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Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 7:14pm On May 31, 2022
Hello everyone. Please what are the disadvantages that come with submitting two totally different form ds160. Does the VO have access to a form ds160 submitted and signed, but not used for the appointment booking? I just don't want to shoot myself in the leg. Should I be comfortable with the second info provided? Please help a confused soul
I pray they grant you USA student visa so that you can come here and mess with underage girls so that you’ll get locked up with the keys thrown under your cage.

You still think you’re in 1895 where such actions don’t have consequences. Body go tell you.

Better change your route to those other countries where the women are only existing to keep their vaginas for you. grin
JesusIsAMuslim:
I wish you well. And it doesn't bother me a bit what you do with your body. Just respect my decision of choosing a 17 year old virgin. Since I have the right to choose, I will buga anybody. Deal?
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 7:05pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
18 is the age of consent and I bet you this motherfucker don deh lick goody since 12.... God help Ur life....
And again, what are you going to do about it?
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 7:04pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
I can choose and I will never pick an old cargo like yourself. That's just the truth. I'm a failure. Don't worsen my failure with Ur overused ....... Make I pass for one part of this life, abeg
I didn’t offer. We didn’t offer. No one here offered or even would touch you with a foot long pole. And no woman with a functional brain should entertain someone like you as a partner. So I don’t know where the audacity is coming from for you to imagine you stand a chance. Do you buy the audacity in bulk or is it on sale? Because you sure do overestimate yourself
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 7:02pm On May 31, 2022
begoniaa:
To be very fuking honest. All of the complicity empowers them and I am very very pleased with how ladies do not stay silent for them anymore.

Why will you be playing civility with a person hellbent on disrespecting and dragging you when you're not mad? Mtcheeewwww.
exactly
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:57pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
No one needs your support. Don't unsettle their lives with those advices only failures dish out. That should not be too hard for you to do.
If you’re not a failure, your potential life partner wouldn’t be a child. You would rather have a child because you’re no match for grown up women your age. Ihere eme.
I’m ashamed for you.

I’ll drag you to death the moment you try to normalize pedophile with the excuse that grown women are not keeping their virginity for you. You’ll tell me if you’re keeping yours for them.

I hope you fall in a ditch the day you set out to look for a child to sexually assault.
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:45pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
I wish you well. And it doesn't bother me a bit what you do with your body. Just respect my decision of choosing a 17 year old virgin. Since I have the right to choose, I will buga anybody. Deal?
Not this doofus thinking his pedophilic behavior is the same as grown up making autonomous decisions about their own bodies. So because grown women don’t want to play by your rules, you think we should support you sexually assaulting minors?

That’s the equivalent in your books? Ode
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:26pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
Don't forget, by your logic, I have the right to choose. Do you think before you write ?
Yea you have the right to choose and I haven’t come to the internet to cry about what you have chosen to do with your body. Nobody cares!

So why are you upset about what strange women you don’t know are doing with their bodies? Aren’t you pathetic like this? Are you not embarrassed?

Mr Jesusisamualim, I solemnly promise not to respect my body and will not learn how to be a woman. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT?!!!!!

Wish me dead because somehow my body not being used in the way you would be prefer is offensive to you? Isn’t that the basis for all the nonsense moralistic xtupidity that y’all try to force on people who don’t have the same opinions and values as you?

I won’t respect my body. I hope it peppers you to oblivion
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:21pm On May 31, 2022
Ishilove:
Which is why sometimes you have to put vile people like him in their place. .
Expeditiously
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
if you don't stop whoring, no right thinking man will carry you go him house. Learn how to be a woman. Respect your body as a woman. .
Make me. Or cry about it.

Have you respected your body as man today? Or you think respecting body is only for women?

Illogical troglodyte
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:18pm On May 31, 2022
Ishilove:
I have nothing to say to you. Pocohantas is already doing a very fine job of putting you in your place so no need for me to exchange words with you.
honestly if everyone came together to silence depraved posts such as his, people like him will think twice before showing themselves on here. Most times we just leave the lady being attacked to deal with alone and the evil trolls feel like they have some sort of power or say. If this forum functioned properly, anonymous or not, certain posts shouldn’t make it to the board.
Family › Re: Marry A 32 Year Old Good Girl Or Look For A Younger Good Girl? by cococandy(f): 6:12pm On May 31, 2022
JesusIsAMuslim:
My mum is too blessed to have any suicidal thoughts. That's only meant for unstable, sorrowful, unaccomplished, infertile, barren, low IQ, stinking pussy woman like yourself. .
Comments like this is why I’ll never stop attacking misogynists on this forum.

People be like oh there’s no pressure on single women to get married . They can make their own choices bla bla bla. But they ignore putrid and vile posts like these whose sole purpose is to shame women for not being picked by a man.

JesusIsAMuslim:
And I would wish to re-emphasise my position again. If you are 32 and you are still giving unnecessary requirements, you are most likely to remain single for the rest of your life. And I hope you will be brave enough to embrace that hard decision by not killing yourself. But if you ever chose the path of suicide, I will not waste any RIP.

Most men will rather marry a 17 year old than a 32 year old cargo. That's the reality. Deal with it. I know you will want to say rubbish about paedophilia, I intentionally inserted that number.

Most men will rather have a 17 year old girl than even a 30 year old. Carry me deh go won't be able to save your depression. I wish you all well.
While you’re at it, why not marry a baby? 17 is too old
Music/Radio › Re: Recent Photos Of ABBA And Their Avatars by cococandy(f): 5:32pm On May 31, 2022
I still play their songs religiously.
Family › Re: Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On May 31, 2022
mardis:
Some girls are so loose that even the devil hail them. How can someone be so irresponsible? Imagine furnicating in a house that your so called bf is squatting? Where is the respect? That is why guys threat them any how. Someone's daughter o, anyway i usually don't blame those kind of girls as they say "an apple does not fall far from the tree".
Later they'll say, body count shouldn't matter when settling down.
May we not give birth to irresponsible children.
I’m sure you don’t see how the brother in law is at fault too
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:56pm On May 31, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
The nails are fire.. grin
tenk you !
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:07pm On May 31, 2022
Breakfast and a morning cuppa milk tea

Fashion › Re: Old Nigerian Hairstyles by cococandy(f): 10:25pm On May 30, 2022
MyVILLAGEpeople:
shocked

Those days when most women had dignity.

But The rate of holoshos is really alarming these days. Could the bad economic times be the reason or the drop of societal values? undecided
You people can’t help yourselves. Face the topic and leave women alone
Travel › Re: The American Dream: A Mirage; Only Racism, Poverty & Gun Violence Are Realities by cococandy(f): 4:28pm On May 30, 2022
My heart goes out to her. I hope things get better for them

Ishilove:
A Nigerian lady, Ajibola Elisabeth Junaid from Oyo State narrates how she migrated with her family members to the United States in search of greener pastures. Her family settled in Chicago, as they were all asylum seekers. It did not take long for her to discover that hardly does the American dream exist for minorities or people of colour.

She described America as a reality of racism, poverty, food insecurity and gun violence.

She is a senior student at Wendell Phillips Academy High School.

Her narration below:



https://nigeriastandardnewspaper.com/ng/true-life-story-american-dream-is-a-mirage-struggle-only-racism-poverty-food-insecurity-gun-violence-are-realities-ajibola-elizabeth-junaid-a-nigerian-asylum-seeker-in-chicago-narrates-experien/
Health › Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f): 7:43am On May 30, 2022
BRATISLAVA:
But you will be surprised that the biggest male advocate for no marriage are actually married and giving out the worst advice to angry little boys.

He is married with a pot belly.
I know he’s married. And his wife is presumably one of the good ones. I don’t know why he thinks other men don’t have it good too.
Health › Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f):
baby124:
This woman was suffering from a mental illness. Loneliness did not kill her. She had depression. Which is not sadness but a chronic mental illness.
her “family member” done open mouth waa talk nonsense as if they were present in the room when she died and gave them the reason why she did it. That’s if she wasn’t even murdered. NL association of single lady shamers have now seen something to talk about.
Health › Re: 47-Year-Old Accountant, Afolake Abiola Commits Suicide In Lekki by cococandy(f): 7:36am On May 30, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
LADIES caused it more!
In my neighborhood most men are divorcees.
Some have settled for BabyMaMa...
Most men have lost interest in women!
The Insult is just too much on men.
No one appreciates the AFRICAN MAN..
A man that goes out to provide for his family, extended family and In-Laws.
Where does such happen, if not Africa.
No respect for Men again!
MEN have realised there's nothing like HELL.
HELL is what you make of yourself

So, so, Unfortunate
don’t marry
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 7:19pm On May 29, 2022
sisisioge:
No need to get apartment, move to his parent's, yours or siblings for maximum embarrassment, good intervention and to get help when the baby comes. No need to get apartment. The dude will probably come and camp at your new place begging and crying as usual. It is well.
you have a point
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 7:15pm On May 29, 2022
Mindlog:
Many choose to live in denial that gambling disorder is a mental health issue.
It’s ranked high up on the addiction list with smoking and alcohol addiction. People really think it’s a small thing and you can just decide not to gamble.
Once that gambling habit hooks your brain and feeds your neurotransmitter receptors , it’s over.
Gamblers will borrow from the devil and pledge their first born children as repayment just to get a kick of that gambling high.
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 7:11pm On May 29, 2022
pocohantas:
A very big mental disorder. I would be very wary of anyone into that lifestyle.
One of the hardest addictions to kick is gambling. And smoking
Family › Re: . by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On May 29, 2022
Do it
brokenheart1234:
So, I have been able to save some money from my little business and I'm thinking of getting an accommodation for myself.
The present accommodation is not conducive and I can't keep living like this, especially with my husband who doesn't understand all the sacrifice I'm making for him.
His salary, can provide us more beautiful life but it's not possible because he's into sport betting. Family members have advised him, he claimed, he's a change person, but he's not.
I don't want to keep living like this. It's obvious that his gambling lifestyle is difficult to stop and it's not healthy for me right now.
He always come back to appologies after he's done wasting all his salaries. Because he will need to put his feeding and transportation expenses on me.

In few weeks, I'll put to birth. I'm really scared, not happy and nothing is giving me strength here.
I just want to successfully give birth and talk about divorce later.
What would you advise?
I want to move to a nice appartment without him.
What do you think about what I want to do?
Family › Re: Is It Okay For Wife To Initiate Sex Always by cococandy(f): 7:18pm On May 28, 2022
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Family › Re: Is It Okay For Wife To Initiate Sex Always by cococandy(f): 7:16pm On May 28, 2022
You will keep groveling and never get the same level of consideration and respect you afford him simply because you’re okay with catering to his excesses.

TforT19:
experience is the best teacher, this has happened to my uncle, it led to divorce and he ended up marrying the side chick who now has a child for him, I don't want mine to end up the same way. infact things was already going bad because I bring this up in the house if not for the intervention of God and the people. He start being defensive in the house and pick up fault in the house. I am no longer pushing It and things is falling back in shape even better than before. But I just feel like I should address this part I want to know what I should do differently so I don't end up chasing him out. Have watch several you tube videos because of my case but I still feel I should talk to people to get direct feed back.
Health › Re: Lagos Nurse Remanded For Conducting Surgery, Killing Patient by cococandy(f): 7:57am On May 28, 2022
descarado:
Are u surprised?
That's our naija. The woman was looking at the small amount she will pay while the nurse is all about how much he will make.

Psychological poverty is the worst form of poverty. That's why we are where we are.
no fear at all. Just recklessness.

Ignorance also plays a part. If this nurse was properly trained to understand the magnitude of what he was messing with. He wouldn’t attempt that without the proper training and certification.

How does one justify blindly going in for that type of surgery if they understand all the organs and vasculature at play?
Health › Re: Lagos Nurse Remanded For Conducting Surgery, Killing Patient by cococandy(f): 6:26am On May 28, 2022
GloriousGbola:
my mother is a retired theatre nurse and she has always disliked male nurses.
most of them have some dream to be doctors.
shes says in the theater, rather than focus on the job, the male nurses are always watching the doctors actions intently -
attempting to learn by rote
this is another thing that happens far more often than you think
Male nurses here are less likely to stay at the bedside too. They quickly move onto practitioner roles and whatever option is offered to nurses that gives them more money and more autonomy.
Not that it’s bad as I admire that but you have a point. In a place where regulations aren’t in place, that can be abused
Politics › Re: Atiku To South East Leaders: I Will Only Serve One Term by cococandy(f): 9:24pm On May 27, 2022
Another round of greed and xtupidity
Health › Re: Lagos Nurse Remanded For Conducting Surgery, Killing Patient by cococandy(f): 9:23pm On May 27, 2022
Shhh
SporaD8:
Everyone condemning the Nurse action can now see why hospitals normally reject patients or practically watch as their patients die?!
Possibly the Surgeon was not around.
The Patient was in a pretty bad shape and needs urgent attention!
Her people couldn't source for hospital bills and
the hospitals-should-try-and-save-lives-first crew were on his neck...,
Out of compassion and good intentions, The nurse decided to try his best. Now his best of intentions have landed him in prison while those motivating him to save lives first her the first to accuse him of murder!
Health › Re: Lagos Nurse Remanded For Conducting Surgery, Killing Patient by cococandy(f): 9:23pm On May 27, 2022
descarado:
Trust me, he has been doing D and C for long. That's why he has the courage to do this.

And this lady may not be his first victim.
Nigeria cry undecided
I can’t understand such recklessness.

Even doctors who are not trained in that type of surgery shouldn’t dare to touch the patient much less a nurse.
Health › Re: Lagos Nurse Remanded For Conducting Surgery, Killing Patient by cococandy(f): 9:21pm On May 27, 2022
WTF?!!!

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