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Not for sale darl.

Thanks for the encouragement

SAMBARRY: Loretta me I sha like the bag.how much is it sef

You're not well o

My home made designers.
Na only make up go dey inside am.

Idowuogbo: Yea,you are right. This our igbo sister will defo stuff that bag with Ugwu and other orisirisi your idea will work for the shape and purpose.

Ok. Thanks

Idowuogbo: I agree...
CoCo, that chain is too light for that style. Get something thicker.

jaybee3: Considering the shape being rectangular with it's density kinda requires the handle to be attached at the sides rather than the flap. Carrying it will almost certainly prove difficult as most women carrying the bag will apply to much volume to it. It will def result in a massive imbalance IMO

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True that. But these ones are washable. I lined them with rubber. Just a little brushing and they are clean again.

Though it's best not to wear them in the rain.


Besides ankara accesories aren't made for ankara materials.
They are meant for plain non-print or pattern materials. So the attention remains on the accessories. You wouldn't want clashing patterns everywhere.

Ok so how do you see this box bag I made it too. (forgive my cluttered work table. Face palm ).


@idowu,you sabi fashion wella o. I gbadun you

SAMBARRY: I bought somethingllike this some time ago . when I came back I hated the slippers and it was so beautiful like this o.e pain me die and no laundry man was ready to accept to wash it.e pain me die and I had many ankara gowns I wanted to wear it on

I made this purse too with the bangles.
Goes very well with my tunic.
Trust me to add a little red in everything

I haven't really been a fan of ankara until now.

Forgive the dark quality of the picture.

So does anyone here know about ankara accesories?
I've been using my freetime to learn some skills.

I made these.

1)Slippers.

Hurry up o

zeongeon: cococandy the match maker dont worry you will be the bridesmaid

Damiso I had a thread like this in mind sometime ago but didn't get around to it.
Thanks once again.

Idowu nioce


Erms babes. I've got a Wild Rose shoe to give away.
Size 39
In my favorite color haha.
I loved it and ordered it but wore it few times and found out stiletto ain't my thing.
Prefer wedges and balanced heels.
It would be a waste to just let it lie around unused.

First to send a pm gets it on the condition that she's not too far away from delta state.
And your privacy is protected.

Heart broken.

From what I read here the two guys with same surname might be brothers.
What a generation of evil doers.

Ask her out already bro.

It have tey since my 2 legs never go wedding.oya. The ball is in your court.

Does anyone else smell a christmas wedding?

zeongeon: @sophyrocks your mouth gave u away to be a sanguine while ur eyes gave away ur melancholic nature and most of the times would b more beautiful wearing braids than weavons.

Ur good looking...and about cheating I gueSs u have never cheated before..

I just follow my man stalk small.
You fine no be small

Sophyrocks: Giving her the sort of advice you would NEVER IN YOUR WILDEST DREAMS Follow is sheer hypocrisy to me. In this context, i am real and you are a hypocrite!

As for my looks, come on, MEN LIKE YOU LOVE THE FAKENESS IN WOMEN. you all love what you see, Fake or real. You will never look at a woman without all of you have mentioned twice. I dnt even see how my looks concerns cheating in men. #Feeling fly with myself# Or are you seeing me right now with all of that on? Dnt tell me you are stalking my profile. hmmm. Dnt let me use the 'A' word on you o.

In olamide's voice

"They don't know"

Sophyrocks: Still, Blatant justification to me. WOMEN ALSO STARE AT HOT HANDSOME MEN TOO. We also love men. I Love men too. I love their company. #Continues Filing nails#

Always candy sweet.
Yoyobitters is just my evil twin

pickabeau1: ....cococandy to yoyobitters

I think so too.
And will definitely advice anyone who finds herself in such a position to do same.
Walk away.
Head held high.

But we all have heard about crimes of passion.
Even the most financially liberated of people men and women alike are not immune to it.

So if I were the man,I'd play safe.

pickabeau1: interesting ....

you women surprise me though,,

With modernisation and empowerment, i think it should be easy for a woman to walk out of a union where she is not respected keeping her dignity rather than risk committing a crime...

what do you think?

naijababe: Got this from my BIL's FB page and could not help but share

Here's one I also saw.
I don laugh tire

Oh someone said that?
Lmao. Girls are not smiling anymore.
Well at least you guys are realizing it's not small issue for many women.
We are now very different from our female ancestors.

Would I be murderous? Maybe. Who knows?
I don't even know.

I just know that my first reaction(which won't be pre-meditated or planned) might land him in the hospital.

If anything such 'discussions' are better held over the phone.

Ok but seriously though. Such a guy must be cool playing russian roulette with himself to sit face to face and tell madam he's bringing another woman into the marriage.
Not where I come from.
It doesn't happen or will I say it rarely happens.

pickabeau1: Someone said this on another thread



Do you think you can also harbour murderous thoughts if it happened to you

Im curious to what you meant exactly

Does mid life crisis present itself in mental issues?
Thought it was the normal menopousal hot flushes and headaches.

Phew

carefreewannabe: Sisi, how can you think something like this about me?

He said he was monogamos so you don't have to worry.

I trust you but...

Let him come and speak for himself o.
My eyes are seeing something else

Ok it's official.
Carefreewannabe has snatched crackhaus from me.

Alright. Where's my e-lawyer. Need an e-divorce asap.

Don't even think about getting the kids.
Or the house
Or the business either.I'm taking them with me.

And you carefree have broken a BIG rule in the sisterhood. Meet me at the coven 12midnight tonight for your sanction.

pickabeau1: LOL... if you dont mind, may i ask what could happen..
Bankruptcy due to Divorce i get but this ur post is chilly...X

It's a chilly topic.
Expect chilly posts
Infact the topic gives me the chills and shivers.

No
I don't recommend a drastic action if they have a chance of putting things together again.
It's one thing to not recommend divorce.
But it's another entirely to make it seem like it's something she has to endure and put up with.

How about the man stops misbehaving and tries to work on his marriage than folks telling the wife the problem is from her?

Acidosis: In one statement, what do you recommend? Divorce?

If you watch my posts carefully, you'd see I really do not have any painkiller for her headache. I'm only suggesting ways for others to escape such similar problem.

The court as you suggest cannot help a 'cheated wife'. What exactly do you want a judge to do? Kill the man, or chop off his blokos? Of what purpose is the vow if the customary judge cannot enforce the rule of law?
You seem to forget so fast the power and efficacy of a blokos.

Don't laugh.
That was a grossly uninformed submission.

You don't vow to God. You vow to your partner.

Atheism isn't sans morality(good or bad)

And cheating isn't about sinning here. It's more about breach of contract. If you breach the conditions YOU AGREED to when getting married. You face the consequences. It's not about morality,sin or belief in god. It's about justice.

What's that about some courts not having anything against a cheat or a cheat not having a business in court?
If your marriage vows included 'forsaking all others'
And you said 'I do' to it,you have a case to answer in court if she drags your a$$ there.

Quit encouraging women to put up with bullsh1t.


Anyway for those taking you seriously,I have red bras and black pants in abundance. (Victoria's secret only) So they can wear it while praying for the man to get tired of philandering.meanwhile risking STDs and suffering silent pain instead of facing the issue squarely and getting it sorted once and for all.

Sweeping problems under the carpet don't make them go away.it only let's them breed and fester until everything is destroyed.

Acidosis: Lol

This article speaks my mind.

The one that annoys me most is the noise.
Pastor you have a church,so god has given you permission to keep everyone else on the street awake all night because he commands us to pray without ceasing.
How about those who have to go to work the next day but can't sleep because the band and the trumpets won't let them get a wink?

And oh no don't complain. You must be a witch to get offended that other people are worshipping and raising dust at your expense.

Hmm
God is not selfish.

bukatyne: See Article below:

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http://elnathanjohn..com/2012/07/how-to-worship-nigerian-god.html

no reason.

such a dude must not be loving his life to try and sit me down to discuss a second wife.

Acidosis: Who says cheating is not good? You can only find that in the Holy Book Telling an atheist to abstain from adultery is like telling him to pay tithes and offering. Atheism is not against adultery. Adultery is a SIN and nothing is SINful to a non-believer.

and to whom exactly are you presenting your marital vows? To the same God you never accepted?

Even the customary court where most atheists run to for marital vows have nothing against a cheat. Unlike a thief who gets punished for stealing in the law court; a cheating husband has no case/business in court (except divorce).

You typed and posted this?

My sister.
Na classic case of physician heal thyself dey do me.

SAMBARRY: why
you have beads and you don't wear them always



choiii how I love all designs of bead necklaces. If I were you I'll wear them alway

They would fit me I'm sure.
And red makes my skin glow more.

It's like the song 'lady in red' was done for me.

I make beads too. So I have plenty in various colors and designs.

Don't even wear them always.

SAMBARRY: it's the beads, outfit and shoe you should look at jare


How you see am on you?

HarrveySpecter: In all honesty, yes.

Good for you then.

But I think people should take responsibility for their actions and not try to excuse themselves by what the other person did to make them do it.
Agreed that one's spouse can treat them in a way that makes them begin to fall for someone else outside,still one has to be a responsible adult and take the fall for their sins.

Instead of saying 'you made me do it'

Will blame the husband when you find the wife cheating?

Straight answer pls.

HarrveySpecter: But here you are blaming men.
A lady never admits to being fat even if they are. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you are. Of course it's a choice, choice which is mostly influenced by the lady. There are loads of men who want to cheat but can't because of their wife. Their wife knows how to handle them well. The main thing is knowing the kind of man you have and how to give him what he wants. You stated you are quite, care to look into that, maybe you don't communicate well with him.

Besides, you have not mentioned in where you commented with him on this issue. Perhaps, thata where the problem is?

Pray tell.
I actually prefer info from the people who had the experience themselves.


Really me hot?
Thanks hun

EnlightenedSoul: I've had an experience I couldn't explain, but I don't know what the hell it was and decided not to speculate. Who needs more questions to deal with? Not I.

I'd recount it if I didn't think someone might question my eyesight/sobriety/sanity lol.

Off topic: OP, you're hott!

greatgod2012: what of if he asked for tips to run his business well

Let him polish up his designs.
Even dead people deserve pretty things.
If they affordable and good to look at,he'll find buyers from various places.

And advertise too.
He can add extra services like funeral homes do (if he can afford to)