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Can’t even be mad at them. Man must survive

Plead:
Cococandy if you don’t post food pic before 4pm today, I’ll have no choice but to arrest you

Man shall not live by food alone

After the unnecessary insults?

Bye

I agree with @ bold

KingSatan:
Ok, enough said.

Let's keep moving forward. Life is beautiful and so is true love .

My Appologies to all.

May our Marriages Last longer and May the foundation of our homes remain firm and strong.

May our children be a source of joy to us and may they succeed in all the good things they do.

In your mind now you’re sleek with insults right

What if you’re a fool?

KingSatan:
Like I said, no woman will ever tell her the truth.

If you had read my post, you would have seen where I said "Marriage is not a smooth sail". What if you have comprehension issues?

If you had compared both posts truthful, you would have noticed that there is a big difference. What if you have a microscopic Intelligent Quotient?

Or better still, you are a just being a WOMAN THAT YOU ARE!

For the records, my story is not a true love story. It's actually a MARRIED MANS EXPERIENCE IN WRITING. NO LYING, NO HYPOCRISY


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RoyalRoy

KingSatan:
Like I said, no woman will ever tell her the truth.

If you had read my post, you would have seen where I said "Marriage is not a smooth sail".

If you had compared both posts truthful, you would have noticed that there is a big difference.

Or maybe still, you are a WOMAN!

Yes I am a woman. Thanks for clarifying that to me.

But the thread asked for the positives. (In my inference. Based on all the sadness he’s observed) Hence I am prepared to read posts that exalt the wives and husbands of the posters. Like showers of praises where applicable. It can (and maybe it should) turn into a competition if possible. It’s a good thing. Not always tales of woe.

Every reasonable adult knows that there’s no smooth ride in any relationship. You don’t have to add that for us to know. But with sad stories swarming the forum, the OP was looking for uplifting comments. (Correct me if I’m wrong OP)

Theres no need for the unnecessary misery olympics and toning down the happiness to make sure no one gets offended. Mostly to please folks who will rather wish for you not to have it all.

I knew it would only take one post for that to start happening. Like y’all will quench if you stop and be happy for yourselves or someone else for a second.

They will still complain

CHoccolaTE:
Bride price laws were created because men saw women as less than human and wanted to treat them as mere commodities that can be exchanged for property or money.
But men are now the ones blaming women and complaining of bride price laws because Buhari economy is holding their necks and dealing with their bank accounts. If it was in an era when there were still many jobs and the economy was good I can bet my last kobo that the same men complaining of bride price will be vehemently insisting that it should be paid because they like the idea of buying and selling women like cows.

See how yours is the true love story but the other lady was trying to portray herself as the luckiest ?



No be today.

KingSatan:
I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.


PS: Don't even think money brought us together. I was still trying to find my place in this life when I met her. She told me "I believe in you"

After my mother, no one else except her said those words to me.

I held on to those words and today, it's all history.

He was

babzo:
If he did....then he did well!!!!

Vyolet:
No matter what they write, we won't stop putting it here if we have good men in our lives, they are used to sad stories forgetting that good stories exist too.


The Op even expects to read stories like, " I will not marry my husband in another life because he is a beast".

They do know that good stories exist. They just don’t want it to be you. And the bad stories do create more back and forth, arguments bla bla bla hence more interesting

But yes, you can’t stop living and sharing your happiness because another person doesn’t like it.

Try seductive moves. If it doesn’t work, wait it out.

Greatdre:
The little research I made also showed that many people are not happy in their marriages but will come public to display their marriage or spouse as the next best thing. A woman can be receiving consistent beating from the husband on a daily basis but would still display her husband to the outside world as the best man on earth . Thats the kind of society we find ourselves. Nobody wants to be ridiculed for having a bad spouse or union.

Like this one.

If you share any bit of your life that seems good in public, “researchers and truth seekers” won’t stop looking holes in it to convince themselves that you must be unhappy somehow.

Doesn’t matter what anyone says on this thread, Nairalanders will believe whatever they want to believe. People act like that love to see happily married people but they actually derive more joy from other people’s sadness.

Cue the sad threads that attract more attention versus the good marriage ones which at best are boring for these spectators or as usual will seem like show off to them.

OP there are happily married people everywhere. Yes even on NL. They may not come to this thread to tell you about it. But yes there are.

He was paying workers and pensioners

babzo:
Chai and this 6 month Governor had the chance to do something significant and write his name for good in history; instead all we heard was constant destruction of structures and persecution of the former Governors family!

What’s unrealistic about that?

It’s common decency

PrinxArthur1:
Gerarahia with Una unrealistic ideals.......mtchew

His church members would have skinned anyone alive who dared come forward in he lives in Nigeria’s na we holy pass

I know. I’m emotional because I have an F attached to my moniker and don’t care who you like.

You’re logical because you hate those who look like you.

Anything else?

SaintsSamurai:
Aww!!!! She is emotional already.

Woya sorry, i like you and only you.

Are you happy now?

Why not marry children then? At least they won’t have as much sexual experience as y’all do . Hopefully they won’t even have any.

When you talk about abolishing bride price (as it should be), watch these lot start frothing at the mouth.

For some weird illogical reason the ladies that are sleeping with you guys now haven’t reduced your value in your minds but somehow you guys have reduced their value by doing the same sexual activity to her that she did to you. Make it make sense. But it doesn’t. Because it’s stupid. Almighty logic . Making yourselves sound like filth for reducing the value of whatever you touch.

Simply do away with bride price or keep wailing about high bride prices for the same women that you’re currently sleeping with, who are magically not virgins on the day you’re ready to get married .

Bride price is a male culture. Enforced by men ( as are most regressive cultures) “we are in Africa yen yen yen”. Then turn around and blame women for the foolishness. Watch them grow into men who perpetrate the culture while also griping about it. A father can decide he won’t collect bride price and nothing will happen.

The confusion is making me dizzy .

SaintsSamurai:
Well thanks for admitting it that Penis rules the whole world.

Atleast reasoning with my penis has got me lots of benefits.

But why are you pain that we choose white ladies over blacks?

I know this is why you are pained.

That’s your personal problem. Had no clue about that until now. Still doesn’t mean anything to me.

Unfortunately for you, you’re creating and living in a quagmire of your own doing and imagining that anyone else cares. Love who you want. Leave the rest of us alone.

SaintsSamurai:
the same peniss you and your feminist warriors secretly openly Adores, praise and worship.

Yes. There’s nothing to hide about liking and adoring a penis for its function .

But it doesn’t stop you from reasoning with your brain.

Typical. Can’t think beyond his peniss

SaintsSamurai:
Damm she is beautiful and I wish she was my girlfriend before she died

Well this is the real definition of a real feminist woman, and not the busy body, cococandy and co, are doing on nairaland and they can't even handle a knife.

She has lived well, she is a legend.

I love having sex with bad girls like this.

statusquoante:
Has he used the account to flirt since they got married at least

Ask him.

statusquoante:
That exactly is the case. The lady has been managing him thus far. She just got the perfect excuse to leave...

I see. I thing absolutely wrong with his 10 year old troll account aka hidden identity account that he’s still operating huh?

hisexcellency34:
I'm just happy that arrogant idiot called Ihedioha has been kicked out

Yea. He was arrogantly paying pensioners.

Let’s see if this new humble governor will humbly pursue what is owed the people

Are you OP’s alternate?


Account made today to discredit those seeing the holes in this story. Not so sleek

DarrelCornell:
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trash trash trash

Ahan

Small small truths coming out. Maybe she’s wondering what else he’s doing with that account.

@OP, a 10 year old account is no longer a troll account. It’s a double identity.

You’re not straight forward. Maybe we should hold our judgment of her until you say the whole truth .

Jewessgratitude:
Hmm...using it for biz and news. I c.
Just try to be straight forward Sir. We had to put words into your mouth before you could open up that you're still operating that troll account.
If you ask me, it is enough to make her angry cos She's doesn't know for sure if you're still chyking her friend till date. If not, how come its only that account you're still able to remember the password. There must be a reason why you're still keeping it. Best known to you though.

LadySarah:
Upset a little you say, to the pt of denying the child, his father and absconding with him.

That's not a little upset!

I think you’re misunderstanding my post.

I think a little upset is okay.

Leaving the marriage is overkill.

That’s what my post meant

See how everyone is trying to convince him that his wife has someone on the side.

Right? She’s probably Wondering if he still thinks about her . One Can’t tell her not to be upset at least a little.

But leaving the marriage is overkill

PrimadonnaO:
That’s what’s eating her up. The thought that her husband may still be in love with her best friend.

Looking at her face now you’d think you’ve seen a human being. Not knowing this one is as devilish as they come

Is the mom still alive?
If yes, why?

Someone should shank her in prison. 20 years is too small

Fool

unbitchable:
i never expected you to own up to your crass dumbassry. you lay eggs in romance sec. know your limits & keep off politics sec, else you get flogged. gudnite big head.