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Teespice:
hello foodies,

quick question. what role does soy sauce and oyster sauce play when used for stir fry and sauces. I also noticed that most chefs on IG use same for fried rice.

then when used, is it a substitute for salt. ie. is there any need for salt or boullion cubes, ie. knorr when used because I feel a combination of the two is salt itself.

Soy can be a substitute for salt. But If you don’t use too much of it, you can still add a pinch of salt and bullion . The two each taste differently. Too much soy and you won’t be able to taste anything else in the dish.
Oyster sauce isn’t a substitute for salt. Just needs a few drops. Like eye drops honestly. Otherwise your food will have a strong fishy smell or taste. The taste when it’s just a few drops is amazing though

Yuneehk:
I've always thought our effirin/nchanwu are Basil leaves. Scent leaves should be different but Google keeps saying they're same. Biko which is which?

Well I’ve used both so I know they are not the same.
You know the google people are oyinbo . Their ethnic knowledge is limited.


However, both are similar

Fvckmoderators:
It clearly goes to show you that the female nollywood counterparts prostitute.

Keep telling yourself that

Correct girl

pocohantas:
Every time, marry marry. One would think there is anything special about a Nigerian husband. No be person husband be this? No be person future husband you be, wey you mumu like this? If I want a man to fck me this night, I will get 20. So, forget all this pussy talk.

Fck no be my problem. Na man wey go give me better money I dey find.

pocohantas:
Though there was no much money in his time, but once some Naija men make SMALL money, next thing na to dey find woman to knack. Then booze and smoke out their lungs.

Before they are 45, they have killed all their internal organs, even their manhood will need crane to stand.

My colleagues here, with this our chewing gum salary- I don't know where they see the one to go all the bars in Lagos.

I have to give it to the females, though some dey add am runs, they are smart enough to open businesses and buy houses.

This same guy was helped few years back, look at him again. Toor!

Mariangeles:
Really? Thank you
I've always wondered

Yea. The first time I tried basil I was like this is curry leaf. But it wasn’t. Just similar. I think they belong to the same family.

Scent leaf is nice too but it’s a bit strong in some dishes

If you know what we call “curry leaves” it’s the same flavor as basil. Makes a closer substitute than scent leaf

No offense Prestonn.

Mariangeles:
I've really learned a lot. Muchas gracias señor

With pizza, there are no strict rules right? Apart from the tomato base and cheese, any and everything goes right? Depending on what is available around you and your creativity

There's one variety I had from dominos, it's called suya pizza. SUPER DELICIOUS!
The aroma worked so well together, I could still smell it for days

You don’t have to forgive.
You don’t have to forget.
You can be civil without doing any of those .

However make him financially responsible for a start.

And the grumbling goes on and on.

Correct your post. It’s always the boys who are whining.
Leave ladies alone though they won’t.

See the one above me always pretending to be intelligent but never failing to post whiny sexist misogynistic tirades. And when you call him out he starts acting like you owe him intelligent discourse.

Those girls be chill. The boys? Won’t stop crying.

peepydelano:
Do you prefer your husbands to cheat on you or simply marry a second wife?

None. But if someone must get it from outside then open marriage it is

Words are different from actual actions

Realhommie:
He said he wanted a serious relationship that'll lead to marriage, that's what he told his friend.. But the lady had other ideas.

How did you come about him wanting a fling?

Government should give him a house? As what?

Gwan2:
Take some few seconds or minutes depending on your reading and comprehension prowess to understand my post before giving a response that doesn't tally

Go and sit your behind down.

Hehe

Reasoning like this is why some you wanted to kill yourselves when Megan the divorcee married a prince.

Your hate for divorced women is something else.
Yet they are out there enjoying life away from unsuccessful marriages . With men even better than the ones you think they can’t get

orunmila144:
THAT WOMAN CAN NEVER BE HAPPIER WITH ANOTHER MAN. TWO KIDS HAVE DROPPED OUT OF HER BODY AND SO FROM HENCEFORTH SHE IS STRICTLY FOR SMASHING PURPOSES. SHE HAS TO MARRY A MAN BENEATH HER NOW AND SHE WILL NEVER BE HAPPY WITH THAT AND WILL BE UNHAPPY IN THE RELATIONSHIP. MEN ON HER LEVEL WILL NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO LET THE LIKES OF DR SID DROP HIS SEED IN HER.

You wanted a fling and you’re upset someone wanted to give it to you?

Your greed is what’s ruining marriage. You want to eat your cake and have it back

Gwan2:
Since the advent of feminism the marriage institution had suffer gradual collapse...Unfortunately, it might never get better again. I came to Nigeria after my stay abroad, I actually had the intention of getting a girl that I could start a relationship with the intention of marriage in my mind. A nigerian friend in Germany where I was gave me the number of a certain girl in one of the nigerian university, he told me they are friends. I didn't go into detail discussion with him about the girl. When I came back to nigeria, I invited the girl and pick her up to an open pub. She declined ordering any drink, food or meat. I order a bottle of drink and initiated a conversation with her trying to inquire about her background, personality, studies etc...I don't normally engage in lengthy discussions especially if my intension is to just have a fling with a girl, but as i said earlier I wanted a relationship and this girl was young 22 years, though not very pretty but her personality could make up for that if she had a good one.

As I was chatting with this girl I realised her gesture wasn't so responsive and she look at her wrist watch occasionally, at some time she asked..Didn't my friend tell me about their friendship, I said no...again she ask what do I want from her...gosh,, unsuspectedly because this girl looked so naive and innocent..I said I wanted us to get to meet our selves on this first day and see how things will play out..she then said she is going...I said ok and told her to wait for some few minutes outside before i come pick her, I was still on my drink then. while in my car she asked again,, what do I want from her..at that point I begin to sense where she was driving to..I intensionally played the fool by not answering directly until she asked again..you want sex??...I then said yes..lol. She then ask So if i didn't say it you wont have said it yourself right? Next thing was so how much do you want to give me...Gosh. At that time i became weak. I played along and said 7k, she declined saying even 10k she wont collect. She open the door of my car and told me to reach her when am ready...I called my friend and told him..he said she wanted romantic relationship with him but due to distance that only chat and make phone calls.

Another one that was proving difficult to get for God knows why...I sent her a text saying as a lady she should be skilled enough to know when a guy is serious for relationship or settling down...That one just landed in my hotel room asking me what is the meaning of the text I sent her...That night she gave me all the best banging she could to impress me. At a point she was whispering in my ear "I know you didn't enjoy the sex"..I just told her I did.

Now these sort of girls make up a very large percentage of the average girl you see on the street especially in Nigeria. How do you expect marriages to last in this era

If you use shame and fear to hold a marriage together, by the time the ashamed and frightened party learns to not be afraid or ashamed anymore, there’s nothing left to hold it together. Many marriages are holding because one partner or the other is afraid of speaking up. One person will be shamed and blamed for everything that goes wrong in the marriage.

So in order not to bring all negativity to themselves, they stay and bear it. But being together doesn’t always means being happy. so, for those of you worried about the number of divorces happening now, have you considered that maybe they are happier now?

What we should have been working on as a society is to promote love. Funny thing though. People don’t even want to see others have love in their lives. They mock and belittle it. Yet they are somehow “shocked” when two people can’t live together forever.

Y’alls gotta choose your battles. Are you the proverbial village people? Don’t want to see folks happy together. Don’t want to see them breakup.

some of the medicine stores are legal if only you open under the coverage of another person who is licensed. Like a licensed pharmacist.

But then you have to pass state inspection and there are certain drugs you can’t sell. Any medicine that needs prescription from a doctor must be off limits from your store. But over-the-counter medications that don’t need prescription you can sell as an ordinary person or as a nurse.

But of course most drug stores flout this rule that’s why they keep running helter skelter when it’s inspection time. Not to mention the inspectors take bribes and look the other way. Or even when you’re doing the right thing, they still want you to bribe them or they lie against you. Nigeria

pocohantas:
Thought as much. I find it interesting the way Naija men easily talk about stopping their wives career and opening some shop for her. May God take such men away from me.

Christine Lagarde and Ibukun Awosika na person wife.



Lol. We always do. Somehow we blame the government for every bad in this nation.

You fiancée /girlfriend is the person who frankly needs more advice than you do at this point
No one here will ask you to resign or do anything that will not be to your own benefit.
Your fiancée on the other hand is about to start facing pressure from all angles once talk about marriage is openly discussed between your families.

I hope she has someone in her life who will guide her to make the right decision for her future.

If she quits, she’s going to be a lazy housewife (at best). Of course that situation can get so much worse.

If she sticks to her guns, she will be a frustrated and bitter feminist who put career before family.

She will need to be supported at this time to make the hard choice (whichever it is she chooses).

pocohantas:
Lol@ set up chemist/pharmarcy.

Thegamingorca, are nurses allowed to run the above?

Not unless they are licensed pharmacists. But you know we like to do things differently in naija

The part in bold

pocohantas:
You travel for your own work, no problem.
She travels for her own work, plenty problem.

Well, your concerns are valid. However, what is in Benin City for her? Would she resign to come stay jobless in Benin? Some women have done it and it only leads to resentment and anger when they get nothing doing there. Especially "career" women.

If she resigns the job her father pressed buttons to get, to come stay with you. You have bought her father's market o. Not like you will be taking care of her family without nagging.

I don't even envy your situation. Talk to her about it. I will suggest you move to her location (if it is developed), since your own job is a traveling one. Couples need to be together in the early stage. When they are tired of each other, they can start their long-distance-marriage.

Or just find a girl in Benin City ehn.

pocohantas:
And how do you convince yourselves, all our vaginas will be the same, irrespective of our size, race or age?

It is not our fault too. Increase your dick size or go look for a perfect fit.

Read those links for yourself. You need them more. Awon set Churchill.

I’m sorry . Does having children reduce a woman’s ability to keep her vagina and pubic area clean?

After the healing process(which varies in everyone) , all sexual relations can resume like before.

Would it be more decent if they did it for big cash?

Their morality is not my concern because that’s a subjective topic. Even if I won’t act porn for any amount of money, I certainly don’t consider myself better than them. I don’t consider you or anyone commenting on this thread as better than them either. Even if you all swear to be holy. There’s certainly something you’re doing or have done that will make another person’s morality radar quiver.

He’s a criminal that’s my concern.

Dreyl:
But no decent woman would stoop so low to act a porn movie just because of meagre cash, and it's disheartening that some of them are married women, like who does that? jeez!

lalasticlala:
My best food:..

Eba
Edikaikong
Afang soup
Fried plantain
Fried egg (I don't eat cooked egg)
Dry meat
Chicken
Python ice Fish (eke)

Best Drink: Coke

@bold

yeyeosoronga:
Hahahahaha

I didnt want to sound greedy

My dear it’s not greed. A man has an orgasm every time y’all do it. In fact I’d he hasn’t, the sex is not over yet.
Why would it be greedy for you to experience the same?

Those legs must shake

Prestonn:
Village kitchen

Lunch Today

Jollof Rice

Oh food. Come to mama.

I’m doing intermittent fast. This thread is no longer good for me.

yeyeosoronga:
Every woman must experience orgasm at least once or even for a period in their lifetime.
If you've never given your wife orgasm before, wetin you gain?

Once in her lifetime or for some period?

My sister what are we doing with occasional orgasm?

It’s a requirement. If the peniis cannot provide it, he should be open to other methods of achieving that. Local woman now knows what local man knows.

Babara1994:
You don't understand the power of testosterone. You women should stop thinking of sexual gratification. Nature is even against women sexual satisfaction , and you know that.

The ignorance

Jeferious:
but women don't like sex nah

that’s what we told you?

Someone can not break up in peace again?

On a more serious note and generally speaking , why do some guys start sweating when the issue of satisfying a woman sexually is at stake? What do you guys have against women enjoying sex?

If he’s sharing intimate videos of women who didn’t consent to it being shared, then he’s a criminal.

Don’t know how true the gist is but he better be on the run. Because he will go down once caught. I don’t know what are these boys’ problems that they are always obsessed with sharing pictures and videos of vaginas without permission.

How were they playing video games when none of them could go in there with their devices?
Lie small small.