Family › Re: The Hate For Single Moms by cococandy(f): 11:40pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
Stupid and unbelievable when people who are not celibate have things to say about women who get pregnant from having sex. The same things they do all the time.  Marvelous |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:31pm On Oct 28, 2020 |
A whole gotdamn business here. pocohantas: Long post alert!
Thank you. |
Family › Re: How Do I See My Children? by cococandy(f): 9:41am On Oct 28, 2020 |
OP And you’re upset she left. keepingmum: If i had seen ur post below, i d have saved myself of this mockery
Am I Not Justified? by dprincedej: 12:08pm On Mar 24, 2017
[/b]I am a typical Yoruba man. I loved my wife. No marriage is perfect. I hav beaten her several times and sent her out of the house, I hav two kids. I hav cheated on her inside and outside my matrimonial home. I hav been rude to her parents. I hav avoided paying my kids sch fees at times. I hav abstained from sex with her for several months in a roll. I hav borrowed money from her family members without paying back. I hav denied her as my wife. I hav embarrasses her in public and turned my people against her. But guess what. She is not perfect either. She can not take risk for me. She hates all my ideas. She doesn't trust me. She is unfriendly. She is lazy. She is a bad cook. She loves her family to a fault while hating mine. We got into a fight and I sent her packing out of anger She was arrogant enough to leave with all her belongings even the dust pan. I hav admitted my wrong doing and begged for forgiveness from everyone she knows. She said she would only trust me if I send her upkeep but I no longer had a job. I begged for years but she didn't give me a chance. It has been six years now and I have made it. I hav remarried now to a caring woman who helped me to prosper and stood by me. Have I done any wrong? I begged for years. I admitted my mistakes and promised. If my first wife loved me the way I loved her, would she not hav come back? Should a Yoruba woman ever desert her husband and father of her kids for that long? Did she expect me to stay single forever? She is talking bad about me because she didn't expect I would make it. God has put her to shame. Please comment only if you are above 40yrs. I don't need comment from small idiots who are not married.
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Family › Re: How Do I See My Children? by cococandy(f): 9:35am On Oct 28, 2020 |
. I am sure another man is sleeping with her by now. I told the welfare that I want a DNA test before I can pay anything and they wanted to force me to be the one to pay for the test. I did not bother to go back because she might have bribed them. If I pay school fees and feeding then what would be left for her to be doing and I can only see the children once in a while Erm hello. 1). You want her to keep her vaginà for you? Why? Of course she’s sleeping with someone else. You’re in her business. Don’t do that. 2) there’s more to raising kids that school fees and feeding. Sounds like you don’t not have a clue how much it involves which makes you think paying for those two things is too much. Those are really nothing in the grand scheme of what it takes. 3)you want me to be the one to pay for your DNA test? The more you try to complain about what she’s doing wrong, the more you show yourself as the not-so-innocent partner here. If you don’t trust the DNA center/clinic, choose your own center. I’m sure there’s more than one place where it’s done. You’re the one who needs to know. It’s your fee to pay. Maybe the poster above me is right and you’re a troll |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:46pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
mariga: Fried Plantain ✅ Fried Yam ✅ Sardine ✅ Ketchup ✅ Enough pepper ✅
Dinner is served! correct |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:13pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
Breakfast platter.
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Crime › Re: 520 Suspects Arrested In Lagos For Arson, Vandalism, Burgling by cococandy(f): 2:19pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
wilsonchekwas: People will just be walking on the road and get arrested. You can't even be a suspect once your arrested in Nigeria. You're convicted without any investigation absolutely disgusting |
Crime › Re: 520 Suspects Arrested In Lagos For Arson, Vandalism, Burgling by cococandy(f): 2:16pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
I can’t wrap my head around the kinds of things that happen in our dear country. Where did they find 520 please? Isn’t this the reason why the protests started in the first place? Arresting people without evidence and locking them without due process. Disgusting leadership |
Politics › Re: Fela Durotoye's Wife, Tara Visits Her Vandalised Store In Lekki (Photos, Videos) by cococandy(f): 4:12am On Oct 27, 2020 |
helinues: Honestly, those feminist coalition and some of the yeyebrities should be held responsible for the looting of properties by the prolooters You guys can be pathetic honestly. I wish they didn’t even support the fight against brutality since it mostly affects men. You guys can very well kill yourselves . you will still be the ones to complain that feminists don’t care about men bla bla bla. Where on earth did they say people should go out and destroy private private property? Y’alls hate for women will be your undoing. |
Family › Re: My Husband Nearly Beat Me To Death Because I Denied Him Sex - Happiness Omonogor by cococandy(f): 3:56am On Oct 27, 2020 |
richboy7: Not all men are the same my sister. #EndDomesticViolence I know that |
Family › Re: My Husband Nearly Beat Me To Death Because I Denied Him Sex - Happiness Omonogor by cococandy(f): 1:35am On Oct 27, 2020 |
@seun look at the type of forum you operate. Embarrassing that these kinds of posts are allowed in public domain |
Family › Re: My Husband Nearly Beat Me To Death Because I Denied Him Sex - Happiness Omonogor by cococandy(f): 1:32am On Oct 27, 2020 |
The amount of men on this thread in favor of domestic violence is alarming. I won’t argue with anyone who thinks you guys are trash . This is very disgusting |
Crime › Re: 10-Year-Old Boy Chained By His Parents In Akwa Ibom For "Being Possessed Demons" by cococandy(f): 1:54pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
These kinds of news just make me very upset. Very very upset |
Family › Re: 'I Don't Help Single Mothers' - Reno Omokri by cococandy(f): 9:47am On Oct 26, 2020 |
He probably thought he’s said something worth applauding. But all he is is a vaginà police like the rest of them |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Stowaways Discovered In UK Oil Tanker by cococandy(f): 9:21am On Oct 26, 2020 |
What a huge risk  |
Family › Re: She Claims I'm Not The Biological Father Of Her Child by cococandy(f): 6:36am On Oct 25, 2020 |
I think you might be able to legally request a DNA test. I don’t know how it works in Nigeria but she can subpoenaed to submit the child for DNA testing if you’re interested in being a father to the kid.
If it turns out he’s not your son and you want to end things formally, then file for a divorce and have the bride price returned to you. You can’t possibly get any other compensation. You guys were married and whatever you spent on each (financial and otherwise) other is part of being married.
The only way you could some type of compensation would be if you somehow got custody of the child and she has to pay child support to help you while you care for him. (I don’t see that happening). Even then the money wouldn’t be for you it would be to help in paying for whatever the boy needs |
Politics › Re: Sanai Agunbiade: I Wanted To Share Looted Palliatives On My Birthday by cococandy(f): 11:11pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
After hunger don kill people? Besides is it his property to share on his birthday as if he’s doing them favors? We Nigerians are something else honestly |
Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 11:07pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
I’m not a doctor. Thanks for correcting that. Congratulations on your new baby. charles009: How can topic be fake. After considering the concerns of some nairalanders and the doc cococandy, we have decided to keep the baby.
I was extremely upset while typing that. We will do an early scan as advised and one of my doctors added that that the contraceptive could be fake.
Thanks all.. |
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Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 3:03pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
descarado: @Cococandy, pls can you remove the names of those drugs?
Topic is as fake as others. The thought did cross my mind that it might be a fake post. Should have known with the “go back to her father's house phrase”.  Sigh |
Crime › Re: Police Kill 5 Looters In Ikotun, Arrest Scores by cococandy(f): 11:07am On Oct 23, 2020 |
Neddstark: Imagine beating a police informant to death in the presence of his daughter? Horrible Nigerians are the bad leaders they cry about  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:00am On Oct 23, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:10am On Oct 23, 2020 |
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Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 5:09am On Oct 23, 2020 |
Ishilove: This reads like a prayer point.
Any arrow fired against my progress, be rendered useless and ineffective!!  |
Crime › Re: Ladies Show Off Their Loot From COVID-19 Palliative Warehouse In Monkey Village by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Why is she exposing herself |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:56pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Klass99: What's the point nah, if I can't eat the food?
I enjoy the photos, the decent arrangement and presentation of the meals sha.  |
Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 10:55pm On Oct 22, 2020*. Modified: 3:04pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
charles009: Postpill It’s a bit hard to figure out what that means. Postpill meaning after-the-fact medication? I’m going to assume she took ***. That’s the main drug in most plan B pills. That can’t harm a pregnancy if the woman is already pregnant. It only works within 72 hours post sexual intercoursè to prevent fertilization. If your wife is testing positive on a pregnancy test, she’s at least 3-4 weeks pregnant. Morning after pill won’t affect the embryo. It will just be useless and ineffective. |
Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 10:48pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Contraceptives are actually meant to decrease the changes of pregnancy (even ectopic). But with all women, there’s always that small risk that it could occur. Only OP’s wife knows what she took. If she took the morning-after pill, (plan B) but the test shows she’s already pregnant, then it means she got pregnant before the time she took the pill. Not a big deal. She just didn’t realize she was already pregnant before trying to prevent a pregnancy. The pill will prevent a pregnancy but will not necessarily harm a fetus. But if she took something else (like an abortifacient) with the intention of ending the pregnancy, she should go ahead and complete the termination of the pregnancy in good clinic. Those are designed to stop growing cells. Klass99: Lol pele, I am not a healthcare professional but if she has taken in already, I don't think the pill will hurt or harm the baby at all.
What exactly did your medical doctor friends say and why do you feel dissatisfied with whatever they said?
Modified to add; We can both benefit from the expertise of someone in the healthcare field. Cococandy please educate us, will an ectopic pregnancy occur because of the contraceptive pill taken? |
Family › Re: I Warned Her Not To Take Oral Contraceptive, Now She Is Pregnant. by cococandy(f): 10:36pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
charles009: I would have been the happiest dude, if she didn't take that pill..can the pill defect a baby? What pill did she take? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:34pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
loveymom: Riputewe ahu 
Is there a way to get past the saltiness of Bacon?
I like bacons,but I am trying to avoid swollen legs and face as too much salt is not good for me. Not really. I didn’t like it as first either. But combining it with other stuff minimizes the saltiness. Like if I’m using eggs, I may not salt the eggs. Some sweetness on the plate helps as well. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:32pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:32pm On Oct 22, 2020 |
Joyfulgal: Please what do you have on your tray? I can spot bread, baked beans, fried egg and avocado and bacon |