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The family didn’t speak up.

I know he was fired. By his company

sassysure:
When that comedian made fun of their new born baby, he was sacked. People called for his sack immediately.
British people attacked him. They defended Meg and the baby.
That man didn't see it coming actually. He later apologised. I think they took it farther than sacking him.

But they were quick to call to order when Williams cheating escapades were getting out of hand.

salford1:
The British tabloids are mean and hold no prisoners. However, the royal family can also call them to order if they wanted to.

In the case of Megan, they allowed the tabloids to have a field day. They knew it would get to her eventually. What they didn't realise was that Harry would go with her

salford1:
Lol. Why was she treated differently here then?
It's okay for Kate or Camilla to do whatever they want but not Megan. I guess different rules applies when it comes to white vs mix/black folks.

All the things Meghan supposedly did wrong, Kate did more.

Her only crime is being mixed with black and having a voice.
People can argue all they want but they aren’t the ones withstanding the pain of such obvious double standards hence it’s easy to say words.

But I’m happy for them and I wish them well.
For the prophets who have seen the divorce already happen, I pray they are proven wrong.

bukatyne:
Oh well!

One thing they got right.

Goes to show you that a lot of information flying around about them are false. With that many people obviously hating her it’s imperative to hold judgment until all the facts are established.

Right now, I haven’t called her a perfect woman who can do no wrong . But I’m appalled at the ease with which those who don’t know her (same as me) are willing burn her at the stake. (Figuratively).

That’s not a bad point and I’ve thought about that in the recent past.

But I also thought that it’s possible that they might have attracted more negative attention to themselves that way because automatically everyone would call Megan a bad influence who can immediately with the intention of taking him away from his family.

So they tried the royal way and it’s not working hence they decided to leave. Just another possibility

bukatyne:
I agreed with his last statement so I addressed the couple:
Both she and her husband should've married as commoners if they didn't want the trappings of the Royal life. They wouldn't, though. They're spongers.

And I totally agree.

If Harry really hated the royal life before marriage, deciding to step down then and marry as a commoner would have made his case more viable.

Davash222:
How a group of frustrated feminists would wake up one morning and decide to go against a Law that has been in existence even before they were born is what I don’t understand. Nobody force you to serve, if you’re not comfortable with their rules, GTFO!!

Ashawos!!!!

Woman hate sha. It’s a funny thing

bukatyne:
The above was referring to the couple dropping their royal duties/ family and still expecting them to fund their lifestyle e.g. renovate what would be been their official home.

They gave up the money themselves.

But okay if that’s what you meant

Davash222:
How a group of frustrated feminists would wake up one morning and decide to go against a Law that has been in existence even before they were born is what I don’t understand. Nobody force you to serve, if you’re not comfortable with their rules, GTFO!!

Ashawos!!!!

Did you see those protesters?

Did any of them tell you they are feminists?

And how does ashawo describes the people in these photos?

Woman hate is a disease that robs one of reasoning

Bukatyne. You also endorse me this guy’s post.

He basically called her a gold digging social climber.

And you endorsed it.

BRATISLAVA:
Piers is truthful. He's personally experienced the woman's toxic social climbing. Her family gave out warnings that people thought was jealousy. In the end, it is actually true. The fact that she specifically traveled to the UK and told select people that she was looking for a rich guy, preferably Harry, then claimed she didn't know who he was, marks the height of her plotting.

Both she and her husband should've married as commoners if they didn't want the trappings of the Royal life. They wouldn't, though. They're spongers.

You mentioned her wanting royal money

bukatyne:
Meghan a gold digger? I have not thought of her in that light. She was an actress doing well for herself, what gold was/is she digging?

A social climber? Maybe. I would say more of attention seeking

I however think her character is selfish, fickle, immature and lacks emotional maturity.

And I still think she would deal with Harry who is self absorbed, lacks emotional maturity and does not think of the consequences of his actions.

Like my people would say, he don use girlfriend do wife.

If you didn’t mean anything personally against her, maybe refrain from phrases such as daft, or phrases that insinuate she’s a gold digger. Or endorsing the ones that portrayed her a calculating social climber who will deal with him. bearing in mind that you don’t know her like you rightly said.

But it’s fine. I’ve said I can on this thread anyway. Anything else will be me repeating myself.

bukatyne:
If it was China Chu, Titi Lagbaja, Chioma Nwoke, Halima Aminu, Jacequline Moniseur or Amiga Lasanga that was in Meghan's place, my comments would be same. I have nothing against Meghan as a person.

In every society, there is class system so yes, when the upper class stoops lower to marry someone out of their class, the other person pipes low.

One of the reasons I am not a fan of inter-class marriage.

And this is not a black vs. white thing.

Observe our politicians who were elected/rigged into temporal positions: their children marry themselves. Take top rich pastors: their kids marry themselves. Peeps who are upper class by birth e.g. traditional rulers and monrachs: Their children marry one another. Take a look at the old money families: They marry themselves. Infact, some old money would not tangle with nouveau rich because they feel they don't have the class or prestige.

Look at children who break out of the mold and marry below their class.

Meghan had several strikes against her so she should have studied the royal family well and aligned with them. It was the time to be about her own individuality. If she wanted her individuality, she should have married a non-royalty and she would have the freedom to flex as she deems fit.

Well then don’t marry if you don’t feel like it.
Or you won’t be happy in it

His name sounds familiar

It’s perfect.

Dunkin donut level

MomoAdura:
Yes I did... thanks.

For all those who think the royal family is sacred and as such must not be polluted with black blood, or divorced blood. Or if they must be, then the “culprit” has to live apologetically for daring to think they are fit for royalty.


Do Know that they are humans who BTW are not really that good of a group of humans anyway.

Their so called wealth was built on the backs of our fathers and mothers and the milking of our resources until very recently and is still being taken to appease them.

Before you think enslavers, pedophiles, murderers and thieves are too good for your kind, ask yourself what you did to deserve it.

Let’s not endorse them in their belief that they are some sort of super humans who we have to calculate how to breath around them. They hold all the power because of us.

I don’t know why this thread got me upset but I think I need a breather

bukatyne:
You don't like royal family but you like royal money,

Na beans?

Also for having never met her how are you so entirely sure that she didn’t love him. That it Must be the royal money.

And you’re sure this is objective?

Please how did she act like she’s the what thing that happened to Harry? This is obviously your interpretation of what you want to see based on what you have already convinced yourself. And it reeks of dislike. Was it how she smiled? Or how she walked? What was it exactly that she did to make her seem like she thinks she’s the best thing to happen to him?

As for your other points.
So she’s bi-racial. Meaning she should automatically see herself as less-than. Right?
Divorced. Meaning she’s less-than again. Right?

You’re saying a black person should grovel and take the nigga title from her masters happily because they have bent over backwards by taking her as one of them?

bukatyne:
Is Kate not below William's class?

Dislike again? She is inconsequential to me.

She has all the baggage possible and instead of her to pipe low, she is acting like she is the best thing to happen to Harry.

Harry's marriage to her is a mistake. But again, Harry himself doesn't seem like someone responsible with partying naked and other stuffs. He also doesn't seem like someone wise enough to grasp who he really is hence his ease to throw away his birthright.

Now, some others are irresponsible with a sense of civil obligation and pursue spouses to help them achieve that.

She is bi-racial, divorced, an actress, at war with all her family yet she could not spin the situation in her favour by going higher when they go lower.

If she aligned herself with the royal protocol, it would get to a stage the British would stand up for her and she will be a guiding light to others after her.

Instead, she allowed instant gratification without the future rob her of it.

They didn’t disown their family.Let’s keep to facts please. They took a step back from the royal affairs.

I don’t think you’re working bottom top or too bottom or any method for that matter.

You do dislike her and it’s obvious from your posts .

For someone who you admit is remote from your life and you don’t know, it would make more sense to me if you were just plain objective in your analysis rather than on the attack.

You accuse her of wanting royalty. Then accuse her of leaving it.
She has to be one. Either a social climber who will cling to the royalty with all her might or a woman who loves her man and will leave the royalty if that’s what he wants. But she can’t be both.

You’re not being objective. And you can’t claim it’s not because of dislike. Maybe you need to take a step back and read your posts.

bukatyne:
You are working top bottom; I am working bottom up.

Every wise person counts the cost of a decision before taking it.

If Meghan says she did not think the royal family would be dismissive of her and she would have to triple prove herself, then she is extremely slow.

I also do not have an interest in them breaking up; divorce breaks people and messes their lives.

However, given the trend, they will.

Neither seems to have the characteristic to make their marriage work.

The press is dismissive in two years; they leave the royal family. A challenge comes up in their marriage?

And note that the press is not the royal family. So refusing to grant interviews or associate with the press would actually be a better 'revenge'.

How many 'normal' people disown or step down from their families when there are issues?

And what would be an appropriate gesture from her to show that she appreciates them offering her the royal life?

Accept the racial harassment?

Girl your previous posts are strong sentiments for someone too remote from your life. I was surprised honestly.

I do wish them well. Have no interest in seeing them break up

bukatyne:
I got this from cosmopolitan on 67 times she 'broke' royal protocol. Some are just for laughs however.
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/g18197742/meghan-markle-royal-protocol/

Her in-laws demonstrated their willingness to bend backwards for her as shown below:

She Has Her Own Coat of Arms
Before a woman marries into the royal family, her father traditionally receives a royal coat of arms that's then extended to her entire family. However, because Meghan is estranged from her father, Thomas Markle, and he didn't attend the wedding, the palace announced that the coat of arms was created specifically for Meghan.

She Celebrated Christmas at Sandringham
Christmas at Sandringham is legendary, so much so that only spouses of the Queen's invitees are allowed to attend. Back in 2010, even Kate didn't get to go—she was engaged to Prince William, but she didn't marry him until April 2011. However, Prince Harry asked his grandmother to make an exception for Meghan in 2018, and she obliged.

Meghan chose her black race? I laugh in Spanish!

Meghan is too remote from my life to dislike her. After this thread, I will forget about her till another news pops up again. I don't waste my emotions like that

Harry's ex-girlfriend (a white) reasoned she couldn't cope with their shenanigans and moved out. How a biracial thought she would and start crying foul is beyond me.

Anyways, the babe is sharp: Got a royal wedding and recognition she could only dream off. Now, they have left the royal family, she would still be the wife of the ex-royal.

The Diana of her time

Time would tell.

Or maybe her husband is the one insisting on this decision and she’s going along with it. We don’t know.
But she’s the villain because that’s what everyone wants her to be.

sassysure:
Okay.
Wish them well.
My husband that is everything black related is against this one.

He said, this lady has the opportunity to prove naysayers wrong and she goofed.

Sassysure, Harry is her second husband

Sterope:
The opinions are nothing extreme or unusual.

That woman is no Angelina Jolie. So what exactly is their problem?

Well once you’re hated if you sneeze, you’ve invoked a hurricane and you’re responsible for all the collapsed buildings in the world .

@bold, obviously. It’s more hatred than any actual thing she did wrong. Because they can’t even say what she has done wrong.
She came to show them how to run the royal house?
that’s funny

Yes babe I know exactly where the white people’s hate is coming from. The black people? I don’t understand.

I was never her fan so to say. But all the media attention got me interested in her and then I was stunned by the black haters who couldn’t see the racism or saw it and decided it was okay. Like for real?
At most just be a disinterested bystander if you will but endorsing it by saying that’s what she signed up for makes feel all types of ways.

I thought we had gotten to the level where we consider ourselves equal to whites and will not think racism is okay because our least favorite person is the one going through it.

sassysure:
I actually wish them well o!
Very very well.
Infact, I'm the only one that defends her in my place of work.
The hatred is real. So real.
My first comment summed it all up.

The rest is as exactly as they say it.
Ask British people. They hate her and can't stand her presence.

There is something we all fail to understand here.
As an average American citizen( excluding blacks) feel he is superior to all races, so also an average Briton feel he is superior to an average American not to think of their monarch.
Hope u are getting the angle the hatred is coming from.
Megan is not of British or European origin but a biracial.
An American and a black combined.
Then a two time divorcee.

The odds were against her. We have to accept it, it's their skewed traditional beliefs. She should have gone under to learn, submit and then conquer.

( This is the public opinion here, off the press)

Some said she came to show them they don't know how to run the monarch again.

Oh well, British folks were ever ready to crucify her and she made it easy for them.
I'm sure she never expected this.

Sterope:
Exactly and their blood is royalty.

Let's keep the racism and classicism flying high. You will think a black person from a former colony will know better

Until today, there are speculations that Epstein was silenced in prison so that the true extent of Andrew’s (and some other world royalty) dealings with him won’t fully be known. A black man would never survive even half a speculation about that much less flourish even after evidence of him being a pedophile is established.

This black woman's offense was having a few opinions and leaving a bad marriage. Let’s crucify her. afterall she knew he was a royal and should have rejected his proposal even if she liked him.

It is well.

MomoAdura:
Yummy doughnuts!

Did you make it?
Nice

bukatyne:
Third?

I thought he was second.

The guy is certified stupid.

He’s her second husband. (Not that it’s terrible if he’s the third)
Do you dislike her because she got out of a bad marriage and found love somewhere else? Or is that she’s an actress? What’s exactly her offense

She was never really scandalous (again not even a crime if she was), was not disliked by any remarkable majority until she committed the offense of loving someone above her social class . And that’s it.

Boom!
I’m stunned

They are white. Their offense doesn’t matter

Sterope:
What kind of standard? What has she done wrong?

Lets talk about William's alleged infidelity

Then we can move to Prince Andrew sexual exploits of underaged girls

Oh! What about Prince Philps numerous gaffes. Very unbecoming of royalty


All of you can keep projecting your hate, envy and silly analysis.

When was she running her mouth though?

@bold, Or maybe they really love each other and we should wish them well because no one benefits if all this pressure on them causes their marriage to break up.

sassysure:
If Harry divorce Megan today, he will get back his title.

He is using Megan to pay his family back while Megan is using him for her own selfish intentions.
I just said it before,the are both using each other.

And, his family will never leave him. They did what they did for the Britons but behind, Harry is still their son and they will give him maximum support.
Megan on the other hand forgot that English people though liberal view thing differently from the Americans.

I noticed wives of the sons of the monarch are groomed on how to talk in public. Megan run her mouth like the normal American lady out there.

One day, the two of them will learn to face the skeleton in their cupboard.

I’m sorry bukatyne responsibility is not the same as accepting maltreatment, enduring racism or daily harassment. That’s not a responsibility. The other royal members of the family were not harassed like them.
Does responsibility include accepting that your child is a monkey because he has black blood? And the royal family said nothing in defense of it’s newest great grandchild. Something they would never let fly if any of the other kids were involved

Even when the tabloid carried news of prince Williams infidelity, the royal house quickly issued a cease and desist letter. So they knew how to stand up for members of their family but stood quietly while this young man and his family were being barraged with hate.

You obviously dislike her but for whatever reason that is up to you. Don’t be like this is about her accepting her responsibilities or traditions of the family. Just be upfront about your dislike of her.

Name one thing she did that was wrong so as to qualify as breaking the family tradition?

She knew she was marrying into a royal family and was probably prepared to do the job of a duchess. None of that job description involves cuddling your black child at night and crying because the world thing you’re monkeys and everyone is okay with that.

I guess she chose her black race and hence is not really a victim of the racism

bukatyne:
I said some posts ago that Harry is a poster child of someone left to his devices.

Wrong choices trail such people.

From lifestyle to choice of a wife to this.

Meghan knew what she signed up for when she decided to marry Harry. The press has always been unkind to people and they move on. They did same to Obama & family yet they did not step down.

They did same to Goodluck Jonathan, he still contested second time and lost.

Shebi madam Meghan was reputed to leave acting because she is marrying into the royal family. Is she not going back to it?

Any relationship that makes one to lose his/her essence would not stand the test of time. Unfortunately, they are even in a clime that divorce is done at the drop of a hat.

In all of this, I have not seen one thing Meghan is sacrificing; Harry is the one giving it all up. His title, his customs, his traditions, his family etc.
The lure of getting his freedom might be 'sweet' till he realizes it is really gone. It is not on suspension; it is not like partying naked in Las Vegas for the weekend and coming back home to his privileged life. It is all gone! Puff!

Meghan's life was not in danger that he would say I am choosing my wife's life over my family.

Goodluck to Harry.

Cc: DexterousOne

@Cococandy:

Did Meghan know what she was getting into or not?

I am a firm believer of rights WITH responsibilities.

Even average people research into the family (customs, traditions, beliefs etc) of their spouses how much more an enlightened actress marrying into the British Royal Family which is the most publicized in the world?

Meghan cannot claim victimhood in this case.

Do you know her from anywhere before?

bukatyne:
By the time Meghan is through with Harry, he will see black and call it white.

From the very beginning, they were unequally yoked.

You must be kidding me.

Did you follow any of the media hounding and harassment that was meted out to them?

The racial insults?

All I’m hearing from my fellow black folks is that you guys think white people are to good for us hence we should accept such ridicule if we decide to mingle with those of them in high places.
Wow

bukatyne:
Was she daft before she agreed to marry the Prince?

I like that the Royal Family has cut them off their funds. Let them work for their money.

I only pity their kids, they will never belong anywhere:

Too royal to be common and too common to matter in the scheme of royalty.

I hope Harry is thinking with his head and not his d!ck.

Simply say you do not wish them well and leave it at that.

peacettw:
To Meghan,

This started out as a short note but I am afraid it quickly degenerated to this. But I promise, it makes for an interesting read so bear with me.

As a fellow member of your race, Meghan, let me start by saying that I am so terribly disappointed. I do not care if this was Harry's decision, your role as a wife was to deter him from making this colossal mistake. For pete's sake Megan, this decision will not end well...not for you or for your son. Their is no so such thing as a normal life for a once royal. People are fickle and selfish, and your celebrity friends will desert you.... If you doubt me, go and look up Prince Edwards who abdicated. He, at least, got to keep his title and was getting some funds from the Royal family to exist but you both have neither. How is that smart? Where is the sense in all of this? Or were you expecting the royal family to bend backwards and beg you both to stay? Do you really thing of yourselves to be that important?

Ironically, now, the pressure on you both will increase as you strive harder to maintain your fantasy, financial upkeep and lifestyle. You threw away the life long privilege that will ensure you never had to work in the real sense of it for your livelihood. Your only job had been to look pretty, smile for the cameras, attend some royal functions and act the part. A script you could have easily aced with your background in acting. Yes, I understand that you were being persecuted by the family and press... but you also didn't make it easy as well for anyone. Not only are you an American, you are a divorcee, an actress, BLACK and not in good terms with any of your family members. You cant be naive to think that you will be easily accepted. Kate fared a lot worse despite being the perfect candidate. Obama and his family also faced intense scrutiny and profound racism by the press but they weathered it quite well with dignity and class. Now Mitchell Obama is the most respected woman on earth (Google that of you don't believe me) and her husband celebrated worldwide.

Meghan, despite your imperfections, you were still chosen and loved against all odds..but you still weren't content. We all could see that you wanted the attention, to be seen and heard, to best Kate and everyone else...to change an instituition as old as time itself. Well, you have your wish so be ready to LIE ON THE BED THAT YOU HAVE MADE. You both will work for the bread that you will eat. Your fairweather friends will leave in droves because let's face it they were only there to gain access to the royal family. You are bound to face the pressure that marriage but only this time, with no buffers. You may think your life will be better but trust me, it will not. It may even be worse.

I wish you both good luck because you will desperately need it to survive your marriage and the slimy press that will forever hound you in the hopes of your noting your decline from grace to nothingness.