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Family › Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by cococandy(f): 10:20pm On Jan 20, 2021
But how do you know she’s not going through any stress?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:56pm On Jan 20, 2021
Prestonn:
I knew you gonna love this cheesy

Pasta and Rice, which do you prefer?
Well rice is my favorite but pasta has a special place in my heart too. Especially these your homemade shapes. I want to start playing at making mine at home too.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:15pm On Jan 20, 2021
Prestonn:
Village kitchen


Homemade pasta ❤

Topping

●Cheese
●Basil leaf
●Extra virgin olive oil
Just imagine cry
Politics › Re: David Nketim-Rex: Treatment Of Gunshot Patients Lawful, Says Peter Obi by cococandy(f): 10:15am On Jan 20, 2021
Because they are not affected by it. That’s why it’s still not enforced legally
Family › Re: What Will You Do In A Marriage Like Mine? by cococandy(f):
Vevejoy:
The only person who has addressed the native drs issue. I was almost wondering based on the focus of the comments on this thread if believing so much in native drs is a normal thing for most people in naija.

Truly my dear trading with someone who can lay his life for native drs is a bitter pill to swallow.

Thanks for ur comment.
What will u do in my situation?
Well People do still believe in such things but can be double faced about it. Due to stigma? Most likely.

I am open minded about religious inclinations and could very well accommodate a spouse who believes in a different religion or what we consider to be unknown gods. Each person to their own. Depending on what they teach them there and if it’s compatible with peaceful coexistence between them and others.

But I won’t tolerate being the villain in the story based on whatever their priest, pastor or doctor is feeding them. I won’t tell you what to do with your life or marriage, but if I were put in such a position, I can’t live with a person who really and whole heartedly believes I am the evil presence in their life. I’d be worried and scared about what they could be advised to do next.

I’ve seen people horribly abuse children and spouses because they genuinely believed the so called family members are witches/evil/bad luck etc . All because someone told them so. They don’t even think they are doing anything bad. In their story, they are doing the right things because they are on the side of ‘good’. The power of mental manipulation can’t be underestimated.

If he’s ready to work on the relationship now, does that mean he no longer believes what the native doctor told him about you? these are questions you need to ask him.
Family › Re: What Will You Do In A Marriage Like Mine? by cococandy(f): 9:42pm On Jan 19, 2021
Mood11:
Your husband set trap and you fell into it undecided

You would have simply asked him who he would like to have over and allow him throw the dice to your choice. Even if his mother comes, it is not an achievement..

As matter don be like this, just allow him some time. He will come around.
Imagine walking on egg shells around your husband because he “set a trap” for you. Which kind of nonsense life is that one. Where they can’t just freely communicate.

Okay even if she anticipated the trick question and gave him the answer he wasn’t really looking for (seems he was looking for the “wrong answer” so he can have a reason to fight). What can she do about his dalliance with native doctors.

Not that he shouldn’t be free to practice the religion he wants to. but if the priests/prophets he sees are only the ones who see problems around him especially in his family members, then there’s nothing she can do about it. First his father. Now his wife. They will always tell him someone in how life is causing him problems.
It’s hard to live in peace with people who believe such things.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:41pm On Jan 18, 2021
Liposure:
fresh and alluring
smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:19pm On Jan 18, 2021
pocohantas:
Ofe akwu for the house. kiss
nwanyi oma kiss kiss
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:19pm On Jan 18, 2021
emyfelix:
Awwwwnn....take mine wink
Thanks
Family › Re: Best Answer To Why Do Women Lose Sex After Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:27pm On Jan 18, 2021
You’ve always been one of the sane voices on here
banmee:
Because I was young. But like life I learnt from my mistake.
Family › Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jan 18, 2021
generationz:
It's in situations like this we need feminists not on whether we should say Amen or Apeople
feminists don’t care what you say after your prayers. Or if you even pray or do not pray at all wink
Family › Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by cococandy(f): 4:05pm On Jan 18, 2021
Men have nothing but audacity grin
Family › Re: Adekunle Okunuga Suspended As A Doctor In 2015 For Flogging Son In UK Reinstated by cococandy(f): 3:55pm On Jan 18, 2021
Enugupikin:
This is actually ridiculous. They're trying to protect the child but suspended his father who's a bread winner to their home. Won't the child be affected too from the financial downtime?
right?
Family › Re: Adekunle Okunuga Suspended As A Doctor In 2015 For Flogging Son In UK Reinstated by cococandy(f): 3:53pm On Jan 18, 2021
Wow he was humbled.

[b]
“My actions embarrassed the medical profession and brought it into disrepute and as a member of the medical community, I should be role model. I apologised sincerely to the GMC and the wider public,” he was quoted to have said.

“My behaviour was born out of my cultural upbringing, I should have known better and I take full responsibility for my actions. If I were to witness a similar occurrence by one of my colleagues, I would be the first to speak up and take action and report it to the appropriate authorities.

“I have been working abroad but have always given full disclosure of my sanction to all employers and the relevant medical authorities.

“I have attended courses in order to maintain my professional development and am clinically ready to resume practice in the United Kingdom where I could be of tremendous support to the medical community.”

After the incident, he was arrested and convicted at Leamington Spa magistrates court for ill treating a child and was sentenced to eight weeks in jail and ordered to complete 160 hours unpaid work. [/b]
Crime › Re: David Ntekim-Rex: Robbery Victim Dies After Police, Hospital Refused To Save Him by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On Jan 18, 2021
Mind blown. Every single day. Every day
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:41am On Jan 18, 2021
Prestonn:
Village kitchen


Biscuits and milk tongue


Happy new week my beautiful people kiss
yes plus the dunking grin
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:39am On Jan 18, 2021
Hathor5:
Healthy and beautiful. Not a big fan of tofu but I like the entire arrangement and would eat it all if you let me. grin
Prestonn:
Yummy tongue
loveymom:
Oh okay, it does look great with the veggies smiley
Thanks smiley smiley
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:12am On Jan 18, 2021
loveymom:
What does tofu taste like?
it tastes like soy. A bit bland. But it’s spongy and absorbs the flavor of whatever you cook it with. So I use my favorite sauce to make it. Sweet chili sauce.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:41am On Jan 18, 2021
Tofu stir fry

Family › Re: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by cococandy(f): 8:33pm On Jan 17, 2021
They cheating with other women?

It’s the polygamy at work
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:32pm On Jan 17, 2021
Kizito55:
Where in Abuja are you?
not in Abuja
Family › Re: Woman Has N3.6m In Her Account But Her Son Dies Because Of Hospital Bill (Video) by cococandy(f): 4:57pm On Jan 17, 2021
Such dumbassry
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:09pm On Jan 17, 2021
DoyaPlace:
Eba × Eforiro �

If you are in Abuja and pounded yam is your preferred swallow, I can supply you yams for as low as N1,900 for 5 big tubers, N1,400 for 5 medium tubers and N2,000 for 10 small sizes wink

Happy Sunday foodlanders kiss
now I wish I was in Abuja
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jan 17, 2021
emyfelix:
Breakfast!

First time posting here grin
I miss this drink
Family › Re: I Don't Envy Married Men! by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On Jan 17, 2021
Arsenate:
It's almost like this is a forum of 100s of thousands of members and each member is bound to have a different opinion on a particular topic. So you could probably have;
Mr A: Anti-marriage and doesn't care about women's marital status.
Mr B: Anti-marriage and jobless enough to make a big deal out of women's marital status.
Gee Who would have thunk you knew that?
Definitely not me seeing you always on the anti-feminist rant. One would think since you knew there are so many people , then opinions would differ and you wouldn’t be bothered about what some women decide for themselves.

I guess we can all be reasonable when it serves the purpose huh? Imagine that.
Family › Re: I Don't Envy Married Men! by cococandy(f): 3:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
Notice how 90% of the anti marriage threads and posts on this forum are from guys.
1)Yet they won’t ignore single women to leave their own lives.
2)Any woman who agrees with their constant anti marriage rant is an evil feminist who is being used by the devil to destroy the family structure of the society.
3)one who doesn’t agree is desperate because they have nothing to offer in life and need a men to survive

Daily threads about marriage this and marriage that.
It’s almost as if y’all don’t know want you want
Romance › Re: I Set My Boyfriend Ablaze After Forced Sex – 17-yrs Prospective Law Student (pic by cococandy(f): 6:19am On Jan 17, 2021
loswhite:
lol young and gullible but wise enough to buy petrol to commit murder....If it was a boy we won't hear this story of young and gullible
she is still responsible for what she did.

You choose to misunderstand what the young and gullible was in response to.

Seems You’re being emotional. ?? lipsrsealed
Crime › Re: 200 Girls Defiled In Gombe In One Year by cococandy(f): 5:10am On Jan 17, 2021
Sounds under-reported. Definitely more than that
Family › Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by cococandy(f): 11:03pm On Jan 16, 2021
The fact that you actually think about it and want us to discuss it with you. undecided

Like her preserving her Pucci for you should come
First before her life.

It’s the audacity for me. The sheer audacity
Romance › Re: Rita Dominic, Genevieve Nnaji, Ini Edo, Mercy Aigbe, Likely To Wed In 2021 by cococandy(f): 9:18pm On Jan 16, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Expired Hoes don't make good wives
They cheat on their Beta husband
Tajbol4splend:
Marrying at old age, what's their real problem though
Dayoebe:
Shiloh geng


They've past their prime
etrouble:
They can’t foot their bills. So, they want a money bag who will be footing their expensive fake lives in exchange for their expired pusssies
So bitterly concerned about what women choose to do with their time and bodies
Crime › Re: Yahoo Boys Throw Money Into A Dirty River During Ritual by cococandy(f): 6:34pm On Jan 16, 2021
Just imagine the waste
Family › Re: Wife Can't Tell Who Impregnated Her Between Her Husband & Her Father-In-Law by cococandy(f): 6:31pm On Jan 16, 2021
Princedapace:
Men dont get pregnant. While we all accept that the father in law is an idi*t, the woman is the one who got pregnant. Men dont do abortion. So, a woman opening her legs has more damaging effects on individuals and society at large
keep telling yourself that

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