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Fine woman ![]() SAMBARRY: soyoyo this one will fit you because you have her kind of stature and complexion |
Anyway anyone interesed in red pant and black bra,send me a pm. I've pairs in all shapes and sizes. Strictly Victoria's secret. ![]() |
There are faithful atheists. They don't even acknowledge the existence of God but stay true to their marriage vows. Good thing you're doing painting men as people with no brains and thinking faculty. Who require divine assistance before they know the right thing to do. Acidosis: Except you marry a born again man, it would be very very very difficult to meet a faithful man. |
alutacontinua:We are fine thank you. Happy sunday. apolonius: Lady C,thanks. I am here resting and reading you! ![]() |
That was an example. My solution? You're still asking? Are you even reading? Here goes: If he's a baby change it.if you wish to If he's not don't. Use his middle name. freshdude2: Who would have taken you for an expert in Child Name/Name Psychology, aren't you quite the onion?! What's to stop a math champion from becoming an all-round champion? Abi na only adverse effects name change dey cause? Are you categorically saying that nothing good can come of this proposed name-change? Woman, abeg leave sentiments for one side. If a name can make one form an identity, why can't another help the child form an even more formidable identity and/or sense of self?! Unless you're saying, the first name is the best or he has to be an adult to change his name in order not to regress abi what are you saying? |
Good. The whole family changed because... Good reason. Known reason. And everyone understood and complied. What are you going to tell a boy about his first name that won't sound funny? That he was named after the mom's ex? pickabeau1: Not only adults... Even adolescents |
Adults right? Good pickabeau1: ERM..cococandy.....adults change names every timeDid I say they didn't? But every adult has a REASON within them for changing their name. EOD |
EfemenaXY: I think it depends on the personality of the single person in question and what they've achieved in life for themselves.simple |
First the Op didn't say she's the one in this case. And yes I understand perfectly what's happened here. My first post that you quoted was my response to TV's post which summarized my feelings about the topic. There was no need going off repeating what was in his post which I was agreeing with. Which I also made clear in this post quite true. Imagine the hubby naming daughter after his ex lover.So you see you have comprehension issues. Or as usual the cococandy fever won't let you read straight. Anyway to the point. after all the vexing which is understandable, what next? Change the boy's name out of anger? You my friend are the one who has a lot to learn. I repeat if the boy isn't in his infancy,then changing the name isn't the solution. Names go a long way to shape identities and what people think of themselves. A growing child who sees himself as Obi the 15yr old math champion of his class will have problems adjusting to ikenna all of a sudden. Who's ikenna? He doesn't know. He can't up and just start seeing himself as someone else overnight. Believe it or not there's a psychology behind it. When people change names,they are adults and there is something disticnt about the name that makes them want to give it up. Or they have a different idea of who they are and they want to go ahead to establish their new personality. I rest my case. freshdude2: So, for the all the replay time that your ideas had in your mind, all you could muster was this tosh? |
freshdude2: Coco dear, What exactly is he letting go of? The fact that his wife has chosen to immortalise a dead lover, in his seed no less? Or the disrespect he has been subjected to all these years? Please, enlighten me! don't you just get off this way?Mehn! Ok let me indulge you. First I did say he can change the name if he can't bear it. Which should be within reason(that is if the boy is still infant and not used to it) But changing a name the growing boy is used to is no solution to his problem. What reason will he give his son for the sudden name change? He'll have to make do with his wife's apology. Or if he wants to get back at her in his own way (whichever that is),fine for them. But don't confuse a poor boy for something he had no hand in. So forcing a name change on a boy who may be in the dark about what's going on to you is a better solution than letting it go or using his middle name? If he's in high school he has to go around informing his friends he no longer bears Josh but Keith because his dad just had a change of heart?(Because that's what he'll think) I'd be hurt if I was the man here,but emmanuel my son remains emmanuel my son and not emmanuel my wife's ex.I won't make him suffer for what his mom did. If I'm used to it,then I'll carry on but make sure my spouse makes it up to me if she's really sorry like she says she is. Rambling on and on. |
Aww ![]() Anyway only an insane person will yab a new born baby. suxes2005: The baby was at the middle of her leg for |
teeo: And seriously I wonder how ladies think sha. Just saying.Which ladies? Learn to take a joke joor ![]() |
Pinshure nko? Congrats man |
Niceeee. Great tips damiso . Those illustrations there are Munching the screen now ![]() |
Who am I seeing? ileobatojo: Efe dear, abeg no vex. I'm just taking a much needed summer vacation from NL. |
Lmao |
So all the women in positions of authority are messing up? Meanwhile I don't see anyone blaming el rufai,ffk,asari etc misbehaviours and twitter rants on their gender. Mtchew. careytommy: This is why women can never be trusted in position of authority. leaving the crux and focusing on the mundane |
EfemenaXY: I'm telling you. ![]() Lenzz:One sharp babe don corner you. Chai. ![]() BTW where's apolonius? Miss the dude. Alutacontinua my love. Where are you? |
![]() I agree. There's a kind of beauty in their simple lifestyles then. EfemenaXY: I absolutely do! |
Ceasar1: Seriously, I wish I could.Goodnight
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EfemenaXY: @Cococandy: That movie of yours...Rising moon ... was absolutely fabulous! But can I ask you something...Yes the settings and decor were most definitely so. But The facial and body paints on the people were mostly ceremonial stuff reserved for market days,maiden dance ceremonies and marriages etc) Trust our nollywood to over-do ![]() But it was the trademark of juju priests to wear the white paints(nzu) always so it could have been a daily affair for them. Nzu is considered somewhat sacred so they wear it in their communion with the gods. U really loved those stuff? Well I can't fault any of that. |
outstandingjk: Leaping with joy, Let me do internet transfer sharp sharp, please don't tell others o. Cococandy d kindest ![]()
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chaircover: These evogues are for the familylanders too naw.Oh I get to drive it too? No worried then. ![]() Ceasar1: Over charged by who, Beyonce?Best believe it. ![]() |
I thought you said you'll use the money to build a new relaxation centre for the familylanders. Chai There is god. ![]() All these evoques you're buying. chaircover: Thank God I mamaged to buy 2 evogues with the previous collections |
Ceasar1: Busted!Na me you dey call cocoberry? Ask chaircover I always send the money I collect straight to the family purse. Warris dis? Was just trying to protect the poor guy from getting over charged ![]() |
You're so lucky you met me at home now. Just pay your reg. fees to me so I can forward it to the appropriate head quarters If you wait to pay later,you go jam my fellow tax collectors and you'll pay double. I'm the kindest ask around. ![]() outstandingjk: Honestly, this seems the most interesting rooom on Nairaland to me. Soo much fun. Am knocking on d door with courtesy. Hallo house owners.. |
I believe you. don't mind teeo ![]() Erm are you single? I've a sister ![]() Lenzz: Well that escalated quickly. |
Not missing any points. Education is low for both genders. Are the poor boys forced to marry at a young age? No. So education isn't their primary problem. I did say that's not the case for all. So before your post I know there are educated and high flying females from the north. El rufai is one example among many elites whose kids get good education. Still for every elite like him,there are 10 who aren't interested in empowering their daughters. Whose daughters are part of someone's harem hidden away somewhere. Btw if we have to use elites as examples when something as basic as education and a right to choose the kind of life the girl wants for herself is being discussed,then it means something needs to be done ASAP I still insist that if the women had a voice like they should,the rate of girl child marriages will reduce. Lack of education and poverty contributes.yes But addressing it alone(which is something that has been going on anyway) won't solve the problem until the women get to have a choice pickabeau1: You miss it totally |
pickabeau1: OK..however one can not deny the vast differences in per capita income n literacy levels between the north n southStill the abuse of power I'm talking about here. A male child will go to any level of education he wants to if his family can afford to. Even the US or UK for western degrees and whatever else he wants to do. The female child on the other hand is rarely given such opportunity except where the father is extremely kind. Is this not a deliberate attempt to keep them subdued and subservient? They believe she'll become I tire sha. I no fit kill myself for this matter even though it gives me a lot of concern. Can't cry more than the bereaved joor. |
She's a black widow spider ![]() |
pickabeau1: Madam dey learn to dey quote well Na..Forgive me. Lol I know 18 is the minimum age just saying. Not economic. There are poor people in the other regions too. It's abuse of power pure and simple. |
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