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Tripleoluwa:
It may look somehow to believe but I tell you, it was a yamayama sexual encounter. I had to support my d**k with my finger to keep it inside. If not for sperm motility, I dont think my semen should reach her womb.

Klass99:


Do you always have to be this blunt and sarcastic?

I would not call her for weeks but she was calling regularly. She would want to come to my house but I would decline. Even when I finally had her over, I soooooo much struggled to muster erection. My d**k was flaccid all through. The interest wasn't just there. Since I wont let her come to my house, she offered many times that I take her to an hotel and that she would pay. I stayed farther away from her because I was not just comfortable with.

jornwhite:
keeping the diaspora obsession alive

Mindlog:
Who created this thread? YOU
Who is the one angry seeing the minor he married hanging out with the boys in the street? YOU
Who is the one that got so enraged that the community chairman had to get involved to recover the money from a boy for the phone he bought for his wife.? YOU
Who is the one feeling ashamed of being asked about his runaway "wife"? YOU
Who can't even come out in peace? YOU

So how can I be the one in pain!

Peter532:
No, I wanted a virgin I married her before I saw her pants.
You can ask her mother.

Old cargos like yourself wasn't really my type, I hope you understand

baby124:
LMAO. So you married a NINETEEN year old. Well the 19yr old has shown you she wants to do what her mates are doing and has run away with her age mate. Try to find your age mate.

Modified*

kayperry:
i didnt even see this, an orange can never roll far from it tree if depositing is easy, getting a job nko? what about staying employed?? to collect salary easy meeting up with cost & standard of living Easy

Funnily, housewives make big deal of house chores when they are the ones doing it buh when same people employ maid .... they trivialize the job and pay maids peanut who is deceivng who, how many wives will allow there husband pay a maid 50k

thorpido:
How some men provide money and expect the woman to still provide while overlooking other aspects of running the home does not make sense.

Raalsalghul:
"Money is the easiest thing to contribute in a marriage" yet most marriages fail due to lack of the same thing that is easy to contribute?

That is just outright nonsense, though I'm sure you know that and this is one of those days where you choose to pander to a certain demographic on Nairaland.

kayperry:
you don't just wanna say it, nothing about Money is easy from the making to paying bills, it bemusing sometimes when you see wives, cococandy & co. try equate domestic chores to financing.
In my experience, i have notice it is difficult for women to part with there own money ... they prefer to hear "borrow" buh that word "contribute" bring out the EVE in them.
Not just you mere saying, men will prefer house chores to providing buh when push comes shove on a scale of 10, 8 would stick to being a provider cos thats who we are.

Acidosis:
Lol. Very strange.

I believe most of them know the truth but they hate to admit this truth, openly.


I don't think any sane person would conclude that women benefit more in the typical Nigerian marriage setting. Same marriages we see everyday? The way I dey pity some married women ehn, but it's quite understandable why many women would want a marriage anyway.

Women sacrifice time, put their health and lives on the line, go for the lowest and most pitiable jobs just to create time for, more often than not, an unappreciative guy. Many will have to cook for the rest of their lives and no they won't get paid for it. There's so much more. A woman with 3 kids, for example, has practically sacrificed at least 8 years of her life on pregnancy, breastfeeding, nurturing (while also making money o), and throughout these years, the man does nothing but contribute money.

A man will drop 50k for the month and thinks he has done the woman a favour... Ahahaha! The easiest thing to contribute to a marriage is money.

Notyourtype:
Please, if there is any trick in having a male child, as that is what he is saying now. That people are telling him that there is a method for a male child, and that the method he was told gave him the sixth female child. I really want to help him. What ever thing u tell me is what i will tell him. Thanks

Omodua:
Liar!

The dress can't cost more than a million Naira.

Is $794,000 a child's play. Probably, she is on cruise.

Rubbish people!

Belafonte:


We can pay surrogates now. Talk another thing

pocohantas:
With the type of clothes young girls wear to weddings these days sef, I think kids should stay at home.

If they don’t sew clothe with net for breast, would they die?

Or the indecent displays at receptions.

Belafonte:
Thinking 72?

Belafonte:
Wrt to the bolded, not the only thing women bring, but perhaps, some of the most valuable things a woman brings to the marriage table.

Maybe, if your gender this, we could find a way forward

Belafonte:
Let's just say I know your age Loretta

pocohantas:
So you have a friend that is happily married, you didn’t create a thread on that. You have never created a thread on that. How about you send him this thread, so he knows the truth about his wife?

Belafonte:
Your age basically

Belafonte:
You can also decide to have sense, sweetheart. After brokeshamimg what next, my best friend who's a bricklayer has been happily married for 6 years now and as he's also my mentor I believe I can achieve the same

Belafonte:
At this point, I believe you older women deliberately lie to the younger girls for whatever reason. Where in the OP does it say men don't desire children or only women do? This is daylight witchcraft. Smh

Acidosis:
Am I the only man with a different and totally opposing view? Women are the main burden bearers in marriages. When I see some married women, I feel nothing but pity for them. More often than not, I think "these" women will do a lot more for themselves if they weren't married or if they could learn to know their worth.

JovialJune:
But this is a forum free for all,anyone can open a thread, comment on it as they see fit, and advice as the case may be, so I don't see any harm in saying men should marry themselves, because there are plenty options in the world, animals, trees and furnitures are also available for marriage, so instead of the constant cries of women this and that, marrying yourselves and non living things isn't far-fetched.

eazzzy1:
The topic of the thread was clear enough, you chose to open it and read it, nobody told you to. He didn’t create the post to tell you. The first paragraph of the post started with brothers lol. Are you a bro now?

Why do you post pictures of your food in the food section? You could just eat it and be filled? The same reason anyone posts on the internet, for audience.

eazzzy1:
The act of telling a man who complains about the challenges of marriage to go marry a man is an act of blackmail, the intentions of such comments is to bully the man to silence for fear of being called gay.

The unmarried straight man has so many options to choose from, he could stay single while fvcking the wife of the man who chose to get married.

GloriousGbola:
but i thought you were a bleeding heart pure blue liberal na

like egunmogaji - you are a purple mummy 2A

GloriousGbola:
they are all forming gangsta on the internet. they only have power when they are among themselves. these punks kill people for preaching up north.

but guess what - i live in festac. i live in an area that has at least 20 norther maiguards and their families. there is also an hausa community. every other morning, some arsehole comes with a bullhorn at 5.30 am. REPENT REPENT. JESUS IS LORD. ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE. do any of the abokis do anything to this in your face blasphemy? no a damn thing. take the entire community up north, put this woman among them and they will probably kill her immediately

it is oppression of the minority - pure and simple.

none of these jokers are prepared to die for anything. if they were, they have been in afghanistan, or iraq, or maybe palestine.

they are simply a bunch of thuggish bullies.