn enters a human body and tries to influence it.

I know at least one person who has spoken to a jinn. I have heard many other reliable stories of exorcism from those involved.

However, it must be pointed out that these cases are rather rare and generally they do not possess. A medical condition is more likely but possession does happen.

Evil jinns (called devils/satans/demons) also whisper evil suggestions to humans.

You can get jinn stories here:

https://www.nairaland.com/1116143/jinn-stories

https://www.nairaland.com/17665/muslims-whats-favorite-ayah-surah/9#2901312

TribalEAST: I said standing on the right ground, not when he's wrong. Do you expect a man to succumb to his wife's foolishness which was thesame mistake adam made, who knew eve was proposing something wrong but in the bid to act romantic or emotional, he succeeded in destroying himself?

wolewill: @ cococandy, rationalmind and feminineA and some others I am touched by your response. @cococandy you asked what I want. Well I am sort of confused now, I just to unburden my mind 1st which I have done. But I also need comments from people like you, njideoby, helen4 and others. I have never felt so lonely my entire life because my siblings are usually for me or me for them. Especially I am one of the strongest member of the family in terms of emotional support but this is one thing I cant share with them for now because of the shameful acts involve. I really need people around me but cant get now. Thanks

ledafaze: They are everywhere... Maybe it is out of frustration or sorts of... only God knows... a lady was once telling me that she wants to get married o but would prefer being a single mother... just to have a child and care for the child on her own without any wahala... I was jaw-dropped.



At least, those ones were married and later got into that status of being a single mother... but wont be saying such if they got married to their dream man...




Like what we have been saying here.... they dont want to be under any man.... FEMINISM in short... Kai!

TribalEAST: you are wrong while the writer is right! Even in dating, once the guy starts paying too mucch attention to her feminine desires and emotions, he becomes a wuss as she assumes his masculinity while he becomes the emotional one. A man should always stand his ground with a huge sense of pride so long he's right. If a lady can take her guy for granted in a dating relationship just cos he's too caring, how much more when she's married? Don't you think she can still have that trait in marriage, waiting to abound once the hubby succumbs to emotions? Stop defending feminism

onirugbon1: hehehehehehe you settled the case when you said based on my environment, Nigeria if i'm correct.

It is in Nigeria you find tonnes of women looking for supportive men here and there to crown their head, outside Naija is different. We have more independent comfortable youthful woman. The writer is not exaggerating.