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RisenPhoenix1:
Yessss!

RisenPhoenix1:
Cravings exist. I'm craving pepper soup right now. I'm not going to wake my wife up at 3am to go into the night and find pepper soup ingredients for me. See the difference?

What makes pregnant women's cravings uncontrollable by implication is precisely the obligation they attach to it; sending their husbands out at weird hours for their cravings. One in the op claimed she felt she could die if she didn't satisfy her cravings. I'm sure she told her husband that, forcing him out to get her the stuff she craves. The implication that the craving must be satisfied is always there, hence my describing it as uncontrollable.

RisenPhoenix1:
Yessss!

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RisenPhoenix1:
Except maybe your information is just a little teeny weeny bit overblown out of all proportion? There is no society which killed or otherwise harmed its daughters for learning.

jnrbayano:
Okay

Klass99:
Lol ,

Dear Coco, there are certain monikers, discussions, back & forth arguments you shouldn't bother getting involved with.
Because it will be a waste of precious time, a brain drain cos of the profoundly opinionated, unintelligent, toxic and zero value comments/posts such monikers put out.

I jump and pass a lot of that these days and don't bother arguing with internet strangers wey get ITK plus oversabi for body and are unable to engage without animosity or an antagonistic attitude.

I enjoyed reading your comments though, the maturity with which you flawlessly put jackasses in their place without insults or vile speech, is a badass move I need to learn. Respect!!!

RisenPhoenix1:
Don't you just hate it when people try to play a fast one on you?
There is no physiological, anatomical or biochemical explanation for the pregnancy cravings that women supposedly get

Personally, I believe in science. I love science. As long as there is no satisfactory scientific explanation; and there currently is not; I'm taking any such stories with a big pinch of salt; in fact, a big bag of salt.

RisenPhoenix1:
They probably assessed correctly that educating women in any manly profession would have been wasteful and unnecessary.

Exactly where and when did this take place anyway?

RisenPhoenix1:
See? Even history was written by the men.

Women haven't made anything significant apart from recurrent generations of children; and that is more due to biology than to any outstanding mental skills.

RisenPhoenix1:
Not my convo, but want to correct a misconception. Women's achievements on earth are essentially insignificant; whether before or after feminism. There are of course, a few outliers who broke grounds, but in the vast overwhelming main, this earth was made by men...again, both before feminism and after it. The only achievement feminism has to show is the corruption of morals and the destruction of family values. Feminism has introduced no new scientific discovery, technological achievement or solved any economic issue. Men do that.

RisenPhoenix1:
You mean they can indulge their cravings without making a scene? How nice. Then why don't single wives of doting monogamists do that as well? It all comes back to attention seeking whichever way you twist it.

Now that you brought that up, it is also ironic that unwed mothers never seem to need parenteral nutrition.

The first thing you hear of their pregnancy is finding a baby dumped in the hostel toilet. No, I haven't met them all. But if you say you've heard of a teenage unwed mother waking her father up at 3 am to buy suya for her uncontrollable cravings, I'll believe you.

RisenPhoenix1:
Abegi. Nine months this and nine months that. Holding it like a sword over someone's head. Pregnancy can't pass the bloated feeling you get when you eat 4 wraps of fufu, then your friend buys N10k suya and you have to help in finishing that too.

Please explain logically why women who have no expectation of attention, or who do not want to attract attention to their pregnancy, never get cravings, or at worst; control them very effectively.

RisenPhoenix1:
I just can't get past the fact that only pregnant wives of doting monogamists have these 'uncontrollable' cravings. Millions of co wives, as well as teenage and unwed mothers; carry their pregnancies to full term (the unwed mothers even evade detection long enough to dump them in hostel toilets) without anyone hearing about any cravings or early morning sicknesses. Makes me believe that they are either faked to get favours/attention, or actually controllable, but exaggerated; again to get favours/attention.

It is all about psychological manipulation of the poor long-suffering husband.

tnerro1:
With the way things are going, I pray straight guys don’t become an endangered species

Would hate to see 100 women chasing me

tnerro1:
When all the boys are turning gay? Dem no get choice na

Adakintroy:
Those of you weh say how American election take affect us.

Know that the left are in power. Remember Obama and him gay movement.

.expect to see more of this.

tnerro1:
Good, more pvssy for we straight guys

I can never exchange a woman’ Beauty for a guy’s....... I don’t even know what to call it

PatriotExact:
First, if you think that this gay thing is natural, you are gradually having your mind twarted.

This gay thing is as a result of extensively exposing yourself to unnatural environment.

Just try this: watch gay porn for a week and see if you won't start thinking that you are naturally gay.


It's a depraved state that one goes into upon unnatural exposure.

EmekaA125:
I love ur spirit and strong voice against rape but you have to sensitize ur fellow ladies to avoid putting on provocative or indecent wears that would trigger rape. Some of them wear clothes that bring out their curves & boobs. Talk to them. Everyone has a role to play to reduce this ugly trend to the barest minimum.

ibkayee:
Yeah this tends to be the case, even for the most heinous crime they can put their interests ahead of the victim's

Happy new year by the way

ibkayee:
Nigerians and forgiving people on another person’s behalf mtchewwwwww

Kingofgods:
Forgiveness wins all

Roland17:
Haha..We are trying, I can’t complain..

Stay safe out there and keep being you!

Roland17:
Hey beautiful! It’s been a minute.. How’s work and family?

roteblomen:
Perhaps, I could argue that a woman of that age should have a strong sense of self, and that is a good thing. A good man should not be afraid or bothered that his wife has fully matured, for what is the point of life without growth, introspection, retrospection and the ability to match forward into the future with assurance?

As a man, be good to your wife, be a good father, husband and friend, and you have nothing to worry about. Women are people, and people do grow, which is what life is all about. When one recognises this and has dealt with their demons, dealing and managing others own becomes easy. Be good.

Roland17:
It’s been a while! Happy Sunday everyone..