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Lmao. Very casually advocating for him to continue cheating. None of you deserve a faithful woman.


Hypocrisy

viceddy95:

So, is because of sex you want to leave your wife ,who has given you two beautiful kids for a young girl who is in her flirting and hoeing period because she dy give you different styles....

You see how devil is using you to manipulate yourself because of sex you can get from olosho house and still be at peace with your wife.....

donstan18:
We so much cherish and value new things more than old ones thinking they are the best, forgetting that the new ones will still turn old.

Bruv, don't ever leave your good wife for a side chick because of sex. Sex is something any lady can offer, but not all ladies possesses wifely attributes.

Kindly keep your wife and do whatever that will bring you sexual happiness in a reasonable way without hurting your wife and family.

Shame

Smh

I derive no pleasure in sexist compliments that put other women down.

Thanks but you need to do better.

Emperoradrian:
I have been reading wise and reasonable comments here from guys , which is typical, of guys, but I just read ur comment, and I am glad DAT in dis era wen reasonable women are scarce, dia is still a woman who reasons as beautiful as u, my dear, u re wise, smart, and intelligent. D last set of reasonable women dis world had , was our mothers, dis generation of women are all whack including my sisters. I have not seen ur face , bt i know You are a blessing to ur man, God bless ur future home.

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Lord. Nigeria

blank:
Is there anything not stressful in Nigeria?

lol. You have a point

So many ignoramuses on this thread BTW

Of course that’s their plan. By refusing witnesses to testify

Wow. Seems very stressful to me

blank:
There are different reasons to have multiple numbers. If you have those modems that you plug into your laptop to be able to browse, you need to register that number. If you have multiple of such modems, that's multiple numbers.

If you have a home phone/landline for the kids, it still needs a sim card to work.

Most people also have at least 2 numbers on different networks. An additional one may be a business line.

And on and on.

Wow. What a scam

Well I don’t know how exactly this thread hopes to help or encourage any single parent. Starts with belittling comments and gross generalizations.
Contributions are judgmental and self righteous. No single mother who cares about herself or her children will come to this thread to tell you how she’s coping.
Not when there’s nothing remotely supportive about anything posted here.

3 is too much. Shady people

Ehn shut up and thank you.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Please use your senses for once and stop this foolish asslicking. You are a female like her, please post all the controversial news online about you.
Please post pictures of any man handling you publicly and showcasing you as a sex symbol publicly. I can bet you have none.
If your sibling is being ridiculed like this in the name of money, will you not castigate her? I can bet you will never allow a man do such to you publicly and post it online then cover up with gifts.
Mercy Johnson and Juliet Ibrahim are ashamed of their pictures online today and regretting them.
Your children will grow up and start using the internet but ashamed of what they see alongside yourself.
Do you have erotic pictures online? If no, are the men you have dated be considered non romantic?

This lady is from the South, from Pre wedding to marriage is all shades of decency. Is the non romantic?
All they did was holding hands, their smooching is meant for them only and not for public consumption.

Ishilove:
My sister, ask away. Lagos was HOT in that period

I feel ya.
Sorry about your breast

Hehe. Haters are going to quench

Looks yummy

AgbenuAnna:
Yam pottage

Food is my weakness and strength

Akposy:
I'm all set ooooo.

I've been entering my kitchen every 3 mins to check on my baby. The smile on my face this afternoon can brighten a very dark room.

Thanks cococandy and all foodlanders o. Chai! My joy no get boundary today. Eshey pupo. I spent over 20 minutes learning the function of the various knobs.

Halcyon123.. It's up to cococandy to decide cos I don't really know any orphanage. I'll be glad to present it to them with you.

I think her idea is great. I’ll email you

Thanks a lot

Oh and enjoy. Kitchen looking nice

Ishilove:
Cooking is a hazard. I was cooking butt naked_ some years back because of the heat and oil splashed on one of my breasts. Since then I am always scared of entering kitchen

I have So many questions

Well then let’s agree to disagree.

If someone lives with me, I want them to feel free enough to eat whenever they are hungry.

In her case, if it’s about finances she and her husband can ask him to contribute or only agree to host when they can afford to.

About feeling too much at home, lol. That’s the whole point. If someone lives with you, they should be able to feel very very at home. Otherwise they shouldn’t come.

That’s why opening your home to long term visitors is not a small decision. Weigh it well, decide and plan how you’re going to finance it, consider if you can stand living with said person for the amount of time they need or want to stay. And then when the decision is made, it’s made. Everyone should be able to live comfortably without walking on egg shells.

Ginaz:
I stayed good 6 months at a friend’s family house. I never went to the pot to serve without first asking, sometimes I would wait for my friend to indicate interest to eat and we go together to serve our meal. That is respect. Humans are very funny , you think they don’t notice everything but they do.

I don’t want a situation I go and serve at anytime I want then it would bring talks of me feeling too much at home to the extent I serve food “anyhow” or she likes “eating too much ,” na only food she dey go pot go serve”.

There are boundaries and I try my best to follow them in everything I do. So far you are under someone’s roof, so far you are not the one making important decisions in the house ... kindly respect everything that has to do with the owner of the house.

It shows respect and it’s no way demeaning at all to ask for permission to serve. If it is so demeaning then start brining in money for cooking so you can serve as you want .

Don’t go and serve with reckless abandon a food you don’t bring a kobo for. Show some respect and coordination.

Halcyon123:
Thanks on their behalf

no thank you

I feel like you’re not understanding where I’m coming from. if the person is visiting for a day or two. Then, It’s not out of place to ask.

But if they are living with you (which is what a prolonged visit is) will they ask for permission for breakfast, lunch and dinner for everyday they live with you? Think about it.

Being inconsiderate is a totally different conversation. Like if they eat everything without thinking of others. That’s different.

But if they eat like a normal person would, bearing in mind that they are living in the house with others, there’s nothing disrespectful about it in my opinion.

Ginaz:
That aspect you said it’s not nice to ask permission before he dishes food for himself is wrong . As big as I am, when I go out to visit my aunts or friends I do ask for permission to serve myself .

It’s totally wrong to be in someone’s house and not take permission to serve yourself no matter how familiar you are with the person . It’s called manner!!! cos you don’t know if the person hasn’t eaten or that is the last meal in the house at the moment or the food is being monitored so I could last some days.

It’s very disrespectful. What’s wrong in saying “can I serve something to eat?” When you go to a restaurant, you just don’t walk in there and go to the kitchen to pick whatever you want . You first of all make an order.

When you’re In someone’s house , coordinate yourself very well. Haba!!! The brother-in-law have bad manners. She should have corrected them earlier on than now .

Halcyon123:
There is an IDP camp for children in my area. Incase you don't find one

oh that sounds perfect. Yay

Ishilove:
Seems you enjoy cooking. I personally do not have the patience to dice dodo this small

Love cooking. Very therapeutic

Na so

Nairaland

modath:
You are between the devil & the deep blue sea.... You might not even be alive in that 12weeks if in the course of the assualt , excessive force is applied to the wrong place.& You are reinforcing to your children abuse is ok...

However, if you can survive till you get to CA, make him pay for the years of abuse by emasculating him & taking away his kids as well ... Petty? Yes i know.... Action & reaction...

Canada or not, you should be working on improving yourself for employment purposes.
If you wait until May and the trip doesn’t work out, what will you do then? What if he leaves without you? You think that’s impossible?

Honestly you should have started before now. Planning strategically for your independence with an end goal in sight. Take this as a wake up call. Even if you get to Canada, you can still be abused. Don’t let folks give you a wrong impression of an el Dorado that doesn’t exist.

Before you become fully independent in Canada, you will be a candidate for abuse.

Keypazwad:
I had to create a new account to table out my troubles.
I’m married with two kids and a step son. The summary of my problem is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE/ABUSE.
Even after giving him more chances to chance, he beat me up few days ago and still blamed me for his actions.
I wanted to leave but he informed our pastor and he begged me to manage my home. That there’s no better person outside. He’s not even addressing the violence issues.
I really want to leave but I’m a full house wife and I depend on him financially cause I’m an SSCE holder.
There’s no help whatsoever from my parents. I’m confused cause he’s processing a Canadian visa for us which would take twelve weeks to complete.
Should I just count my blessings and loss and move on now, or wait until we get to Canada?

Akposy:
hehehehe. I don't know. I'll think of someone or people befitting and get back to you. Lemme ask around

Modified
Don't you have a relation or anyone you'll like to give them to as show of love this month?

Let me ask someone . They probably far from you

Akposy:
300 per kg of big ones

that’s not bad.

I want to buy from you. But I don’t know what to do with it.

Maybe you can do me a favor and send a 50kg bag to like a charity home or something around you. if you have anything like that close to you. Will that work?

I’m sorry I don’t know what to tell you. I’m trying to be sympathetic because you must be troubled to have brought it here.

The question is: Can he not eat when he’s hungry? Does he have to ask you first? If finance is the problem, Maybe ask your husband to discuss with him on how he can contribute. If he’s not in a financial position to contribute then that means you and your husband must provide for him while he’s there. In which case, only have guests that you can afford to care for.

I don’t think it’s nice to expect him to ask permission every time he’s hungry. Unless he’s a minor. And even then I wouldn’t do that. But it would be a bit more understandable since a minor might not be very hygienic in the kitchen and stuff like that.

Food is such an important aspect of life that I’d hate to restrict anyone’s access to it. I think he’d be more comfortable and at home if he can eat whenever he’s hungry without asking permission

nwanneni:
How would you transport to the USA?I'm curious...

Not for myself.

May006:
favorite always.Enjoy

cutiereborn:
Looks very yum

May006:
favorite always.Enjoy

Thanks my people

Take it easy.

TheArchangel:
Can't she even wait till they are out of the birthing room? She want to see the vagina her sons are enjoying.
Perverted mother-in-law.
Imagine viewing your daughters-in-law vaginas all in the name of a wonderful grandmother bonding.
Closet lesbians everywhere
Wetin person no go see

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