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Me and my ilk?
Who said anything about animalistic here or elsewhere for that matter?
And who's ever seen me say women don't abuse too?
In fact I've been on the fore front of the team calling out for men to speak up more if they are abused instead of dying in macho silence.


You need to go sort your mummy issues and stop taking it out on everyone including me.
And you also need to stop quoting me if you're always going to go off point and get mixed up.
It's extremely annoying.

TribalEAST: what am pointing out to you is that men aren't as animalistic as you and your ilk portray them. When she slapped the kid the first time, he corrected her. She did it again. If he was crazy, he would have slapped her; but he simply asked to know why she did it again and when she ignored his question, he simply descended his anger on the cloth instead of the woman. Now, who was the animal that slapped and has been slapping? Women abuse to

If she didn't hit you first,then you've no business hitting her.
I don't know what you're slyly trying to imply.

TribalEAST: check your advice above and ask yourself this question: don't I think most cases of woman bashing by men(which I have kicked against such men) actually had the woman instigating it?

In self defense. Yes
Dude don't fold your arms and watch yourself get killed in the name 'gentlemanliness'

You go tire to explain.
Dumbskulls with free mb everywhere.
Are you ready?

larryUG: Listen to urself. the way u sound shws u r obviously ignorant of military procedure. when u enter into a sovereign country's territory without permission and prior information to them, u surrender ur arms and ammunitions to them in order to shw u aint hostile, then they will escort u bak to ur borders and then hand over ur weapons to u. that is the standard procedure. have u eva heard of US Planes escorting Russian planes, and US ships escorting rusiian and chinese ships out of their territory? please be informed. find out the meaning of 'escort'. i know it means a diff thing to 'protect'

Ewu

traware: Nigerian soldiers heroes?These sh.its?I hope you know you're mad.Oh wait...your husband is a military man isn't he 'LORETTA U'?So that's why you support these numbskulls eh?I dey hiss at your total foolishness

Well he knew the law.
Those aren't senseless laws.
If everyone does that,it'll affect the ecosystem.

Ucheosefoh: na today you know that comprehension is very hard for many nairalanders. Some of them only read the topic before commenting, some will read the whole news yet they will not understand before rushing to type nonsense comments

It's hard to be nice around here.
The idiocy is something else.
Poor soldiers fought all the way into cameroun in pursuit of terrorists and the camerounian army is only doing the right thing per military protocol to escort them back into the country and all they get for risking their lives for Nigeria is abuse.
The citizens of our dear country do not deserve martyrs and heros.
They'll insult them anyway.

Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person.

Well you got it.
The trolls are here. They have only known HOEs all their lives so they feel cool to call yours a hoe too.
Enjoy.

ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

You seem insecure and pushy.
Why would you be quarelling with a babe on the phone over where she is and what she is doing.
That's because you already have the mindset that camp is an immoral place hence you're hounding her.

Pls leave her be.
How do you expect her to have the time to answer your calls like she used to now that she's in camp and phones aren't allowed all the time?

10missed calls?
You're insecure
Grow up.

That's not correct.
Male and female both come with a covering on their genitaliaa when born.
It is not for any labeling or knowing who's a virgin or not.
It's primarily for protection(supposedly)
But. Men's get removed via circumcision.
It wasn't placed to know anything of such nature.

No body is licended to flirt. You should judge others based on the same parameters you judge yourself.
Simples.

tosyne2much: >Cococandy< if I may get you right, it's of no doubt that sexual responsibilities applies to both parties buh I think much emphasis shld be placed on d female folks... Okay lemme use this to make a stance... Nature allow men to accomodate ladies depending on how capable dey are.. Am I d one dat made it so ? HELL NO.. Have you ever wondered why God Himself placed a label to indicate the authencity of a lady so as to know if she's been defiled or not ? Did God ever placed any label to indicate if men have been defiled or not ? Am not in any way tryin to say men were licenced to Bleep up and down oooo but at least, the aforestated points shld ave given you an insight that so many restrictions were placed on ladies in dis area

On this issue of wills and estates,different opinions are allowed of course.
But it will 'pain' me to ignore such a blatant lie .
For what na? Just so he can make a cheap point?
I'll be doing a great disservice to womanhood and humanity in general if I let that lie slide.

From female bankers to teachers to lawyers,doctors and nurses.
To the big shot female CEOs, politicians,MDs etc etc
To the rural areas filled with women who wake up by 5am to make sure they get to the village market before 6am on their bicycles selling every bit of odd and end to make a living and support their families. To the small and medium sized shop owners,supermarkets,boutiques and beauty parlors.
this dude has the nerves to say nigerian women don't even know how their kids fare financially.
What bollocks!!!

I come from a line of hard working women. Even my grandma in her old age has refused to retire from trading. Says force of habit can't let her put away a trade she used to raise her 12kids alongside my grandpa(of blessed memory)

Who's this dude that has seen ALL nigerian families and knows that the women don't care for the financial welfare of their kids?

Do I even go into the case of marriages where the husbands have refused to sit up and win bread? But wifey is doing all that plus the wife's work(and there are many of such homes around too)

Where did he get his 'typical' from?

I don't think anyone should be stopped from making their opinions known,but I won't let such a lie pass me bye.

Una goodnight.

Blockus: Be cool...

We all can only offer opinions based on our experience and environment of growth.

I have witnessed a lot and seen families suffer because the Man died without will or his wife as next of kin. It would also be interesting to see how a woman who has depended on her husband for everything would turn around and deliberately squander his estate when she knows that source is not renewable.

Did you say average/typical Nigerian household?

Modified
Which kind of comment is the bolded biko?
You house isn't the average nigerian household.

That bolded there is the most annoying comment I've read on this thread. So because you've greedy females in your lineage all the hardworking wives many of home match the hubby's income kobo to kobo and some of who surpass his income are grouped into your 'typical' household?

Mtchewwwwwwwww

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raumdeuter: I am quoting you because I saw you were the most vocal for the making wifes next of kin

The typical Nigerian household, the wife doesnt contribute anything financially and she doesnt know how the kids financial welfare is taken care of

No responsible father would put the financial future of his kids in the hand of a wife like that. Just like the example gogo2479 gave.

Several women have come on this forum very angry to open thread that why should they contribute to their own childs school fees. Most Nigerian women believe the money they make is 80% for them alone and the financial running of the house is for the man solely.

So with this background, Would you as a husband, after your demise leave such decisions to the wife?

A similar example: Conversely a lot of Nigerian men believe they shouldn't do anything regarding cooking in the house and that the wife does everything. If you are the wife in the house and you have to be away(analogous to death) Would you leave the cooking decision to your husband who never showed any such inclination? or simply just cook for the time you would be away and put in fridge.

Actually most Nigerian women would rather get the family member or friend to cook for their kids while away than depend on a husband who has never boiled an egg successfully in their marital life

In some cases, the wife might in the absence of the man learn to be financially responsible to the family and the husband too might learn to cook for his household BUT why take the risk?

They don't realize sexuall responsisbility applies to all genders

edwife: Abi o,and the circle continues....

Na so

edwife: cococandy you are bringing me in romance section

I don't know how many?But a responsible person should not get down with everything in skirts or trousers.

Just felt like commenting o jare.
How guys go siddan dey count sex mates for ladies is something else.
Meanwhile they take pride in having shagged so many babes. I wonder how they don't realize their future wife is being shagged around by some other guys out there too. As dem dey shag other people's future wives too.

Eyop: Welcome madame Cococandy

Fixed

You already said it all.

egopersonified: .

Pls get rid of the 'forces against me' mentality.

The things we read on here .

Blockus: A Chronic Gambler or an Adrenaline Junkie...

Every night he eats her food and goes to bed in that house with her innit, is one night he survived a game of Russian Roulette.

https://33.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1v9iyZT581qe7djdo1_500.gif

If you're sharing your bed with a woman you don't trust with your life .someone who wakes up in the midnight to stare at you sleeping helplesslessly by her side and also eat the food that she makes for you.

Hmmmmmmm
I don't know what to call such a man

njokusboy: What do you mean by "stand by you".. The problem with you people is that you are too romantic/sentimental... In many marriages, the partners only tolerate each other for the sake of the children.. They don't wanna separate because they have grown up children and are worried about the effect on them so there is no "standing by you" in the first place... Besides the children are for both of you, it shouldn't hurt her that you are keeping your stuff for your children.. In most of this marriages, the women know that the husbands does not trust them with life... Trust my dear, is not automatic, that I marry a woman does not automatically make her the most trust worthy person... Trust is earned and we give it to the most deserving person not automatically "the wife"...This marriage of a thing is even overrated... Nd why should you let her know?
I Thank God you said ideally, it is not an ideal world, less than 20% of marriages and less than 10% of everything on Earth is ideal...
You guys just have a "romantic novel idea" of what a marriage ought to be like

Cry babies everywhere

Goo luck fighting the devil/satan o nna.
Do you need incense and candle plus holy water as well?
Will be pleased to supply

TribalEAST: ignoring such his to ignore the fact that satan is alive and he doesn't sleep. How do you expect me to go on living my life when the adversary is ever awake with thesame tactics and ideologies he used in destroying our first parents.
what you wrote up there are thesame seeds the devil sowed in eve. He made her think she was lacking some things and made her feel she could get them and even more by telling her she could be equal with God. Has she become equal with God? Not even with man.the above passes you off as not a christian. The way they live their lives is bringing destruction to even the innocent. What do you happens to a kid raised under a broken home? What do you think the society is getting filled with? Maybe you should tell the police not to bother how criminals rob people till you are robbed.
...to be exposed if found wanting of righteousness.


I don't fancy feminism...I don't don't diss them but try to correct them...I create threads to point out their faults which they hardly counter...the person that tagged you, I believe, is spreading the goodnews.







criminals wish the police can reason like you.

Lmao. Your own come bad pass my own.
Statistics too badt.

ihedinobi2: My kind of person. But I'm not marrying any girl who has not sampled the field well. Me I don't want curiousity to spoil my marriage o. So, minimum 500 men and they must come from as many cultures and skin colors and be of varied heights and lengths and girths as possible. When she comes to my bed, she must be free of all the nonsense curiousity biko.

MD45: This is my take on it. "good girls (well brought up from decent homes) = < 10), well brought up girls with sense of adventure but checkmated by circumstances/chance = > 10 but <20, bad girl with sense of adventure with no hindrance = infinity, single old girls trying to settle down in their 30s and above sleeps with every man that promises marriage. Infact ehhhh. ... The matter tire me. Na God.

MD45: I don't think that is real. Is it that these girls just give in to whoever or whatever comes there way?

Who knows? I was kidding but that doesn't mean there aren't people who have counted beyond that number.
Good decent girls too

Anytime I start trolling like this,I know it's past my bedtime

Fancy asking how many guys a girl has been with. Truth is she may have been with more men than you've been with women.
Goodluck finding out the truth.
Una goodnight

tosyne2much: wait first ! U don marry ? If NO, no talk am in d presence of ur fiance ooooo

He wears his more than a wear mine because I take mine off to bath or sleep and he never takes his off.
Learning to pick mine up everytime I pick my earings up. Will totally get used to always wearing it very soon. I hope

Who cares?
All we know they sampled the kit.

tosyne2much: if they were between 30-50 guys then am pretty sure most of them would be randon guys who sample d Kitty-cat at d expense of recharge card or BIS renewal

bamite: girls can be fine sha

Depending on age.
@25 yrs old between 30-50 men is ok

When will you get sense?
No offense.
Ebola a hoax?
Na wa sha. And you're proudly saying it all over the forum. So we should get careless about ebola because rabies exists?.

GenBuhari: Its not one case its zero cases.

I said all along that whole Ebola epidemic is a hoax


Rabies facts from W.H.O.

Fact Sheet N°99
Updated August 2014

Key facts

Rabies occurs in more than 150 countries and territories.
More than 60 000 people die of rabies every year mostly in Asia and Africa.
40% of people who are bitten by suspect rabid animals are children under 15 years of age.
Dogs are the source of the vast majority of human rabies deaths.
Wound cleansing and immunization within a few hours after contact with a suspect rabid animal can prevent the onset of rabies and death.
Every year, approximately 29 million people worldwide receive a post-exposure vaccination to prevent the disease at an estimated cost of US$2.1 billion.
Rabies is a zoonotic disease (a disease that is transmitted to humans from animals) that is caused by a virus. The disease affects domestic and wild animals, and is spread to people through close contact with infectious material, usually saliva, via bites or scratches.

Rabies is present on all continents with the exception of Antarctica, but more than 95% of human deaths occur in Asia and Africa. Once symptoms of the disease develop, rabies is nearly always fatal. Rabies is a neglected disease of poor and vulnerable populations whose deaths are rarely reported. It occurs mainly in remote rural communities where measures to prevent dog to human transmission have not been implemented.

More than 100 countries report cases of rabies in dogs putting people at risk. Vaccinating at least 70% of dogs breaks the cycle of transmission in dogs and to humans. Safe, efficacious and affordable dog rabies vaccines are available, and countries embarking on rabies elimination need easy access to quality-assured dog vaccines for vaccination campaigns and for outbreak management.

Symptoms
The incubation period for rabies is typically 1–3 months, but may vary from <1 week to >1 year. The initial symptoms of rabies are fever and often pain or an unusual or unexplained tingling, pricking or burning sensation (paraesthesia) at the wound site.

As the virus spreads through the central nervous system, progressive, fatal inflammation of the brain and spinal cord develops.

Two forms of the disease can follow. People with furious rabies exhibit signs of hyperactivity, excited behaviour, hydrophobia and sometimes aerophobia. After a few days, death occurs by cardio-respiratory arrest.

Paralytic rabies accounts for about 30% of the total number of human cases. This form of rabies runs a less dramatic and usually longer course than the furious form. The muscles gradually become paralyzed, starting at the site of the bite or scratch. A coma slowly develops, and eventually death occurs. The paralytic form of rabies is often misdiagnosed, contributing to the under-reporting of the disease.

Diagnosis
No tests are available to diagnose rabies infection in humans before the onset of clinical disease, and unless the rabies-specific signs of hydrophobia or aerophobia are present, the clinical diagnosis may be difficult. Human rabies can be confirmed intra-vitam and post mortem by various diagnostic techniques aimed at detecting the whole virus, viral antigens, viral-specific antibodies in the cerebrospinal fluid, or nucleic acids in infected tissues (brain, skin, urine or saliva).

Transmission
People are usually infected following a deep bite or scratch by an infected animal. Dogs are the main host and transmitter of rabies. They are the source of infection in all of the estimated 50 000 human rabies deaths annually in Asia and Africa.

Bats are the source of most human rabies deaths in the Americas. Bat rabies has also recently emerged as a public health threat in Australia and western Europe. Human deaths following exposure to foxes, raccoons, skunks, jackals, mongooses and other wild carnivore host species are very rare.

Transmission can also occur when infectious material – usually saliva – comes into direct contact with human mucosa or fresh skin wounds. Human-to-human transmission by bite is theoretically possible but has never been confirmed. Changes in the environment and close human contact with wildlife can lead to increased human exposure to rabies-infected wildlife species.

Rarely, rabies may be contracted by inhalation of virus-containing aerosol or via transplantation of an infected organ. Ingestion of raw meat or other tissues from animals infected with rabies is not a source of human infection.

If that one person is still alive and showing symptoms,then it is not curbed yet.
Anything can happen
A doctor,nurse or ward maid can get careless and take the virus home.

So fingers crossed.
Pre-mature celebration

Epic.

jpphilips: .